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Gay couple threatened to have legs chopped off by Greek waiter in Birmingham

The Daily Mail photo of Markus and Steven.

The Daily Mail photo of Markus and Steven.

A Maltese man and his husband faced a tirade of abuse at a Greek restaurant in Birmingham when they complained about their meal, according to a report on the online Daily Mail.

Markus Busuttil, 28, and Steven, 24, were celebrating their wedding anniversary when the waiter allegedly launched a tirade telling the couple they were “an embarrassment to the world”.

Mr Busuttil, a PhD student, claimed the waiter also told them: “We don’t like people like you in Greece. We cut off your legs. Your mum is a s***. I will f****** kill you...”

The student, who met Steven five years ago while studying in Wales, said that after 15 minutes of “terror” when they returned their dried up and salty main courses, the waiter started to claim the couple attacked him, so he secretly recorded the banter on the phone.

“We love how open and friendly and multicultural this city is and that is why we think this kind of behaviour should be exposed,” Mr Busuttil told the Daily Mail.

The newspaper also reported that the West Midlands police were investigating the incident as a possible hate crime.

 

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Mr Joseph Carmel Chetcuti

Nov 11th 2012, 23:10

Falzon, throwing insults is no way to win an argument. It is a sign of desperation. If I am wearing blikers, what on earth are you wearing. I am not interested in what loving partners call themselves although and as I have already stated, ad nauseam, I do not like the titles husband and wife.

Mr Joseph Carmel Chetcuti

Nov 11th 2012, 23:13

Most married heterosexuals in Australia introduce their spouses by their names not by the nature of their relationship to the speaker as if they were their property. Nor am I that concerned about marriage, a patriarchal institution that imposes gender roles. However I do concede that gay marriage is the quickest way to secure (some) rights for (some) gay men and lesbians.

Mr Joseph Carmel Chetcuti

Nov 11th 2012, 23:15

What you reiterate is irrelevant to any person living in this secular world. It is equally clear you wouldn't recognise nature or logic if you fell over them.

Andy Farrugia

Nov 10th 2012, 19:56

Continue to drivel, Xuereb: point is that perverting language and words and meanings, and repeating these perversions over and over again ain't gonna make them any more plausible. Period.

Mr Joseph Carmel Chetcuti

Nov 11th 2012, 03:01

Are you suggesting this gay couple should not have behaved like a couple but like your boring gay friends.

Steve Pace

Nov 10th 2012, 15:49

Socrates may have said whatever he said about purity of love, however there have other more significant philosophers more recently who have stated otherwise...

and how about changing your statementt "All who are "straight" should remember that gays were born from a heterosexual union" to read something like "All who are "gay" should remember that they were born from a heterosexual union.

Joe Brincat-LL.D

Nov 10th 2012, 20:08

@Steve Pace. I quoted Socrates because he was definitely Greek, same as the waiter in the story. It does not mean that I endorse the conclusions of Socrates, as much as I do not endorse the behaviour of the Greek waiter.
Your second part- both are equally true and equipollent

Andy Farrugia

Nov 10th 2012, 15:37

Repeating myths will not make them any more believable: even in countries where same -sex marriage is allowed, the term is "spouse". You cannot pervert language and meaning. Period.

Matthew Vella

Nov 10th 2012, 17:12

Theres nothing mind boggling about it..... Two men who are married are husband and husband. Case closed. Its very simple, although naturally some individuals can be a little slow so it has to be spelled out for them.

Alfred Falzon

Nov 10th 2012, 20:45

@Matthew Vella

How clever!

So now, according to you, what is upside down is right side up!

You need to stand on your head to see things clearly and jump to conclusions!

Alfred A. Falzon

Mr Joseph Carmel Chetcuti

Nov 11th 2012, 08:12

Alfred, it appears you were already standing on your head, so it should not be difficult to continue to do so.

Mr Joseph Carmel Chetcuti

Nov 10th 2012, 12:15

David, AD is not the only party that stands for gay rights. Gay marriage is a part, indeed a small part of the gay rights agenda. It affects only a few. So let's get things 'straight' for a change. I am getting somewhat tired of members of AD parading themselves as the only friends of gay men and lesbians. The PL has an excellent agenda too! It is time AD starts to co-operate with the PL.

Mr Joseph Carmel Chetcuti

Nov 10th 2012, 01:37

I have to say that as a gay activist of 40 years this year, I find this mimicking of heterosexuals and their relationships somewhat disturbing. Whatever happened to our struggle for liberation - from patriarchal institutions and gender roles? We now have a breed of gay and lesbian conformists. I think the use of such terms trivialises our struggle for liberation.

S. Calleja

Nov 10th 2012, 06:35

It only sounds laughable to people who live in a cocoon and never lived outside a 27km rock.

Kenneth Grima

Nov 10th 2012, 07:21

Hilarious is how you had the courage to write it Mr.G.Cremona. Both are husbands because both are man so they are each other husbands. The same if they were 2 women, they would be wives each other wifes. Don't be sarcastic with something that you mind doesn't understand.

sue vella

Nov 10th 2012, 07:44

You gave us an example of "tizloq fin-niexef" at the end of your comment...you were faring well before that.

Patrick Jansen

Nov 10th 2012, 08:19

Why is it so hilarious? Yes, they are husband and husband.

joanne pace

Nov 10th 2012, 08:25

Try and work it out Mr. Cremona

Mr Joseph Carmel Chetcuti

Nov 10th 2012, 01:33

Sadly no! Sodom and Gomorrah is in your mind.

Kevin Mifsud

Nov 10th 2012, 05:54

thats the road,we re heading..you re spot on...

Mark Edward Mifsud

Nov 10th 2012, 08:20

Its seems you know well the place ... how was it ?

Franco Farrugia

Nov 10th 2012, 08:57

Still there?

Alfred Vassallo

Nov 10th 2012, 09:23

I will put it in an other way....Sodom and Gomorrah is being given a free reign......'A Maltese Man and his husband' Boqq...I guess one can say that they are re-writing history in a receding way.

Mr Joseph Carmel Chetcuti

Nov 11th 2012, 23:16

In the 1970s I proudly wore a badge that read: Sodom today, gomorrah tomorrow!

James Dewar

Nov 9th 2012, 22:58

Claudio, I don't think that it is a question of "haters" or of people being afraid but it is very very difficult for a great many people in society to get their heads round gay relationships and gay marriage. It is unrealistic to expect the majority to agree with or embrace the concept but live and let live and tolerance are required. However your stated dislike of woment smacks of intolerance.

Mr Joseph Carmel Chetcuti

Nov 10th 2012, 01:32

Claudio, gays are no more good hearted (and artistic) than heterosexuals. Let's stop stereotyping ourselves.

jason cassar

Nov 10th 2012, 06:36

Dear Claudio Despite decades of prevention efforts, HIV continues to increase among young gay men in urban areas, and most of these men are unaware they are infected, according to new data from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention Worldwide .
So now its a fact why the world is a mess !!

Steve Pace

Nov 10th 2012, 07:59

Option 1
gays are more of a good hearted people than the most of you haters

Option 2
is this what God wanted? No!, he wants love

decide !

Mark Edward Mifsud

Nov 10th 2012, 08:19

And many married men who claim to be straight have affairs with other gay men .... what is the big deal?

S. Calleja

Nov 10th 2012, 06:32

Of course. Like marries like.

Edward Mallia

Nov 10th 2012, 07:21

Provided he is your hunting dog, I don't suppose you would think twice about it. However, most of us do rate a human being of whatever "sexual orientation" above dogs in our scale of values. You may recollect the old evaluation:... 'and you are worth much more than the birds'. Statistically, there would have been some 'gays' in that audience.

Mark Edward Mifsud

Nov 10th 2012, 08:17

Yeas sure animals marry animals and gay men marry other gay men

Robert Balzan

Nov 10th 2012, 09:17

Go right ahead, affects me in no way ... Wishing the both of you a life time of happiness :)

Matthew Grima

Nov 10th 2012, 15:43

Is the dog able to give you consent?

Matthew Vella

Nov 10th 2012, 16:56

Why not? You're the same species.

Matthew Vella

Nov 9th 2012, 19:01

How idiotic! As if what the man was doing was simply "having an opinion". I hope the waiter was fired.

Lee Micallef

Nov 12th 2012, 12:11

No Matthew i wasnt talking about the waiter i was talking about the comments people post on here !

Mr C Galea

Nov 9th 2012, 17:09

its on its way thanks to P L

Mr Edward Caruana Galizia

Nov 9th 2012, 19:50

No it's not. The PL are not in favour of it.

Mr Joseph Carmel Chetcuti

Nov 9th 2012, 21:44

Edward, unlike the PN, the PL favours civil unions. There are gay men and lesbians - some of whom have a long history of activism - who are dead set against marriage. You would be well aware that civil unions are usually a prelude to marraige. It is all all about evolution, not revolution. Just tell us what the PN has done in government? The last bill is just a cynical ploy.

Kenneth Grima

Nov 10th 2012, 07:41

@ Mr. Edward Caruana Galizia

Yes the PL are in favour of Civil Unions and I am a person that never voted for the PL but that is the truth and one has to accept it for gay people what the PL is offering is far more better, I would like to say otherwise but that is the truth.

Mr Edward Caruana Galizia

Nov 11th 2012, 02:14

No the PL is not in favour of same sex marriage. Neither is it in favour of same sex couples adopting. The closest they have come to it is saying that they would be only if it is in the interest of the children, which means they can then commission a report saying it doesn't ( which would be a total lie anyway) and leave the gay community hanging.

Mr Joseph Carmel Chetcuti

Nov 11th 2012, 23:23

Edward, you are no international law expert. The PN's and PL's policy with respect to the adoption of children is governed by international law as Malta is a signatory to the UN Convention of the Rights of the Child. The best interests prevail on each and every occasion and that applies to biolgical parents.

Mr Joseph Carmel Chetcuti

Nov 11th 2012, 23:26

Edward, in Australian courts, no one has a right with respect to children. Parents, biological and others, have duties and obligations, NOT rights. The difference between the PN and the PL is that with the PN there is an a priori assumption that it is not in the interest of children to be with gay parents. That is not shared by the PL.

Mr Joseph Carmel Chetcuti

Nov 11th 2012, 23:28

If AD were to be the governing party, it too would be required to comply with Malta's international obligations. The claim by Said that the best interests of children is the PN's policy is absolute nonsense. It is and must be the policy of all three parties.

Ms Kimberly-Jo Fenech

Nov 9th 2012, 16:34

Yes his husband. In what way is that personally affecting you?

R Saliba

Nov 9th 2012, 16:45

It seems that there are a few people who still have the closed minded mentality of the 1800s.

What is so wrong about that statement? If they are happy then we should be happy for them - they are human beings like your self who wish to have a normal life - which is very difficult due to people like you.

What would you do if someone close to you annouced that they love someone of the same sex?

Mark Anthony Fenech

Nov 9th 2012, 16:56

This world is slowly coming to a better place of acceptance and equality.

A Sciberras

Nov 9th 2012, 17:04

the world is becoming such a messy place to live in because everyone tries to mess with other peoples choice of how to live their life... yes they had every right to celebrate their anniversary and if what bothers you is the fact that they are man and husband.. you should consider your life priorities.. because what bothers me is the stupidity of the waiter.

Joseph Sammut

Nov 9th 2012, 21:33

@ Ms Kimberly-Jo Fenech: a man and his husband/a woman and her wife - tad-dahk. A man and his wife/a woman and her husband - now that's naturally pleasant!

Ms Kimberly-Jo Fenech

Nov 10th 2012, 08:05

@ Joseph Sammut

Says who?

Mark Edward Mifsud

Nov 10th 2012, 08:16

....a better place :)

Mr Vicente Yuste

Nov 10th 2012, 09:41


husband (ˈhʌzbənd)

— n
1. a woman's partner in marriage
2. archaic
a. a manager of an estate
b. a frugal person

Ms Kimberly-Jo Fenech

Nov 10th 2012, 10:52

hus·band (hzbnd)
n.

1. A man joined to a another person in marriage; a male spouse.
2. Chiefly British A manager or steward, as of a household.
3. Archaic A prudent, thrifty manager.
tr.v. hus·band·ed, hus·band·ing, hus·bands
1. To use sparingly or economically; conserve: husband one's energy.
2. Archaic To find a husband for.

Mr Joseph Carmel Chetcuti

Nov 9th 2012, 21:38

Who cares what you think Pierre.

James Dewar

Nov 9th 2012, 23:01

@ Joseph Carmel Chetcuti: I don't think Pierre is alone in his thoughts.

Matthew Pace

Nov 9th 2012, 23:35

You are right Pierre, man and his husband how daft!

J J Lautier

Nov 10th 2012, 00:29

your opinion is of no importance, they are legally married END OF

Joseph Aquilina

Nov 10th 2012, 01:26

@joseph, yours is a typical reply from a liberal which shows disrespect at others... prosit.

Mark Edward Mifsud

Nov 10th 2012, 08:16

What difference it makes to you ???

Mr Joseph Carmel Chetcuti

Nov 10th 2012, 10:47

Matthew, I am sure you are right. If that is also your opinion, who cares about yours?

Matthew Grima

Nov 10th 2012, 15:46

Mr Joseph Carmel Chetcuti: "Who cares what you think Pierre."

Although I agree with gay marriage, well it's more of lack of disagreement and big amount of not bothering as it doesn't affect me.

This kind of reply doesn't help your cause at all.

Mr Joseph Carmel Chetcuti

Nov 11th 2012, 09:49

Matthew, it is not MY cause. I do not own the gay and lesbian movement. It is everyone's cause and that includes self-respecting heterosexuals.

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