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Children are in fear of hell

‘Focus should be that Jesus is a friend’

Children preparing for their First Holy Communion are faced with irrational fears. Right: Psychiatrist Anton Grech. Photo: Matthew Mirabelli

Children preparing for their First Holy Communion are faced with irrational fears. Right: Psychiatrist Anton Grech. Photo: Matthew Mirabelli

Children preparing to receive their First Holy Communion are being afflicted with irrational fears of hell and becoming psychologically scarred in the process, according to a leading psychiatrist.

Anton Grech, head of psychiatry at Mount Carmel Hospital, said that in his private practice he often encountered children with obsessive behaviour towards religion.

“At around this time of year, in the run-up to Holy Communion, I always get to see several six-year-olds who have irrational fears of hell or of dying,” he said.

Although Dr Grech specified he had not yet carried out any scientific research, he had been observing this “worrying” pattern over the years.

Children spend a year attending extra religion lessons outside school in preparation for their sacrament of Holy Communion, when the children receive the Eucharist for the first time. It is also the time when they face their first confession.

Dr Grech said children he saw at his clinic had “a fear of sinning lest they end up burning for eternity”.

He said that at this tender age children only knew how to think “concretely” – if they kicked a car, they believed the car would be hurt.

“So it’s certainly not the right age to introduce the concept of hell,” he cautioned.

Every year, around this time, about 4,000 children are prepared for their Holy Communion.

Approximately half of them attend MUSEUM catechism for about two hours a week. Others attend lessons organised by parishes or schools.

However, Tonio Caruana, MUSEUM general executive president, said nowadays, catechism was more about storytelling and activities through play.

He said the main focus on Holy Communion preparation and confession was “that Jesus is our friend”.

“We do not introduce abstract concepts such as hell or punishments – at the age of six children cannot understand such things,” he said, adding that MUSEUM catechists had weekly in-house training, not just on how to impart the faith but also on how to teach it.

The problem was the Maltese culture and religious ignorance, Mr Caruana said, concurring that he often came across children who were still exposed to antiquated teachings from their families.

MUSEUM general secretary Joe Galea said: “How often do we hear children being threatened with, ‘If you’re naughty, you won’t go to heaven!’ – and not just from elderly grandmothers. There is a lot of ignorance among young couples.”

Children who harbour such fears suffer from a form of obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD), a very common form of anxiety disorder.

According to Dr Grech, patients with OCD in Malta exhibit a lot of religious obsessions.

“In Malta religion is part of the national psyche and any mental illness has to be put in the context of where someone lives.”

He said he saw at least three adult clients a week with religion-related problems, namely anxiety about sinning, coveting, and excessive scruples: he never came across anything of the sort in his long years of practice in London.

“The concept of religiosity in the Maltese is very strong and we are very much influenced by religion,” he said, citing examples of people who panicked if they did not manage to go to confession twice a day.

According to Dr Grech, the concept of confession was psychologically healthy because regrets carried a lot of anxiety and tension, so having someone forgiving you was good. However, it was a different matter for children.

“The focus – especially for children – should not be on what is a sin or not but on what is good and how to make life better,” he said.

“There should be more emphasis on the joyful aspect of religion.”

Dr Grech said one way of curbing religious-related fear in children was to do away with the “scruples” mentality and to stop exalting perfectionism.

Parents should be on the lookout for obsessive behaviour. He recommended speaking with teachers and not putting undue emphasis on religion.

Usually professional help came in the form of cognitive therapy, which teaches children to control thoughts through pictures and paintings. “They learn that it’s OK to say stop to their irrational fears,” said Dr Grech.

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Victor Pulis

Jun 11th 2012, 22:56

Where is it written that the kings, (They were not three and not kings) took three years to reach the house? Where is it written that after three days Joseph returned to Nazareth? Please indicate the chapter in Luke.
I am willing to learn.

Victor Pulis

Jun 12th 2012, 07:36

A. f Ellul can you please point out to me where in St. Luke's gospel do you find what you are claiming regarding the three days? The Luke gospel doesn't even mention the three kings. Where did you read that it took them three years to reach Jesus?None of the gospels mention the three years and Mark and John don't even mention the birth of Jesus. That's half the evangelists!
I think I'm not the one who needs to review my Bible.

Mike Abbot

Jun 11th 2012, 21:48

Ignorance is in fact the prime problem that teaching is supposed to overcome.

Jonathan Camilleri

Jun 11th 2012, 17:27

You clearly described the problem highlighted by Dr. Grech. Maltese are driven into fear since young and tender age. I am no psychiatrist, however, an extreme form of fear, is called, in medical terms, paranoia.

Paranoia can drive people to carry out criminal acts, make excessive use of illicit drugs as a form of escapism from the frustration, and, live a generally unhealthy life.

Eric Cartman

Jun 11th 2012, 11:03

it's hilarious and true at the same time

Mike Hunt

Jun 11th 2012, 12:11

Oh my ... at 18 I was chasing girls not teaching fairy tales to little boys

Roberto D'Amato

Jun 11th 2012, 13:04

dik qatt ma tista ssir, ghax ahna nitwahhlu mal-passat u nippuntaw subajan mill-ewwel lejn dak ligara minghajr ma nkunu nafu x'gara ezatt!!!

Osmar Baldacchino

Jun 11th 2012, 13:25

First of all bear in mind that if these for YOU are fairytales it doesn't mean that they are fairytales- maybe at the age of 18 you had to learn the definition of the word RESPECT or PLURALISM???

Roberto D'Amato

Jun 12th 2012, 14:59

mike hunt, kulhadd jaghzel it-triq tieghu, jien ghandi 17-il sena u wkoll nghallem il-Muzew. ma fiha xejn hazin ghax meta tizzewweg u jkollok it-tfal u tkun tridhom jiehdu l-ewwel tqarbina hemm ha tibghathom.... u jekk tahseb li dawk huma fairytales mela ghadek ma fhitmx ezatt x'inhi fairytale!!

j Vella

Jun 11th 2012, 10:10

I wish to arrange some misunderstanding here pls, I agreed with the comment of Mr Mr. C. Camilleri ......why isn't it included with these comments, why was it removed?....I totally do not agree with Dr Grech focusing on RELIGION, unfortunately children with OCD become obsessed with many things such as being scared of blood or types of food,etc.

Victor Pulis

Jun 11th 2012, 13:42

Mr Ellul sorry to say this but your bible is all muddled up! Let's start. Where did you read that after 3 days Joseph went back to Nazareth? If they were living in Nazareth when Herod ordered the massacre of the babies in Bethlehem why did they run away to Egypt (another invented episode) The three kings. Who in his right mind would go to the king of Judaea asking for a new born king? The three kings who were not kings neither were they three in number and a big question mark if they really existed.

Re the killing of Hebrew children in Egypt
!Exodus 1 ;22 Then Pharaoh gave this order to all his people: “Every Hebrew boy that is born you must throw into the Nile, but let every girl live.” That is why Moses was placed in the Nile while still a baby.

Karl Consiglio

Jun 10th 2012, 23:25

Spot on Roger, well said!

C Briffa

Jun 11th 2012, 05:51

Roger you are shocked......miskin. So you can argue what you want and if someone else do the same like you that it it irritates you? come on!!
Just put in the picture if Dr Grech said that he is getting a lot of student suffering from OCD because they attend private lessons, than I could assure you that that a lot of teachers would have wrote and showed their views.
Come on Roger!!!
Yes In the religion clases Jesus is being portrayed as their friend but than the truth is the hell also exists. When you are upbringing a child you must teach him not to touch fire or not to play with knives beacuse we all know that at their age they could be hurt so accoriding to you and Dr. Grech we should not teach them these things?
Its like teaching Maltese language and in order to make the students love the language the teachers do not explain the grammer rules so that the students will love the language
(sorry for using the teachers as an example because I now they do an excellent job)
Some cases will always exist in all spheres of life but today it is cool to attack the Catholic Church

Roger Tirazona

Jun 11th 2012, 10:45

"Just put in the picture if Dr Grech said that he is getting a lot of student suffering from OCD because they attend private lessons," -- but they do not suffer from OCD from schooling... OCD can be triggered by mental abuse. So yes I am shocked that people are trying to defend the indefensible.

I have already commented on Another post below why it is an abuse to label children with a religious denomination while they are still too young. We would not dream of labelling a 3 year old, a communist child, a nationalist child, a socialist democrat child... Yet we are happily inflicting on them a religious denomination since birth and segregating them from each other on the basis of this imposed religion.

It has nothing to do with coolness, let alone with the catholic church. Indoctrination in many forms is done with children in any religion and even in political ideologies.

Religion does not teach children not to play with knives or with fire. It is teaching them they were created sick and ordered to be well, it teaches them they are essentially evil and have no way to salvation unless they follow one single book and one single institution. It teaches them that should they hold these beliefs, they are the ones who are right and all others wrong. It teaches them how to be slaves and to be glad about it; to love that which they fear; to love that which does not even allow them to think freely or they would be convicted of thought crime, to love a celestial dictator that wants to make them live in a celestial north Korea. Religion, any religion, is a totalitarian rule over our children and adults.

C Briffa

Jun 10th 2012, 19:06

You just explained how a court works!!!!!! another joke someone gets in your house and take all you valuables he is then caught by the police he gets a good lawyer and he is set free. Since justice found him not guilty he can keep your valuables. So that is fair!!! This is also food for thought

Victor Pulis

Jun 10th 2012, 18:54

Mr. DÁmato it was the children at fatima who said they saw souls descending into lakes of fire.And some here have quoted this vision and said that it came from The virgin Mary. Is it perhaps time to review these so called visions? Don't blame the parents because that's how they were indoctrinated. I also remember the picture with a man in bed and about six devils pulling at his bed sheets trying to drag him to hell. Why was it good for me but not for today's children? When I was young they used to tell us not to bite the communion wafer because it would bleed. Then when during mass we used to see and hear the priest biting and crunching the wafer and no blood came out we started wondering.Maybe that was the first sign that something was wrong.

Mike Hunt

Jun 10th 2012, 17:51

I still remember that day the monk I went to confession to told me that masturbation was a heinous dirty act that offends god and that it's like dumping a truckload of rubbish right in the middle of an immaculately clean living room. How old were I ... 12? The guilt, the shame, ...

Ramon Casha

Jun 10th 2012, 17:13

"Since the Warning was originally to occur in 1972...."

Doesn't that already tell you something? At the end of this year all those promoting these ramblings of a lunatic will again have to eat their words.

Victor Pulis

Jun 10th 2012, 17:21

Alright! Everybody start praying maybe we can get a prayer delay to last 5 million years! Oh good heavens give me a break!

c p agius

Jun 10th 2012, 18:05

It is not a fact that King Herod kill all boys under the age of two....This incident is a legend and lacks historical relevance....

Victor Pulis

Jun 10th 2012, 19:00

The killing of the innocents didn't really take place. it was a made up story to reflect the old testament story of pharaoh killing the Hebrew male children in Egypt. What is true is that Herod killed hs own sons. There is also great doubt if Jesus was actually born in Bethlehem. He may have been born in Nazareth.

Dr. David Pollina

Jun 10th 2012, 19:54

Dear Lawrence,

Can you tell us if Elvis will be coming back too??

Karl Consiglio

Jun 10th 2012, 20:33

Delusions of grandeur

david debattista

Jun 11th 2012, 00:55

Keep it simple . We need proof not a theory Mr Genovese! If God wants to save us his children, then we need some practical examples and not a story written over 2000 years ago by some people in a cave ! The Lady should make an appearance for all to see, and seen by all , not just one particular person ! Most of us want to end up with our love once after this life and yes in heaven, but religion does seem to be making a very bad job! We need a return of Christ to direct us poor humans on the right road ! No I am not trying to be funny . We live in a world and at a time much worst then Sodom and Gomorrah. Look around you and see the human condition , those that abuse and those that are being abused in all its ghastly forms .

Dr. David Pollina

Jun 10th 2012, 19:56

Which prophets? Not the Jewish ones - "YHWH sits on the sphere of His creation"...

david debattista

Jun 10th 2012, 23:50

Every other religion has its own bible ! Are they all a lie !

Eric Soames

Jun 10th 2012, 17:19

Mary, good comment.

Roger Tirazona

Jun 10th 2012, 23:35

Instead of being good to be rewarded with heaven as little children are rewarded with Xmas presents, we should be good so that we can make THIS place, the real world a heaven. We are capable of doing so; instead we worry more about the one that's after we die...which... most probably isn't there.

Victor Pulis

Jun 10th 2012, 16:31

Naqbel mieghek mija fil mija!

Karl Consiglio

Jun 10th 2012, 16:43

Kif qeghda?

Mr D Galea

Jun 10th 2012, 17:10

Ftakar li meta kont tifel int il-mentalita kienet totalment differenti. Illum il-gurnata fl-ebda post tat-taghlim nisrani ma ghad hemm din il-mentalita seras rasek. forsi l-mentalita li "jekk toqoghd imqareb tmur l-infern" li qed taghmel tant hsara.

Giov DeMartino

Jun 10th 2012, 17:51

Mr Azzoppardi: What was the real intention of those who told you so? Remember when we frightened our children with the bellija in the well? We were lying, what what was our intention?

Giov DeMartino

Jun 11th 2012, 06:29

Can't you answer my simple question, Mr Azzoppardi?

Ramon Casha

Jun 10th 2012, 14:38

Sounds fascinating. When will this film be released?

Victor Pulis

Jun 10th 2012, 14:40

Of all the 'evil' rligions maria had to mention Buddhism! Incredible! Buddhism is the most peaceful wise religion that exists. has maria ever read the teachings of Zen Buddhism? Does she know that teachings and stories from this religion are often used by catholic preists in their homilies?As for the rest of her comment what can one say to someone who believes that 600,000 demons are running around and a further 5 milion are on the way?!

Joseph Vassallo, (Bugibba)

Jun 10th 2012, 15:01

QUOTE: "Children do not ignore the battle for it is real." UNQUOTE

Didn't we hear something of this natuire about last year's referendum on the issue of whether or not Maltahould introduce divorce?

I seem to remember a certain Mr Zammit (who became known as Mr cut-and-paste) regaling us daily with the mantra "the battle is already won" and declaring hell to be the unenviable and unavoidable destination of those daring to be in favour of divorce. So what happened then?

And wasn't there supposed to be something terrible about to happen to Malta and Gozo (according to someone who has regular private audiences with the Holy Mother Mary somewhere in Gozo? What happened with that one?

This force-feeding of religion to minors of that age is brainwashing and has to be condemned. I agree with the learned Dr Grech that great harm is being caused to most children.

There are nicer things that can be taught about religion. Teaching these trusting innocents how to love a kind and loving God is much better than etching into their minds the idea that he will get His revenge by condemning them to the eternal fires of hell.

Hey, teacher! Leave those kids alone.

Chris Gatt

Jun 10th 2012, 15:03

Ah Nice to see that even the readers of The Sunday Times have learned the nefarious art of copy and paste: http://www.thewarningsecondcoming.com/600000-fallen-angels-were-released-last-year-from-the-pits-of-hell-a-further-5-million-have-now-been-released/

Mr l Azzopardi

Jun 10th 2012, 15:11

Hi Ramon...its been released already its called LEGION.

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1038686/

Francis Coquelin

Jun 10th 2012, 15:14

Excellent. Now go put the kettle on and have a nice cup of tea.

Roger Tirazona

Jun 10th 2012, 15:21

It's not Maria who said those words, her best friend Jesus did.

Joe Scerri

Jun 10th 2012, 15:22

Calling other religions false displays gross intolerance and pure bigotry.

R. Caruana

Jun 10th 2012, 15:23

The Buddha never declared himself a God silly, Jesus did! What a Rant! -_-

j dough

Jun 10th 2012, 15:45

so who exactly wrote this post? maria busuttil or Jesus??

Joe Galea

Jun 10th 2012, 15:48

Maria Busuttil minn ghawn ilkoll kemm ahna ser immorru dritt ghal go l-infern mihabba l-hazen ta haddiehor specjalment dawk li ma jriedux jemmnu.Tinsiex x'gara meta alla gharraq id-dinja kollha, u mal-hazin wehel it-tajjeb.Dak inhar alla spicca baghat lil kulhadd l-infern, minbarra lil Noe u lil familja tieghu.Ma ninsewx li l-membri ta din l-istess familja kellhom bicca xoghol iebsa biex jaghtu l-kontribut taghhom u jaghmlu l-atti ta ncest bejniethom biex jergghu jkattru l-popolazjoni fid-dinja.
Hemm miktub ukoll li dawk li ghamlu minn kollox biex jilluminaw lil-ohrajn hemm cans kbir li jitilfu ruhhom ghax ma jkunux ghamlu hilithom bizejjed.Dawk il hames miljun u sitt mitt elf xitan zgur li mhux ser ikunu hargu ghalxejn.Maria hemm bzonn ta aktar talb fit-tul u li tikkonverti aktar nies.

Victor Pulis

Jun 10th 2012, 16:03

Tinsiex x'gara meta alla gharraq id-dinja kollha, u mal-hazin wehel it-tajjeb.Dak inhar alla spicca baghat lil kulhadd l-infern, minbarra lil Noe u lil familja tieghu. Joe Galea

Joe mid dehra ghandek bzonn revision tal Genesi ghax alla ma qeridx lit tajjeb mal hazin meta gharraq id dinja (Dejjem skont il bbbja)Noe i l-familja kienu l-unici nies tajba fid dinja! L-ohrajn kollha hziena u ma marrux l-infernkif ghedt int ghax l-infern QATT ma ssemma fit testment l-antik indunajt?
maria kompli sejra hekk u dawk il miljuni ta' xjaten jistghu imorru lura l-infern ghax qed taghmillhom xoghlhom int!

Karl Consiglio

Jun 10th 2012, 16:45

Buddhism is not a religion, its a philosophy, the Buddha is not a god, the Buddha is the enlightened one.

Eric Soames

Jun 10th 2012, 17:17

Er, wow? Even merely scanning this monsta' contribution of course, who has time to read through something like this? The thought that it provoked was; half a million, five million demons - the only one that matters is the one in your head!

Victor Pulis

Jun 10th 2012, 14:55

Very convincing C Borg! And i bet the sun rises for us every morning. and the rainbow is there to delight us! And the flowers smell nice for our benefit too! Do I feel hopeless, void, lonely and sad? Well if C Borg says so then I am!

Chloe BORG

Jun 10th 2012, 18:49

Who is god ?

Anthony Galea

Jun 10th 2012, 14:39

Interesting, the Red Army was torturing Christian priests and sending them to camps while quoting those words at them. Now contrast those words to what Christ said

'A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another'.

Hope you're proud of yourself. I'm sure a Soviet soldier would tap you on the back after having butchered an Orthodox family :)

Joe Scerri

Jun 10th 2012, 15:20

@Anthony Galea
Just because I have quoted Karl Marx it does not mean I agree with communism, Red Army or anything else. But since you decided to jump to conclusions and judge others and mention things of the past, then I will do likewise. Have you conveniently forgotten the obscenities done in God's name by the inquisition and the crusaders and the Borgias?

Emma Xerri

Jun 10th 2012, 15:26

@Anthony Galea

The Red Army is not Karl Marx. Secondly, I can give you the same scenario x 100 over by the "Christian" Ustashi, Nazis and most of the Fascist Dictators that ever existed.

Anthony Galea

Jun 10th 2012, 16:15

The Red Army was created by the lovers of Marxism, Emma.

I used the Red Army's example because Joe quoted Karl Marx-I did not retaliate by a quote from the Ustase, but from the Gospel-what has the Ustase got to do with anything?!

Emma Xerri

Jun 10th 2012, 23:29

@Anthony Galea

The same way that the Inquisition was created by lovers of Christ?

Francis Coquelin

Jun 10th 2012, 15:15

Under Labour, the real hell was here in Malta.

Victor Pulis

Jun 10th 2012, 14:13

That is precisely the reason why hell and heaven were invented. Man could not swallow the truth that not all those who deserved punishment would get it. But that's the uncomfortable reality. In fact if a mass murderer repents one second before kicking the bucket all his sins will be forgiven and he'll spend some time in purgatory to cleans himself then off to heaven! is that justice?

Patrick Zammit

Jun 10th 2012, 14:15

If a serial killer has a last minute "conversion", he goes to heaven.

If a person who lived all his life in a correct way and sinned once without having time to repent whilst having a deadly heart attack, he goes to hell.

Where is the justice or indeed, the morality in that?

Anthony Galea

Jun 10th 2012, 14:41

I would definitely agree with you hands down, Patrick; however, that is NOT the teaching of the Church (it might be claimed in some Protestant sects like Westboro Baptist Church).

Victor Pulis

Jun 10th 2012, 14:58

We were taught that one single mortal (!) sin would send you to hell! I don't know if that's the case today. Perhaps they increased it to more than one now! I notice Anthony Galea chose not to answer my comment.

Anthony Galea

Jun 10th 2012, 16:18

I did not answer you, Victor, because you are mistaken. Nobody can ever say when, or if, anyone is going to hell or heaven. Therefore 'if a mass murderer repents one second before kicking the bucket all his sins will be forgiven and he'll spend some time in purgatory to cleans himself then off to heaven!'

isnt true, by any account. You are just saying that, not any church-that statement is simply untrue.

Victor Pulis

Jun 10th 2012, 17:31

But that's what the church teaches and no amount of denying will change that.You seem to be closing your eyes in the hope that these comments would go away. Let me repeat them. If a sinner repents his sins just before he dies his sins will be forgiven. That is church teachingI am not saying that ask any priest. You did not answer my other question. Is one mortal sin enough to condemn you to hell? That is also what the church teaches. That's why it's called mortal sin.

Patrick Zammit

Jun 10th 2012, 18:34

Anthony, that is exactly what I was thought. It is due to this and other nonsense that I can now see that religion is all superstition and there is no evidence to back all the fanciful stories we are told.

I Bugeja

Jun 10th 2012, 14:15

Did you baptise your son? Most probably you did because you think it is socially acceptable to do so. Let me hope you did not list him to be selected for a church school because if you did those freaks would dominate him!

What a farce, some people sling mud at others so that their own faults are not discussed!

I am not saying that the church is perfect or that the reasoning of the scriptures as interpreted by the Church is correct. However the people that I have met throughout my years in church schools amongst which nuns, fathers and lay people have been some of the nicest and well-intentioned.

Just don't use sweeping statements.

Emma Xerri

Jun 10th 2012, 15:34

@I Bugeja

Unfortunaely, social pressure is one of the biggest tools that the Church in Malta has on the people. The proof is that once they leave the island, few people bother to go to Church on Sundays, away from the prying eyes of the neighbours and parish priest.

For those that manage to resist social pressure to be a nominal Catholic in Malta and do 'their duty', I say "Prosit" and to others who are thinking about it, I say, what are you waiting for? Live your life as you deem fit.

Mr D Galea

Jun 10th 2012, 17:12

Tkun generali. Mhux kulhadd jaghmel hekk u apparti minn hekk jekk ir-religjon hija 99% tal-problemi li niltaqghu maghhom qed turini kemm ghadek ma fhimtx it-twemmin tieghek.

Steve Zammit

Jun 11th 2012, 13:50

99%????

from where did you get that figure wise guy??

Anthony Galea

Jun 10th 2012, 14:42

Christianophobic much?

Karl Consiglio

Jun 10th 2012, 14:48

Agreed!

Karl Consiglio

Jun 10th 2012, 14:49

Not just Christianity Anthony, all religions seem to be a problem.

Anthony Galea

Jun 10th 2012, 15:25

Ah, so Theophobic?

Karl Consiglio

Jun 10th 2012, 16:47

Thats better, yes so am I.

Anthony Galea

Jun 10th 2012, 22:21

So hating religions is supposed to make you superior somehow?

I suppost that if everyone were atheist all wars would end.

Oh no, I'm sure nobody would fight over economic interests, strategic interests, ethnic clashes, non-religious cultural clashes; oh no, eliminate religion, you have a peaceful society!

One problem; Malta has been a very religious nation, and has seen remarkably few wars in its history :)

Matthew Grima

Jun 16th 2012, 13:13

Anthony, don't be daft, "phobic" implies fear.

Being against religion is far from being afraid.

Malta have a few wars because it does not have the power to start a war. Have a look at Libya, Israel, Pakistan, Afghanistan, Iraq, and a lot more.

Like most religious people, rationality isn't your strong point.

anthony sultana

Jun 10th 2012, 14:01

hell is between your ears.

Victor Pulis

Jun 10th 2012, 14:04

Dak li halaqna skont il vangelu se jistqsina dawn l-affarijiet. Jekk tmajnix lil min kien bil guh. Jekk sqejnix lil min kien bil ghatx. Jekk libbisnix lill gharwin. Jekk zornix il marid u l-ikkalzrat. Dak se jistaqsi skont il vangelu. Biex taghmel dawn l-affarijiet m'hemmx bzonn temmen fil genna u l-infern. X'taghmel sur Aquilina jekk alla jistaqsik jekk ghamiltx dawn kollha ghax bzajt mill infern? Jekk jistaqsi lili (xi haga li ma nemminx li se jaghmel) nghidlu dawn ippruvajt naghmilhom mhux ghal premju jew ghax bzajt mill kastig imma ghax hekk hassejt li ghandi naghmel bhala bniedem iccivilizzat.

Karl Consiglio

Jun 10th 2012, 16:48

Pfff

Karl Consiglio

Jun 10th 2012, 13:09

Prove it!

Marton Saliba

Jun 10th 2012, 13:15

As much as you are right in terms of christian cathecesis, try to make 7 year old dimples understand that. They're just too young.

Victor Pulis

Jun 10th 2012, 13:41

What?! No flames fire and brimstone?! Then what did the children of Fatima see? They saw what they were taught to see.

david debattista

Jun 10th 2012, 13:58

What about all the killing of innocent people all over the world in the name of A RELIGION irrespective of what that religion might be ! People preaching religion GIVE..... WHATEVER YOU WHAT TO CALL THIS INFINITE Consciousness a bad name ! Some old man with a long white beard pointing a finger at humanity .
See Him or Her BBQ them for eternity oh, and your body will never be consumed it will just bear the pain and agony of your burning flash without being consumed . This is what children are told YES THEY ARE STILL BEING TOLD SUCH THINGS. FIRST no person can preach about GOD . THE TRUTH IS WE JUST DON'T KNOW ! WE JUST DON'T KNOW !

Karl Consiglio

Jun 10th 2012, 13:12

Hypocrisy is spelt like this Doc

Roger Tirazona

Jun 10th 2012, 13:03

The Invisible friend phenomenon is a well-studied one and it is very successfully propagated by religions.

Daniel Tanti

Jun 10th 2012, 12:40

it is not that difficult for someone to know better than a carpenter who lived 2000 years ago.... its funny how much people trust their lives to a simple carpenter with all respect

Victor Pulis

Jun 10th 2012, 12:19

Ms. Giordimaina i don't believe in heaven or hell and yet I try to live according to human morals and values. I never harm anyone by may actions, I respect other people's opinions unless they try to ram tham down my throat. . Live and let live is my main commandment and do unto others as you would have others do unto you. I don't expect a prize for my efforts.The reward is leaving the world that little bit better than when I entered it.

j dough

Jun 10th 2012, 12:30

"I think that the problem today is that children are not scared of anything at all, with no respect and no sense of authority - at 6 years of age, they already believe that they have conquered the world."

there is some truth in this. it is a pity tho that we have to resort to fear for some people to act appropriately.
a shame that we have whole generations of people who are arrogant and egoistic because they have not been taught or not learnt to have good morals. this only leads to people who will do anything if they can get away with it. and people who let their emotions run away with them and think they are justified. at the end of the day it is our conscience that should control our actions.

Roger Tirazona

Jun 10th 2012, 13:16

The WTC bombers, the middle class, university-educated gentlemen that flew planes into buildings killing thousands, believed in their reward in heaven for doing so. But we ought not to be shocked. Pope John Paul II asked for forgiveness for 2000 years of religious-excused atrocities by the Catholic Church, which included the Crusades and the violence and unfair treatment of women. These were also promised eternal bliss in heaven.

Take away human rationality and critical thinking, and all you are left with is a worker ant ready to do thine bidding.

Ramon Casha

Jun 10th 2012, 13:17

I have no fear of punishment after this life, nor a hope for reward - and yet I live in a good manner, to the best of my abilities. Moreover I think that, if the only thing keeping you from doing wrong is the fear of punishment, that's not a very moral position to take.

Victor Laiviera

Jun 10th 2012, 13:30

"Humans need that sense of fear that if they act badly, they will be punished."

What a sad mentality. What a pity.

Charlene Valentina Giordimaina

Jun 11th 2012, 23:06

Fearing a punishment if you commit an offence is one of the principles of Law and punishment. With your reasoning, we might as well remove prisons!!

Reinhard Azzopardi

Jun 10th 2012, 11:10

Same to you Gerry even though you and I don't usually see eye to eye.

Victor Pulis

Jun 10th 2012, 12:21

Thank you Gerry. And a happy Ramadan to you when that comes along! And while we're at it Happy Diwali too!

Reinhard Azzopardi

Jun 10th 2012, 11:16

Have you been there?

Pauline Peterson

Jun 10th 2012, 10:57

You are right. It is cruel to teach children these things, especially as the Bible doesn't mention a burning in hell. God would be a cruel god if he did that. And we all don't go to heaven either.

So much difference in what the Bible teaches and what the church teaches. Psalm 37:11

C Briffa

Jun 10th 2012, 19:49

@Pauline
Which bible did you read??
Because if I am not mistaken it is mentioned about 31 times, you can just search on the internet to get a correct answer

Victor Pulis

Jun 10th 2012, 20:48

@ C Briffa hell is only mentioned in the new testament. The old testament mentions Sheol which is the underworld equivalent to the Greek Hades and the Egyptian Duat. Hell is a derivative of sheol and was not a place of punishment. The concept of a fiery hell originated in new testament times from Gehenna the rubbish dump of Jerusalem where the rubbish of the city was burned. The fires were kept going night and day and it was symbolic of all that was evil and corrupt to the Jews.

C Briffa

Jun 11th 2012, 05:28

The point was not if hell was mentioned in the new or old testament but Ms. Pauline Peterson said that hell is not mentioned in the Bible.
God loves all the humanity but certain people refuse his love and do not want it so they condem themselves to hell.

A Mangion

Jun 10th 2012, 12:08

Has religion really stopped bullying and all those other ''very bad things''? Of course not. The problem is that children are very easy to influence at a young age, and obviously its exploited. The Maltese mentality is that if you are not Christian, you lead an immoral life and are banishing the sense of the greater good. But what is the real greater good? Doing good things out of fear of ''burning in hell'', or doing them for the true sense of satisfaction? The sooner the Maltese learn that one can be a good person without being Christian, the sooner we will get out of this rut of a mental state we're in.

Patrick Zammit

Jun 10th 2012, 12:39

Sandro,threatening a child with burning in hell for eternity is not a "proportional punishment".

Christine Xuereb

Jun 10th 2012, 10:42

Not all - there are other monotheistic religions that are not-

Sandro Pace

Jun 10th 2012, 10:53

With your reasoning, even the State is built on a conspiracy of fear. Break the law, and there is a great probability that you will be punished some time or another. Do not break, and you should fear nothing.

And so it should be.

Reinhard Azzopardi

Jun 10th 2012, 11:09

I shall have to agree with you Mr. Borg. Now I am a passionate hater of Islam but sometimes I think that the Catholic church is just as bad at times.

Reinhard Azzopardi

Jun 10th 2012, 11:08

You seem to be pretty sure about this. Let's meet on the day and drink ourselves silly and see what happens. If I'm right, we'll go to bed and wake up the next morning nursing the mother of all hangovers. If you're right, I shall beg for mercy and you shall be saved (because you seem to have the typical holier-than-thou attitude that's so typical of certain sectors of the Catholic society)

A Mangion

Jun 10th 2012, 11:51

You are the very same case the psychologist mentioned in this article. I assume you're referring to the ''end of the world in december 2012''. See you in 2013 sir, I assume you'll be found in the front row seats at church.

G Caruana

Jun 10th 2012, 11:52

Beg mercy to whom?..the one they call the all merciful god?

Patrick Zammit

Jun 10th 2012, 12:34

Laurence, are you ready to bet 10,000 Euro?

Ramon Casha

Jun 10th 2012, 13:13

Oh no, the universe is coming to an end AGAIN? This will be the third time this year alone, won't it?

Kurt Mifsud

Jun 10th 2012, 13:13

Are you willing to bet all your money on that? Well keep them... watching you eat your own words after 6 months is more than enough for me

C. Borg

Jun 10th 2012, 14:04

I fully agree with Mr. Genovese. You should all be ashamed of yourselves...denying God like this?? When reading your replies to Mr. Genovese; I feel like reading the Bible all over again; when the Jews did not accept Jesus as our Messiah and they crucified Him. Do you think that you're breathing because you can make yourself breathe?? Do you think that you were born 'by mistake'? We're all here because Jesus loves everyone of us, and every newborn is a miracle given by our Lord. You'll experience God's love, only when you accept it truly in your hearts. Without God in our lives, we feel hopeless, void inside out, lonely and sad. If you’d like to read more about THE WARNING go to:

http://www.thewarningsecondcoming.com/messages/latest-messages/

Or, the Akita (Japan), and the Garabandal (Spain) apparitions of Our Lady.

Let Jesus lead your lives and pray for salvation, because HEAVEN and hell truly exist!! GOD BLESS!!

Karl Consiglio

Jun 10th 2012, 14:53

And during this time you will be fine Lawrence? The only mercy I beg for is for you to end this nonsense.

A Mangion

Jun 10th 2012, 16:10

@C. Borg.
Ah yes, everything you read on the internet is true, thanks for the website.

People don't need a god to fill the void. What you fail to realise is this: You gather your strength from faith, where as people such as myself gather strength from within themselves. I am my own leader, I answer to my own actions. Don't insult me with your undeserved air of supremacy by calling me lonely and sad for not being bound by the same mental chains you are.

Born by mistake, no. Born by chance, yes. Yes, I am in fact making myself breathe as I also have the ability to stop myself from breathing. This is the problem with humanity. If you can't find a pattern within something you panic. Uncertainty frightens you so much that you look forward to the so-called end of the world. Its actually disgusting that all the advances and years of research scientists have put into creating concrete proof of the existence of things around us, yet these bible-huggers with limited sense of logic spit in their faces and call them heathens.

Demis Micallef

Jun 10th 2012, 12:09

kollu paroli fil-vojt tal-knisja irid ikollol,it tfal jattendu d-duttrina biex tkun taf x'inhu ghaddej!!!

Mr Ernest Vella

Jun 10th 2012, 10:17

Don't abuse me...shut up

Cornelius Murphy

Jun 10th 2012, 11:03

@ Mr Ernest Bella

If you feel abused when people express their opinion in a free country, you should move to somewhere like Iran.

Lawrence Genovese

Jun 10th 2012, 10:45

Hell exist for sure. You will know the whole truth in 6 months time during the WARNING and then everyone will beg for Mercy

Victor Pulis

Jun 10th 2012, 12:30

The children of Fatima saw souls(!) descending into flames(!!). Now we all know and so does the church that hell is not made up of flames.The church itself taeches this. Now they're saying that hell is a place where there is the absence of god. NO FLAMES NOTHiING The idea of flames came from the valley of Gihon near Jerusalem known as gehenna where the citizens of the city use to burn their rubbish. The ever burning flames came to symbolize hell to the early christians that's how the flames came into it. The children of fatima saw what they were taught to see. Yes they were mentally unbalanced because of the brainwashing they received and yes they were proclaimed saints... by the church...!

michelle agius

Jun 10th 2012, 10:20

so very true

Reinhard Azzopardi

Jun 10th 2012, 11:05

Is it really? I think that life is beautiful. I have enjoyed every minute of it so far.

Karl Consiglio

Jun 10th 2012, 13:15

Ezatt, dawk il-kontijiet tad dawl u l-ilma, thats the hell to fear!

Lina Caruana

Jun 10th 2012, 12:31

Religion is not based on fear but on the responsibility one must carry on the consequences of a free choice.
We are not forced to choose what Christ admonished us about choice of priorities.What do you expect if our choices mislead us ?

Victor Pulis

Jun 10th 2012, 14:20

Life is based on the responsibility one must carry on the consequences of a free choice. Religion doesn't come into it at all. One can lead a good life without belonging to any religion. Morals and values are the monopoly of no god/s

michelle agius

Jun 10th 2012, 10:18

don"t think so as actually we are already living in hell. if there is a hell on the other side i dont think it will be worse then what we are already in

Joe Galea

Jun 10th 2012, 11:11

Be afraid,be very afraid.....

Kurt Mifsud

Jun 10th 2012, 13:16

Still cannot see what's the problem with that. I don't believe in hell. What are you implicating? That I lack self-discipline, morals, values, etc ?

pat muscat

Jun 10th 2012, 13:59

Dear De Martino, believe it or not, some people are not afraid of hell; they are living in hell! Read the Caritas Report on the new poor which Mintoff eradicated and GonziPN has resuscitated!

Mr Ernest Vella

Jun 10th 2012, 10:19

Victor Pulis ma tistax tiggudika lill-Membri tal-Museum ghax mhux vera jghallmu dak li qieghed tallega!

Luke Lanzon

Jun 10th 2012, 10:26

Mr Vella, you may think that its not true but that is all I remember from religion as a whole. I don't think they intentionally try to scare kids its just religion is an old scary story that shouldn't be read to kids.

Victor Pulis

Jun 10th 2012, 12:05

Sur Vella jien hadd ma jmerini fuq dak li qed nghid. Ma nafx f'liema fergha tal muzew tghallimt int imma fejn kont immur jien nghidlek x'kienu jaghllmuna. Kienu jghidulna biex inhallu spazju bejnietna biex naghmlu post ghall anglu kustodju! kienu jghidulna li meta nitqarbnu ma nigdmux l-ostja ghax johrog id-demm u hafna hmerijiet ohra u ahna ta' tfal li konna konna nemmnuhom!Issa forsi ma jaghllmux hekk imma fi zmieni dak li kienu jaghllmu.

Gabriel Scicluna

Jun 12th 2012, 23:14

Aktar u aktar ma ghandekkx tohodha kontra il membri tal MUSEUM.....iz zmien jinbidel u maz zmien jinbidel kollox!!!

Mike Abbot

Jun 10th 2012, 11:45

Balance?? Why have the fear-mongering in the first place?

Patrick Zammit

Jun 10th 2012, 12:20

"So why pick on religion lessons"

TV/internet stories and fairy tales do not in any way threaten children directly and personally unlike religious indoctrination which threatens children with eternal torture.

That is why some "pick" on religion. It's not rocket science...

Mr Ernest Vella

Jun 10th 2012, 10:20

imbaghad imur id-dar u jsib l-infern id-dar...u hallina ha nghixu

Kurt Mifsud

Jun 10th 2012, 13:21

Dak hu l-iskop Ernest, biex nghixu!

Mr Ernest Vella

Jun 27th 2012, 16:53

bil-psikologija kollha li ghandu...ma jifhimx u ma jafx fuq x'hiex qed jitkellem...il-problema mhux fil-katekezi qeghda imma fl-injoranza tan-nies f'materji religjuzi.

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