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Updated: Billboard sponsoring company has no position on divorce

The parish priest of Zebbug in a statement today expressed regret for any incovenience caused to an electronics company which sponsored the anti-divorce billboard erected on the parvis of the parish church last Friday.

Fr Daniel Cardona said the billboard was part of a years-long campaign by the parish in favour of family unity and, therefore, against divorce.

The campaign had included literature on the parish leaflet and the billboards which the parish puts up on the parvis. The billbard is changed periodically.

Fr Cardona said the company which helped the parish cover part of the costs did not know about the contents of the billboard beforehand.

"The parish wishes to thank this company and other companies which regularly give financial help to the parish in its various publications," the parish priest said.

Meanwhile, the name of the sponsoring company on the anti-divorce billboard, Vision Tech, has been removed.

When contacted, Vision Tech manager Jason Grech did not seem too pleased with the free advertising he got when The Times published a photo of the billboard on its front page on Monday.

“I did not know The Times would publish it. You could have removed it. I never asked for free advertising. If things become more complicated and we need to take legal steps, we will,” he said.

He stressed he was not aware of the content of the billboard and was simply approached by the parish to help it financially, something his company and many others did on a regular basis.

He would not take a position on the divorce issue. “I’m not in favour or against divorce. It’s not something I need to deal with. There are decision makers for that. I was just asked to sponsor a billboard and I did not know what the content would be.”

He pointed out that cigarette manufacturer Rothmans used to sponsor football but it did not mean smoking was good for footballers.

He said he was surprised by the reaction to the advert. “How was I meant to know it would turn into such a hot issue?”

Meanwhile, the planning authority has confirmed the billboard was legal because socio-religious billboards are exempt from requiring a permit, as long as they were not erected for more than 21 days. Since it was placed last Friday it can remain there until August 5.

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Sabrina Borda

Jul 31st 2010, 06:47

Oh... Mr Zammit, your are so admirable as a Christian, how complementary you are in attempting to set the example of your Christian faith. The Church must be so proud to have you as their fervant follower and speaker on their behalf.
But yet people are driven away, do you ever wonder why?

dvella

Jul 22nd 2010, 22:49

Jekk izzomm ma l inglizi jew mat taljani, ma nafx fhiex stajt theda!!!

Teresa Pace

Jul 23rd 2010, 14:38

@ dvella

:-)

ray sacco

Jul 22nd 2010, 20:21

@joe zammit:
who cares what your catholic church's teachings say! if you believe in those teachings, it's best for you to abide by them. but you and your church CANNOT impose them on others who have other beliefs! doesn't your church also teach to give what is god's to god and what is ceaser's to ceaser! this is entirely a civil matter. divorce will be introduced only for civil marriages. so what has your catholic church and god got to do with it?

Ms Rita Smith

Apr 25th 2011, 12:37

Ray Sacco the Church is not imposing anything on people. the Church is conveying the teaching of Ghrist to the faithful. Is that imposition? God gave us the liberty to choose the good over the bad and that is what we are supposed to do on the 28th May the month dedicated to Our Lady!

Rita Smith

cazahra

Jul 22nd 2010, 16:44

well said

Joe Zammit

Jul 22nd 2010, 16:27


Joe, how beautiful and encourging that billboard is! Only those with sore eyes see it ugly. Ugliness is in the eye of the beholder!

dvella

Jul 22nd 2010, 12:27

Joe - annullament - huwa zwieg li Alla ma jkunx ghaqqad fir rieda tieghu ghall koppja minn qabel, ghax hu jaghraf il qlub taghhom, allura lekk wiehed mill koppja mhux committed al ragunijiet varji, Alla dan ga jafu!! Allura xoghol il knisja huwa li tiskopri jekk hemmx ragunijiet validi ghaliex Alla dan iz zwieg ma jirrikonoxxiehx!! B'hekk hemm bzonn ta xhieda valida biex dan jista jsir!!

C Zammit

Jul 22nd 2010, 13:26

Tajba Ms/Sur Vella! u allura dawn il-koppji (li donnok int taf fic-cert li Alla kien diga jaf li kellhomx rieda tajba) dan Alla kif bghatillhom it-tfal? u dawn it-tfal wara l-annulament x'jissejhu? B.......? u l-hsara li jaghmel l-annulament lit-tfal tal-koppji annullati mhux l-istess bhal hsara li ssir lil koppji iddivorzjati? U halluna, ghax ma tghidux u tammettu li wasal iz-zmien li jidhol id-divorzju bhal kumplament tad-dinja? iva allura id-dinja kollha hija hazina u injoranta u ahna l-Maltin intelligenti hafna?!!

Kevin Cassar

Jul 22nd 2010, 14:57

@ D Vella

Bhalma diga ghedt darb' ohra u nerga nirrepeti, - Jekk temmen f'Alla li jaf kollox (inkluz il futur) allura jkollok tammetti li Alla lanqas ma jirrikonoxxi zwieg li fih wiehed jew iz-zewg membri tal-koppja, ikunu sejrin jonqsu mill-weghdiet taghhom fil futur. Ghalhekk ghandu jinghata annullament dejjem f'kaz ta'

Infedelta'
Trattament hazin
Nuqqas ta mhabba

Dawn kollha huma nuqqasijiet ghal weghdiet taz-zwieg fejn wiehed iwieghed li jhobb, jirrispetta u jkun fidil ghas-siehba tieghu ghal dejjem. Mela Alla ma jistax ikun li jirrikonoxxi zwieg bejn koppja meta hu jaf li din mhux ser tibqa fidila lejn il weghdiet taghha. Ma tistax temmen xi haga u mbaghad tinjora li trid meta jaqbillek biss. Jekk Alla jaf kollox u huwa twajjeb, allura wahda biss tista tkun il verita - Alla jirrikonoxxi BISS zwgijiet li jirnexxu u li jibqghu sal mewt. L-ohrajn jistghu jinhallu ghaliex huwa OVVJU li Alla ma jirrikonoxxihomx (dejjem jekk temmen li Alla jaf kollox u huwa twajjeb)

dvella

Jul 22nd 2010, 15:29

To C and K
Alla halla kollox liberu ghall bniedem anke l process naturali! Anke prostituti jippermetti jkollom it tfal, mela le! Mela dawk aghar minna!! Matarax!! It tfal lkollhom konsegwenzi futuri ta hafna forom li jirrizulta minn nuqqas ta mhabba minn naha tal-genituri (anke single mothers) meta jiddivorzjaw, jisseparw, jannullaw etc!! L-mewt ta genitur hija hafna u hafna anqas trawma futura f'dan il kaz ghat tfal, - ax Alla jaf x qed jamel!!
Allura ddivorzju xorta mhix soluzzjoni! Int semmejt l kumplament tad dinja!! Ma semmejtx mill liema martirji ghaddejjin minnhom dawn!! Hares lejn ir rati ta suicidji habib fit tfal u zaghzagh!! abbuzi ta droga, vjolenza etc etc etc!! Trid Malta b dan il futur!!
Ftit huma ntitolati ghall annullament u zgur dawn ir ragunijiet li semmejt, mhumiex assolutament validi!! - Infedelta'
Trattament hazin
Nuqqas ta mhabba.
Min qallek li zwieg li rnexxa kellu kollox ward u zahar!! Ghandek cans!!! Saqsi lil dawn il koppji u jtuk l esperjenzi taghhom!! Biss haga nghidlek habib, dawn kienu vicin t Alla permezz tat talb!!

Joe Zammit

Jul 22nd 2010, 11:42


Ray, Kristu, mhux jien, igħidlek li dak li Alla ghaqqad ma jifirdux il-bniedem. Kristu jikkmanda lili, lilek u lil kulħadd biex qatt ma niddiforzjaw. Kristu jghidlek li min jidhol fit-tieni zwieg ikun qed ighix fid-dnub il-mejjet, mifrud minn Alla u jekk imut f'dak l-istat ikrah imur dritt l-infern. Ray, l-infern hu għal dejjem u min imur hemm jishet id-divorzju li jkun ha għal dejjem!




J.Debono

Jul 22nd 2010, 12:40

@ Teresa Pace
@ Andrew Farrugia

Jiena bhala Kattolika obbligata li nimxi skond it-taghlim KOLLU tal-Knisja u dan hu gej mill-Kelma t'Alla. MA NISTAX noqoghd naghzel skond dak li rrid u jidirli jien. Hija cara daqs il-kristall li Gesù ma jridux id-divorzju. Allura jekk jien naqbel mad-divorzju, anke jekk mhux ghalija nnifsi izda ghall-haddiehor, pratikament lill-Mulej inkun qieghda nghidlu li jien nifhem aktar minnu. L-imhabba lejn Alla ghandha twassalna ghal-fiducja TOTALI FIH. U jekk l-bniedem jafda f'Alla jaf illi l-Mulej jixtieqielna dak li hu TAJJEB BISS ghalina.
KULLHADD ghandu s-salib tieghu f'din id-dinja, IVA KULLHADD, u jekk mhux zwieg bi problemi, tkun xi haga ohra. Pero l-unika mod li nsibu l-paci f'qalbna huwa biss li nintelqu f'idejn Gesu u NAFDAW FIH, u naghmlu kif qaltilna Ommna Maria fit-tieg ta'Kana, "GHAMLU DAK LI JGHIDILKOM HU". Fit-tieg ta'Kana ghamlu dak li qalilhom Sidna Gesu Kristu, u l-ilma biddlu go inbid...

Teresa Pace

Jul 22nd 2010, 13:26

@ J Debono
Nahseb li fhimt lili u lil Andrew Farrugia hazin ta. Ahna konna qeghdin niddeffendu l punt li hemm hafna nies twajba li jmexxu fil Knisja u mhux kif kien hemm min qal li hemm numru kbir enormi li jaghmlu hafna hsara. Dak kien il punt taghna pero napprezza li ddeffendejt il Knisja. Naf Kristu stess qal le ghad divorzju. Grazzi talli fakkartna

J.Debono

Jul 22nd 2010, 16:40

Ghaziza Teresa, le ma kontx fhimtkom hazin, naf li kontu qeghdin diddefendu lill-dawk l-eluf u eluf ta'rwieh tajba li jaghtu hajjithom biex jaqdu lill-ghirhom. Pero ghall xi raguni jew ohra il-messagg hassejjt li kelli nindirizzah lilkom bit-tama li jaqrawh ukoll dawk li jahsbuha mod iehor...Hija tassew weggha ta' qalb taqra certu kummenti hawnhekk. U meta taqra kummenti bhall-tieghek u ta'Andrew, jinhassu bhal-ziffa friska ta' arja pura. Nkomplu nitolbu u nfittxu kenn fil-qalb Immakulata ta'Ommna Maria, niftakru x'qaltilna go Fatima. Nixtieq ukoll nheggeg id-devozzjoni tal-ewwel Sibt tax-xahar ghall-hames xhur konsekuttivi li tikkonsisti f' li wiehed iqerr almenu gimgha qabel l'ewwel Sibt tax-xahar, jisma quddies u jitqarben, jitlob ir-Ruzarju u li wiehed jimedita ghall-xi 15-il minuta fuq il-Misteri.

Il-paci maghkom.

Jesmond Mifsud

Jul 21st 2010, 16:27

Mr Zammit,

I've told you before and I'll tell you again. You have a very limited view of the world. It's not all as simple as black and white. You cannot just rely on an old book for guidance of 'right' and 'wrong'. There are lots of arbitrary variables which you, and many people like you, choose to disregard. You said that divorce is a negative thing. When you state that, you choose to ignore that for many people, divorce would give closure to traumatic relationships. It would allow them to move on with their lives. You obviously don't care about that. I'll let you come to your own conclusion as to what that says about your character....that is if thinking is something that you're capable of. You've proven otherwise so far.

Joe Zammit

Jul 21st 2010, 19:52


Jesmond, you are forgetting the meaning of divorce, which is the dissolution of marriage. No man, no State can dissolve marriage for any reason whatsoever. Christ knows about those who have failed in marriage. Notwithstanding this, he orders me, you and everyone never to resort to divorce because what God has joined together let no man, no State put asunder. There is no mid-way. Either with Christ and against divorce, or favouring divorce and against Christ.

Philip Serracino Inglott

Jul 22nd 2010, 15:20

A simple argument:

What is negative cannot be a right.

Joe Zammit's argument is negative (the argument is AGAINST divorce = negative).

Therefore, if Joe's argument is right, Joe is wrong!

LOGIC NEVER!

c spiteri

Jul 22nd 2010, 16:22

u dont divorce sur joe zammit imma tindahalx xjamel hattihor int ibqa kif int

Jay Galea

Jul 21st 2010, 13:12

And even in London they made a fuss about it!!! So not only in Malta.com!!!!!!!!

Jesmond Mifsud

Jul 21st 2010, 15:56

I'm not talking about the fuss people would do if their beliefs are questioned. I'm simply stating that in London, the atheist billboards were allowed to be displayed in public. This cannot happen in Malta because the church has a constitutional right to stop it from happening.

mike grima

Jul 21st 2010, 16:39

Jesmond, are you sure the church has the right to prevent an atheist billboard from being put up? It would be interesting to test the limits of Malta's freedom of speech in this direction.

From reading this article, I would have thought that an atheist billboard wouldn't even need a permit for 21 days because it is of a 'socio-religious' nature. Now that's something to try out!

Jesmond Mifsud

Jul 21st 2010, 17:02

Mike,
As far as I know malta has laws against the vilification of religion.
Yes, I agree, it would be interesting to 'test the limits'...maybe we should try this out and order a billboard to counter what has been put on display. Something like "Fairies don't care about divorce, and neither do unicorns."

M. Ellul

Jul 21st 2010, 13:05

Naqbel mieghek R.Vella. Jigifieri issa gejjin fi stat illi ma nistghux nesprimu ruhna u nuru twemmina jew opinjoni? Lilkom xi hadd waqqafkom? Fr Daniel m'ghandux ghalfejn ihossu guilty ... sewwa ghamel ghax dak huwa t-twemmin tieghu. L-isponsor haqqu apprezzament mela boycott???? Din gdida!! Mela jien nisponsorja screen lil xi hadd biex nghinu, u ghax igib affarijiet mhux xierqa (ezempju) nehel jien!! Tajba wkoll! U ejja ibdew ighixu f'dan is-seklu!! Fr Daniel ghandu l-appogg taghna kollha wkoll u ghandna bzonn ta hafna sponsors bhalu li ma jiddejqux jghinu!

Jay Galea

Jul 21st 2010, 14:43

and isn't this London billboard imposing on others too??!!!

mike grima

Jul 21st 2010, 16:27

No Jay. The posters are simply expressing a point of view. Imposing on others is legislating against divorce so that those who want to avail themselves of it can't.

Jay Galea

Jul 22nd 2010, 10:52

They are not expressing a point of view. They are saying that however has a religious belief is all the time worrying and doesn't enjoy life! They are telling people to stop wrrying about something which they think propably does not exist.

James Farrugia

Jul 21st 2010, 11:32

I am not going to say a word about this article, and I don't need to; just a little thought about your comment. If you feel this island is insignificant, please, leave us. We are so insignifact in fact that we have given you the right to simply leave. Or maybe you are insignificant actually, because no one will be crying if you vanish. Thanks.

Ian Pace

Jul 21st 2010, 10:04

Who do you think you are to judge another person? It is his right not to express an opinion and also his right not to have one!! How arrogant we have become. His only mistake was that he did not enquire what the contents of the billboard would be. I would never finance something without knowing what it is. Would he sponsor a billboard encouraging drug use (just an example)? We need to learn to tolerate and never judge others. @ Zebbug Parish Priest: May I ask who did you address that billboard to? True believers would not resort to divorce. Non-believers though would. So it seems you wasted quite a lot of money. It would have been more productive to use the billboard to strengthen family unity and respect, hence indirectly reducing the need for divorce which should be a right to who needs it (non-believers).

Miguel Micallef

Jul 21st 2010, 11:28

I am not judging, but merely making an observation. It seems to me to be impossible not to have an opinion on divorce. It just shows how irresponsible (OR AFRAID) some people have become.

Divorce is a human right and to not have an opinion corresponds to being in favour. Just like with slavery, child porn, priest abuse etc...

You are either against it, or you are morally wrong. I'm sorry.

Ian Pace

Jul 21st 2010, 12:12

So it seems most of our politicians are always in favour of the issues coz they always refrain from commenting LOL! I see your point but I cannot consider not making one's opinion public as being in favour, or against an issue. It all means he kept his opinion private. He should not be made in a position to make his opinion public unless HE wants to. He is a business man who just learnt a hard lesson, the hard way. We should stop imposing on others and this including the church. The church has the moral obligation to GUIDE and not impose. Jesus NEVER imposed anything. It is about time to stop 'smiling' at cameras and start doing something concrete and effective. As someone already said, this little rock is in shambles and I shudder to think how possibly could we get any worse!

Jeremy J Camilleri

Jul 21st 2010, 09:33

Joe Zammit..Regarding your battle...does that mean that good has lost in ALL the other countries bar Malta and the Philippines?

Joe Zammit

Jul 21st 2010, 12:08


Jeremy, for God there are no countries. There is only humanity. Humanity is divided only into two: good and bad, with God or against God. There is no mid-way. Jeremy, if you are with God you must be against divorce. If you are in favour of divorce you are against God, and so you are already the loser. The victory is guaranteed for those, living wherever they are, who are faithful to God and remain faithful until the end.

Jeremy J Camilleri

Jul 21st 2010, 23:04

Good is subjective..look it up...Drowning a planet is bad...and yet...some believe that GOd did it...

J.Debono

Jul 21st 2010, 10:03

Suggesting to boycott this company is a form of intimidation.

miriam grech

Jul 21st 2010, 15:11

Issa la gejna ghal Billboards ma nafx kif hadt mu jinduna bil consumizmu ta dawn il facilitajiet ta reklamar. KULHADD SABU SEWWA JINPRESJONA BIL PORKERIJA TA PUZIZJONI TA MARA U RAGEL LI MID DEHRA JKUNU DIVORZJATI ( ha ha ha ha.......) biex jbigh xi prodott .............. GHAX KOPPJA MIZZEWGA MIBNIJA FUQ IT TAGHLIM TA GESU KRISTU LI HU R RAS TAL KNISJA TAF BIR RABTA QADDISA TAZ ZWIEG SAGRAMENT.

R.Brincat

Jul 21st 2010, 10:04

Il hsara fis zwieg mhux idivorzju igibu imma dawk il kopji li jizzewgu u jibqaw johoru mal hbieb separatament min xulxin ghax dawn l affarijiet igibu lok ghal abuzzi. Jew dawk l ommijiet li jkollom iz zaghzagh jejxu mahhom u ma jqabduhom jamlu xejn imbad jizewgu u jarawhom koroh biex joqodu jahslu l hwejjeg, jahslu l art, jaddu l hwejjeg, isajjru, imorru jixtru u hafna u hafna affarijiet ohra.

victor pulis

Jul 21st 2010, 11:01

M'hemm xejn hazin li taghmel billboard kontra d-divorzju. Li hemm hazin hu meta dan il billboard ma jirnexxilu jikkonvinci lill hadd. Priedka lill konvertiti hi kliem fil vojt. Ikkonvincuna l-d-divorzju u hazin mhux bil kwotazzjonijiet mill bibbja imma bil fatti u bir realta tal lum u mhux ta' elfejn sena ilu meta fost ohrajn l-iskjavitu kien permess (aqra lil Pawlu ta' Tarsu) X'soluzzjoni qed toffri l-knisja lill dawk l-eluf li qed jghixu fl-infern tal art ghax iz-zwieg taghhom tkisser irevokabbilment? id-dinja nbidlet J. Farrugia.

S, Vella

Jul 21st 2010, 08:33

It is a marketing lesson that VisionTech will not forget.

On another note - "socio-religious billboards are exempt from requiring a permit, ..". I wonder if that counts for all religions.

Joe Grima

Jul 21st 2010, 08:54

When I wrote yesterday in these columns I was under the impression that the company in question wanted to make a statement by sponsoring that billboard. Now I know that the company and its owner had nothig to do with the issue and in fact the owner has no position of his own on divroce. This empahasises even more the arrogance of the oarish priest who used the company to support his controversial poster without consulting the owner. The company should not be held resposnible for what happened and I hope that its business will not be affected by all this.

G.Portelli

Jul 21st 2010, 08:46

Are you so sure that you kill an unborn person and you're so easily lifted of this grave sin? This is MURDER. And in our society you have to pay for killing.

Let's be clear. Some people NEED divorce. It is a necessity since life can turn sour sometimes. But others WANT divorce to be able to plan when and how. This is also MURDER because the other person's life was put in jeopardy. A depression may ensue with all its consequences. A life has been MURDERED.

A last thing. Fashions last only a few days. After that even divorce cannot be enough. We may start to discuss polygamy. After all some states around the world do have polygamy. Why not us? What if a member of parliament decides to present a private members bill on polygamy?

Joe Zammit

Jul 21st 2010, 09:10


Clemens, how wrong you are! Christ has set up one holy Catholic and Apostolic Church and ordered (not advised!) her to go and teach all nations in the name of God. He told his Apostles and their successors, the bishops: "Whoever hears you, hears me; whoever persecutes you, persecutes me".

If you are not faithful to the Catholic Church of Christ, you are not faithful to God. And hell is for those who are not faithful to God.

It is the duty of the Catholic Church to speak in the name of God and it is our duty to obey her. She has been doing this since the time of Christ, 2000 years, and she shall continue to do it until the end of time. No Clemens is going to stop her, not even the whole of hell can prevail against her! DIVORCE NEVER!



Charles Grixti

Jul 22nd 2010, 14:08

@Joe Zammit

You are wrong! God almighty does NOT need anyone to speak for him.

That a mere mortal, who by the way shares 98% of the genes of the great apes (Primates) should even hazard the thought, let along proclaim that they know what the creator of the Universe, seen and unseen thinks and wants, is the sheer height of pomposity and arrogance. And yes, it is BLASPHEMY indeed. What more proof do you guys need that all religions are man-made concoctions to serve the priestly hierarchy and class?

As far as Divorce and the local church goes, it is plain as they that what they are really interested is in that nobody will cut into their annulment business – they have a great monopoly going. And for your information, even people who got married in the Catholic Church can get Divorced, for the simple reason that the Catholic wedding rite is just a ceremony, whereas the civil contract is legally binding. If you need proof, go and try to get a child-custody or support order from your local parish priest.

Mary Smith

Jul 22nd 2010, 15:01

@Joe Zammit

If the Church is so against Divorce, can you please then explain to us why, the Universal Roman Cathoic Church in North America, INSISTS that a couple first obtain a DIVORCE before they would even consider them for a Church annulment?

Or is the local Catholic branch a renegade faction?

Teresa Pace

Jul 21st 2010, 17:25

He sent His Son Jesus to tell us. Jesus came to fulfill the law of the Old Testament and He did just that...one of His fulfillments of the law is no to divorce.

Charles Busuttil

Jul 21st 2010, 09:11

Tahseb li kieku jsir hekk din il-kwistjoni kollha tieqaf hawn? Meta ser nikbru?!!

victor pulis

Jul 21st 2010, 10:17

Dak il punt J camilleri. Mhux kulhadd jemmen li l-bibbja hi l-kelma t'Alla u ma taghtihomx tort ghax meta taqra li Alla ordna lill lhud biex ihaggru l-adulteri, jimmssakraw nazzjonijiet shah biex jehdulhom arthom, jaharqu s-shahar, jemarginaw lill lebbruzi. Dawn kollha ordnijiet li nghataw minn Alla. Il bibbja mkitbet minn nies bhal Mose' u l-leviti li riedu jimmanipulaw poplu ghal skopijiet taghhom.

David Caruana

Jul 20th 2010, 23:30

Kif jghid il-Malti, "aqqas tghoddhom fuq zewg idejn"

Joseph Carmel Chetcuti

Jul 21st 2010, 01:23

It's your funny God who does not believe in divorce. It is this funny God who does not understand that people make mistakes and that people change over time. There is nothing wrong with the Church saying what it thinks but it should not mislead the public by suggesting that others think along the same lines. That is why the parish priest apologized.

j grech

Jul 21st 2010, 01:45

@joe micallef
ON ITS OWN PROPERTY? sorry joe but the church belongs to the people not the catholic society it is a house of god and anyone is welcome even criminals, i am a catholic but i agree with divorce, this small island is seeing more and more couples cohabitating rather than entering into marriage,i personally would like for example to see 10 weddings and perhaps 3 ending in divorce than 10 couples cohabitating,we all make and break promises at some stage even our promises made on our wedding day, other contracts that are binding have a cooling down period or get out clause and if couples have been raised in a certain unstable family enviroment with no get out clause then they will be reluctant to make the same life sentence for themselves should the marriage turn sour and prefer to live together, how long will it be before the next generation will be asking what is marriage because they wont have the pleasure of seeing couples emerge from the church in wedding refinery just like my children used to ask me what is a record and now my grandchildren ask their parents what is a tape move on

Ramon Casha

Jul 21st 2010, 06:24

According to the Bible, God (and even Jesus in person) accepted divorce, and in some cases (old testament only), even required it.

SScerri

Jul 20th 2010, 22:05

@ John Pisani. Ma tafx li Arcipriet huwa kelliem t'Alla....... ????? Ma tafx li kull min li jaqra il-Bibbja ( l-aktar ktieb li jinbieh f'id-dinja) ghadhu f'idejh it-taghlim VERU ta dak li jrid Alla????? . Issa tipruvax tghidilna li-Bibbja hija storja ghax kien huwn hafna aktar intelligenti minnhek li ippruvaw jghidu hekk u s'issa wara 2000 sena il-Bibbja ghada meqjusa bhala il-kelma t'Alla.

Joseph Abdilla

Jul 20th 2010, 22:31

Sur Pisani Iva s-sacerdot huwa r-rappresentant ta' Kristu fuq din l-art. Jekk ma temminx dan, affarik. Mohhok biss biex tizra d-dubji. Wara kollox ghad idduq din il-verita' ghax ahna mahniex ghal hawn.

s schembri

Jul 20th 2010, 23:24

Forsi int wiehed min dawk li huma nsara li ma ghandhomx ideja ta x'inhi ir-religjon li 'allegatament' jemmnu fiha. Ara veru li l-kontinent ewropew spicca art tal missjoni.

Joe Grima

Jul 21st 2010, 08:49

S.Scerri. Jiena ltqajt u ntervistajt diversi Maltin li jghixu u jghallmu l'Bibbja kuljum, li kienu kattolici u m'ghandhomx u li jiddeskrivu l-religjon Kattolika bhala religjon falza. Jekk min jaqra l'bibbja, kif qed tghid int, " ghandu f'idejh it taghlim veru" mela kif hawn Maltin, studjuzi kbar tal bibbja, li jaghtu nterpretazzjoni totalment differenti minn dik li taghti l'knisja kattolika dwar dak li fiha l'bibbja? Meta kkkonfrontajt lill dawn it talin mhux kattolici ma qassis kattoliku mgharraf sew, il pozizzjoni tal qassis kienet li l'bibbja nkitbet fuq tul kbir ta snin u allura mhix ghal kollox reliable. Il qassis qal li hemm partijiet li huma l- esperjenza diretta ta min ktitibhom u hemm ohrajn li huma detto del detto, jigifierti stejjer li mxew minn generazzjoni ghall ohra u xi darba xi hadd kitibhom. Skond xi qassisin kattolici il bibbja, li fuqha jibbazaw kollox xi religjonijiet mhux kattolici bhall born again christians, mhux ta min jorbot fuqha.

Joseph Abdilla

Jul 20th 2010, 22:46

The catholic church has a right to be heard and to voice its opinion. and no one will deny it its constitutional right. The church is made up by us, its members and we have our rights and we shall fight for our rights.

s schembri

Jul 20th 2010, 23:30

'the new generation got different ideas' ... perhaps they do have ... but have you ever asked yourself whether that is what God wants? .. "thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven", we better change it to, "our will be done on earth" !

Kenneth Cassar

Jul 21st 2010, 07:42

The owner said he does not care about divorce. A lame excuse in my opinion. Unless he takes legal action against the parish priest, his words after realising the repercussions of the silly billboard (too late) count for nothing.

S. Caruana

Jul 21st 2010, 09:54

It shows what a closed miind you have!!!!!
What is wrong if the company were to be against divorce - isn't this a supposedly democratic country where everybody can voice his opinions.

P.S. We would appreciate if you could enlighten us as to how many times you actually bought from this company. A sincere answer would be appreciated.

Next time before you comment, please take note of the potential harm you can do with your statement to the people/company you are criticising and to your goodself.

J.Cachia

Jul 21st 2010, 11:28

Karl Consiglio must be a liberal. LOL

M.Ellul

Jul 21st 2010, 15:47

X'injoranza ta ragunar!! "Ghax ma jemminx fid-divorzju ma nixtrix minn ghandu aktar!" Xieraq kull minn ghandu hanut (specjalment tal-ikel u xorb) ma jaqbilx mad-divorzju! X'taghmel int? Tmut bil-guh? Ragunar ta bniedem immatur jiddispjacini. Ghaliex kullhadd ghandu jiifhimha bhalek inkella tibbojkottjah? U ohra ... min qallek illi l-bejjiegh jew sponsor ma jaqbilx mad-divorzju? Huwa stess qal illi mhux fl-interess tieghu. Aqra sew qabel tikteb. U jekk ried jghin lil Knisja hadd ma jista jindahallu! Issa baqax tindahlu lil min nghinu bi flusna? Anzi intom dejjem tirricpaw bid-demokrazija ... u l-anqas tafu x'inhi ... lollll!!

Ernest Vella

Jul 20th 2010, 22:47

@ John Pisani....nahseb qieghed turi n-nuqqas ta informazzjoni li ghandek...dik is-sentenza l-Iskrittura (Il-Bibbja) tghida fil-ktieb tal-Profeta Malakija...insomma jekk ma tafx x'inhi l-Bibbja ghalxejn ha nispjegalek

@ Andrew Camenzuli...il-Bibbja tghid li min jaghti skandlu lil wiehed min dawn iz-zghar, ahjar jekk idawwar gebla mghonnqu u jitha gol-bahar...cara li Alla ma jridx nies li jabbuzaw...jekk qed tallega xi haga kun kurraguz u mur irraporta minflok tigi titfa t-tajn hawnhekk

S.Zammit

Jul 20th 2010, 20:47

Hahaha what a funny comment NOT...Mr. Galea don't you have anything better to do then make fun or our Church?
Maybe I really find the statement a very strong one especially at these times but come on what did you expext the Billboard to say?The Church can never agree with divorce.Full stop. I personally disagree with divorce but everyone has his/her opinion.

Joe Grima Brussels

Jul 20th 2010, 20:52

I. Galea, the usual I. Galea.........
If you do not have a better answer, stop ridiculing everybody else, please. Can't your mind build an argument, like other bloggers?
The priest does not have to call God on any line, and Melita are not doing any money out of it. There is something called the Holy Bible, written by people more competent than yourself (at least they don't insult those who are against!), which shows us what God says about divorse. But you find it convenient to ridicule those you cannot beat by a simple argument.
I suppose that you know what the Bible is, so just borrow one, and look up 'DIVORCE'. If, on the other hand, you should find that God is in favour, please send us the quotation, without insults, this time.

I. Galea

Jul 20th 2010, 22:15

I am not the "usual l. Galea", as you both so wrongly assumed. and it's MISS Galea, to you! I rarely comment under these articles. but when I do, i certainly don't do it to strike an argument with the likes of you. Another wrong assumption. I actually have a tendency to strike proper arguments with intelligent people who are open to think abstractly, and also enjoy a sense of humour.

As for insulting, I'm not the one calling people incompetent. (borrow a dictionary, look up the word "insult"). Personally I do not believe in bible stories, they were written by people like you and me. So please, do not impose your beliefs on me, and let me enjoy my own sense of humour. Oh, and while you still have that dictionary, you might want to look up the words "relax", "joke", and "opinion". Then if you can, borrow and encyclopaedia and see if you find anything about people being allowed to have differing beliefs in Malta.

On a serious note, the the slogan on that billboard is in my opinion a very sloppy job of convincing catholics to turn against divorce. Talk about presenting an argument!

S.Zammit

Jul 21st 2010, 22:28

Excuse me for assuming that you were the usual Igalea, whom is also regular blogger .
Please Miss.Galea please keep these shallow and pointless comments to yourself. I am against divorce and you are in favour. I will ALWAYS respect your opinion but you honestly cannot make fun of things you do not agree with it in such a silly way. The least you could have done is post a reasonable argument.

Jeremy J Camilleri

Jul 20th 2010, 20:51

Not really into turning the other cheek are you?

Check out the adjectives you use...another Church supporter who doesnt really know what Catholicism is about...

Joe Grima Brussels

Jul 20th 2010, 21:16

That's right, Maria. And the enemies of Jesus and His Church will be around forever. They were around from the Church's foundation, remember? From the very beginning there were enemies. The mighty Roman Empire, to name one. Who is still around today? The mighty Roman Empire is gone, but Jesus' fragile church is still here.
Many of the bloggers of church hate have only one wish: to silence the church. I admit that the church has a 'nasty' habit: that of showing the truth that God wants. Now THAT makes them feel very uncomfortable, so they believe that if they do not listen to such words, they are not guilty.

martin saliba

Jul 20th 2010, 21:50

you had me worried for a moment. I thouight that nobody reads my comments. I was wrong , sorry. At least now , with freedom of speach , i will not be sent to a mental institution for writing against the church and as long as this paper publishes what i write i will continue to do so without the fear of being burnt at the stake or having an inquisitor knock at my door.

Joseph Abdilla

Jul 20th 2010, 22:35

Sur Jeremy il-kattolici qatt mhuma ser idawru wicchom in-naha l-ohra meta jaraw lil Malta qed titfarrak mill-partit tieghek bil-proposta bazwija li kien ghamel Joseph u li issa hareg biha JPO.. Ma jkun qatt li ahna nhallu l-minoranza ta' nies jkomplu jfarrku lil Malta taghna biex jissodisfaw l-ezigenzi mmorali taghhom. Jekk hemm bzonn anke gwerra qaddisa naghmulkom. Mal-principji morali u l-valuri nsara mhu ser inhallu l hadd jilghabilna maghhom.

Maria Caruana

Jul 20th 2010, 23:26

Mr. Camilleri.. 'turn the other cheek?'. Is that what you want me to do? No sir, I m afraid NOT this time. Because I'm sick of you toppling on each other to degrade and humiliate my faith, my religion and my heritage. What's your point, tell us?Oh yes...you're so strong and mighty you don't need our God. But you told us that a hundred, thousand, million times now!! Shame on me to feature my name and protest, no??
And I shall add another adjective for you. PATHETIC. That's what I call it when people are strapped to their PCs with nothing better to do than to mock other people's faith. That's what I call a 'downward spiral' as some here put it (Miguel Micallef). It's when you're addicted to your PC only to inflict degradation to a particular religion. Then it's that SAME person who is spiraling downwards!!! Pitiful situation.
Enough said.

Mr Grima,
Thanks for adding to my comment. Yes Jesus's Church stood for over 2000 years now. Unfortunately for some, His Church will not 'cease to exist' as some may wish, at least not in their lifetimes, they won't enjoy that privilege.

David Caruana

Jul 20th 2010, 23:28

Yes, I can never forgive an institution which killed people and destroyed cultures only for its power hungry machine to prosper.

Look up "the Cathars", for one - that is one mortal sin which every pope and every Roman Catholic has to pay the price for. Yes, the Roman Catholic church is here to stay, only for a handful though.

The day of reckoning is drawing near.

K. Pullicino

Jul 21st 2010, 08:42

@David Caruana:

In the past people were killed in the name of religion. These day people are killed in the name of Justice and even Peace! But we don't see anyone disagreeing with Justice and Peace, do we?

Jeremy J Camilleri

Jul 21st 2010, 09:36

Maria..I don'twant you to do anything...I couldn;t care less.....I m not the one who uttered those words...

ray sacco

Jul 22nd 2010, 15:53

@maria caruana:
MAMMA MIA maria!!!!!! take it easy! why are reading boring and miserable comments in the first place? don't have any thing better to do? don't you have a life? no one is humiliating your catholic church dear mrs.caruana. the catholic church is just humiliating itself time and time again. we, moaners and groaners, are just making observations about it! of course. the roman catholic church is there to stay, and so will other religions! i never dream of a perfect world without religions and greed to provoke wars! this world was never perfect, and i guess it never will be!

Henry Spiteri

Jul 20th 2010, 21:54

@A.Grech: L-Unjoni Ewropea m'għandha ebda kompetenza fejn tidħol il-liġi tal-familja.Huwa l-gvern tal-pajjiż li għandu s-setgħa li jdaħħal id-divorzju wara li jingħata mandat mill-poplu.

marco farrugia

Jul 22nd 2010, 16:31

"This billboard is an emphatic NO to discussion. The billboard's message states quite clearly that there can be no discussion about divorce. Which is unacceptable."

Fil-Bibbja hemm miktub car: "Għax jiena d-divorzju nobogħdu?" jgħid il-Mulej, Alla ta' Iżrael.

Mela il knisja ma tistax thalli lok ghad-diskussjoni ghax inkella tkun qeda tmur kontra dak li hemm fil kotba imqaddsa.

Steve Pace

Jul 20th 2010, 20:25

It's the inconsistency which is bothering most people and not the good or bad the parish priest has done. I agree with you totally that a lot of priests do sterling work in their parishes. I attend mass just like you and i see it with my own eyes, but as i meant in my comment earlier. The Maltese church uses two weights and two measures on too many issues. It is chewing at it's very own credibility .

Mario Mifsud

Jul 20th 2010, 18:56

I am a practicing Catholic and do not believe in divorce myself, however I do not feel I have the right to 'impose' my beliefs on others. Not everybody in Malta has the same beliefs and it is unchristianlike not to offer choice to all.

Joe Savona

Jul 20th 2010, 19:26

The next poster should read:
Il-Gambling: Alla ma jridux!!!

As long as the money from gambling goes to the Church or government
it is not a sin. What hypocrites!!!!!!

Teresa Pace

Jul 21st 2010, 06:21

@ Mario Mifsud

The Church does not impose...it just reminds the teachings; then it is up to the person to do what in the conscience feels right.

Steve Pace

Jul 20th 2010, 18:48

Your comment reminds me of fanatical football fan who's team has just lost a match !

wally vella-zarb

Jul 20th 2010, 19:04

"a tolerant inclusive society" would not launch or support a crusade against divorce - something that would be optional and which they would in no way be forced to resort to.

As for your quip about 'blackmail' I seem to recall tactics, much more deserving of this adjective, that were aimed at browbeating MP's on the question of abortion...

K.Anastasi

Jul 20th 2010, 19:16

There was a time when you were told that if you vote for Labour you would go to hell. Isn't that blackmail too... people are free to take their custom where they deem fit. Business should not get involved in such matters.

Gerry Cowie

Jul 20th 2010, 20:00

Well said, P Vincenti.

Somebody has to stand up for those who have no say in things.
Not surprisingly the word blackmail is conveniently banded about when it comes to defending human life from the abortionists!

wally vella-zarb

Jul 20th 2010, 23:21

Mr Cowie, the first person to use the word ‘blackmail’ in this thread was Mr Vincenti himself. On my part I wrote “As for your quip about 'blackmail' I seem to recall tactics, much more deserving of this adjective, that were aimed at browbeating MP's on the question of abortion...”

On your part you chose to write “Not surprisingly the word blackmail is conveniently banded about when it comes to defending human life from the abortionists!”

At this stage I suggest that you now categorically state publicly, on this thread, that you are NOT including me as being one of “the abortionists” that you refer to. Failure to do this I would suggest that you get yourself a good lawyer as I will not hesitate to sue you for libel.

victor pulis

Jul 20th 2010, 23:42

Gerry who mentioned abortion? you're in the wrong place.We're discussing divorce.

S.Vella

Jul 20th 2010, 18:10

Dear R. Borg,

How I face "HIM" is none of your or anyone's business. It's my choice - you are are not my god.

Point to ponder: If this god will punish YOU for my choices, then frankly he's not worth following.

Robert Attard

Jul 20th 2010, 18:16

There is still to ascertain whether it is the will of God we are going against
.... could it be the will of men still clinging to medieval concepts?

A. Zahra

Jul 20th 2010, 18:09

So you aprove of boycotts after all. Since when?

simon amato

Jul 20th 2010, 18:15

agree with you jeremy 100%

Jeremy J Camilleri

Jul 20th 2010, 18:32

A Zahra Never recall saying I didnt believe in boycotts. There are a number of establishments I have decided not to help finance for various reasons.

In this case I shall not help finance a campaign I do not believe in. Very simple really.

S.Zammit

Jul 20th 2010, 18:45

Skuzawni biex nghidilkhom imma vera iskhom tfal zghar. Ghandkhom kull dritt ghal-opinjoni taghkhom imma biex tghid sur. Camillieri ''be getting a cent of my cash'' imhabba bicca billboard ma taghmilx sens. Hemm hafna affarijiet li jien ma naqbilx maghhom allura l-isponsors ta' dawn l-affarijiet ma nibqax nixtri minn ghandhom??

K.Anastasi

Jul 20th 2010, 19:10

Me too

Jeremy J Camilleri

Jul 20th 2010, 20:05

S Zammit..x taghmel int u kif izzomm mal principji tieghek affarik...

dwar tfal zghar, qas ha nindenja ruhi nwiegeb...ghax niddejjaq naqa fil livell ta haddiehor.

Steve Zammit

Jul 20th 2010, 18:36

The issue here is about divorce and NOT the priest-abuse issues. Stop trying to ridicule the Church Mr.Baldacchino. You should know that everyone makes mistakes and the Church has taken action against some of its priests regarding the abuse.
Keep to the topic please-Divorce

Stephen Baldacchino

Jul 20th 2010, 23:31

The topic is Divorce.......so what .....but what the people do the church bounces and tries to play like she never does anything wrong but when she does ooooooo......we ask forgiveness because god tells us to forgive. Divorce is nothing wrong if a married couple doesn't find happiness, and just the same people are getting separated and living with other partners so whats the difference with divorce introduced???? under stand what I'm saying before answering pls.

Joseph Attard

Jul 21st 2010, 08:50

Ok I agree that the topic is not about priest abusing from choldren... but i believe that first you have to be PURE to judge others!!!! If someone's marrage has went wrong, and it's not his fault, should he remain alone for his whole life?? Why he could not love someone else?? You'll say that God is love... and you're deniying some minor people in society to practice their love to someone.... Get Alive!!!!

Joe Grima (Malta)

Jul 21st 2010, 09:09

Steve Zammit. We are discussing the same church, teh one that is vehemently agianst divorce and at the same time, one that harbours thousands of pedophile priests who havie ruined the lives of hundreds of thousands throughoutt an entire world. What's good for the goose is good for the gander

Stephen Baldacchino

Jul 22nd 2010, 00:42

thank you Joseph & Joe for at lest you understanding my point. and to the rest........from the sky under every one is subject for mistakes only God is perfect.....including priest....like the Maltese saying says........Everyone has some thing to smell under his arms :-)))

Alfred Cassar

Jul 20th 2010, 19:36

Martin, I think your argument is ridiculous. For example if a shop owner is Labourite and I am a Nationalist, should I boycott him? OR if a shop owner is a hunter and I'm against hunting, should I boycott him as well.

Let's grow up and be reasonable. I don't see why those people in favour of divorce should boycott this company. I am in favour of divorce (if introduced in a fair way) but still I won't boycott this company.

martin saliba

Jul 20th 2010, 18:21

How can he assume that the sponser is against divorce or that he gave his sponsorship because he believes in the church ? as far as we all know it was just a normal buisness deal which unfortunaltley went wrong because of the assumpions of others. Allthough i am in favour of divorce i scincierly hope that this person dissassociates himself from this billboard so that his biusness will go on as normal.

Joe Grima Brussels

Jul 20th 2010, 18:59

Martin,
I believe I was quite clear in my argument! If someone sponsors a billboard to be used by the Church, he is authorizing her to put HER teachings on the billboard. Unless it was agreed beforehand that no church beliefs should be used! It's plain logic! If I sponsor a board for, say, Birdlife, there is no need to tell them not to put anything in favour of hunting, do I?
What does the sponsor expect the church to put on the board, that Jesus gave in to the Pharisees' demands?

martin saliba

Jul 20th 2010, 20:59

Mr. Grima. The priest knows that there are many good practising catholics that are in favour of divorce. The mistake was that it was assumed that this shop owner is against. Why dosnt this priest put up a billboard against the half truths , or lies , that the people are being and have been , fed by our polititians which in turn splits our island with hatred for each other come election time ? That would be a service to the people and the church and i am sure it would also please your god.

Joe Grima (Malta)

Jul 21st 2010, 09:00

What you are suggesting is that sponsors shoudl keep away from givign money to the Church because the Church has a right to use that sposnorsp any way it wants even without consulting the donor. What absolute arrogance, sympomatic of the Church itself. I hope that Malta's generous sponsors will heed your words and will starve your cash-strapped church out of sponsorship funds as of right now.

David Aquilina

Jul 22nd 2010, 11:46

@Martin Saliba, if a person is a good practising Catholic then s/he should be against divorce. If you're a follower of the Church then you should abide by the Church's rules, although you might not agree with them. The Church's teachings (which essentially should be Jesus' teachings) focus on the Sacraments, one of which is marriage, and as others have said, we cannot undo what God has tied. If you're up for divorce it means you don't believe that marriage should be a lifelong bond as it should be, in which case you would not be a practising Catholic. To illustrate with a parallel situation, if you play football, you might say "oh there's nothing wrong in catching the ball with my hand if I don't get it with my foot" - but the rules in football say that you cannot do that - so although you might not agree with that, it's what you have to do, otherwise you're out of the game!

jgalea

Jul 20th 2010, 17:57

lets make a rferendum to see KEMM huma il ftit

Joseph Abdilla

Jul 20th 2010, 22:36

arroganza tal-ftit li jridu jkissru lill-pajjizna u lill-familji taghna. Ma jkun qatt li Malta tigi f'idejn il-minoranza mahmuga li ghandna.

Carmel Garcia

Jul 21st 2010, 08:20

Tal-Misthija ghax il-knisja taghllem li iz-zwieg huwa sagrament? Tal-Misthija ghax Sidna Gesu' Kristu qal li dak li jghaqqad Alla m'ghandux jifirdu l-Bniedem? Jew tal-misthija ghax fuq kull haga ta' xejn nisseparaw jew niddivorzjaw? Jekk inti ms Azzopardi ghandek dritt tikkritika jew li tkun favur id-divorzju il-ftit li semmejt inti u li naf fi zgur li huma hafna u mhux ftit iridu l-ghaqda tal-familja u ghnadhom kull dritt bhal ma ghandek inti li jesprimu ruhhom jew ma jaqblux mieghek.

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