The discussion about adoption should be focused on children and not on the rights of adults, whether married, gay or single.

Nobody has an automatic right to adopt children; the right belongs to the children, who deserve the best possible upbringing in a loving family.

It is strange that the Civil Unions Bill being debated in Parliament gives same-sex couples the right to adopt children even though the Marriage Act does not even mention anything about the matter.

I think adoption should be discussed separately and regulated by a specific law to facilitate the process and to set up rules that ensure children’s best interests.

An atmosphere of affection and of moral and material security is a basic but not the only requirement. Ideally children should grow up in the care and under the responsibility of their parents, a mother and a father. They need both complementary role models. This should be a primary guiding principle in the law regulating adoption.

Other things being equal, the first choice for adoption should be given to a married couple so that they may provide both maternal and paternal care to the child. Otherwise we will be discriminating against the child by denying them the affection and influence of a father or a mother.