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Two for the price of one

I am not writing about the sales season and the offers that are presented to buyers at that time of year. I am writing about politics which is quite akin to the sales season.

During the sales season, outlet owners try to sell us their stuff by promoting special offers, like “two for the price of one” or a hefty discount. In our culture, marketing has taken over politics and the similarities with the sales season are enormous.

The United States is the champion of the notion that politics is not much more than a marketable commodity. Whenever they have a presidential campaign they used to publish a book – perhaps they still do - titled “The Making of the President”. This used to study the makings and machinations of the electoral campaign. Then they started publishing a book called “The Selling of the President” because in the word of one commentator electing a president and selling toothpaste is not much different. No great surprise considering that the presidential campaign is expected to cost more than a billion dollars!

In both kind of campaigns many offers are made not just the offer of “buy one get one free”. Generally during a political campaign the most discounted item is the truth.

Kate versus Michelle?

Our local political campaigns have moved in the same direction. We moved from choosing programmes to choosing personalities. We moved form speeches to sound bytes, from political meetings to political spectacles or happenings. Politicians have to go around being nice to people, kissing babies, signing flags, smiling to all and one, engaging in small talk etc. They also have to present policies which people can associate with. But it is now very difficult to associate with a policy which is being presented by someone who does not look good on TV. If you are not TV compliant you will probably not be perceived as a credible and capable politician.

Now we have moved another step in the Americanisation of our politics. We don’t just choose a candidate. We will now choose a candidate and his wife. During the last electoral campaign the Partit Nazzjonalista marketed Lawrence and Kate Gonzi, almost as if this was the President/Vice President ticket. Now for the first time the Labour Party will be countering with its own “pay for one, get two” marketing ploy. So the next general election will not be Lawrence vs. Joseph but it will be Lawrence and Kate against Joseph and Michelle.

We can look at this reality from different perspectives. Let me just propose one question. Will be presence of the candidate’s wives – we are still far away from speaking of the candidate’s husband – enhance the role of women in our society?

Candidates’ wives and media sexism

I will here use quotes from the posting by Lisa Witter on AlterNet on June 27, 2008 (http://www.alternet.org/reproductivejustice/89465/). She was commenting on the media coverage of Michelle (Obama’s wife not Joseph’s) and Cindy (McCain’s wife).

Witter notes that: “Media coverage everywhere is "Michelle vs. Cindy." Where do they buy their dresses? Do they make bacon for breakfast? And, of course, which one can we compare to Jackie O? Is anyone else as appalled as I am at how quickly we have gone back to thinking of women in the oldest of stereotypes -- as only wives and mothers?”

“In "Michelle Obama Highlights Her Warmer Side" in The New York Times Thursday, TV critic Alessandra Stanley wrote that "Mrs. Obama distanced herself from that model [of the assertive career woman] on The View, describing herself as a mother and not mentioning her law career or her views on policy."

There is absolutely nothing wrong with being a wife and a mother. Quite the contrary, both are big plusses. But as Witter notes: “How does not mentioning her career or policy positions make her warmer? Isn't this just another case of someone deciding that people can't handle a strong woman? Isn't this just another case of wives and women being forced into the "seen and not heard" box?”

Witter is right to assert that “We should be holding the media accountable for perpetuating stereotypes. If a white woman is strong, she's considered cold -- as the coverage of Cindy McCain has shown. If a black woman is strong, she's obviously angry -- so go the accusations about Michelle Obama.”

Back to Malta

We will still have to see how the media will handle Kate and Michelle. Will they report their contribution in stereotypical roles or not? One hopes that both ladies will look at their role in politics not just (and not mainly) as a boost to their husband’s careers. Their role is a golden opportunity to strengthen women’s role in society and fight against all sorts and stereotypes and discriminations. Seen from this perspective they will discover that there is much more that unites them than divides them.

Good news

Everyone must have been relieved to read or hear that the condition of Dr Karl Chircop has improved. Let us keep on hoping and praying that it will improve further.

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Kenneth Cassar (on 26/8/08)
Denis Catania wrote: "Is this how you feel about Maltese citizenship".

No, dear Denis, its actually how I feel about you.

So I use animals as tools for funding? Not that its any of your business, but I've spent decades campaigning for animal rights and helping animal sanctuaries in Malta without getting a single cent for my work. The only money I ever got was as a sponsorship for my website, which I gave (all of it) to animal sanctuaries (check for yourself at http://www.animalrightsmalta.com/sponsorshipinfo.html ). I think you might be mistaking me for Peta.

You say that you fund "real" activists. Care to mention one?

Do you really want to know the reason why we have so many hungry dogs in the streets. Its only because most people and politicians do not care. Do you realise that you are accusing all animal sanctuaries in Malta of doing little if anything at all? After all, I'm only one person.

As for what the wives of US politicians do, I think you are ascribing other people's words to me. Please read my messages before replying.

Now, can we go back on topic?
Denis Catania (on 25/8/08)
@Kenneth Cassar: Is this how you feel about Maltese citizenship(big deal). It's activists like you, who are letting hungry dogs walking around. You should be out there helping them instead of just talking about them, and using them as tools for funding.It's people like me who fund real activists, but not just to talk about the problem. If Malta has true activist, there is no reason why 126sq mile Island should have any hungry dogs. As far as the issue, tonight watch our Democratic convention and see if our great females have a say in our government. See if Mrs Obama is going to be home baking or involved. So before anyone says or writes that the US stereotypes females, they should learn more about American politics. I'm not trying to stop you from talking American politics,I'm trying to correct you,but I still beleive you would do better for society, if you would do what you preach (helping animals)If you even know how to do that, or do animals have to know how to spell and speak the kings English.BeforeYOU help them.
Kenneth Cassar (on 25/8/08)
@ Denis Catania:

So you have Maltese citizenship? Who cares? Do you really believe that to talk about America one needs to have American citizenship? Try to stop me.

Do you want to know why I mention your spelling and grammar? It's because most probably that is one of the reasons why you cannot comprehend the gist of what I'm saying. Otherwise, you would have seen nothing wrong with my first post, which seems to have bothered you so much.

And so you are an "animal lover". Maybe that's why you tried (unsuccessfully) to taunt me by mentioning the "dying dolphin". Animals don't need me on their side? I think they'd rather be alive than dead on your plate. Don't try to lecture me on animal rights, since it is obvious that you have no idea on this topic either.

I'd also ask people working in the animal rights field if they'd rather have you than me speaking on their behalf.

Now can we get back on topic, please?
Denis Catania (on 25/8/08)
@Kenneth Cassar: I have a Maltese citizenship,I have the right to talk about Malta. Where is your American citizenship, if you want to talk about America. There they go again about spelling and grammar. Why would I stalk you. I'm a animal lover myself. WE AND THE ANIMALS DON"T NEED YOU ON THE ANIMAL SIDE.
Kenneth Cassar (on 25/8/08)
@ Denis Catania (Cont...)

As for "sticking my nose in wives politicians", my point was not about politicians' women, but about projecting "family values".

As for me saying "never be elected" and then "little if any chance", again, I was "bending over backwards" just to veer the comments back on topic.

You tell me "Why don't you back peddle to a dying dolphin and do what you claim to be". I see that you did some "research" on me. I hope you're not a stalker. In any case, why don't you leave us Maltese living in Malta deal with our stuff ourselves. And while you're at it, why don't you read a good book...it would help your grammar and spelling.
Kenneth Cassar (on 25/8/08)
@ Denis Catania:

If it's me who is slandering people, please quote where I have done so. When I said you were slandering me, I quoted you to show where you were slandering me. However, if you don't keep bringing it up, I won't make a big deal. You're not that important.

As for there being a hungry dog I should be feeding, if it were up to me, there would be no hungry dog for anyone to feed. You're barking at the wrong tree (excuse the pun). If you knew me at all, you'd consider your words better.

Cont....
martin portelli (on 25/8/08)
Politician + wife is fine for the wife opting to play that role but to promote it and the assumption that it is a new model that will catapult women to new heights is ludicrous and oppressive. I fail to see how ‘wife as extension’ is encouraging women to break new ground. I also take exception to the wife as extension to politician husband offering herself as role model to Maltese women, further promoting the cause of patriarchy. Take Michelle Muscat, in one of her recent interviews, she lambastes the extended family reinforcing the stereo type that relatives helping out with childrearing is some modern phenomenon brought about by women’s sudden arrival on the Maltese labour market and therefore a negative happening. This was again echoed by Labour’s Justine Caruana in a recent article. What exactly are these women doing in the political sphere with such views? Though allowing for the stage in the family life cycle both women in question are at, such views smack of hypocrisy, both make use of the only institution that has given Maltese women the chance to venture forward i.e. the extended family like their income generating matriarchal ancestors in certain Maltese communities.
Denis Catania (on 24/8/08)
@Kenneth Cassar: You are the only one that is slandering people. Isn't there a hungry dog out there, you should be feeding, instead of sticking your nose in wives of politicians. By the way 5 days ago you said an openly gay president/prime minister would NEVER be elected. Later you back peddled and said little if any chance. Why don't you back peddle to a dying dolphin and do what you claim to be.
J. Tonna (on 23/8/08)
@ Godwin Darmanin, well said. I was preparing to write to the Editor/Moderator not to allow certain comments be published. The whole blog (and some others too) are falling into the ‘Xarabank’ category. Those who have no valid arguments throw mud at the other commentators or shout so that everybody will see and hear them on TV.
Kenneth Cassar (on 23/8/08)
@ Fr Borg:

I would delete the obviously off-topic "red-herring" comments, but neither you nor me are moderators. As things stand, slander and ad-hominem attacks need to be rebutted.
Therese Vella (on 23/8/08)
Do candidates' wives enhance the role of women in society you ask? I think that if women can either be a big plus to their husband's political career or his downfall. We've yet to see what Carla Bruni does to Sarkozy's presidency, and she fits in one of the four typical female stereotypes - that of a sex object (she posed nude a few months before she met her future husband). Sarkozy's former wife, Cecilia, also a former model, seemed to attract attention of the wrong type although it is said that thanks to her, Sarko reached an agreement with Gaddafi over the Bulgarian nurses issue. During the run-up for presidency, Sarko's rival, Segolene Royal had several camera shots of her ample behind, quite lovely according to my husband. So you see, it's not just in America that women are given a raw deal.
As for Kate vs Michelle - Kate is endearing, looks sensible and has a sincere look all over her face. Michelle is nowhere in her league though i'm sure she is ambitious enough to grow into the part.
If i were an American citizen, i would not vote for Hillary Clinton. For Obama neither,
Fr Joe Borg (on 22/8/08)
@ Godwin Darmanin. Thanks for your kind words.
I think that a number of those who comment follow red herrings and start parallel discussion ignoring the main trust of the article. As a consequence the discussion is not focussed.
Godwin Darmanin (on 22/8/08)
Please note that remaining objective and sticking to the main topic is what makes this blog interesting, educational and worthy. Good debate requires discipline and skill. As well the fact that there are both contributors to this blog and as well as readers is significant. Once we make it a personal attack on any individual it starts losing its purpose and interest. Fr. Borg writes a very interesting article which offers insight, perspective and experience. Opinions are expressed in order to amplify, critique or even even offer disagreement or agreement. In all cases points of interest are normally subtantiated by good and worthwhile comments. This type of media and technology being what it is should give us an opporunity to dialogue in a meaningful and respectful way. Commnents should be read and reread before this "submit" key is hit. I personally read this blog on a daily basis from "across the seas." It is in our interest to keep it alive, civil and professional. Thank you all for trying to make this blog interesting. Thank you Fr. Borg for sharing your knowledge, time and talent with all of us! This is a good sharing opportunity for all of us.
Q.E.D.
Kenneth Cassar (on 21/8/08)
@ Denis Catania (Cont...)

4. I did not call you a racist. As for not wanting any "illegal immigrants" in Malta especially with NO papers", do you know that most immigrants who get refugee status usually come without documents for various justified reasons? If undocumented people were simply sent back (to where?), we would be doing nothing less than killing many of them. Does this make you a racist? Not necessarily. It does make you heartless though.

5. As for your final comment, once again, I never called you racist, and nor did I call you a homophobe. So your final comment is completely off the mark and utterly irrelevant.

6. Finally, I would like to ask you a question. Why do you have to troll all blogs with your "illegal immigration" obsession? This blog article has nothing to do with immigration. If you feel so strongly about your personal crusade on immigration, why don't you start your own blog (plenty of free blogs around), and let other people discuss the topic at hand?
Kenneth Cassar (on 21/8/08)
@ Denis Catania:

1. I never said there are no gay politicians in the US. All I said was that gay people have little if any chance of being made president/prime minister. This was in line with my point that party leaders gain an obvious advantage if they give the impression that they uphold the values of the majority, whatever they may be. It's that simple...and not controversial at all.

2. Regarding the "slander" bit, it referred to your unsubstantiated insinuation that I might believe that non-Christians have no family values and that I would want immigrants to come for cheap labour. Of course, I won't press the point further. All I ask is that, before throwing mud, you make sure you got your facts about me right. If you have any questions, just ask.

3. Regarding your xenophobia, it is further exemplified in your statement that you "might be worried of the undocumented illegal immigrants, as we don't know if they are murderers, rapists or racists", when you should know that we have plenty of documented Maltese citizens who are really murderers, rapists and racists. Read the news. This makes your xenophobic fear, though somewhat "natural", still irrational.

Cont...
Denis Catania (on 21/8/08)
@Kenneth Cassar #2: So please next time you read my comments on the illegal immigration issues. Before you call me a racist, you need to check my record at my business. You will see I don't pay European Americans more than African Americans. I promote as many African Americans as European Americans. I hired and promoted gays. If you ever hear me say I don't want them based on their countries origin, than you can call me a racist. I donated to an all African American high school.
Denis Catania (on 21/8/08)
@Kenneth Cassar #!:What I said in my first comment was, for you to check how many gay politicians we have in our(US) government.( To counter your comment) that a openly gay leader would NEVER be elected for president. I also mentioned Barney Frank, maybe you can call his office and ask him if he is openly gay.I also said, was what we don't have in our government is priest and rabbi's. Which no government needs.As we believe in separation of church and state.As far as me being slanderous and probably libelous, again you are wrong. i used the word MAYBE. As far as me being a xenophobes, my live in girlfriend is some different. I might be worried of the undocumented illegal immigrants, as we don't know if they are murderers, rapists or racists you and the Maltese should be worried too. What is slanderous is how some people call everyone racists and xenophobes That don't want illegal immigrants. I don't want any illegal immigrants in Malta especially with NO papers.Does that make me a racist? Whether they are from the former USSR or Africa.
wally vella-zarb (on 20/8/08)
KC:
"The contest for Democrat party leadership was between a black man and a white woman. "

It was also, somewhat irreverently, described as a choice between a Nut with boobs and a Boob with nuts!
Mary Mills (on 20/8/08)
Martin Portelli - how I agree with you! Good to hear the questioning: "Politics: politician+supportive wife - what's in it for them? What's in it for my daughters?" Indeed, if it were the other way round, wouldn't mothers do same for their sons? I would...and no mistake!
Mary Mills (on 20/8/08)
Martin Portelli, how I agree with you! So good to hear: "Politics: what's in it for politician+supportive wife? What's in it for my daughters?" Incidentally,if it were the other way round, mothers would say same about their sons. I would.... and no mistake!
Kenneth Cassar (on 20/8/08)
@ Denis Catania (cont..)

Regarding his claim that "I bet 4 years ago he would have said the world is so rascist that no way a African American can ever become president. Now we have Obama close as they can get", this requires a branched reply.

First of all, Mr Catania should be careful about putting words into people's mouths. I never made the above claim, and never could, for the following reasons:

1. Even if this were so, that an American president "could never be black" does not show that the "world" is racist. It would only show that America is. In any case, I don't believe that America is racist (though there would be a number of racists in America as well).

2. The contest for Democrat party leadership was between a black man and a white woman. If people were as naive as Mr Catania suggests I am, they would have been faced with a huge dilemma, and would have to be either sexist or racist. Of course, sexism/racism has nothing to do with choosing a good president, and I would like to believe that only a relative minority vote for sexist or racist reasons.
Kenneth Cassar (on 20/8/08)
@ Denis Catania:

You say that I made it seem like only Christian politicians have family values. I never made such a claim. I only used Christianity because it is the predominant religion in Malta. In a muslim state, a politician would have a positive advantage if he gives an image of muslim family values (irrespective of whether Christian and Muslim family values are the same or different). My point was that it pays for politicians to project an image that is valued by the majority. This is an undeniable fact. If Mr Catania still cannot comprehend, I'm sorry but I cannot explain it any simpler.

Regarding gay politicians becoming presidents, I'll believe that when I see one. At the moment, it seems very improbable. Of course, just in case I am misrepresented, I don't believe that sexual orientation should be relevant for becoming president/prime minister.

Cont....
Kenneth Cassar (on 20/8/08)
@ Denis Catania:

I shall refrain from commenting on your first reply, since I cannot as yet make up whether you are implying there are gay politicians in office in Malta (or the opposite) or whether priests should contest government elections.

Regarding your other comment, it evidences quite a simplistic way of seeing complex issues.

You say that I argue that illegal immigrants should be allowed in, conveniently ignoring the fact that I also argue that illegal immigrants who do not qualify for protection should be sent back (as they are, after due process of investigation). Wherther or not they are Christians or not (many of them are) is irrelevant in this case.

You quote me as saying "wherever 'family values'...especially of a Christian kind". That short snippet from my comment was written to show that in a predominantly Christian society, it pays for a politician to act Christian (vote-wise). No value judgement here...just a statement of fact.

As for wanting immigrants to come to Malta for cheap labour, perhaps this does not even merit a reply except that it is blatantly false and slanderous (and probably libellous - except that I wouldn't waste time in court on xenophobes).
Fr Joe Borg (on 19/8/08)
@Mark Anthony Falzon.
You wrote that this blog is advocating the stereotype of the the 'sweet' unity-loving wife, Can you please tell me from which part of what is written you draw this conclusion?
martin portelli (on 19/8/08)
I can't see how politician +supportive wife is going to further the cause of women in Maltese society. Both parties are promoting a strong patriarchal model . How many more madonnas does this country need? I fail to see a truly progressive agenda for women on any party's agenda. I despair for my daughters!
Denis Catania (on 19/8/08)
@Franco Farrugia: Kenneth made it seems like only Chrstian politicians have family values. how about our Jewish politician in the States, they have no family values.A Gay person could never become a President. We have openly gay politicians in the US that win. Barney Franks is one of them. Tell him he can't be president. We know what he meant. let's not cover for him. We all mistakes, and this is one of those mistakes that Kenneth makes. I bet 4 years ago he would have said the world is so rascist that no way a African American can ever become president. Now we have Obama close as they can get.
Franco Farrugia (on 19/8/08)
@ Denis Catania - You certainly cannot call Mr Kenneth Cassar a 'bigot' if you read all his writings and opinions. Sorry. Or else, you don't really know what the word entails!!!
Denis Catania (on 19/8/08)
@Kenneth Cassar: You are flip flopping, you argue the fact that, that illegal immigrants should be allowed in. I don't know if you know, they are not Christians.I'm going to quote what you wrote.
Wherever "family values" Especially of those Christian kinds,
What a biggot you are, so now these non Christian illegal immigrants have no family values.Yet you want them to come to Malta. Maybe for cheap labor?
Mary Mills (on 19/8/08)
Yes these are just wives, distracting accessories aimed to market "the great man" - it's "modern" like the wearing of chunky wedding rings by men, not the done thing before (at least not in Britain) but now 'de rigeur'. The goodly wife-mother image seems to have become some kind of badge of credibility in politics. And even if the media occasionally mention that she does things other than simper and hold hands with "the great man" in public, her priveleged (no, not necessarily enviable...) position hardly qualify her as the social role model Fr Borg seems to suggest. In the coctail circles, could be... but to many unrecognised women living lives on their own terms, who worked hard for what they've achieved... NO! They may even regard the unelected, 'power behind the throne' position, of said female, as parasitical.
Denis Catania (on 19/8/08)
@Kenneth Cassar: Bill Clinton is the highest paid speaker in the US. Europe should know, they paid him Millions of Dollar for one speech. I doubt the University of Malta could afford to have him as guest speaker.But London, Munich and a few other European cities paid him big money.His two terms were up, that was his downfall. Mayor of New York Guilaini was divorced twice.Check how many divorces we have in Congress and the Senate. Check how many Gay's we have in our government. It's church people we don't have in our politics(I don't mean religious people either) How many priest do we have in politics,.NONE !how many Rabbi's we have in Politics. NONE.! They do a good job teaching the gospel and the politicians do a better job running the country.
K Xuereb (on 19/8/08)
I believe that the potential US first ladies are stepping back from highlighting their careers and achievements partly to avoid a repeat of the backlash of public opinion over Hillary Clinton's increasing involvement in US healthcare policies during her husband's first term of office.

In Malta's case, it seems like the participation of the spouses will not go beyond 'image-building' of the candidate, which, as you said Fr.Joe, would be a pity and a wasted opportunity.
Mark-Anthony Falzon (on 19/8/08)
PS. Alfred Sant's political career suffered considerably - and most unfairly - at the hands of this 'wives' business. Not least because Mary Darmanin ill fit the conventional 'leader's wife' mould. She has an independent career, and pretty radical thoughts (about education, the public sphere, etc.) of her own that she has never refrained from expressing. As such, she could never be the 'sweet' unity-loving wife advocated by this blog. I'm sure she'll be devastated to learn she doesn't measure up to the stereotype ...
Mark-Anthony Falzon (on 19/8/08)
Ms Gonzi & Ms Muscat have absolutely no 'opportunity to strengthen' whatever. As far as I know no one has voted for them to do anything or represent anyone. Besides, WITH RESPECT TO POLITICS, they will always be their husbands' wives. In other fields, of course, I'm sure both of them have full lives and careers in their own right.

This 'politicians' wives/husbands is dodgy business. The last sentence says it all: their husbands do the arguing, they do the women's-rights-unity-lovey-dovey bit. How's that for stereotyping women?
Kenneth Cassar (on 19/8/08)
Wherever "family values", especially those of a Christian kind, are (or are claimed to be) part of the policies of political parties, to present the leader as a morally strong person with a united and loving family is always a bonus. This is incidentally why I think that (particularly in the US and Malta), an openly gay leader would never be elected as president/prime minister.

Remember Bill Clinton? His "adventure" with Lewinsky and the subsequent exposure, was a good part of his downfall.
Denis Catania (on 18/8/08)
Fr Joe Borg you got it wrong again. these are just wives.Their career we already know about, they don't have to keep repeating themselves. They show what type of person they are.You failed to mention how many females we have in Congress and the Senate. We do spend a lot of money on our elections, but that's good for the economy. As small businesses depend on this. Our church in the US knows to stick their nose out of politics, unlike you in Malta.In the US we don't vote based on our political affiliates, but what the country needs at the moment. I'm a Republican supporting Democrats this year. See in Malta you only have about 14,000 true voters, which are the floaters.You say another step closer to Americanisation of your politics. Try maybe another a hundred years when more non Maltese take over the Island. Until you the church step aside, you will never enjoy the American system of politics. until the Maltese stop voting, for who their mother and father voted for and use their own mind, you will never enjoy the American system of politics. Keep dreaming Fr Joe Borg. Some dreams do come true.

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