When I think about weddings I remember my wedding 13 years ago.

Love one another and you will be happy. It’s as simple and as difficult as that- Michael Leunig

I remember how the day had passed so quickly amid the trials and tribulations of organising a wedding and the mad rush and frequent bouts of fear, panic and frustration that something could go wrong.

If I had to relive the experience, I would certainly not panic, not worry about those little, unimportant details and live the day to the full, concentrating on what matters most and enjoying myself.

But 13 years down the line, I think I am a tad smarter and a more mature person who has learnt quite a few things from life. So nothing would be the same if ever the day had to be relived.

Up until a week ago, it was hard to imagine a wedding being organised, with the grey skies and incessant rain we had.

But now that the sun shines once again and we can enjoy the clear blue skies, it is definitely easier and more enjoyable for people to plan the most important day oftheir lives with more enthusiasm, zest and energy.

There is no need to start planning a long time before the date. Just make sure you know exactly what you want and be flexible to avoid any stress.

You need to be a carefree and relaxed bride on this special day – the happiest person on earth.

If you haven’t planned your honeymoon, a Spice boat cruise might be just the quiet getaway you are looking for. Read all about it on page 12.

There are tips on being sensible and how to tighten your purse strings on pages 6 and 7, together with a range of ideas for wedding cakes – not too plain yet not too over the top – by expert cook Frances Bissell.

If you haven’t chosen the rings yet, read about the real meaning and tradition of buying a ring and giving it to your beloved on page 12.

Read about research on wedding trends in Malta by Rosemarie Dorekens on page 4, and you may be surprised to find out that divorced people still believe in marriage and tend to remarry.

Enjoy the supplement and remember – if you’re getting married any time soon – relax and enjoy your wedding to the full.

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