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Georgie Porgie kissed the Boys and made them Cry!?

So what’s this “I kissed a girl and I liked it” song all about eh?

Full points for originality definitely, but when I hear giggling little girls singing it while walking in the streets I can’t help thinking whether it confuses them or whether this new age generation does have an extensive knowledge of sexual liberty and variety of sexual orientation AND how they have acquired that knowledge.

Please, do not for one minute, think I’m being all prudish or throwing myself into a frenzied full fledged “what are we teaching our children?” or that in any way am I one of these people who give boys “G.I. Joe” to play with and expect girls to wear what “Barbie” seems to have thrown up on them - pink apparel. However it does concern me that we sometimes confuse, the very naïve younger generation who get influenced so easily!

For those of you who grew up watching Italia Uno’s “Bim Bum Bam” you might join me in my confused state of mind whilst I remember watching ‘Lady Oscar’ and thinking “that man with long blonde hair really looks like a woman and talks like one too….’ Or maybe you were shocked also during that episode of “Georgie” when she dressed up as a boy and got into a fight and her shirt ripped open you could see a mammary pop out…. That was manga, but …..were we meant to be watching that? Were boys the tender age of 8 meant to lust after the gorgeous “Margot?”

What I’m asking is, were we meant to have sexual innuendos thrown at us at such a young age? You definitely can’t keep a child locked up and there’s only so much one can do to avoid them being exposed to sex, violence and cruelty at such a young age. However, all of this surrounds us and it impresses children and adults alike.

I remember my teacher asking me “Ira, what do you want to become when you grow up?” Now at that time Madonna was at the peak of her success with the song ‘Like a Virgin’, her racy video was on Music TV every day on rotation and I thought she was dynamic. I wanted to be beautiful, confident and a singer like her, but my reply to my teacher was “I want to be sexy” …please note I was 6 years old!!! Can you imagine the look on that teacher’s face?

In my mind, to be ‘sexy’ was to be a successful performer. There was no way I wanted to be Cristina D’Avena ironically singing sugary sweet theme tunes to those manga cartoons we’d watch, nahhh I wanted to sing about naughty stuff, lyrics that would cause a sensation just like that Katie Perry girl’s doing right now. Stir a bit of commotion!

My mother was obviously not very into Madonna’s ways, but I defended her for years to come, I thought her liberal ways and out spoken attitude got her places, and watching her last week in Wembley Stadium was definitely an experience. She was flat through most of her set, but as a paper in London read, “Who goes to watch Madonna to hear her sing?” I thought that was a nasty comment but secretly I kept thinking “Can’t you at least tune up during the song Madge love?” hehehehe

She made up for it though by wearing skimpy outfits and throwing herself into acrobatic routines which left the audience flabbergasted…she’s 50 for Pete’s sake!!!

By the way Mrs. Ritchie still does that ‘subtle’ simulation thing till today… I overheard this young girl ask her mother in a strong London accent “mum what’s she doing?” , I didn’t know what to think of that, if it was a moment of innocence or if it was that girl’s shock at Madge’s naughty ways at her age!

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Brian Spleenovich (on 27/9/08)
The best blog so far in my opinion; I think they get better every week. What is meant and what happens have become two completley different things.
Amanda Muscat (on 24/9/08)
(@ Jessica Parker -"you might not be a prude and you certainly don't act like one")

do YOU have any doubts Ms Parker?? SHE IS CERTAINLY NOT prude.....and adding to this....you asked IRA.."(Jessica Parker -but perhaps you should ask yourself why the idea of a girl kissing a girl is the first time you felt the need to protect our children!!)".........You're so WRONG!!!!! From your judgement you seem to know little bout Ira...not that iknow her personally but through her music you learn to now much of her....Look back at 2004...do you know about the song "SO ALIVE" sung by Ira in her album Someone Else??????she begins to protect children in her thoughts and lyrics even when still in their mother's womb...this song speaks about abortion...isn't this protecting our children????

SO Ms Parker know facts well before speaking + you should appreciate a so down to earth Artist giving her ideas and speaking liberally about what she thinks of everyday things etc......

A BLOG TO ENJOY INDEED IRA!!!!

KEEP IT COMING!!
THANKS
R. Camilleri (on 24/9/08)
Remember the song "Je t'Aime", way back in the 70's!!! , wow that was really bad....we weren't allowed to hear it at school, well we weren't allowed to have radios either !! but that is another story. the first time we heard the song we thought the singer had asthma !!!!!! Kepp up the good work Ira, I may be of the older generation but still like your songs.
Ira Losco (on 24/9/08)
I think you're taking my Blog a bit oo literally! You all know I am super supportive of any sexual relationship one may choose to have AND I also believe that no amount of playing with a G.I. Joe will make you a man if you are homosexual at birth and no amount of playing with a barbie will make you any more woman! I think it's very clear in my blog. I believe everyone is born with their sexuality and are free to use it as they please, what I am clearly stating in my Blog is that our children are being exposed to issues which have always been there NOW more openly. That's all! I'm not supportive of the way they are just thrown at kids! The Madonna mention inparticular ...is a heterosexual mention. I am just writing about my memories of being confused as a child. Plus as I told Ms Parker this is a blog, I give my humble opinion but in no way am I talking Freud, or sexual Psychology here...
Sarah Craus (on 23/9/08)
ira's opinion is correct.. im still 16 and this world i feel has changed a lot for us.. better li ira qed tahseb to protect Kids even about something that may be nothing.. but at least she started somewhere.... !!! well done ira.. ur blogs are great alija!! cu
Joanne Polkins (on 23/9/08)
Kids are being exposed to heterosexual relationships all the time - some explicity sexual, some just naughty innuendoes. The 'I kissed a girl' song is probably the least 'harmful' or 'naughty' of them all.. had it been 'i kissed a boy' nobody would have said or done anything... all you are implying is that because it's a girl kissing a girl then it's worse. Believe me miss losco... no amount of exposure to homosexuality will make kids homosexual...as much as no amount of exposure to heterosexuality will make a homosexual go straight!! Love me or hate me... as the greatest Maltese singer of all times says!!!
Ira Losco (on 23/9/08)
Dear Ms Parker, My blogs are always a bit tongue in cheek and I only wrote about this song because even though, I am very liberal in my ways and am also very supportive of sexual difference etc, I am also aware that even people like me...who are in the public eye, also give out such messages which may be misleading to the younger generation. I am only giving a recollection of what I felt at such a young age, which today seems funny but at the time was confusing. This is not the first time I felt the need to protect our children . I do believe that the world is becoming a place where our kids should, yes, be protected as much as we can do so, still giving them their independence and a chance to have their own opinions, however I do NOT have any children of my own so I'm no expert. It's just my humble opinion.
amanda muscat (on 23/9/08)
I agree with both James and Ira..the song by Eve RAnsom gives a message about this unfortunate reality in our world and it got banned!! can't really understand why?!?!? maybe there is the need or a more "open mind" thinking here in MAlta!?!?....

on another note: heh referring to another blog by Ira heh there was someone who commented wheater IRA ever reads our comments heh.....maybe in this page there is the answer....I ALWAYS beleived Ira was a SPECIAL artist in Malta in every way..mostly about the fact that she is always keen about those who follow her and her music...this what makes an artist like her loved by the majority!!....waiting for another blog ;)
Ira Losco (on 23/9/08)
Hi James, I'm actually shocked to hear that! Because yes you are very right in saying that the Katy Perry song is quite taboo. A song like Eve Ransom's which I haven't heard as yet obviously, but which could possibly send out a positive message or create awareness should be welcomed by radio stations....I wish them all the luck in the world, they're doing great and hope to keep hearing their stuff on the radio. This song in question, they will no doubt play live and I'm looking forward to hearing it. Thanks to everyone for your comments much appreciated x
James Cassar (on 23/9/08)
It's really ironic. Ira I love your blogs and your music. BUT, I cannot understand one thing.
Recently, locally renowned band Eve Ransom have recorded a masterpiece, a song like no other called Alishas Room, and I've been told that the radio stations don't want to play it because of the theme of the song, which is the story of a girl who was abused when she was young.

Yet we hear songs like the one Ira is talking about 'I kissed a girl and I liked it' and there's another one saying something like 'I like you so much better when you're naked'...and these are ok to play on the radio??? Is it because they are foreign??

Is it just me or is something not right here? I have heard Eve Ransom's song over and over and cannot think for the life of me what's so wrong about it and why radio's won't play it.

Ira, I'm sure you too have been victim of these unfair decisions in your career. Perhaps you would do a blog on it one day...

In the meantime, keep it up. You're great!

James.
Sue Micallef (on 21/9/08)
omg its reminding me of year 4 when u used to pretend to sing like madonna and i seriously thought you were weird haha
i was into jovanotti btw
m.farrugia (on 19/9/08)
I think that the age mentioned of the girl at the concert was a figure of speech. She couldn't have been more than 13, cos otherwise she would have been referred to as a teenager. Which I still think is too young.
Greta Micallef (on 19/9/08)
Exaclty Ira's point I'm guessing that the media feeds children with cross messages ....the way I understood it was that to her the concept of the word SEXY to her was being successful..in actual facts that's excatly what she wrote! And I dont' think the girl at the concert was 6 .. usually concerts abraod have an age limit, they allow over 15s I think...correct me if I'm wrong anyone?
mc grech (on 19/9/08)
Hi Ira

You made a very good point on this subject....

BUT, I can't understand how at the age of 6 a child could have the concept of what Sexy means. At best you could have said you wanted to be like madonna.

As for the 6 year old girl she should not have been taken to the concert at all, since madonna is well known for her racy antics on stage.

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