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Doing the decent thing .... decently

I was particularly struck by a phase used by my friend Georg Sapiano in an interview he gave to the Malta Today (June 14).

My paraphrases of what he said is the following: the great electoral defeat suffered by the PN at the EP elections, should not make the government fall to the temptation of doing what is popular just because it is popular, i.e. for votes' sake. The government should do the decent thing even if it costs votes.

Georg mentioned an example. He has taken a public position in favour of the introduction of divorce legislation so he should be very happy if the government adopts this position. Georg gives a caveat. He said that the government should not introduce such legislation if it thinks that divorce is bad for society even if it was proven that the legalisation of divorce would earn it votes. Divorce legislation should be introduced out of conviction and not out of convenience.

What Georg was saying in the above mentioned interview, is the crux of the problem faced by any government. Should the government opt for populist stances at the expense of the common good? Should it choose what is for the common good even at the expense of votes?

The high moral ground answer would be that the common good should come before the party good even when such a choice is for the party's detriment. I also suspect that the long-term good of the political parties lies in seeking and putting into practice the common good. It is true that such a strategy can have negative effects in the immediate term but the quest of the common good will benefits the parties as well since it will benefit the country, which they want to govern.

The quest for the common good is difficult also, because it necessitates a change in colonialist type of mentality - ir-Regina ghandha but fond (The Queen has a deep pocket) - that still characterises many (if not most) among us.

Let me mention just one example. In Malta there are 6,346 persons receiving an invalidity pensions. The state grants it after a person is declared to be medically unfit to work. The system has been abused a lot. Following a medical review many persons were found to be healthy and work-worthy. As a result, the Ministry for Social Policy revoked the invalidity pension of 1,769 beneficiaries. Out of these 376 persons are from Gozo whose population, it seems is prone to invalidity much more that the rest of the population of these Islands!

I commiserate the Gozitans who suffer so many health problems. Undoubtedly, the persons who are struck of the register following a medical examination which signals that their health is ok, are not amused. They will be baying for the blood of the politicians who endorse the decisions of the experts. Such decisions will cost the government votes. However, such decisions should not be shirked because they cost votes.

The decent, decently

The national interest is always more important that individualist interests. However, there needs to be a reasoned and just balance between macro and the micro dimensions of politics as well as in their execution. The government, in other words, should always opt for doing the decent thing; but this should be executed decently. It should see to it that its decisions inflict the least pain possible, if the infliction of pain is unavoidable. This is not always the case.

Let us look at one aspect of the never ending saga of the controversial utilities' rates. In a short period of about six weeks, people received two bills covering up around 10 months of usage of service. One bill was already too stiff for many families. Imagine how stiffer it was for many families to have to pay two hefty bills in 45 days! Instead of minimising pain, someone decided to exacerbate it. Someone somewhere decided to intensify it to the point of making it unbearable. This is surely not an example of doing the decent (assuming that the bills are decent), decently.

I referred to the period of 45 days within which the bills have to be paid before action could be taken against those who default payment. I don't know whether Enemalta is scrupulous with the observation of that time period; but it seems that the VAT department is! I know of a person who received a letter from the VAT department informing him that he defaulted on his VAT payments and threatened him with legal action unless he paid within two days. The writer of the letter did not even have the courtesy of referring to the period for which a VAT contribution was allegedly not paid.

This person was not part of the corrupt circle for which the VAT department is now so infamous. He always paid his contribution on time and had all the relevant receipts. Nevertheless, to clear the issue he had to take time off from his place of work to go to the department and clear the mess.

Paying VAT is decent but treating people in such a shabby manner is not. Such an attitude can lead to the creation of the perception that only the corrupt receive red carpet treatment in that department.

The Entitlement Card which gives us the right for free medical treatment in EU countries is a most decent thing. But, bureaucracy has a knack of indecently tackling the most decent things.

A friend of mine sent in an application. More that four weeks passed and she had still not received the card. She had to go personally to the relevant office to get it. She was then served in a few minutes.

Another one applied to get his name included in the Pharmacy of Your Choice Scheme - another decent initiative. After waiting for a number of months, he went personally to the office where these applications are handled. It was only then that he managed to get served. In this day and age of e-government why should such incidents keep on happening?

Change in culture

As noted above, doing the decent, decently, requires a change in culture. The creation of a just and reasoned balanced between the macro and micro dimensions of politics is a difficult task.

It is not easy to balance national and sectorial interests. This balance cannot be achieved by the government alone. The civil service has an important part to play. So do the unions and the rest of civil societies. These three sectors - civil service, unions, civil society - unfortunately also have their agendas which sometimes militate against the common good. Some are personal agendas.

Others are institutional agendas e.g., they are out to serve their constituencies more than the common good. A trade unionist told a friend of mine: I know my members. I don't know who the common good is. Scandalous but true.

Doing the decent thing and doing it decently is a very difficult thing, indeed.

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Patrik Larsson (on 22/6/09)
John Falzon: It's an unwritten rule to always be over sarcastic, if you are to use sarcasm online :) Frans Sammut: I'm not sure I see your point. You are saying that the anti-divorce people don't want divorce as it would make it harder to be unfaithful, or to meet women who are prepared to be unfaithful? Could be something to it, but it does sound a bit cynical to me. It seems to me that the more vociferous opponents of divorce seems to, in general, be women. If I were to be cynical (which I'm not unknown to be) I would argue you could make a case of women outside the workforce fearing divorce as a means of cutting off their livelihood. Saying that, I don't think either of the groups which we, in our cynicism, have described would be likely to be of great influence neither for or against divorce.
John Falzon (on 22/6/09)
Imposing anti-divorce laws have not reduced promiscuity amongst married couples. Anti-divorce laws have not kept some married couples together. Anti-divorce laws have not kept men away from their mistresses and women away from their boyfriends. Do we want to have deceit, pretence and insincerity take priority over integrity, honesty and forth righteousness.
Oscar Cassar (on 22/6/09)
It is interesting to note the example given by Fr Borg when saying: “…can we say that the will of the majority constitutes the common good in a democracy? If a vast majority decides in favour of a racist state, will that be for the common good? Since racism is bad will it become good just because many people want it?" Fr Borg could have also give examples in tolerating acts of marriage rape and laws against homosexuals in the recent past. The general aptitude and changes within our law upon such subject, had been introduced in Malta quite recently, most probably because of the will of the majority in a democracy and certainly not because of any involvement from some religious institution or their members.
Charles J. Buttigieg (on 22/6/09)
Does anyone really believe that divorce facilities encourage married couples to terminate their relationships? Present reality is showing us that marriages are breaking up anyway and the separated partners are having no difficulty to get on with their lives and cohabit with new partners. Other couples are opting for cohabitations in the first place. Divorce is a legal instrument for separated couples to regulate their and their offspring’s rights and obligations that emanate in their changed circumstances.
A legislation to provide for the divorce facilities does not impinge on anybody’s religious beliefs as it still allows everyone a choice. Homosexual and bisexual acts, the use of artificial contraceptives, sex outside marriage, having children outside wedlock, worshipping other gods and numerous other acts go against the teachings of any religion but because we live in a free and democratic environment they are not illegal
Frans Sammut (on 22/6/09)
@Patrik Larsson: I see your point. Without entering into the merits of divorce itself and/or the Catholic Church's right to advance its teachings on the subject, I would add a further dimension to the issue. Did you ever think of those who cynically uphold the teachings of the Catholic Church because they find them convenient to their selfish adventures with married women? Men who find capitalize on the situation unhappily married women find it very advantageous to keep them there. Casanovas cannot play about with women who can leave their husbands and file for a divorce. The first next man they would turn to would be them. See may point, Lars? You can reach your own conclusion, of course and apply it to the first man that comes to your mind.
John Falzon (on 21/6/09)
@Patrik Larsson

Thank you Patrik, my point exactly, I could not agree more with you.

All I did was submit Biblical quotations to show how inconsistent, contradictory and out of date such teachings are. This inconsistency is typical of the bible teachings and is reflected not only in divorce but also in homosexuality, family values, slavery, cruelty and violence and treatment of women.

The Catholic Church and most of the other Christian denominations, together with Islam and Judaism which has the same God, the God of Abraham, have not yet had the courage to disassociate themselves from these old biblical writings.

I am sorry you and perhaps others could not see through my sarcasm!
Patrik Larsson (on 21/6/09)
John Falzon:
You can not expect everyone to live according to biblical law. If you are a catholic and wants to remain such then by all means, divorce is not for you. But don't try to tell me that the state should enforce such laws on people of other faiths, or people who does not wish to keep living as catholics.
Joseph Camilleri (on 20/6/09)
Who needs divorce? The anti-divorce lobby has deployed delaying tactics in an effort to keep Malta the only EU state without divorce legislation - and they have so far succeeded. They first quoted the Bible; then they began to talk about social issues; and then threw the issue into the political arena by calling for a referendum. Their stand is based on their conviction (genuine, I grant) that divorce erodes the institution of marriage. Ironically, the result has been the opposite of what they hoped for. A prominent priest used to say that divorce will lead to a ‘divorcist’ mentality; copying his words, the denial of divorce has led to a ‘cohabitationist’ mentality. As more of the rich and beautiful of Maltese society openly talk about their ‘partner’, cohabitation has lost its social stigma. Once that has been removed, many young people and single persons are discovering the ‘advantages’ of cohabitation over marriage. As this mentality spreads, the reaction of many young people is becoming: ‘Who needs divorce – or, for that matter, marriage – when cohabitation is readily available?’ The anti-divorce lobby has perhaps done more to erode the institution of marriage than divorce legislation would have ever done.
John Falzon (on 20/6/09)
Divorce is never permissible:
Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. Matthew 19:6
Whosoever shall put away his wife, and marry another, committeth adultery. -- Mark 10:11

Only when the wife is unfaithful:
Whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery. -- Matthew 5:32
Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery. -- Matthew 19:9

When the 'unbelieving' partner chooses to leave:
But if the unbelieving depart, let him depart. A brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases. -- 1 Corinthinians 7:15

When the husband is displeased with his wife:
When a man hath taken a wife, and married her, and it come to pass that she find no favour in his eyes, because he hath found some uncleanness in her: then let him write her a bill of divorcement, and give it in her hand, and send her out of his house. And when she is departed out of his house, she may go and be another man's wife. -- Deuteronomy 24:1-2
Etienne Bonanno (on 19/6/09)
@Fr. Joe Borg
If you subscribe to the democratic ideal, then yes, the majority will has to be taken as the common good, simply because the majority believe it to be to their advantage. You take the example of a racist state and assume a priori that a racist state is, by definition, bad. But bad for whom? Definitely not for the section of the electorate who voted for it.

Democracy, like capitalism is based fundamentally on selfishness. I vote for what is right for *me*. My neighbor votes for what is right for *him*. You have every right to attempt to convince the electorate that your point of view will benefit them in the hope that their vote will be in line with your ideals, but ultimately, when the vote is in you are bound to bow your head to the will of the majority, a will you may not agree with but which you nevertheless must respect.

I find the statements of many commentators and public figures, who routinely contradict themselves by lavishing praise on the democratic system on one hand while pouring scorn on the "great unwashed", distastefully hypocritical.
Jessica DeBattista (on 19/6/09)
Is divorce for the common good?

The common good would have been the institution of marriage for life, and for better or for worse, as we know it to be. But let us be practical. It is next to impossible to revert back to a mentality that had been eroded due to many factors that have left their mark on the Maltese society. The modern way of life has inevitably, infiltrated due to close communications with the outside world.

The Roman Catholic faith does not exert the influence it once did and unfortunately, the future does not augur well either. So we are witnessing a slackening of morals. Hedonism seems to be the preferred philosophy. Everyone is trying to get as much physical pleasure out of one’s brief span of life, and the negative consequences it leaves in its wake are brushed off as unimportant.

There has been slow but sure erosion in the belief that God exists, so man is perforce left rudderless in a world that threatens wars and catastrophes of ample magnitudes. Physical pleasures dull the senses especially if one does not have the hope of a better world once we pass on.

Charles J. Buttigieg (on 19/6/09)
Do the decent thing...decently and spin the indecent to make it perceived as decent. A little bit of sugar makes the medicine go down,a little bit of deceipt makes the indecent look decent.
Jessica DeBattista (on 19/6/09)
Part 2.

The ensuing situation will not be plain sailing for other problems will crop up. Stress is bound to make itself felt for life will become that much more difficult to sustain. What with the extra burden (physical/financial) of taking care of children from a previous marriage together with the new family - the commuting from one house to the other to carry out the parental duties enforced by law?

Unfortunately it is the children who will take the brunt of all this confusion. Children are resilient and might even adapt to such situations but it is hectic atmosphere they will have to battle with.
Jessica DeBattista (on 19/6/09)
Part1.
The pro divorce wave is gaining weight and momentum day by day and it is only a question of time before we will have to be swept along with it. Whether it is this government or the next who will have to acquiesce is immaterial for society is changing so radically that radical moves are bound to follow.

Services, which men can avail themselves from (outside laundry: take-away dinners; house cleaning services…), make everything that much more tempting. Women are now mostly in the work force and are themselves self-sufficient and eager to feel liberated from a mentality that had kept them subservient to men. They have discovered their assertiveness and also relish their new-found independence which will not be easy to give up.

Continued….
Fr Joe Borg (on 19/6/09)
@ Etienne Bonanno. As I wrote in a previous comment, you brought forward several intersting points. I hope to tackle the subject - the common good - at some length in a future blog. But let me make just one comment to continue from where you started. Can we say that the will of the majority constitutes the common good in a democracy? If a vast majority decides in favour of a racist state will that be for the common good? Since racism is bad will it become good just because many people want it?
Oscar Cassar (on 18/6/09)
The issue of divorce is only an issue of image for those that have an interest in portraying Malta as a Fortress of Christianity. If as citizens are really in favor of protecting the families in general, we must provide adequate legislations instead of allowing disorders as it is the present legal situation. It is useless to protect a (so called) family unity when it is legally and socially impossible to make such unity in some cases due to various factors that lead to an end of relations. But we can provide a legal framework to give the opportunity to form a new family units form broken bits and pieces of society. Whatever our politicians decide, several marriages are getting to an end and it is up to our politicians to decide if they want a legal structure that really applies for Maltese citizens while reflecting the local social scenario or else a legal structure that only aim to satisfy unmarried persons (like religious clergy ecc) or others happily marred while completely ignoring others. PN had already promised Cohabitation laws way back in its 1998 approved electoral manifesto but did not delivered. Now its time to act…
Etienne Bonanno (on 17/6/09)
@Fr Joe Borg
Admittedly I do not have any statistics to quote - only my day to day interactions with other people in all spheres of life brought me to that conclusion.
The main point of my comment, however, was not intended to be divorce per se, however. I was attempting to examine the concept of "common good" within a democratic society. The issue of divorce I would consider purely coincidental (but a good example).
laurence schembri (on 17/6/09)
The slight majority against divorce could be, that we as a Catholic country introduce religion on every aspect.
Fr Joe Borg (on 17/6/09)
@ Etienne Bonanno. You raise several interesting points. I will try to address them later on. Just one point of fact. You said that there is an overwhelming support for the introduction of divorce. What is the source of your statement? The last survey that was published gave us a country almost split in half with those against the introduction of divorce having a slight majority.
Etienne Bonanno (on 16/6/09)
I would have thought that in a democracy, the populist will is taken to be the common good by default. Otherwise who decides what the common good happens to be? The party in power? The church? The finance capitalists? Within which context should the "common good" be evaluated? Is there such a thing as a "common good"?

Failing to take the populist vote as the closest approximation possible to the "common good", how does that make such a system different from a dictatorship?

Given that there is such an overwhelming popular consensus as to the need for the introduction of divorce, going against such a strong majority would seem to me to be rather...undemocratic.

As for comparing social benefit abuse with divorce legislation, the analogy does not hold for two reasons: 1) the number of people abusing invalid pension benefits will never be in the majority, 2) it is clear and not a matter of contention that social service abuse is detrimental to society in general, but this cannot be said of the issue of divorce.
D Attard (on 16/6/09)
@Father Borg - Re: divorce issue...as I've been saying forever - it's not a question of common good or evil anymore (whichever way you look at it) but it's the simple reason that Maltese couples can obtain divorce from abroad if they can afford it. Therefore there can be no control by the Govt on this common good or evil - as the Maltese courts have to recognise it anyway, impossible to do otherwise.
If money is the only barrier, then it becomes discrimination. As for Georg Sapiano's comments for the Govt to avoid being populist - I agree, but unfortunately this line of thinking was not inherent in the list of promises prior to the March 2008 election . Ask the dockyard workers.
Jessica DeBattista (on 15/6/09)
Part 2. The divorce issue is not as hot an issue as we are led to believe. And it is not the vote catcher that will make all the difference. It is issues such as the indiscriminate havoc that is being wreaked on our meager green areas that will make a difference; the hefty VAT bills that business magnate who are duty bound to pay the government find a way to avoid; the utility bills that big businesses owe to the government but which are somehow drastically reduced, if not unfairly subsidized. Every citizen is called upon to contribute to society for we all form part of the same structure which has to be sustained by our contribution for the common good, but things have to be done with the least negative impact possible.

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