There has been correspondence in the last few weeks about the lack of common courtesy. There appears to be a new generation that does not expect it or want it.

I attribute much of the rudeness in our society to the proliferation of social media and the multitude of electronic devices. There is little personal communication between people.

Defensive walking has become as important as defensive driving if one is to avoid being knocked over by pedestrians whose ears are filled with buds and are so intent using a pad or a pod that s/he is oblivious to the world.

How many people actually realise they are being rude when they let a cellphone ring in the theatre or in a restaurant and bar areas marked “no cellphone”? Or do not clean up after or keep a dog on a leash. Talk loudly during a film, play or concert. Fail to yield or signal when turning while driving. Text and talk while driving (which also is dangerous.) Barge into a queued line. Let children run loose, cry, scream or talk during any performance. On a bus or train not giving a seat to a woman, senior or someone disabled. The list could go on, and on, and on.

Watch a public entrance or elevator and see how many men fail to hold the door for a lady or, for that matter, for anyone regardless of gender.

One friend noted: “When holding a door I’ve had more than my share of being passed by without even the slightest acknowledgment.” At a luncheon or dinner party, see how many men stand when a lady is being seated.

I believe some people are not intentionally rude but simply do not know any better.