Bishops’ strong warning to pro-divorce faithful
Archbishop Paul Cremona. Photo: Matthew Mirabelli
The bishops are sending their clearest message to date to “Catholic citizens” on divorce in today’s pastoral letter and warned that the teachings of Jesus Christ “leave no doubt that divorce is the wrong solution”.
With just six days to go before the country votes on whether to introduce divorce legislation, the bishops are ensuring that no Catholic is left in any doubt that voting in favour of divorce will lead to destruction.
“By his vote, the citizen will either build or destroy. A choice in favour of permanent marriage is an act of faith in the family, built upon a bond of love which cannot be severed,” the bishops said.
“But a choice in favour of divorce leads to the further destruction of marriage and the family and, as a consequence, the destruction of values and the quality of life. We all shoulder responsibility for the consequences of our decision.”
The pastoral letter by Archbishop Paul Cremona, Gozo Bishop Mario Grech and Auxiliary Bishop Annetto Depasquale focuses on “opting in favour of permanent marriage” ahead of Saturday’s divorcereferendum.
The letter says that for Christians there is no other road which leads to God and everyone has to choose Jesus as the truth. It echoes Mgr Grech’s homily last weekend in which he urged adults not to make a mistake because there was only one door they could enter.
Through the referendum, the bishops said, citizens were being called upon to express their convictions to consolidate the future of marriage and the family.
They said: “This call should not fall on deaf ears. We cannot remain indifferent. The referendum deals with a very important matter and any person who may decide not to participate will show a lack of civil and religious maturity.”
Jesus, they said, taught that marriage, which went hand in hand with mankind’s dignity, should by its very nature be a permanent bond. When marriage failed, wounds opened that took a long time to heal. The experiences of separated couples showed how saddened they were when their marriage failed.
“We all know of people who are wounded because their marriages have failed. As your spiritual shepherds, we can assure you that we feel these cries within our hearts... These people, who are wounded and hurt, show us that as a nation we should continue to cherish true marriage,” the bishops said.
“As a gesture of love towards those who are suffering, and towards future generations, we must together try to improve the conditions of marriage and the family so these hurts may be diminished.”
A society which builds on the foundation of a stable marriage, they said, meant there would be fewer people who suffered in future.
In light of all this, it was every citizen’s moral obligation to express his opinion through his vote; this obligation became greater when the decision involved values, such as the permanence of marriage.
Faced with this referendum, they said, Christians could not avoid posing some fundamental questions they had to take into consideration when making important decisions.
“The Christian must always act with reference to our Lord Jesus Christ and his teachings. In taking his decision on how to vote, he must bear in mind he shall be accountable to Jesus for his choice.”
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Mr R Calleia
May 23rd 2011, 00:40
I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for marital unfaithfulness, and marries another woman commits adultery." Matthew 19 :9 The Christian must always act with reference to our Lord Jesus Christ and his teachings. Well Said Bishop Cremona, Matthew 19 : 9 is never voiced by the Church and this is his teaching !
Mr renald williams
May 22nd 2011, 18:39
Quote from article –
any person who may decide not to participate will show a lack of civil and religious maturity.
Without judging anyone -
First they told us to to enter a particular club for its Christian values
Later they realised that we had to legalise in favour of selling pornographic magazines and opening gentlemen’s clubs
Now they realised that we will have to legalise in favour of divorce in near future
Is this lack of civil and religious maturity by mickey mouse leaders?
Peace and health wishes, and may followers of Jesus read the Gospels, not follow human leaders!
Mr John Azzopoardi
May 22nd 2011, 18:31
why the warning. The majority of the people today are not going to listen. They are going to vote their conscience. As they should. It's ok for the church to speak against divorce, but it needs to be careful not to dictate what catholics should do. The faster this whole thing is over the better.
Martin Borg
May 22nd 2011, 16:13
I am so sick and tired.... Usual Catholic fear-of-God messages. Not because I am not a Catholic (well - I'm baptised but that's all there is to it), but the bishops' statement in 2011 beggars belief. This scaremongering, taking us back to the 1960s, verges on the illegal in my opinion. Clearly the Church is using its influence to ensure it retains control on people's lives. When you read that the only countries remaining without divorce are the Philippines and Malta, I invite you to compare: modern Malta, a supposedly open forward-looking society accepted into the folds of the EU, a country that supposedly respects civil rights and the rights of minorities as a given, against the Philippines, the country where people have themselves naled to crosses publicly on Good Fridays. I anyone else noticing this? Or is it me, just a cry in the desert?
The bishps scaremongering will only leave another point of contention for years to come. If the "No" camp wins, the Church should expect a backlash for years to come. And rightlky so, too.
Mr Alexander Galea
May 22nd 2011, 16:11
It is extremely disappointing that people who expect to be viewed as leaders such as the bishops keep insisting on giving the wrong message cause they fear that they will lose power over their flock. Leaders prove themselves when their flock stays with them even though it is free to leave without threats in the same way that marriage is much stronger when it lasts even though there is the option of divorce. All those couples who are in a healthy marriage should be insulted by all the statements of the church and anti-divorce lobbies. I don't expect the church to accept divorce, but it is very clear even in the bible that God gave everyone the freedom of choice - the church in Malta does not want to follow this basic concept. Please give us a clear answer why ?
EDWIN DE MARCO
May 22nd 2011, 16:09
I suppose at least half of Malta has heard today's pastoral letter. If not they can see & read the pdf online on this same newspaper. For those who mayhave been geographically disoriented: the very last line reads:" Titular Bishop of Aradi". Well, ARADI or ARADI CHADRA . It's a place in Lebanon, Beirut. Yes, they do have divorce over there but do not mix up the name (ARADI CHUBRA) with something else. My phone has been incessantly ringing all morning with people asking about the wherabouts of this place. Tut!Tut! I'll just mention two instances before my red tea gets cold - (actually it's more beneficial if cold) - when people can really go wrong on some places. One caller mixed it up with CHUPACABRA - you may think it's a weird endangered species unknown to scientists & you could be right. The other bloke was a real disaster. He thought it had something to do with CUBA LIBRE. NO! You guessed wrongly. It's not the liberation of Cuba. Actually it's a mixture of white rum, coke & a dash of lime. He probably had had more than three shots as he sounded really drunk. Anyway, I hope I have been of some help to you.....
Rio Sammut
May 22nd 2011, 14:59
It is not easy to be a Christian. Those who want the easy way out cannot follow the teaching of our lord Jesus and must not expect to be condoned by Church authorities. Divorce is directly against the teaching of Christ and does more damage to society than good.
For His sake, look at ALL the other countries where divirce has been introduced in the last 50 years and see the havoc! Fewer maraiges, more broken families, a higher proportion on couples 'living together' out of wedlock, more frustration for children and innocent part of divorced couple and new partners.
Divorce leads to increased poverty and more frustration than ever. Do not let Satan lead you by the nose.
Charles Vella
May 22nd 2011, 14:30
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Saturday, April 17, 2010, 17:35
Pope urges Malta to stand up for 'indissolubility of marriage'
The Pope this evening encouraged Malta to continue to stand up for the indissolubility of marriage as a natural institution as well as a sacramental one.
The country, he said in his speech on arrival at Malta International Airport, should also stand up for the true nature of the family and for the sacredness of human life from conception to natural death.
Ref:Times of Malta Sat April 17,2010, 17.:35
Rio Sammut
May 22nd 2011, 15:03
About time that the Pope supported our Holy Church leaders, too! I expected this to happen weeks ago, and much more strongly.
Dear Holy Pope, please be more proactive to protect the Church from being humiliated by misled individuals.
Mr emanuel brincat
May 22nd 2011, 12:52
The usual church interferance in peoples lifes , no divorce ,no use of condoms , no cohabitation . Is everyone lisening , ? I dont think so , we are living in the 21st century you know .
adrian sammut
May 22nd 2011, 22:30
Very well, lets not be influenced by the Church's teachings, bring in divorce and then maybe abortion, or even assisted suicide and euthanasia and feel as much a 21st Century country as it can get.!
L-Aqwa li ma tidderiginiex il-Knisja ghal dan kollu.
Dak progress hej!
Mr Rudy Sollars
May 22nd 2011, 12:50
For those who are willing to reason without prejudice, in 1752, Voltaire, a French social reformer during the European Enlightenment wrote in his famous book the ‘Philosophical Dictionary’:
“The religion of Jesus is unquestionably that which most positively excludes priests from all civil authority: ‘Render unto Caesar the things that are Caesar’s’. ‘Among you there is neither first nor last’. ‘My kingdom is not of this world’. The quarrels between empire and priesthood which have bloodied Europe for more than six centuries have therefore been no more on the part of the priests than rebellions against god and men, and a continual sin against the holy ghost.”
He then goes on to ask: “ But what should be done in countries in which the priesthood has become the empire…?”
Willie Grech
May 22nd 2011, 12:40
"The bishops are sending their clearest message to date to “Catholic citizens” on divorce in today’s pastoral letter and warned that the teachings of Jesus Christ “leave no doubt that divorce is the wrong solution”.
This is the start of the article quoting the Arch Bishop of Malta saying "that divorce is the wrong solution."
Ok, fair enough. But, dear Archbishop, Bishop of Gozo, Auxiliary Bishop Annetto Depasquale and all other bloggers against divorce please answer, before next Saturday this very simple question:
WHAT IS THE BEST SOLUTION TO TWO A COUPLE WHOSE MARRIAGE HAS BROKEN DOWN IN AN IRREPARABLE WAY BECAUSE OF ANY PROBLEM WHATSOEVER?
When and if anyone of you will give me a solid solution (please don't insult me by saying that we should pray more) to this unfortunate stalmate of these kind of marriages, I will change my mind and vote NO. Until then I am voting YES.
Mr Marius Zulgis
May 22nd 2011, 12:22
Has the archbishop ever heard of the principle of the free vote? I am a christian and I shall be voting yes. I shall sleep like a baby knowing I have done the right thing; not for myself as I am already divorced but for those who may need to use it as a last resort. No amount of emotional blackmail and threats off hellfire and brimstone could ever make me change my mind, for the simple reason that my mind is free; some of the "Le" camp ought to try it some day - it's very refreshing.
Sooner or later the church is not be able to meddle in political matters in Malta. I look forward to that day with relish. It's already guaranteed! :)
Albert Spiteri
May 22nd 2011, 12:11
Jesus, during one of the many verbal thrashings and humiliations he dealt to the Temple priests declared his acceptance to selective divorce as a solution to a dead Hebrew marriage. Jesus also thrashed physically and beat up the merchants who turned God's Temple into a market.
Today, 2000 years later, His message of love, equality and compassion are the standard within all civilized societies everywhere. These are considered everywhere basic, human, civil and constitutional rights. Women are no longer slaves and property of their husbands. Male and female today enjoy equal rights in all respects, in civilized societies.
Jesus, God of love, equality and compassion, today most certainly understands our realities, problems and solutions.
Jesus would also feel the same extreme disgust he felt 2000 years ago when he witnesses the greed, vanity, wickedness, hypocrasy and hidden agendas of those who, in His name, care for His flock and for God's Temple.
M. Mallia
May 22nd 2011, 11:15
Dear Bishops,
You can warn as much as you want...The majority of the people have opened their eyes about your tactics...At the end of the day no matter what the outcome would be unless the church changes its antiquated attitude the church will be the biggest looser....
Mr David Buttigieg
May 22nd 2011, 10:58
Your Grace,
You have convinced me with your message. Until I read it I was determined not to vote in this farce of a referendum.
After hearing your pastoral letter and after much prayer I changed my mind - I will do my duty and vote!
Vote Yes of course, because your obnoxious, sanctimonious attitude leaves me no other choice!
Gerry Cowie
May 22nd 2011, 10:56
Not a lot of dignity has been shown by the pro movement based on anti-Church feeling. Its many protagonists have resorted to anti-Church propoganda, disingenuous comment, selective statistics and sarcasm.
No wonder the pro movement has become the best weapon of the anti movement!
Victor Pulis
May 22nd 2011, 10:43
“We all know of people who are wounded because their marriages have failed. As your spiritual shepherds, we can assure you that we feel these cries within our hearts... These people, who are wounded and hurt, show us that as a nation we should continue to cherish true marriage,” the bishops said.
“As a gesture of love towards those who are suffering, and towards future generations, we must together try to improve the conditions of marriage and the family so these hurts may be diminished.”
This is tantamount to standing on the shore watching a man drowning and weeping at his predicament without doing anything to help save him. All the prayers in the world will not aleviate the sufferers hurt.
We are dealing here with civil marriages which do not fall under the church's poer and this is where the chuch is being intollerant and imposing. Not all are catholics or believers in malta. A no vote will bar these persons from a free choice. The best the church could have done was to instruct its followers not to make use of divorce and to astain from voting. Voting no is imposing a situation on those who do not follow her teachings.
Ms Lina CARUANA
May 22nd 2011, 17:08
People sometimes want to hurt themselves and you cannot stop them either. Let all parents reply to that !
Does that justify hurting others because they want to get on with what they are doing.? Remember you are not accountable to what others do before God. The merciful and loving God asks us only about ourselves and our actions.
Mr Patrick Zammit
May 22nd 2011, 10:24
"The Christian must always act with reference to our Lord Jesus Christ and his teachings."
Is that why the holy apostolic church sold all earthly possessions and gave the resulting proceeds to the poor?
Mr M Vella***
May 22nd 2011, 10:13
Kull bniedem ghandu d-dmir u dritt li jaghzel dak li jhoss li ghandu jaghmel skond il-kuxjenza tieghu. Hadd ma ghandu jobbligak taghmel dak li ma tixtieqx. M'ghandekx tibza' li timxi kontra l-kurrent jekk tkun taf li qieghed fis-sewwa. Importanti li nohorgu bi hgarna nivvotaw biex ma nghatux rebha lil min qieghed jghalqilna lbieb ma wiccna u jbezzghu! Ma naqtawx qalbna ,nghamlu kuragg!il-knisja ta' Malta mmexxija minn kurja arci-konservattiva li qed tigi taqa' u tqum mill-merhla biex tiddefendi l-interessi antikwati taghha
Dawn il Hnizrijiet f'isem Gesu jiridu jispiccaw
Mr Alfred Hili
May 22nd 2011, 09:46
Straightforward and very well-balanced. Pinning people down, pouring water on them and trying to baptise them..... that would be "forcing" our beliefs upon them. It does not respect the dignity of the person.
Ms Lina CARUANA
May 22nd 2011, 09:42
The problem is far greater than divorce and that is no scare but a reality! Allegiance to Catholicism or otherwise .
adrian dimech
May 22nd 2011, 11:53
No human being can really exist with out a spiritual believe !
For Catholics , have not to believe to what priests say , but to Gesus and his teaching, priests are only servants for Gesus.
The problem to vote YES OR NO , lies in this, if you believe or try too believe in what Gesus teaching is !
" dak li jaqghat Alla ma ghandux jhollu l-bniedem" this has been said by Gesus,
If you are not a Catholic I feel that is easier to get to a descission in voting !