Most of us can’t tell a delphinium from a chrysanthemum. Which is why we need a bit of trimming and training when we come to choose flowers for our wedding.

But first things first – as with everything, your choice depends on your budget. If money is no object, then only the rarest of flowers will do, the kind that grow on the Himalayas and bloom every three decades.

But money is always an object, especially when you add up the rest of the wedding expenses. So first, draw up a budget based on the type of flowers you would like, how many arrangements you will have, and how elaborate these will be. After setting your budget, look for inspiration.

It’s always a good idea to go for flowers which are in season. First of all, this makes a huge difference on your budget as flowers which are out of season are likely to be very expensive. Seasonal flowers are easier to find and you get more blooms for your money. Moreover, going seasonal means you’re earning eco credentials since out of season flowers will probably need to be imported.

Decorating the church and wedding venue with flowers is important as they add style and colour while infusing the air with sweet scents. But of course, the star of the show is your bridal bouquet. This once in a lifetime accessory requires plenty of thought. First consideration is your dress. If, for instance, you’re wearing a long train, then you might need to balance the look with a dramatic cascade bouquet. The bigger the dress, the bigger the bouquet. That said, don’t go for a large bouquet which hides the beautiful detailing on your dress – if your dress has lots of embellishments, stick to a simple bouquet.

The colour of your dress is also an important element. Your florist can recommend which bloom works best for the colour of your dress and that of your bridesmaid, whether it’s white, ivory or cream. For your bridesmaid’s bouquet, go for something which complements your own bouquet.

Also, keep your figure in mind. You will be carrying your bouquet in between your hips, and ideally, your bouquet should be around one inch in from your hip size. If the bouquet is too small, then your hips will look bigger. If you are on the petite side, then go for bouquets that will lengthen your silhouette, such as teardrop-shaped bouquets. If you are full figured, then cascades will help you look slimmer.

Since this is your wedding, give your bouquet a personal touch by choosing flowers which might have a personal meaning to you. You can, for instance, choose flowers which remind you of your first date with your husband. Also, if you have a family heirloom such as an antique brooch, ask your florist to add it to the bouquet.

You can also complement a bouquet with a nosegay, arm sheaf, floral headband or flower bracelet. Of course, keep a balanced look – going overboard with flowers will make you look like a walking arrangement.

Petal power

Anemone: Expectations.
Calla Lily: Magnificent beauty.
Carnation: Pink represents bold­ness, white indicates talent and red symbolises love. Yellow, however, means disdain.
Chrysanthemum: Wealth, truth and abundance.
Delphinium: Swiftness and lightness.
Freesia: Innocence.
Gardenia: Purity and joy.
Iris: Faith and wisdom.
Lily: Majesty and truth.
Magnolia: A love of nature.
Larkspur: Infidelity.
Lavender: Distrust.
Orchid: Love and beauty.
Rose: Love, joy and beauty. Avoid yellow as this symbolises jealousy.
Stephanotis: Marital happiness.
Tulip: Love and passion.

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