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BE CROSS, YOURSELVES

As I write this edition of the thoughts of me, penned to educate, irritate and amuse, the soon-to-be previous one is somewhere in the middle of the "most commented" table that the Times publishes, presumably to spur us writers on to greater depths of provocativeness, a word which William Gates Esq, assures me does not exist.

My rise to the dizzy heights mentioned owes much to the efforts of some people who I have resolved to ignore, and such was their smugness in the comments section when I mentioned this that I thought I'd better explain why I have decided to ignore them and not comment-in-answer myself.

Incidentally, I will be ignoring them only as long as I feel like: if I feel it would be more conducive to a sense of well-being on my part to expose their logical or intellectual shortcomings, I'll do so. My decisions are not written in stone.

The thing is, these, very often, these people have a personal axe to grind with me. They believe that they have been wronged by me in other areas of my life and, in what I can only describe as a pretty craven manner, they use their right to comment and find fault in my thoughts (not a difficult task, granted) in order, they fondly imagine, to wound me.

Sadly for them, by doing this they only demonstrate to me that I wasn't far wrong in my position towards them in the first place. Not that I had any particular animosity towards them then, it is only in their fevered imagination that whatever it was that brought us to cross-purposes was personal on my part, though of course they will not, even now, believe this. For people like this, as their attitude now confirms, everything is personal and everything that happens to them is a result of other people's hatred of them and in no way are they ever at fault.

Such is life, and it is impossible to convince such people, so the only thing to do is ignore them.

Others who I ignore are those who twist what I may have written or said in the past to justify their criticism of something else I might have written.

This, for instance, is why Dr Francis Saliba finds himself on the "ignore" list: he wrote that I have advocated smoking "as being not so harmful" and that I believe that obscene pornographic "art" should be encouraged on the public stage. Both statements in my regard are utterly inaccurate.

Then there are others who, self-evidently, are beyond redemption and should not be given more oxygen. The racists and bigots that pollute the blogosphere thrive on the "yah boo, sucks to you" manner of dialogue, so the only proper course of action is to starve their ideas and let them stew in their own bile. Luckily, their positions are usually so comically ludicrous that they tend to implode and rid us of their poisonous presence all on their own.

As a side comment, incidental to the main thrust, which is now exhausted anyway, could some psycho-linguistic expert apply himself to determining why most comments and posts by the genus now identified as Lil'Elves are in execrable English? Their grasp of syntax, grammar and vocabulary is - to put it charitably - tenuous in the extreme and the research for the underlying reason for this deserves a doctoral thesis on its own.

Is it, possibly, the fact that it was the Labour Governments of the Seventies and Eighties that raped education in this country, combined with the fact that the Lil'Elves are clearly admirers of that form of Governance, that leads to the result described?

Or is just that, quite simply, many of the Lil'Elves don't have the intellectual capacity to write decent English? Even the ones who think they do?

Nothing to do with anything I've written so far, but I was a bit dubious about the Labour Party's establishment of a LGBT Section, since I tend towards the belief that human beings are individuals whatever their orientation and for a mainstream political party to distinguish between individuals wasn't quite the done thing. The mere fact that a special section was being set up somehow gives credence, perversely, to those who think that gays or lesbians or whatever are somehow lesser mortals.

I didn't feel the same about the General Workers' Union taking a similar route, because it is a fact, sadly, that bigotry at the work-place still exists and more vigorous means of fighting it are still needed.

But from the way the leader, and probably half the membership (work it out) of the Alleanza Nazzjonali came out against the Labour Party's move, it became apparent to me that perhaps there is a need for the Labour Party's position. To put it bluntly, if something irritates Josie Muscat, then it's probably a good idea.

This is a philosophy that I find stands the test of consistency.

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David Seychell (18 hours, 33 minutes ago)
By the way, what is Labour's position regarding the so called gay "marriage"?
Kevin Zammit (19 hours ago)
@ABC

Sounds like a bitter rant from some 90+ m8 :)

Carefull there you may start showing your age ...

No matter though ... when you've got it; flaunt it and you certainly do have it.
Ivan Grech Mintoff (1 day, 17 hours ago)
Since this thread has gone "quite"...

- http://www.timesofmalta.com/blogs/view/20091115/fr-joe-borg/no-prosecution-please-we-are-artists

this blogger seems to have captured quite well what 'us, illiterate and non-artistic peasants' think about crud, freedom of expression etc.

You see, believe it or not, there are those who disagree...
laurence schembri (2 days, 20 hours ago)
We didn`t need women to go to Marsa racecourse to get the vote in Malta. Mintoff did it.
A step forward, it called democracy.
Ivan Grech Mintoff (3 days ago)
@DS

Agree with you 100%.

Just like to add that it seems that "the One" simply thinks others are idiots.

The "self imposed omerta"is nothing but a convenient way to avoid answering direct questions.

Add to this,the fact that "these,very often, these people have a personal axe to grind with me. " is pretty much as vague as one can get!

(A more credible stance would be to name these people and what their problem is so that they might revert?)

If "the One" is genuine about his (veiled) threat that he might come out of his closet (so to speak) and stop playing Coventry (how silly!) then I for one challenge him to do so and expose these "blaggards".

Being one on "the list", I declare openly (once again) that my disagreement with "the One" is not in any way personal or as he claims to "wound him":it is the absolute BIGOTRY in his writing that I object to.

For instance:

-he wants to express his oppinion but then puts himself in omerta soas not to answer to his writings
-he himself goes out of his way to wound others yet accuses others of wounding him! etc

Glove thrown...
Denis Catania (3 days ago)
When it comes to illegal immigration ABC doesn't have a clue. POOR ANDREW. One must wonder how does a blog with twenty four followers can get to Andrew"s head ? POOR ANDREW. But at the end of the day Andrew, what really counts is you keep trying.lol lol lol. I must admit you are a funny guy.
Joe Xuereb (3 days, 10 hours ago)
I have never voted in Malta as I've been away since the year dot. I have no affiliations. I accept or reject all parties depending on their flavour of the week.
The PL has set up a separate section for LGBTS. Maybe to garner votes. Maybe yes. Maybe no. But, as long as people keep gasping, 'gosh! who would have known he was a homosexual' and 'gosh! and he's got five kids and another on the way', and 'but how can she be gay, she's so glamorous', and so on and on and on. People feel very threatened by difference especially when there is no apparent difference but for that big frightening difference that people are conditioned to feel uneasy about. Advanced societies take these things in their stride. Malta lags behind. But, the way out of a problem is through it. Likewise, the 'neither here nor there' situation needs putting up with teething problems. Also known as 'visibility'. Seeking controlling comfort in recognising the perceived enemy short-changes one so. So visible and non-stereotypical it'll be. Or spoon-feeding of the uncomfortable. Martinelli, I understand you reside in Canada. This should not really apply to you. Or should it now?!

David Seychell (3 days, 15 hours ago)
@Dr ABC
"The thing is, these, very often, these people have a personal axe to grind with me. They believe that they have been wronged by me..."
You manage well to push forward the same monochromous political agenda behind the subtle mask of an independent columnist. This might be one of the reasons why some people may "believe that they have been wronged by" you. Although some may consider your strategy to be wise because it has a better chance to influence the uncommitted voters, I guess that, others, may perceive this "manner" as a "pretty craven" one.
J Martinelli (3 days, 19 hours ago)
@ Charles J Buttigieg

I can hardly add to Mr. Antoine Vella's comments except that the cases you mentioned were principally to remove discrimination. The LGBT movement within the LP does exactly the opposite, so you cannot use your references as a comparison.

I think that your comments should be addressed to the ordinary man-in-the-street since prejudice does exist and education is the answer. The LP crowning itself with the glory of forming a 'special group' within its structure, singles itself out as fostering discrimination of the LGBT from the mainstream.
Charles J. Buttigieg (3 days, 20 hours ago)
@ Antoine Vella

MORE LIKE A MARATHON than two steps backwards.

Today Malta has slipped to 45th place in Transparency International's 2009 Corruption Perceptions Index (CPI) from 36 last year and 33 the year before. It also ranks 20th in the 30-country region incorporating Europe.
Antoine Vella (3 days, 22 hours ago)
Charles J. Buttigieg


"Did Mrs. Pankhurst the British political activist take a step backwards when she founded the British suffragette movement, which won women the right to vote ?"


Universal suffrage was the one step forward for the MLP. The two steps backwards were the uninterrupted decades of repression, moral and physical political violence, routine mob rule and istitutionalised contempt of human rights.


Two steps? More like a marathon.
Charles J. Buttigieg (4 days, 1 hour ago)

“For every one step forward, the LP insists on taking two backwards”. (Sic)

Did Mrs. Pankhurst the British political activist take a step backwards when she founded the British suffragette movement, which won women the right to vote ?

Was Martin Luther King, Jr. taking backward steps when he was leading the African-American civil rights movement?

The PL recognises the hurt emanating from injustices and prejudice which our gay community suffers and are legally subjected to and it wants to do something about it. Is there a better way than allowing the LGBT group to join its forces in its mission to fight against the emargination of minority groups?

The setting up of an LGBT group within the LP will makes it distinct and the discriminating more visible until such time that the difference becomes a "neither here nor there"
Antoine Vella (4 days, 14 hours ago)
Stepehn Farrugia "...articles against the Maltese with all its oxygen. " This is a new expression for me. Ħu paċenzja, could you please explain it to me?
Stephen Farrugia (Sliema) (4 days, 15 hours ago)
@ Dr F Saliba He does not understand that it is impossible for us to be racist, if he knew who we are and how we live. People have been laughing at the idea for years now, a standard joke, to call each other racists. His poor understanding of security, cultural risk and how they turn against you, once they have larger numbers, is a fact that he fails to understand. We don't have the security of the British forces anymore and the Arab cultural imposition of the 70's. The fact that some of us have seen what happened in Africa, stage by stage. These people are all the 'old boys' of that college in B'kara. Only God know what's behide all this kindness and christianity.
Dr Francis Saliba (4 days, 18 hours ago)
@StephenFarrugia

I would emphasise that the problem is not with "immigration" and not even with "irregular immigration". It is with ILLEGAL IMMIGRATION!
David Seychell (4 days, 18 hours ago)
@Charles J. Buttigieg
"I don’t know who’s right, William Gates or Encarta. Encarta says ‘provocativeness’ is a noun"

An Ole'! for you and, I guess, another one for me.
Charles J. Buttigieg (4 days, 19 hours ago)

@ David Seychell

I don’t know who’s right, William Gates or Encarta. Encarta says ‘provocativeness’ is a noun.
Stephen Farrugia (4 days, 20 hours ago)
Who agrees with this article ? Lets see how many people will support you calling them racist out of a population of 400,000 readers.
I would say a dozen !

In the last MEP election, the PN and LP spoke against illegal immigration in a very hard manner.( only words) AN even harder and IE are the people that are the real thing, the solution.
That leaves you with AD on your side and I have heard, that they are changing their mind also in their majority.
All thanks to your pro immigration articles, people open their eyes to the only truth. Keep up the articles against the Maltese with all its oxygen.
You do have the ink but all the wrong ideas.
J Martinelli (4 days, 21 hours ago)
@ Joe Xuereb

"I trust there will come a time when homosexual people's visibility or otherwise will be neither here nor there"

Very well said and that is why setting up an LGBT group within the LP will makes it distinct, visible, discriminating and far from being a "neither here nor there" affair!

For every one step forward, the LP insists on taking two backwards.
Joe Xuereb (4 days, 23 hours ago)
Thanks Andrew. I have often doubted whether me and thee could have a dialogue. Maybe it is possible after all. Of course I live in Blighty so it will have to stay on the back-burner. Just for the record man, in a subsequent life, you or one of yours might come back as one of the marginalised. Then you'll know where I'm coming from. Only hypothetical of course. I believe there is only one life and that's it, that's enough, possibly even more than enough. So, one life and eat to live. And don't sweat over small things like a little syntax - or whatever they're called - slip. They're only words. I look forward to your next piece. And I'll be watching. And I'll have my fine-tooth-comb with me. So watch it!
While I'm here, putting my arm round a younger brother's shoulder is not patronising, is it?
Andrew Borg-Cardona (5 days, 1 hour ago)
@Joseph Xuereb - thank you for your contribution. I certainly didn't mean to promote marginalisation or discrimination and your piece highlighted how difficult it is to discuss these issues without falling into the trap ones' self. You're right, we need more work!

@anyone else who might be reading - provocation doesn't quite convey the same nuance of meaning for which I was groping
Dr Francis Saliba (5 days, 6 hours ago)
@anyone who may be reading:
I would try to appease Gates dictionary by using "provocation" instead of "provocativeness".
Joe Xuereb (5 days, 11 hours ago)
Mr. Borg Cardona, Andrew. LGBTs are not lesser mortals. Mortal I definitely am. One of those who have a firm belief that when they are dead, they are dead. That's quite a statement, a humility, in a society steeped in ever-lasting arrogance in the land of the undead. No, taint a Hammer film. It's only little moi. Sorry, I have gone off at a tangent as is my wont. I was saying. LGBT are not lesser but they are treated as such. It does not take superhuman brains to understand this much but people would rather believe the LGBT need not 'highlight their plight' by belonging to a separate section within a larger group. They say it's not needed, that one may as well 'marginalise' women and illegal immigrants and habbaziz vendors. In fact this is usually male-speak for 'I would rather they continue to merge in mainstream society, political party, etc. and so be rendered invisible. I prefer them to be invisible. I feel more comfortabe if they're invisible.
I trust there will come a time when homosexual people's visibility or otherwise will be neither here nor there. We still have some way for that to happen I'm afraid.
Andrew Borg-Cardona (5 days, 19 hours ago)
@Joe Busuttil - if you only read the first dozen lines, where does the reference to my gastronomic forays come from? And that is in Beck, not the blog - I fear you betray a keener interest in my stuff than you admit.
@ Daviid Seychell - ole'
David Seychell (5 days, 20 hours ago)
"on to greater depths of provocativeness, a word which William Gates Esq, assures me does not exist."

Reminds me of the red cape used in the corrida.
David Seychell (5 days, 20 hours ago)
An interesting, almost humorous analysis of the psychology of some of your main readers. Anyhow, congratulations for your vertiginous ascension towards the prestigious peak dwelled by demigods. But worry not, the scars left by those "wounds" you mentioned will remain as a reminder of your "mortality".
Joe Busuttil (5 days, 21 hours ago)
Something that always amazes me is how you ,as a busy (I think) lawyer can find time to write all that tripe against the LP ,about stuffing you face (as if that is of any importance to the rest of the Maltese nation),about how Gonzi is so good,and any other subject that I may have skipped as I read only the first dozen lines of you contributions.Please give us a break. I guess you are a really jolly good fellow to know personally but I only know you through your writings. Anyway no hard feelings and enjoy your evenings out.

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