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Debate becomes ‘Nazi’

Once more it has to be reported that the divorce debate is focusing more on polemic than the real issue the electorate is called to vote on in the May 28 referendum. Two incidents in particular stand out among many.

One of the more condemnable incidents occurred when during a public debate last week, the pro-divorce movement referred to a document stating, we were told, that the common good is to prevail over the individual, only to reveal that the statement had been lifted from a Nazi Party document.

The aim was to associate the anti-divorce arguments based on the common good with the ideology of the Nazis. Apart from the slanderous nature of the equation, what hurt most was the intelligence of all those present at the debate.

It was left to the Marriage Without Divorce movement to protest at such a preposterous statement, pointing out that it was precisely for that reason that the international movement of fundamental human rights gained currency after World War II, so that no political majority could crush the fundamental rights of the individual and of the family.

The break-up of a marriage through divorce is neither a fundamental right nor part of the common good.

The second equally disheartening incident was to see Roamer’s column (April 10) and Martin Scicluna, both normally purporting to represent the rational approach to issues, falling prey to petty squabbling of a personal nature, with the unacceptable use of three former Presidents as their cannon fodder.

This is totally unacceptable. Roamer even went so far as to belittle the achievements of the late Guido de Marco as foreign minister simply because the staunch pro-divorce Scicluna belittled Eddie Fenech Adami and had referred favourably to de Marco’s comment to that “we must do something about this problem. We cannot go on as we are.”

I was privileged to have discussed many times the issue of the family and its multi-faceted problems with the late de Marco, and to reduce his razor-sharp intellect to a mere sentence would indeed be reductive to the extreme. Equally, to belittle the contribution he made to peace and stability, particularly in the Mediterranean, would be plainly wrong, not to say sad.

This is not only my assessment but that of countless contributions of heads of state, leading diplomats and authorities the world over which had poured in their scores as soon as de Marco’s untimely death was announced. They all gave evidence of his foresight and above all his unflinching dedication to make of Malta an EU member without for one moment losing sight of Malta’s mission within the Mediterranean.

Such unreserved praise and recognition must never be seen as belittling the fundamental contribution which presidents Fenech Adami, Ċensu Tabone and Ugo Mifsud Bonnici each offered over decades of intense collaboration with de Marco. Together they made of Malta the respected international player it is today.

De Marco put as his first and foremost priority the family values which distinguish the Maltese family from that of other country.

His acute intelligence, however, did not allow him to be used by anyone or anything, and much less would he have allowed Roamer or Scicluna to do so. He would have analysed the current divorce debate through his widely recognised analytical prowess in an objective way.

Once, in a meeting on the family, the issue of divorce came up when he was Minister of Justice in the first post-1987 Nationalist legislature. I remember distinctly his thought.

He clearly portrayed divorce was not something that in itself Malta needed; however, he did say that unless the issues of the family are dealt with, the pressure to introduce divorce would increase. He even referred to the analogy of a pressure cooker, which if not properly handled might explode.

How can one therefore corrupt the thinking of such a conscientious intellect into a ping-pong match at the service of such a superficial and partisan polemic.

Make no mistake about the fact that de Marco was a true and profound Christian. If proof were ever needed of this then no better one exists than the masterful, heartfelt appreciation written by Fenech Adami when he summed up to perfection his long-time friend, colleague and co-campaigner as having been a true Christian.

Famously, he described their relationship as that of a “parilja”, where sometimes it was one and sometimes the other who helped both to remain on the middle path.

Let no man put asunder the mutual gentlemanly respect that existed between Fenech Adami and de Marco.

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Mr Andy Farrugia

Apr 18th 2011, 18:49

You are indeed a despicable person to use such language in relation to those who may not agree with your views. Only desperate people will stoop to such base levels. Shame.

Mr charles caruana

Apr 18th 2011, 21:24

Your concept of analogy rivals that of St .Thomas Aquinas and your understanding of metaphor puts to shame Paul Ricoeur. But it is your application of the word Nazi to the ‘subversive insurrection’ of the ‘Le movement’ that reaches dizzying heights of intellectual acumen which quite overshadow the brilliant use of the term by Ms Mizzi.
From your generous labelling of the anti-divorce movement a s subversives against freedom you would think of them as Iraqi suicide bombers blowing themselves up along with liberal freedom fighters like your good self to smithereens. Is this another touch of hysteria?

‘The common good is fair only when society exists for the need of each individual.’ So according to your impeccable logic, society is there to cater for every need of each individual, even if these needs may include bigamy or polygamy or why not incest. Otherwise the common good is not fair, isn’t it?

So the people in the anti-divorce movement are trying to create the PURE society like Adolf Hitler are they? Inanity has never found such sublime expression.

Mr Robert Gatt

Apr 19th 2011, 09:30

Ms Borda, one should indeed have a cheek to expect that in marriage, spouses should have "personal freedom and movements" and to state that "the 'Le' movement are 'forcing' (sic) many to live their lives the way they only deem fit", more so to equate the anti-divorce lobby's views with those of Adolf Hitler's. Shame. Somebody in another blog said that "time is on our (pro-divorce lobby's) side." I rather say the exact opposite, with comments such as yours, indicative on the shallow arguments which pro-divorce proponents resort to in presenting their senseless arguments.

The fact is that while one is free to enter or not enter into the marriage bond, he or she is no longer free to do anything he/she likes if choosing to enter into marriage. Pro-divorce lobbyists like yourself want to put forward the argument that, in the name of the common good, it is perfectly desirable to have a society composed of people whose choose freely and who are never bound by the consequences of their choices. This, pro-divorce lobbyists like yourself are saying, is the common good. I'd rather say that this is tantamount to a supermarket of self-implicated "rights"!

Mr John Cassar

Apr 19th 2011, 20:25

Ms Borda, I support your rationale 100%. You are not despicable but realistic and analytical.

Common good has been used as a reason to justify actions by a plethora of people varying from popes to tyrants.

The no camp may howl and cry foul all they like. The truth is that anyone lobbying to prevent the right to divorce is lobbying to prevent people suffering from a broken marriage (who were lucky enough to find someone else I hasten to add) from a second chance at happiness.

They prefer to keep the notion that people who separate must either co-habit or bear it and grin.

A vote in favour of divorce is a vote of solidarity.
A vote against divorce is just an expression of selfishness based on a particular dogma.

Keep it up - common sense in relation to real common good will prevail.

Mr John Cassar

Apr 19th 2011, 20:32

I wonder what you will say if the divorce vote exceeds the 50% mark or more??

Personally I find no reason to change things in relation to the church, whatever the result.

However divorce is a civil matter - period.

Mr M Borg

Apr 17th 2011, 21:29

I agree with you. I saw no wrong in what Roamer wrote.

Mr M Vella***

Apr 17th 2011, 11:00

If priests and nuns, who are celibate and are involved in issues that do not concern them or their belief/fantasy in any way, can vote and tip the scales, then why can`t laymen/women cast their votes in the election of new popes in the Vatican, or who gets promoted to bishop or mother superior?
A message to the anti divorce people - If you are happy in your relationship, don't interfere in others, remember it might happen to you!!
.Don't cohabit but marry so vote YES FOR DIVORCE.

Ray Briffa

Apr 17th 2011, 11:14

So according to Mr Zammit, the Catholic Church is the eternal Government of Malta. We might as well do away with General Elections then!

Mr David Farrugia

Apr 17th 2011, 12:53

Let's start with the right and duty to teach about child abuse and the role of the clergy, Joe!

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