I read with much sorrow the editorial Towards A Wider Definition Of Marital Abuse (January 20).

Do you know how painful it is, how self-degrading, having to admit being married to “a” barbarian, a human monster? Many acquaintances of mine would rather swallow their tongues than ask for help. Usually, a neighbour finally decides, as a witness, to ring the police and settle the score.

There should be more information on shelters for these families because, often, children are involved as silent, anxious witnesses.