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Mother seeks Presidential pardon

The mother who was jailed for three months for not giving her husband access to their teenage son has asked for a Presiden-tial Pardon.

The 57-year-old woman wrote a letter, through her lawyer Ludwig Caruana, to President George Abela asking him to issue a pardon as allowed in the Constitution of Malta.

A spokeswoman for the President’s office said he had received the letter and had forwarded it to Justice Minister Chris Said “for his consideration and advice”.

A petition asking for a pardon to be granted is also being circulated and will be presented to the President within the next few days.

The Constitution gives the President the power to “grant to any person concerned in or convicted of any offence a pardon”. The request for the pardon first goes to the Justice Minister and is then referred to Cabinet that advises the President whether or not he should grant it.

Moviment Graffitti is also circulating a petition requesting a Presidential Pardon for the woman. Mary Grace Vella, from the movement, said the petition may be put online over the next few days.

Two weeks ago the appeals court confirmed a magistrate’s decision to sentence the mother to three months’ imprisonment for refusing to grant her ex-husband access to their son on 13 occasions.

Her son, who was 16 at the time, has told The Sunday Times that his mother never told him not to visit his father and he called on the courts to listen to children. He felt his mother did not deserve to be given the harshest punishment allowed by law in such cases.

His father disagreed, telling The Times that his ex-wife deserved what she got as she kept refusing him access to his son out of revenge.

Throughout the court case the mother insisted that she never told her son not to spend time with his father. He was old enough to decide and she did not push him when he did not want to go.

Speaking to The Times from prison on Wednesday – 15 days into her jail term – she said: “I never poisoned my son against his father – I didn’t say good things but neither did I say anything bad.”

On Wednesday night Moviment Graffitti held a vigil outside the prison in Paola to show solidarity with the woman.

Those who attended called for a pardon and urged the Government not to fire the woman, a teacher at a state school, once she gets out of prison.

Questions were sent to the Education Ministry on this point but the reply was that the issue fell under the Public Service Commission. The Times is waiting for replies from the Commission.

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Sandra Pace

Oct 12th 2012, 20:40

The law only takes judgement on not what is fair, right or wrong. But on alleged reports and evidence. If the mother has not gone to report each time he did not show up for vistation hence he can still go to the police and report access was blocked. A police report whether true or not holds more strenght in court. Winning in court is all based on how meticulous you follow the decree.

david debattista

Oct 13th 2012, 08:21

Sandra Pace , Give us a break ! You have no right to make such a statement since we all know that the court
sad to say is a mess , we all know it ! Question is, who is going to do the hard work and get the MALTA COURT IN ORDER , then Sandra Pace we might listen to what you have to say ! FACTS Sandra FACTS !
No disrespect what so ever ., just another concerned citizen that is all .

Doreen Camilleri

Oct 12th 2012, 15:09

Had the child in question been a baby, toddler or young child i might agree with you...but try forcing a 16yr old to do anything s/he doesn't want to!!!! It has nothing to do with gender equality or inequality.

Patrick Camilleri

Oct 12th 2012, 13:56

Oh grow up ..... "she denied him access" ....? do you really believe a parent can stop a 16 year old from seeing his father if that's what he wanted to do?


Malcolm Mizzi

Oct 12th 2012, 14:50

to her to decide. We have a judicial system for a reason, not just to serve as a facade to protect women's rights ignoring those of men.

Mr John Borg

Oct 12th 2012, 15:17

@ Patrick Camilleri

Of course she can stop at 16 year old from doing so. If she doesn't drop him off at the father, he has no other option than to walk it there with Arriva's horrible service . Lol

Sandra Pace

Oct 12th 2012, 20:44

I do not agree, irrespective if women or men who has custodial residence of the kids is always to blame cause it is convenient. The system has many loopholes and this is one of them. A visiting parents needs to create the bondage with their kids, yet if they go about this the wrong way and do things out of spite and hatred that parent will never acquire the love and respect of their kids.

twanny borg

Oct 12th 2012, 12:15

tajjeb inkunu nafu min huwa l-missier. dan biex il-gustizzja mhux biss issir imma tidher li qed issir. mhux hekk?

C Briffa

Oct 12th 2012, 12:19

Allura skond int ghax missier ma jhallas ghal manteniment dan ghandu jmur il-habs? Jew il-ligi hazina ghall-kullhadd jew tajba ghall-kullhadd!!!!
Jien ma naqbilx li la l-omm u anqas il-missier ma ghandhom immorru l-habs.

Diane Vella

Oct 12th 2012, 12:20

Mr Bajada,

Have you even considered the fact that the son did not wish to visit his father before writing this? ... "infested" ... oh come on!! Let's please hope that the court has not created any sort of precendant by sending this mother to court for having done nothing more than keep to her son's will at 16 years of age!!! the situation is totally hilarious!

Sandra Pace

Oct 12th 2012, 12:39

Mr Bajada, the woman never deprived the father of the child who is now almost an adult. She just didnt force her son to go when he did not feel like which I am convinced is not a crime in reality. The bondage issue is a responsibility the father has to adhere and build. The mother has no fault on this. If as a father he was not able to build a bondage with his son why should the mother be punished

david debattista

Oct 12th 2012, 13:02

Paul Bajada With all due respect; this is one situation which deserve proper study and reflection by specialized professionals . There is no room here for paranoia . We all know that both parents are of the utmost importance for a child's development as a functioning member of any society ! This situation has probably created a sense of guilt on the child, his mother is in Prison RELEASE HER

L Farrugia

Oct 12th 2012, 13:18

Sir, cant you realise how wrong you are? Respect has to be gained. Fathers have got to realise it is important to find time to be with their children and find time tolisten and help them.Most dads dont find the time for this and theyonly concentrate on their jobs till suddenly they realise the children have grown up and by then it is too late.Please dont insult us and keep mentioning money.

Sandra Pace

Oct 12th 2012, 12:44

I do not agree on this again Mr. Bajada. Had the mother forced her son to go just cause the father threatened to report would have done more irrepairable damage and could in turn when her son grows up, force this kind of trauma on his loved ones as he would have been taught that threatening, forcing and abusing is right. Children have rights too and should be respected !!

L Farrugia

Oct 12th 2012, 13:20

What goes around usuallycomes around MrBajjada and if the father was distant from his son, he is only reaping what he had sowed.

jane camillleri haber

Oct 12th 2012, 13:25

if children need both parents in the same quantity as you put it, his father should not never have left home in the first place. this country has become saturated with fatherless families for long enough. it is always the mothers who stick to their vows and love unconditionally. fathers who do not pay their child maintenance also have become the order of the day. these should be punished.

Sandra Pace

Oct 12th 2012, 12:48

Well said !!! This surely shows no bondage ever existed with the son, as had he had some decency he could have met him on other occassions which would not have effected his studies like for instance driving him to/from school would have been an option. That way he could have spent time with his dad and used his time more efficiently. But only a thoughtful parent would come to think of such ideas!

jane camillleri haber

Oct 12th 2012, 13:30

how many men are in prison for an identical offense. may i ask?

Mark Anthony Fenech

Oct 12th 2012, 11:23

If he doesn't want to see his father then what?

jane camillleri haber

Oct 12th 2012, 13:39

this is no way to solve the problem. i think it is now too late. since the father decided to take such measures ( even though the court grants him the right to take them) only succeded in distancing his son from him forever, more and more if this poor woman, who's son is a man of 18 next month ends up without a job and his son will have to forfieth university

L. Thomas

Oct 12th 2012, 10:37

This is very true indeed. However, probably not in Malta only.

L Farrugia

Oct 12th 2012, 13:35

Pls dont generalise, why is it that most of the time its the fathers that abandon the family and very easily find replacements? Children need both parents and it isnt all mums or dads who turn children against the other parent. Its the hurt parents cause theirchildren that effects them throughout their life andchildren,whatever age, never forget when one of the parentshurts the other.

J. Debono

Oct 12th 2012, 11:45

Innocent? Says who?

The court found her guilty. Who are you, and in what capacity are you declaring her Innocent?

M Mifsud

Oct 12th 2012, 10:04

I agree with you and I doubt that the son will gladly visit his father and respect him after all this! Sometimes, the people we regard as family are not always our next of kin, but are persons that genuinely showed us love and respect, regardless of whether they share our DNA or not.

twanny borg

Oct 12th 2012, 08:16

dan kaz kompletament differenti.

Mark Anthony Ferris

Oct 12th 2012, 09:07

id-digriti qedin hemm biex jigu osservati ! Piena ta habs zejda f'dan il kas...l-ahjar multa tajba u tara kif kullhadd jaqta dan l-abbuz.

Brian Gatt

Oct 12th 2012, 09:28

I agree Mario, Jien nahseb li dan huwa kas lampanti ta kif mara kienet kapaci iddawwar lill binha kontra missieru.

The law is there for everyone irrespective of the gender, I am sorry she broke the law and she pays. My heart goes out for the Kid because most probably he is blaming himself.

To the father if really your intentions are sincere and to just spite your ex-wife then good luck !!!

stephen koludrovic

Oct 12th 2012, 08:47

I don't think that wrong,.But then again this is just my opinion.

daniel muscat

Oct 12th 2012, 08:46

mhux il poplu kollu, le ta. jekk giet ikundanata trid thalas tghalli ghamlet. mela kulhadd jista jitlob skuza u jitlaq il barra.

Joe aquilina

Oct 12th 2012, 09:05

tkelem alik habib titkelimx al poplu

twanny borg

Oct 12th 2012, 12:29

veru, innehhi xi ftit li t-tfal sahsbuhom gugarelli ifittxuhom meta jaqbel lillhom jew biex jivvendikaw min-naha l-ohra. kieku dan il-kaz ingust imur barra minn malta jidhqu u jitkazaw bina. wara kollox mela ta' 17-il sena tifel? halluna!!

May Cassar

Oct 12th 2012, 09:20

Alimony and child support are paid so that the child has food, clothing etc. If the father does not pay his dues the child will suffer. The interest of the child should always be put first. The interest of the parents should come second, That is if the parent really and truly loves the child and not considers him, / her their property. Or a weapon to hurt the ex-partner.

Paul Bajada

Oct 12th 2012, 11:17

When a father is denied contact with his children, it is by far the other way round... i.e. the children are being denied a relationship with their father which they need for their upbringing and their character formation as much as they need the mother.

Therefore, when one parent, denies contact between the alien parent and their child, then it is punishing the child primarily.

L Farrugia

Oct 12th 2012, 13:24

Wrong again. You were there tofather a child and it is your duty, by you i mean dads in general, to pay alimony. If you men have enough money to keep your girlfriends happy,you should in duty be bound to support your children and so say all of us.

J Grima

Oct 12th 2012, 10:13

The child is without a mother she has done nothing illegal. Call up all the fathers who do not appear in court!

Maria Camilleri

Oct 12th 2012, 11:40

Indeed! But a 16 year old should have a right not to see his father if he does not want to do so. Why punish the mother? If one of my parents pressed charges against my other parent because I, out of MY OWN FREE WILL refused to go and see him/her, that parent would probably never see me again once I reached 18 and the court order was automatically lifted.

Joe aquilina

Oct 12th 2012, 09:06

nice

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