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‘Girl’s rape claim wiped out six years of my life’

‘I cried every day, I felt completely lost, it was a very black period’

The sexual dare between an 18-year-old woman and three young men took place in a property along this street in Senglea. Photo: Jason Borg

The sexual dare between an 18-year-old woman and three young men took place in a property along this street in Senglea. Photo: Jason Borg

Released from the noose of gang rape allegations that suffocated six years of his life, Rhys Fiteni feels as if he has won the lottery and his eyes still well up when he recalls the court verdict – not guilty.

I’m not proud of what I did but it’s not everyday a girl issues such a challenge

“This woman wiped out six years of my life, but I refuse to let her rob me of the rest of my life,” the 26-year-old from Senglea told The Sunday Times.

Last Tuesday, six years to the day from when an 18-year-old girl turned up at a police station claiming she was gang raped, Mr Fiteni, Keith Bartolo and Ronald Barbara were cleared of the charges.

In a 113-page judgment, Magistrate Consuelo Scerri Herrera found the woman had actually bragged about her sexual prowess and told the young men she could handle all three in bed; a challenge they took up.

From the testimony of various witnesses – and forensic evidence revealing no signs of violent conduct – the court ruled the girl was never forced into doing anything against her will.

Reflecting on that Sunday afternoon in April 2006, Mr Fiteni, who was represented in court by lawyer Joe Giglio, said it all started as a joke while they were taking a stroll along the Senglea promenade.

“I’m not proud of what I did but it’s not every day a girl issues such a challenge.

“I was 20 years old and foolish and while what I did wasn’t right, it wasn’t wrong either,” he said.

Mr Fiteni was having a few drinks at a bar next to the sea when the girl – whom he had met just three times before and whose name was never released by the court – passed by with her cousin, Mr Bartolo.

Mr Fiteni accompanied them and eventually Mr Barbara joined the small group. The conversation was heavy with sexual innuendos, and the girl, who had just fought with her 33-year-old boyfriend, said she could handle all three of them. And they took up the dare.

All four headed to an old property belonging to Mr Fiteni’s grandmother and the three men thought nothing more of it. Except the next day a policeman knocked on their doors and threw their lives into disarray.

“I was terrified. I had no idea what the policeman wanted until we got to the station. Fear engulfed me,” Mr Fiteni said, nervously rubbing his hands.

All three have always protested their innocence, but the charges were serious. They spent two nights under arrest in a police cell, followed by three weeks in prison.

“The prison guard warned us not to mention we were in for rape, but somehow the inmates got to know and wanted to kill us.

“In the first week I was too scared to leave the cell,” he added.

After they were released, the men spent an agonising three months under house arrest.

“It was worse than prison. At home I felt like a bird in an open cage, but unable to fly out,” Mr Fiteni said.

A top regatta rower with Senglea, he spent that first summer in the balcony staring longingly at the children swimming across the bay. On certain days the TV and Playstation were his only companions.

As the days passed he plunged into a dark hole, and resorted to tranquilisers to cope.

“I cried every day. I felt completely lost. It was a very black period,” he said, pulling out a tattered scapular of Our Lady of Mount Carmel from around his neck, which his grandmother had given him during this difficult time. “I will never take it off!”

I started imagining that women who saw me in the street were crossing the road for fear I’d rape them

When his bail conditions were eased, he was so scarred it took him about two years to pluck up the courage to date a girl.

“I started imagining that wo­men who saw me in the street were crossing the road for fear I’d rape them,” he said.

The rape accusation hung over his head for years, and when he started dating his current girlfriend, Amy, two months ago, he told her everything from the outset so that she could hear it from him first-hand.

Amy, who stood by his side throughout the interview, fiercely came to his defence, and recounted the arguments she had with her family when they learnt who she was dating.

Mr Fiteni calmed her down and said: “It’s only natural for your family to feel this way. If it was my sister I’d do the same.”

The allegations have not only ruined his reputation but the pending court case also robbed him of his dream to become a soldier.

Holding down a job was not easy, and the only thing that saved him during these six years was the regatta where he spent his days venting his frustration, in turn winning numerous trophies and shields for Senglea.

“I don’t blame people thinking what they did.

“Who would believe an 18-year-old girl challenged three boys to have sex?

“It was an unusual case, which made things harder,” he said, trying to reason things out.

During many sleepless nights, he decided he would never let hatred erode his soul.

“I’m focusing on the positive side. I refuse to let anger get the best of me as it will lead to nasty situations. This is the end of the story for me,” he said, adding he will not be pursuing the matter in court or taking action against the girl.

“Now I’ll start a new life. This is a different Rhys. I have the regatta, I have Amy... I just want to lead a normal life. I’m not seeking anything special; I just want to be happy.”

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hugh jars

Apr 16th 2012, 14:56

Answer to all your questions...........CRAP JUSTICE SYSTEM, end of!!!!

Jonathan Camilleri

Apr 17th 2012, 09:17

It is quite foolish to go to court, when you are aware that you have consensually challenged three guys into a threesome. I don't judge whether it is morally correct or not to take up such challenge, that is part of one's culture.

Maria Brincat

Apr 16th 2012, 00:22

I can see your point, but the court has found (and none too soon) that these men were not guilty of rape.
Shouldn't this girl pay for what she did??

Not only did she make life hell for these people for six yrs,...thanks to her, anytime a woman goes to report a rape, this case will immediately come to mind... because once there was a woman who faked it.

What if things did not go exactly as has been set down in the documents? - the first thing you're asked to do when you report a rape, is go for a medical exam (yes, after the humiliation of being raped and used, you're expected to have someone else poke around too... It's a professional, granted, but it still feels like another violation). If this girl had really been raped there would have been medical evidence...

Real rape victims (the majority of whom are women) already have a hard time trying to get justice.. they don't need some 'sister' stabbing them in the back!!

Tanja Cilia

Apr 16th 2012, 11:55

You got the wrong end of the stick @Maria Brincat - I was most certainly not stabbing anyone in the back; I was merely pointing out that whereas rape is a weapon used by women for several reasons (revenge being one of them), it all too often happens that a woman has what is known as "a reputation" (think Jodie Foster in The Accused), the cards are already stacked against her. The fact remains that if someone offers you anything, be it money, sex, jewellery, a promotion at work, a job... the first thing to remember is that there is not such thing as a free meal, and that you might rue the day you accepted when your actions come back to haunt you. In this case, the woman offered her body; it was accepted, and those who exploited her are now claiming martyr status. As for when I mentioned "documents", I was not alluding to the medical evidence, I was alluding the the verbal testimony of those I ironically called men.

r buttigieg

Apr 16th 2012, 22:51

@tania... so as usual men are the eternal evils while women are the perpetual innocent frail victims eh. I wonder who exploited who in this instance? If three/four adults decided to have sex ( under no coersion) together so be it who are you to arrogantly question if these are men (men?) Is she a dame then, a damsel in distress, a lady? Ah so you doubting the outcome of the case, I guess as long as it does not portray men as the usual rapists it is not satisfactory. I think that you are one of those who would like to promote a feminist world, reminiscent of the s.c.u.m manifesto, where the word of a woman is enough to decide if a man is guilty or not.

Maria Brincat

Apr 16th 2012, 23:26

I was not referring to you - I was referring to the girl in question; her actions are a stab in the back at rape victims.
I agree with you that these guys should have not taken her up on her offer, but I would hardly call it 'exploitation'. She offered; they took - they all were consenting adults.. It would have been exploitation if she was underage, or if the 'men' took by force something which was not offered to them.

Jonathan Camilleri

Apr 17th 2012, 09:18

What defines 'wrong' and 'right'? Nobody is jumping off a roof here, Mr. Cilia, so the analogy does not make rational sense to me.

Tanja Cilia

Apr 17th 2012, 14:57

Just because I state my opinion, and I happen to be a woman, I am labelled a feminist. Resorting to labelling people cuts no ice with me; it simply reinforces my position. Most of the defence of these males sounds like "Eve led me into sin". Passing the sexual buck is such a feel-good thing to do... when the woman involved is not your daughter or niece, in which case those who preyed on her would probably be called all manner of things.

F Goodwin

Apr 16th 2012, 10:52

Without having any personal experience with either scenario, I don't think the line between three men having consensual sex with a mentally ill teenager and a gang rape is necessarily very clear. You say 'really confusing' sarcastically, but it may well have been confusing, especially if she was joking about it but didn't really want to go through with it. We don't know what happened, except that it can't be proven in court to have been a rape. This guy didn't intend to hurt her, and he has finally cleared his name. If she deliberately lied to defame them, I would definitely agree she should face some kind of consequences, but it seems more likely to me this was a grey area and the only black-and-white outrage is about the trial process itself. I guess she's directly responsible, but we don't know what her motivations were - if she truly believes she was raped she's not exactly a cartoon villain. The finding of the court was that she wasn't credible, not that she 'outright lied,' that's just your own assumption, made from the other side of the world...

Tonio Bone

Apr 15th 2012, 19:38

Okay hold on a second. The fact that it took six years to bring this dreadful saga to an end is horrific, but that is the pace of our justice system under normal circumstances, but to call an 18 year old with a 33 year old girlfriend who challenges three young guns to take advantage of her out of spite a 'poor confused girl' is outrageous!
The justice system is what it is, but this girl needs to be held accountable for her actions, no questions asked!

F Goodwin

Apr 15th 2012, 22:14

Yeah, 'indirectly' is too strong a word. She is certainly blameworthy, I just think it would be more productive to encourage the government to make reforms so that these kinds of allegations can be dealt with more quickly. It would be fair to hold her accountable for the damage inflicted on these men's lives and reputations, I just hope she'll be held accountable by legal means, and not by you guys :P

Franco Farrugia

Apr 15th 2012, 16:05

Wow! I thought that nobody was going to EVEN REFER to this sexual act that the three guys indulged in, TOGETHER, with a girl - single! - younger than any of them!

Of course we cannot defend the girl's actions. Her actions are to be condemned.

However, it is PITIFUL that nobody below has so far criticised this young man and his two friends for the way they indulged in sex, together, as three males, with one female!

What makes 'right' or 'wrong'? This man still believes he did nothing 'wrong' in having sex together with two other guys with a single girl.

Joe Fenech

Apr 15th 2012, 16:49

Vincent Farrugia, it's none of your business how they had sex with her, and how many people took part in the orgy. The fact of the matter is that this girl lied and she should pay for it heavily..

Joseph Borg

Apr 15th 2012, 18:35

excuse me??? min mindu l hawn INT ghandek dritt tindahal fil hajja sesswali ta persuna? jekk kollox kien konsenswali KULHADD ghandu dritt jaghmel li jrid ...issa jekk iridux ikunu 3 irgiel u mara 4 nisa u ragel 6 irgiel u zewg nisa, zewg irgiel, zewg nisa etc etc MHIX AFFARI TIEGHEK!

Kif iddecidejt li dan l individwu ghamel xi haga hazina? min int int biex tiggudika x jaghmel persuna fil hajja privata tieghu?

Sa fejn naf jiena ma hawn l ebda ligi tal istat li timpedilek li fil kumdita ta darhek jkollok xtaqsam ma numru ta persuni, diment li mhxu ghal flus.

U min mindu l hawn li ghax mara iddecidiet li jkolla x taqsam ma tlett irgiel jfisser li tiggeneralizza li n nisa ta Malta kollha zibel?

Kulhadd irid jaghmila tal gudikatur! hekk jonqos issa!

Franco Farrugia

Apr 16th 2012, 18:40

@ Joseph Borg: Mill-kummenti tieghek ma nahsibx li qed tindirizza lili imma xorta ha nwiegbek. Li kieku inti persuna adulta responsabbli ghandek taghraf naqra differenza bejn l-immaginazzjoni fertili u r-realta! Jekk inti m'ghandekx rispett lejk innifsek, almenu tippretendix li kulhadd bhalek. Jekk hawnhekk hawn kwazi kulhadd qed jiggudika lil din il-mara, jien, u forsi xi ftit ohrajn, qedin jissugerixxu li dan it-tali li issa qed jokrob ghax ghadda minn zmien ta' persekuzzjoni, messu qaghad attent x'jaghmel. B'li ghamel, flimkien ma' shabu, kien qed jistieden l-inkwiet, u l-inkwiet hadu: sitt snin shah!

Robert Agius

Apr 15th 2012, 15:01

yes, you just wait for them to line up...

Maria Brincat

Apr 15th 2012, 23:57

It is not unusual for rapists to be beaten, or raped in jail.... maybe that's why there are still so many cases of sexual violence, because not enough rapists are sent to jail for their crimes...

Joseph Calleja

Apr 15th 2012, 13:21

Only in one eye.

V. Cauchi

Apr 15th 2012, 11:05

"Shame on the court for not sending to prison the woman" - this court could not judge the woman. A fresh case would have to be brought against the woman, which case may by now be time barred.

"Shame on the court for not mentioning the name of this woman" - the woman is presumed to have been an innocent victim, and is still so presumed in this case which is not being conducted against her.

"Shame on the court for not givin moral damages to these 3 men" - moral damages are only awarded as an outcome of a civil suit for such damages, which is separate from criminal action. Hence my plea, further below, for proper filtering of all evidence relating to the case at police investigative level, prior to arraignment, to avoid subsequent longtail remedial action.

A Camilleri

Apr 15th 2012, 13:07

Totally agree, the girl should be named and taken back to court.

Joseph Cauchi Senior

Apr 15th 2012, 11:20

Well done, Mr. V. Cauchi.

You couldn't have said it better.

The authorities are obliged that such irresponsible actions by the Police are NOT to be repeated.

The Police and the Authorities should realise what the consequences would be to those innocently accused and the harm done to them both psychologically and physically, which will never be recuperated!

This is NOT justice!

The Police should stop passing the buck and held accountable. Full Stop.

JC.

Dennis Zammit

Apr 15th 2012, 13:57

According to various statistics and reports, NOT all rape leaves signs of violence in the personal parts of the alleged victim.

Only the victim can try to prove the case. The defense's job is to discredit the victim's testimony to clear their clients from the case.

Amy Agius

Apr 18th 2012, 11:04

@Dennis Zammit

"According to various statistics and reports, NOT all rape leaves signs of violence"

But the way that the SUPPOSED TO BE raped girl had witnessed, must result into signs of both violence and rape. However, none of these were found, since she wasn't really raped. Additionally, the girl also had sexual intercourse with an other guy afterwards, later that day. Traces of his semen were found inside her. Also, who is that victim of rape, who will be ready to have another sexual affair right after being raped? There were no signs of violence, rape or trauma.

AND THIS IS RHYS FITENI SPEAKING - I AM INNOCENT, AND THANKS FOR ALL THE MESSAGES OF SOLIDARITY AND SUPPORT - I APPRECIATE A LOT.

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