Gozo Bishop’s comments on Eucharist draw mixed reaction
Mgr Mario Grech saluting the people in Victoria on January 22, 2006, the day he was consecrated Bishop of Gozo. Photo: Chris Sant Fournier
People are divided on the proclamation by Gozo Bishop Mario Grech, who hinted that Catholics promoting divorce legislation are “wolves in sheep’s clothing”.
Mgr Grech said those not in line with Church teachings should not expect to receive the Eucharist, a comment which some interpreted as a spiritual threat against those planning to vote yes in the referendum.
But while comments flooded in online to label him “intolerant”, “ridiculous” and “arrogant”, others defended his homily on Sunday as being in line with Church dogma.
Fr Charlo Camilleri, who last August argued that Catholic politicians can, according to their conscience, vote in favour of divorce if research showed it was beneficial for the common good, said the homily had to be taken in its context.
The Bishop, he said, was speaking during the celebration of the sacrament of confirmation, explaining the gospel of the Good Shepherd, where Christ presents himself as the “one door”.
Bishop Grech said: “If we want to find the right door, shortly... and adults, understand what I am trying to say... do not make a mistake, there is only one door.”
“As an adult Christian I fully agree that there is only one door and this is Christ. The Bishop did not limit himself to divorce. Rightly so he stated that our faith should be translated in all spheres of our life. You cannot call yourself a Christian, follower or disciple of Christ and then not follow the Gospel values.”
Fr Camilleri pointed out that the discussion on divorce had degenerated, showing that the issue at stake, “perhaps unconsciously”, was the relationship between Church and state.
He said people in favour of divorce seemed to be very concerned about attacking the teachings of the Church instead of sticking to their arguments. This gave the impression they were acting out of panic and causing confusion by mixing up the sacramental and legal definitions of marriage. On the other hand, the Bishop made a distinction by saying everybody had the civil right to marry but not to receive the sacrament of marriage.
Fr Camilleri said the Church teachings on the issues of divorce and conscience were clear and he referred to the position paper drawn up in October by seven prominent priests. The paper concluded that Catholics must form their conscience by keeping in mind the word of God, the teaching of the Church and the true needs of the common good.
Those who only followed their own “feelings, thoughts and personal advantage” should realise they were not doing their Catholic duty. “One is responsible for such action before God and may possibly be sinning.”
Priest blogger Fr Joe Borg said he had no comment to make on the homily of Bishop Grech.
The Times asked Fr Borg if he agreed with Mgr Grech that the Church was not being forceful enough on divorce. Fr Borg recently criticised the movement Kristu Iva Divorzju Le, saying such an attitude built no bridges with “all those good Catholics who favour divorce”.
Fr Borg said he stood by his comment.
“If you go through timesofmalta.com you will notice that I have been the target of harsh criticism and personal jibes by the extremists on both sides of the divide. It is incredible how comments one makes are sometimes interpreted, misinterpreted, mangled and jumbled,” he said.
He added there was no need to add or clarify anything regarding the joint declaration of the seven priests, which was also endorsed by Archbishop Paul Cremona who, he pointed out, was also president of the Maltese Episcopal Conference.
Historian Dominic Fenech alluded to a rift between the Church leaders of the two dioceses.
“The Church has been surprisingly circumspect as an institution and has left the talking mostly to lay organisations of people who, although known for their religious fervour, prefer to attack divorce legislation from social, legal or economic angles rather than from a moral spiritual one.
“It seems the ecclesiastical establishment is keeping on a tight leash any priest who appears to condone divorce legislation but not individual priests who campaign against. The Gozo Bishop now seems to have lost his patience with such strategic subtleties.”
Asked if Bishop Grech’s statements could be legitimately perceived as a threat, he said “it is certainly pressure” and based on a wrong premise.
“Voting in favour of introducing divorce legislation for those who want to use it does not deny anyone the choice of not using it if they want to abide by the Church’s doctrine. I hardly think it is a state of sin, even by the Church’s own rules, to favour a model of society which is different from that which the Church wants conserved.”
Bishop Grech will hold a question and answer session on marriage and the family at the Fgura parish centre on Friday.
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Mr Joe Xuereb
May 20th 2011, 12:36
Quoting the Mellieħa sage(or is it 'ħabaq'?: 'It is thinly disguised as a panacea for some distressful situations only. In reality, it is a passport for all libertine marriage wrecker/s to impose their desired will on children, an unwilling spouse, and all society without the necessity to prove any just cause' unquote.
A quote within the quote: 'for some distressful situations' - toning down the gravity of the situation, mitigating it to show up the absurdity of divorce, are we now?! Nice try but too transparent for this old cock, doc.
And yet another quote within the quote: '.....an unwilling partner'. Oh yes! Well, if said unwilling partner washed away the brainwashing that is acceptance of degradation as the norm for the sake of a probably non-existent carrot - yes, s/he would be more than willing to stop clinging to an abusive partner. Addiction is notoriously difficult to shake off we all know, even those who dabble on the fringes of the phenomenon and are daft enough to declare such on a public forum. Why, s/he would be prime instigator for kicking out her/his abuser, never mind being terrified of letting him/her go. Beatification anyone?! Convoluted and incoherent?! Not to me it ain't! But then I washed away the brain-washing yonks ago. And my vision from the Xagħri down to the Għadira Corniche is clear and unobstructed by the endemic prickly plants and Grazia Deledda's 'Canne al Vento'.
Mr Joe Xuereb
May 20th 2011, 12:32
Quoting the Melliaħa sage: 'It is thinly disguised as a panacea for some distressful situations only. In reality, it is a passport for all libertine marriage wrecker/s to impose their desired will on children, an unwilling spouse, and all society without the necessity to prove any just cause' unquote.
A quote within the quote: 'for some distressful situations' - toning down the gravity of the situation, mitigating it to show up the absurdity of divorce, are we now?! Nice try but too transparent for this old cock, doc.
And yet another quote within the quote: '.....an unwilling partner'. Oh yes! Well, if said unwilling partner washed away the brainwashing that is acceptance of degradation as the norm for the sake of a probably non-existent carrot - yes, s/he would be more than willing to stop clinging to an abusive partner. Addiction is notoriously difficult to shake off we all know, even those who dabble on the fringes of the phenomenon and are daft enough to declare such on a public forum. Why, s/he would be prime instigator for kicking out her/his abuser, never mind being terrified of letting him/her go. Beatification anyone?! Convoluted and incoherent?! Not to me it ain't! But then I washed away the brain-washing yonks ago. And my vision from the Xagħri down to the Għadira Corniche is clear and unobstructed by the endemic prickly plants and Grazia Deledda's 'Canne al Vento'.
Mr M Vella***
May 20th 2011, 08:45
The Church in Malta does not want to learn from its past mistakes of the 60's when many left her fold,do as i say or you will burn in hell for eternity,if there is a hell you lot will burn for ever and ever for the hurt and damage you have caused to innocent children and got away with it.
Do not think all the people are imbeciles, they have a brain to think with and a pity for the ones who are under the manipulation of the Maltese Catholic Church.
Kollox jidher li hu permess f'isem il-krucjata religjuza
No to divorce means Yes to social chaos.
Alfred Falzon
May 20th 2011, 08:24
The Bishop of Gozo Mgr Mario Grech is not wont to beat about the bush or have recourse to casuistics to push his message through!
He is one who does not hesitate to call a spade a spade whenever the occasion arises, not fearing to be highly critical of seeping corruption and certain politicians who abuse of their power to the detriment of the people!
As a Church pastor he feels he should guide his flock on the road to salvation.
The question whether practising Catholics should be allowed to receive Holy Communion or not may have raised many an eyebrow, and deserves an in-depth assessment of what the consequences could be if taken literally!
It is true that divorce does not only weaken the family structure of our society but leads to further disruption causing untold harm to the innocent children born of a first wedlock who are made to pay dearly for the irresponsible behaviour and malicious whims of one of their parents!
A Christian, or any Maltese citizen for that matter, who still believes that marriage is the cornerstone of society, will reject the divorce bill as proposed in the forthcoming referendum. If the Maltese electorate were to accept a four-year period on trial for a marriage, then let those who are propagating such licenctiousness have their day and enjoy the consequences!
Irrespective of what other countries have done before us, and are now struggling to join the pieces that remain of their society, we Maltese need to learn from their bitter experience and redress what is wrong in our once close-knit society by strenghtening the family and penalising those who attempt to undermine it!
The forthcoming referendum and its aftermath will determine all this, but it will be foolish on the part of the Church to ostracise those who, out of compassion, opt to taste the sugared coating of the pill!
On the other hand, let the shades of the 1960s remain just a reminder of a shameful past when intolerence wrought havoc with those Maltese who stood up to be counted!
And to our esteemed Bishop Mgr Mario Grech we wish him the very best and bid him keep up the good work among all men of good will!
Alfred Falzon
May 20th 2011, 11:47
ERRATA CORRIGE
Please note that the term "licentiousness" (4th paragraph, line3) was inadvertently spelled wrongly. The "c" should be dropped before the "t".
In the 5th para, line 1, "to join the pieces" should read "to pick up the pieces".
With apologies for any inconvenience.
Mr Saliba Francis
May 20th 2011, 06:37
The pro-divorce campaign is clearly based on a deceptive and false propaganda.
Deception 1. The proposed bill is very different from, and superior to, the Nevada style easy, “no question asked” type of divorce that destroys the concept of marriage as a durable and stable union as the foundation stone of civil society. Not true. The proposed is practically the same, except for a longer waiting period, that could be much reduced later.
Deception 2. Divorce is a solution intended as a cure for the tribulations of an irreversibly broken down marriage. Not true. It is thinly disguised as a panacea for some distressful situations only. In reality, it is a passport for all libertine marriage wrecker/s to impose their desired will on children, an unwilling spouse, and all society without the necessity to prove any just cause.
Deception 3. The bill “guarantees” that maintenance responsibilities etc will be honoured. Not true unless unless the taxpayers are trapped into becoming the guarantors.
Deception 4. The Church is opposing divorce for base financial gains. That is not true. The only certain profiteers would be lawyers specializing in this line of business.
Deception 5. The opposition to divorce laws is a return to the deplored situation of the sixties. Not true. The Malta Church hierarchy is strictly restricting itself to its teaching duties in spite of constant harrassment. It is leaning over backwards so as not to be accused unjustly of “imposing mortal sin”. The church hierarchy is being much too prudent in fact, so much so that honest and respected church dignitaries are being maligned and roped in as supporters of the divorce bill even when they strenuously deny that false imputation.
This barrage of deliberate deception should alert the intelligent voters and put them on their guard at the imminent referendum.
Mr Matthew Grima
May 20th 2011, 09:59
1. It is different, first you need separation, all custodial and maintenance agreements are done at this stage, divorce is the final stamp on the contract that the marriage has ended and both can re-marry if they want to.
2. All custodial and maintenance agreements are done at separation stage, the point being that both might not want to divorce in the future, and even if they do, such agreements need to be done anyway as maintenance and custodial issues start once the couple is no longer living together.
3. See point 2, also, tax payers are already paying for women who have children outside of wedlock and choose to take the extra cheque as they can declare themselves single mothers, because they cannot remarry,.
4. Lawyers are already making money from separations (which is the longer process), while the church is making money from annulments, yes it is fearing financial losses.
5. The church is still imposing mortal sin and it's beliefs, it is trying to control a civil issue (this time a referendum not elections) through it's teaching, you won't agree with me obviously as you agree with the church's teaching.
I can quote your last line as it applies to your approach:
"This barrage of deliberate deception should alert the intelligent voters and put them on their guard at the imminent referendum. "
Mr Joe Xuereb
May 19th 2011, 23:04
Matthew, of course I'm appreciative of the evolutionist greats but I'm no scientist/biologist. I find it more useful to ask honest questions and seek honest answers, even , and particularly, from within oneself. I believe in the processes of elimination with a dash of straightforward commonsense and theories on plausibilities (which come about over a long period of observation). I've been known to doze off at Richard Dawkins' lectures. And once what seems to many a dangerous step - I am talking of 'thinking outside the box to use a popular metaphor' - is taken, so many things start to fall into place, a kind of continuous journey of discovery. To give an example; the Church is clear about the expcted humility of its adherents. Funny! from my perspective humility now has quite a different meaning to the one played out by the Church. Of course living with the implications of that is not easy but then, nothing worthwhile ever is. Humility now feels like the real McCoy; (I know I don't sound it to many but that's so none of my business) certainly not the pseudo one with a carrot dangling in front of it giving one the incentive to urge on. And who's to say the carrot exists? Which is at the heart of the whole matter.
My opinions Matthew. And thanks for the compliment. There's no law that says one cannot be flippant when being serious. I'm a respecter of laws but a great breaker of the ones that bow to silly conventions. Screw it!
Ms Rita Smith
May 19th 2011, 22:42
Ms Emma Xerri. By the way you are writing you seem to be a very unhappy woman transmitting from inside you a certain rage that only you know why. The church has done and is doing so much good especially in Third world countries You talk of priests' abuse. But they are human like you and me. They sin like you and me but what you forgot to mention is the abuse that happens in our own families. Some are made public and many others are not yet made public. You must have a big grudge against the church. To have peace with yourself maybe you should go to a priest and make a good confession and be at peace with God. Then your rage will be no more and you will be more tollerant and happy.
Rita smith
Mr Joe Xuereb
May 19th 2011, 18:07
Grima, Matthew. I wasn't so much correcting you. I just know it as Chinese Whispers (why Chinese, only god knows).
I get your point about filling any inexplicable void with a god. Very convenient! Very shirking! It works for some but not others.)
I remember catechism, Alla kien minn dejjem (god is from forever for forever, to forever). A bit too metaphysical for a five year-old going six and first holy communion. Learnt by rote of course, parrot fashion. A six-year-old does not ask awkward questions unless there's something in the genes and they turn out to be a gaddafi, a pole or a president. I remember a wonderful metaphor for eternal damnation; a bird comes once a year to peck at a first mountain of a mountain range. Just once a year, no more. When first mountain is 'razed level to the ground', said bird starts on second mountain. And so on until he demolishes the whole range. By which time there will have been many earthquakes and upheavals and tsunamis, creating new mountain ranges. This bird will be forever pecking at mountains. And the heinous crime for all this? Remember, I am 5 going 6 - a nun burning in hell because, her sewing session finished, she discarded a few inches of thread that remained dangling through the eyelet of the needle. What's that parable about it being easier for a camel to pass through the eye of needle than for a rich man to enter heaven? (the nearest he'll get to the place is a ride on the London Eye where camels are not allowed - without sand underfoot they panic and that's dangerous in an enclosed bubble in the sky - but sheiks are).
How did divorce turn into camels? Think! Think! Some men barter their daughters for so many camels to a rich man who has loads of the creatures. AND he can send her away on a whim. Oh well, if she's a Maltese bint she can return home to daddy and tend the camels. Fuq ix-xagħri (on wasteland in the limits of Mellieħa).
Mr Matthew Grima
May 19th 2011, 19:20
Joe, you have no idea how much I enjoyed reading that.
We just into the discussion of filling the unexplainable void with a god at work, at the end of the discussion (not much of a discussion when we were all agreeing) we decided to sod it all and not bother, I'm happy with understanding the big bang, evolution and the rest, not knowing how big the universe actually is, and what it's container (if there is one) might be like.
But I'll stop there until another genius comes along and finds something new.
Mr Joe Xuereb
May 19th 2011, 13:29
Some have expressed disapproval (and I'm reading fear and near-panic) that a spouse can just walk away from 'the other half' with impunity, ie divorcing him/her, and leave the one left behind distraught and destroyed.
This is how it works. The individual finds a partner, gets married and invests totally in him/her. Totally. Of course they disapprove of 'walk-away' divorce, of being left in the lurch, totally abandoned and destroyed. They want their investment to stay home to prop them up forever. They do not want to be treated as a slave, discarded when a bid for freedom or a fresher partner for his/her partner will leave him/her bereft of life itself, their opium taken away.
The moral of this scenario - and it is current, of 2011, not 2000 years old - is two-pronged:
a) Never invest in another person, certainly not totally. People change, including the investor.
and even more importantly, b) why would any self-respecting Tom, Cikku or Samantha insist on staying with a partner who does not want to be with them? As we say, 'xemx li ma ssaħħanx aħjar il-bard minnha' (loosely trans. 'a fireplace but no fire-logs [ħatab] to burn is of no use and may as well be walled-up).
Mr Joe Xuereb
May 19th 2011, 12:59
@ Matthew Grima (17:04). The game is Chinese Whispers. People sit in a circle. One starts by whispering a word in the right ear of his neighbour on the left. Who in turn, whispers it to HIS neighbour on his left. And so on until the word is whispered in the right ear of the person who started it off. It is interesting to note how the original word has nothing to do with the word as it ended up. This is exactly the same problem as stories written by people years after the event when nothing can be verified. Throw in different interpretations of whatever one ends up with at any given time AND - THERE IS ABSOLUTELY NOTHING THAT CAN BE DONE TO COMPARE THE CURRENT VERSION WITH THE ORIGINAL. As for anyone writing down what God said, or is supposed to have said - the mind boggles. Of course the defense there is that God revealed what he said by various means and revelations. As for God being the creator of everything and that 'he has no beginning and no end' - sorry! even an omnipotent god must have a beginning. And depicting him as a grizzled old man in the sky to give him more credibility with us mortals, that fact alone adds nothing to the uplifting of the debate above the downright banal.
I doubt I'll live long enough to learn how the whole universe came about. Maybe we will never know, and I do not have a problem with that. For I then have recourse to simple old-fashioned commonsense - plausibilities. A complex universe created by a god who made me in his image - I like that for the opposite is true if it is anything at all - a god who's always been there who promises me an eternity of his company if I'm good* and an eternity of his deprivation if I'm bad; so much for free will! And he's existed since forever. No, I cannot buy that.
*Being in permanent bliss with a god does nothing to excite me. Fear of eternal hellfire is a different matter of course. And it is this that clinches it for people. Subdueing them through fear rather than promised joy.
These of course are my freely-expressed opinions attained after much, and continuing, deliberation. A never-ending search for the truth if one likes. The morals and values in the holy book are good and ridiculously obvious. Which leaves us to deal with this god-given life that was never meant to be easy anyway: not when we're saddled with a god-given consciouslness, a god-given awareness. People need not change anything if they feel happy and satisfied with their status quo.
Mr Matthew Grima
May 19th 2011, 14:22
I remember calling the game "telephone" thanks for the correction.
My reasoning is this, if I cannot explain something, I just don't bother about it (though I used to), but I will not put a god as an explanation for it just to fill the void.
Mr Joe Xuereb
May 19th 2011, 12:57
@ Matthew Grima (17:04). The game is Chinese Whispers. People sit in a circle. One starts by whispering a word in the right ear of his neighbour on the left. Who in turn, whispers it to HIS neighbour on his left. And so on until the word is whispered in the right ear of the person who started it off. It is interesting to note how the original word has nothing to do with the word as it ended up. This is exactly the same problem as stories written by people years after the event when nothing can be verified. Throw in different interpretations of whatever one ends up with at any given time AND - THERE IS ABSOLUTELY NOTHING THAT CAN BE DONE TO COMPARE THE CURRENT VERSION WITH THE ORIGINAL. As for anyone writing down what God said, or is supposed to have said - the mind boggles. Of course the defense there is that God revealed what he said by various means and revelations. As for God being the creator of everything and that 'he has no beginning and no end' - sorry! even an omnipotent god must have a beginning. And depicting him as a grizzled old man in the sky to give him more credibility with us mortals, that fact alone adds nothing to the uplifting of the debate above the downright banal.
I doubt I'll live long enough to learn how the whole universe came about. Maybe we will never know, and I do not have a problem with that. For I then have recourse to simple old-fashioned commonsense - plausibilities. A complex universe created by a god who made me in his image - I like that for the opposite is true if it is anything at all - a god who's always been there who promises me an eternity of his company if I'm good* and an eternity of his deprivation if I'm bad; so much for free will! And he's existed since forever. No, I cannot buy that.
*Being in permanent bliss with a god does nothing to excite me. Fear of eternal hellfire is a different matter of course. And it is this that clinches it for people. Subdueing them through fear rather than promised joy.
These of course are my freely-expressed opinions attained after much, and continuing, deliberation. A never-ending search for the truth if one likes. The morals and values in the holy book are good and ridiculously obvious. Which leaves us to deal with this god-given life that was never meant to be easy anyway: not when we're saddled with a god-given consciouslness, a god-given awareness. People need not change anything if they feel happy and satisfied with their status quo.
B. Saliba
May 19th 2011, 10:23
the church has the right to defend its believes point taken.
the question i ask is this, marriage is a vocation like when someone becomes a nun or a priest, so a nun can leave from being a nun and a priest can leave from being a priest- technically speaking the nun is divorcing christ- because she is said to be the bride of christ, but people who are married can then not divorce if their marriage has ended internally (meaning externally is the piece of paper, internally what goes on between them).
Mr Christopher Grech
May 19th 2011, 10:03
@ Walter Volz
When quoting Scripture to Mr Joe Zammit, it does pay to also quote the things that you may not be accustomed to, such as:
From the gospel of Matthew:
23:7 And greetings in the markets, and to be called by men, Priest, Rabbi, Imam, etc.
23:8 But be not ye called priest (etc.): for One is your Teacher, [even] Christ; and all ye are brethren.
23:9 And call no [man] your father upon the earth: for one is your Father, which is in heaven.
23:10 Neither be ye called masters: for one is your Master, [even] Christ.
23:11 But he that is greatest among you shall be your servant.
To find the full letter to priests, one can read it here: http://100777.com/spiritual/lettertoparishpriest
It is shocking to know just how much priests push church politics, rather than what God intended.
VV Bartolo
May 19th 2011, 11:09
* i meant so you're voting no mr m borg to safeguard yourself?? ....
Walter Volz
May 19th 2011, 13:45
Dear Mr Grech, I don’t want to enter into a discussion about our religious believes on this site. But let me shortly state the following:
When you quote the words of Jesus, very much depends on the context in which they were spoken. The context for Mt 23:7-11 e.g. is the hypocrisy of the Pharisees.
You take issue with the word ‘priest’. According to the Oxford Dictionary it comes “from Greek presbuteros ‘elder’ (used in the New Testament to denote an elder of the early church)”. The same is true for the expression ‘bishop’, “based on Greek episkopos ‘overseer’”, an office already present in the New Testament church as well. You will agree with me that it is not so much the title that counts, but the inner disposition behind it!
Fr. Walter Volz
VV Bartolo
May 19th 2011, 07:26
yday i was shocked when i got to know, that a person "i know" whose been betraying her husband for ages is voting against divorce :) ... how loyal she is! obviously not to her catholic religion but to her party!!
regretfully i must say that this is all but a political issue and not about religion & our morals!
Mr M Borg
May 19th 2011, 08:59
Why should you be shocked, maybe you do not know what this woman knows.
With this on-fault divorce even if this woman does not want to divorce her husband, he can still divorce her and she will have no say.
Forget this woman, how whould you like it if your partner, although ,you might be the best husband /wife
can still divorce you.
With this divorce it is not you who controls your life but your wife / husband , do you think that this is right ?
Do not bring political parties in. JPO and Brincat belong to two different parties.
Both political leaders have made theri position known. Dr Gonzi is against. J. Muscat said he will
campaign in favour of it. Not only that but on One we are being shown what took place in the 60's every day..
We are living now, the effects of divorce will be felt in 2011, and they are not good.
Vote no for divorce.
Mr Joseph Aquilina
May 19th 2011, 09:43
Do not try to bring politics in the issue. the pro-divorce movement is already doing its best to built an anti-church campaign in order to try and bring votes from those that YES are not Catholics, but NO they don't agree with divorce. There is no need to turn this into another vote of confidence in the government - we are not going to vote on that!!!
Mr Matthew Grima
May 19th 2011, 09:46
"Forget this woman, how whould you like it if your partner, although ,you might be the best husband /wife
can still divorce you."
So you'd want to stay with someone who doesn't want to stay with you? Wow.
Mr M Borg
May 19th 2011, 09:59
@ Matthew Grima
I do not know about you. But I want to be the one who is charge of my life.
I do not want to turn into a slave just because I am married , do you ?
I do not want to be divorced against my will, do you ?
Do you consider yourself a slave, some one that can just be discarded when not needed ?
Well I do not ! I am in control of my life and I will not hand over that control to anyone , will you ?
VV Bartolo
May 19th 2011, 10:05
so you're voting YES mr m borg to safeguard yourself?? so your wife won't be able to control yr life?? :)
and what about those hundreds and even thousands of women/men who has been suffering thru their marriage life? don't they have a RIGHT to safeguard themselves as well by voting YES?!?!
Mr M Borg
May 19th 2011, 10:56
@ W. Bartolo
No , I am not voting no to safeguard myself . I am voting No because I believe in marriage.
I used that example to show you how this no-divorce works.
Do you think that it is right , that although you might be the best husband / wife in the world your husband/
wife can still divorce you. Once this no-divorce is filed you cannot stop it.
Your partner has taken control of your life , and want it or not , you have to be divorced, you are not given a
chance to save your marriage.
Do you agree with this ? This is what I meant why I wrote " control my life ".
Mr Matthew Grima
May 19th 2011, 11:35
What a twisted argument, you want to stay with someone who has no interest in staying with you, just so you feel "in control"? With the same argument, you're trying to control your ex-wife by not letting her move on so you can stroke your own vindictive ego. I repeat, what a twisted argument.
Mr Alex Buds
May 19th 2011, 04:56
Those voting no, as well as the religious fundamentalists posting on this board, are practicing a vindictive, uncaring, inhuman, and egoistic form of Christianity from the Old Testament which has nothing to do with the spirit of love and forgiveness of the New.
Because their marriage is fine, or they have no marriage, they have no problem with throwing their less fortunate brethren under the bus. Shame on them for they are the truly evil ones.
Mr Joseph Aquilina
May 19th 2011, 09:45
I am not married and still going to vote no. Not because I am Christian - indeed I agree with cohabitation before marriage something which goes against Christian doctrine - but rather because divorce as proposed will quickly become (if not from day one) a tool for social injustice!!!
George Camilleri
May 18th 2011, 23:32
I think it is a time for clear words and strong leadership. Bishop Grech's directness is as refreshing as it is necessary in this foggy climate of ifs and buts and conscience and what-not. My conscience tells me be one with the words of Christ. Pro-divorcists should stop calling themselves practising Catholics unless they are either deceitful or ignorant of their own faith. You just cannot run with the hares and hunt with the hounds. What next? Pro-abortion Catholics; pro-gay marriage Catholics, pro-euthanasia Catholics; non-Church going Catholics... I say, when do you stop being a Catholic?
Mr Mike Rizzo
May 18th 2011, 21:57
@ Gerry Cowie
You are most certainly not on the fence on this issue, so don't pretend otherwise.
Why do you speak of secularists, atheists, and humanists as if they are some lesser beings? They have different beliefs from you, that's all. The way you speak about Catholics versus non-Catholics almost sounds like a football supporter saying that their team is better than everyone else.
Yes everyone, and not just Catholics, have the right to comment on what the Bishop says - particularly because Catholic dogma does affect everyone by virtue of the fact that it is imposed by the state, and also has consequences on wider legal rights such as the right to a lawyer of one's choice.
Christ Muscat
May 18th 2011, 21:08
Intom li thobbu tiktbu d`din is-site kollha ghal genna !!!!!!!!! anzi nahseb beati ha tkunu!!!
Mr Joseph Aquilina
May 19th 2011, 09:50
That is very hard to happen ... most of them are pro-divorce :P Joking apart. You cannot judge someone because he votes NO for divorce because of his or her own believes. These people put their trust of a better life (in this one and the next one) in the teachings of the Church in the same way that others may trust them into other things.
Gerry Cowie
May 18th 2011, 19:54
Bishop Grech is often vilified for doing his job. Whether or not you agree with him that is just what he is doing.
The usual secularist, athiest, humanist apologists have added their sarcasm below as expected, and decided to comment on something they apparently have nothing to do with anyway - the Church.
But the people of Malta and Gozo are strong in their majority Catholic beliefs which affect each and every aspect of their lives.
The comments referred to above serve only to strengthen the Catholicity of the people and ensure that there will be a resounding "no" vote at the referendum, with the pro movement having made itself undoubtedly the strongest weapon the anti movement could possibly have!
I am on the fence on this issue and comment merely on the attitude of those who are not desperate to get divorce in Malta but desperate to attack the Church at every opportunity!
The people of Malta are not stupid! They will vote according to what their consciences tell them and nobody can change that, certainly not unless they adopt a non confrontational approach and cease rubbishing the Catholic Church!
Mr Saliba Francis
May 18th 2011, 21:20
Christ himself advised his followers to be happy when they are vilified because of him, because they would be rewarded.
Somehow I do not think that Bishop Grech is losing any sleep because of the vituperation being hurled at him in the local press by the usual motley crown of "practicing" Catholics and others more openly admitting that they are lapsed Catholics or prospective self-excommunicated Catholics. I hope that there are many, many other priests who feel the same way and who would not be intimidated.
Victor Pulis
May 18th 2011, 21:43
'The people of Malta are not stupid! They will vote according to what their consciences tell them'
You are absolutely right on that aspect at least.
Mr Alex Buds
May 18th 2011, 22:04
Divorce legislation is inevitable, sooner or later, whether you like it or not. Get over it.
Ms Emma Xerri
May 19th 2011, 06:31
How can you in all honesty say that you are on the fence on this issue when you are clearly on the anti-divorce side and condone the church in using spiritual blackmail and extortion.
For records's sake, aetheists, humanists and secularists have been among the best that humanity has had to offer, numbering amongst them many Nobel Prize winners for science and medicine that contributed to the welfare of humanity. While on the other religions and religious people such as Popes have been responsible for keeping humanity backwards and have caused the bloodiest wars and violence not to mention the cruelest tortures and murders imaginable, including your Holy Inquisition and in modern times, the scandal of child abuse and rampant paedophilia by the clergy. These are verifyable facts and attacking the Church at every opportunity would be the least that should happen. In my opinion, in a just world the whole organisation ought to be abolished for the harm it has done throughout the centuries.
Raymond Sacco
May 18th 2011, 19:09
why on earth is religion being dragged into the divorce debate after all?!?!?! divorce will be introduced for civil marriage ONLY! catholic marriages have nothing to do with all this. this is a civil matter and therefore an issue for the catholic church not to meddle in! so who ever want to dispute divorce, please, try to think of some sensible rational arguments about the world we live in and the human lives who inhabit it without reproducing words that are said to have been written down some 2000 years ago!
Henry S. Pace
May 18th 2011, 18:33
'Fr Charlo Camilleri, who last August argued that Catholic politicians can, according to their conscience, vote in favour of divorce if research showed it was beneficial for the common good, said the homily had to be taken in its context.'
In the hot summer months Fr Camilleri said that lay people are doing more harm than good in the divorce issue. Reference to the above quotation I do not agree with this Church Theologian . A true catholic person can never bend his back to accomodate others who go against the teachings of Christ.. Perhaps Fr Camilleri is not aware that the some years back the King of Belgium resigned temporilly from his reign so as not to give his assent to a law that goes against his christian beliefs. A Regent was then appointed.
Mr Tony Camilleri
May 18th 2011, 18:20
JIstghu l-awtoritajiet tal-Knisja ta' Malta jghidulna jekk huwiex veru li fl-Amerika biex xi hadd japplika ghall-annullament tal-Knisja lanqas ghandu bzonn joqghod imur it-Tribunal imma jista' japplika wkoll minn fuq l-ineternet u li dan ilhom jaghmluh ghal zmien twil u mhux issa u sa min-nofs is-snin disghin?
Jistghu jghidulna l-awtoritajiet tal-Knisja ta' Malta kemm normalment idumu l-Amerika beix jiehdu annullament u kemm idumu hawn Malta?
Jistghu jghidulna l-awtoritajiet tal-Knisja ta' Malta jekk it-tagħlim tal-Knisja ta' Malta huwiex l-istess bhat-taghlim tal-Knisja fl-Amerika?
Grazzi.
Mr Anton PIsani
May 18th 2011, 18:11
Mr. Matthew Vella - I do not contest your right to Vote NO. I ask you and others to understand that the question on May 28 is a legal one. I do not agree with Divorce cos I accept its against my religion. But I always believed that the fundamental principles in Our Religion were built on Teaching values not Imposing - that this makes us different from Talibans. Jesus always distinguised between right and wrong, never shied away from defining wrong, and I agree that we should do the same nowadays, but HE never Imposed. We are not being asked if we Agree with divorce or otherwise. The bottom line question next week is whether an individual should have a right to decide his fate - Yes or no. Voting No means imposing our choice and not allowing the individual to choose himself. I do not even consider seperation an option for myself, let alone divorce. Even if this vote could lead a person to sin in future, he should decide. Did Jesus ASK people to follow Him (and leave everything behind) or did He Force them to follow him cause that was good for them. Likewise, we should not force our neighbour to make sure he does not Sin in future. We should try to persuade him not to choose the wrong door (when it comes to the ACT of Divorce, not the referenduim question) but the ultimate choice should always be his. Some tell me that this means being an accomplice to sin - but then, so was Jesus too?
Mr Joe Gatt
May 19th 2011, 00:12
Well said Mr Pisani,
Good will and comon sence will prevail in the end.
Mr Joseph Aquilina
May 19th 2011, 10:03
So should we legalise drugs so that I can allow the individual to choose for himself. While at it while not also legalise other things such as abortion? Indeed their are countries that did that in the people in that country do not live a very happy life. You just need to see their suicide rates in order to realise in what misery they live in. That said, divorce can't even be labelled as allowing someone to choose for him or her self because at the end of the day divorce will always effect TWO-OR-MORE persons NOT JUST ONE! What if the other person does not want a divorce (for some reason or another). With the proposed law that person will be FORCED to take a divorce that he she might not have wanted. Do you want that?
Mr Anton PIsani
May 19th 2011, 11:30
Mr. Aquilina, i exlcude Abortion from civil rights simply because I believe rights should be limited by the rights of others - that's why murder should never be a right - it takes away the biggest right of all - the right to live. Re drugs - it is scientifically proved that drugs cause addictions and harm to the human body - that justifies drug censorship. Moreover, legally would it make sense if we say that drugs from UK, Netherlands etc are legally accepted in our country but Maltese drugs are not? Cos that's what we're saying when voting NO. Foreign divorce legal, local divorce no.
With regards to the imposition of divorce on the other party - in practice divorce will follow seperation. Its not like a person will receive a divorce notice out of a happy marriage. There are several steps before that including seperation and reconciliation attempts. Lets stop pretending seperation is ok because its not so easy to get but divorce is easy, bla raguni. Remember divorce has to follow seperation. But I insist that the question is not whether we agree with divorce or not, I personally don't agree with it in fact, but wheter a person should have the right to choose himself whether to divorce or not.
Victor Rodenas
May 18th 2011, 17:34
In a few years time (as happened before)an Archbishop will make an apology saying that it was a mistake that the Church said that those who voted `YES` to the divorce referendum commited a grave sin and could`nt receive Holy Communion.We have been there before ,have`nt we?
Mr M Borg
May 18th 2011, 19:39
Wouldn't it be better if you stopped living in the past.
The effects of the divorce referendum will be felt now !
Mr Alex Buds
May 18th 2011, 22:06
M Borg: if you think you can stop divorce, you are living in the past.
You might delay it this time around, but if you do, there will be another soon enough.
Religious zealotry is a concept whose time has passed. Human progress has moved on.
Mr Joseph Aquilina
May 19th 2011, 09:57
Don't think so... What Bishop Gonzi did was inhumane. He mixed politics with religion and made use of his secular power in order to get the people vote in one direction or the other. This was wrong and such wrongness was also recognised by the Church in Rome and Malta. That said, the subject here is a complete different one. Here we are not being asked to make a political decision but a moral one and moralities have all to do with religion.
Mr Michael Debono
May 18th 2011, 16:34
The Gospel of a couple of days ago quoted the words of Jesus Christ about the Holy Eucharisty(. Saint John Ch VI: If you eat my body and drink my blood will not die and I live in him and he lives in me"
or words to that effect.
The point is this. Jesus Christ did not subject what he said and promised to any condition. Hence it must be the Church that imposed conditions in order to receive the Body and Blood of Jesus Christ. The condition is that one must not be living in the state of mortal sin, and even venial sin was added at the Girgenti so called apparitions by a late priest. This is to proof that priests some times err.because of fanatism.
Since the condition has been imposed by the Church, the Church has the power to retract it.
Since it is a condition imposed by the Church could not someone in danger of dead not receive Holy Eucharisty before confession, once this latter condition is imbossible because of the abscence of priest.
There is some sense in the Church position but it could very well be useless if the Church thinks so.
This is being written because Bishop Mario Grech mentioned it indirectly i.c.w voting Yes at the referendum
Harry Saliba
May 18th 2011, 16:26
Joe Zammit
Grow up !!! Get a life and let others live theirs in peace without having to stomach such crap from the likes of you
Ms S Micallef
May 18th 2011, 16:44
he thinks he's going to heaven just by sitting in his comfy chair in front of a screen accusing people of mortal sin. how pathetic.
Victor Pulis
May 18th 2011, 16:25
So according to the Gozo bishop and catholic church teaching the only door to salvation is through that one door. That means that more than 5 billion of the 6 billion humans living on Earth are doomed to hell. Does anyone blame me for not believing?
Mr Joseph Calleja
May 18th 2011, 16:21
Being that Gozo Bishop Mario Grech, who hinted that Catholics promoting divorce legislation are “wolves in sheep’s clothing" shouldn't be accusing anybody. As far as we know Bishop Grech has never been married or maybe not even ever been intimate with a member of the opposite sex. What is the Bishop trying to say? Only he who stirs the pot knows what is in it. (Min igarrab ikun jaf). The Bishop of Gozo was administering and celebrating confirmation to young people and I think he was way out of line instilling hate and disillusioning these youths against the pro divorce people.. He, as a church leader should have stuck to the program of confirmation. I think the Bishop put that foot in his mouth and it is not so easy to pull out. The Bishop is entitled to express his personal thinking but there is a time and a place and this was not the time or place. To the Bishop I say, I don't think the pro divorce people are “wolves in sheep’s clothing”. They express exactly what they mean by pro divorce. Maybe the Bishop has the whole thing turned around. Was the Bishop taking advantage of the fact that he was preaching to young unsuspecting adults? Ignorance is bliss!
Peter Gee
May 18th 2011, 16:07
Mgr. Grech has got some nerve to talk about sheep in wolves clothing in view recent scandals involving alleged sexual abuses by some priests.
Walter Volz
May 18th 2011, 21:01
Dear Mr Joe Zammit, unfortunately you often seem to be lonely preacher in the desert! I am a German Catholic priest living temporarily in Malta. I appreciate very much the clear and courageous teaching of Msgr Grech, the bishop of Gozo. In this time of doctrinal confusion you have to call a spade a spade, all priests should do that, because only that can help.
I commend your undeterred defence of the teaching of the Catholic church in the face of so many violent and scorning attacks against you. Personally I would formulate a bit differently, but on principle I am with you!
You do well to quote the Catechism of the Catholic Church: Divorce is a grave offence against the natural law… The remarried spouse is in a situation of public and permanent adultery! (n. 2384).
But you know, as St. Paul already said: The time will come when men will no longer listen to sound doctrine. Instead, to suit their own desires, they will gather around them a great number of teachers to say what their itching ears want to hear! (2 Timothy 4:3)
Keep up the good work and don’t be discouraged! I pray for you!
Fr. Dr. theol. Walter Volz
Mr Joe Zammit
May 18th 2011, 16:04
Catholics for divorce are false Catholics.
Catholics for divorce are betraying Christ.
Catholics for divorce are pleasing the devil.
Catholics for divorce are living in sin and are on the path to hell.
Join in the battle between God and the devil! Fight the good fight! The victory is ours, it’s already guaranteed!
Ms S Micallef
May 18th 2011, 16:24
nghidlek who is pleasing the devil and who is living in sin and on the path to hell.
Nahseb you are Mr. Zammit, with all your judgemental ways.
Mr Tony Camilleri
May 18th 2011, 18:08
Judge not lest you be judged Joe Zammit.
Raymond Sacco
May 18th 2011, 18:54
@joe zammit:
lol! richard the lion heart would have needed someone like you!
Mr Joseph Lungaro
May 18th 2011, 20:45
@ Mr Joe Zammit
The More I read Your Sad Spoof Post.......The more is my determination to Vote YESSSSSSSSSS!
Lets hope common sense prevail ........cause this is a funadamental civil rights We're voting for..... the Whole World cant be the Devil and us Maltese the Saints!
Mr Alex Buds
May 18th 2011, 22:40
Those who like to accuse others of mortal sin probably better be careful about their own salvation instead.
I wouldn't bet on yours Joe. I'm thinking the good Lord might not enjoy the prospect of spending eternity listening to you.
Ms Emma Xerri
May 19th 2011, 06:40
Joe, I have got news for you.
Both God and the Devil are figments of your imagination. And when we die, we do not go to heaven or hell, we just return back to the elements by rotting in the grave. The sooner you face these facts, the sooner you will be free. Set yourself free and get a life - by doing so you can spare us your asinine statements repeated ad nauseum.
Walter Volz
May 19th 2011, 09:40
Dear Mr Joe Zammit, unfortunately you often seem to be lonely preacher in the desert! I am a German Catholic priest living temporarily in Malta. I appreciate very much the clear and courageous teaching of Msgr Grech, the bishop of Gozo. In this time of doctrinal confusion you have to call a spade a spade, all priests should do that, because only that can help.
I commend your undeterred defence of the teaching of the Catholic church in the face of so many violent and scorning attacks against you. Personally I would formulate a bit differently, but on principle I am with you!
You do well to quote the Catechism of the Catholic Church: Divorce is a grave offence against the natural law… The remarried spouse is in a situation of public and permanent adultery! (n. 2384).
But you know, as St. Paul already said: The time will come when men will no longer listen to sound doctrine. Instead, to suit their own desires, they will gather around them a great number of teachers to say what their itching ears want to hear! (2 Timothy 4:3)
Keep up the good work and don’t be discouraged! I pray for you!
Fr. Dr. theol. Walter Volz
Margaret Richards
May 19th 2011, 18:08
Joe zammit strikes again - extremely boring and repetitive and best and psychotic at worst!!! Do us a favour and shut up
Mr Joe Zammit
May 18th 2011, 16:03
St John the Baptist, who knew sin was a matter of foro interno, repeated to King Herod: It is not lawful to take your brother's wife! Thus he was telling him he was living in sin. He did it although sin belongs to the foro interno!
What about the works of mercy? One of them is to admonish sinners. So, should we keep back from this work of mercy? If I see my brother falling in sin, shall I not admonish him? Does not Christ himself tell us to correct others who are sinning?
When St Peter heard the lie (i.e., the grave sin) from Ananias and Saphira, did he place that sin in their foro interno, and close his eyes? Or he accused them of their grievous sin against the Holy Spirit and God punished them by sudden death for their sin!
Let every voter on divorce whether in Parliament or in a referendum be careful! Playing with divorce is playing with fire. Let us remember that God does not want divorce and this prohibition is for all people, Catholics and non-Catholics, without exception. No conscience can ever justify divorce or voting for divorce. If divorce is a grave sin, voting for divorce is equally grievously sinful. No one is going to deceive God.
Join in the battle between God and the devil! Fight the good fight! The victory is ours, it's already guaranteed!
Victor Pulis
May 18th 2011, 16:09
It was sinful of herod to take his brother's wife because she was still married to him. The israelites practiced divorce in the time of Jesus so if Herodias had divorced her husband John the baptist would not have rebuked Herod.
Victor Pulis
May 18th 2011, 16:00
It is incredible how comments one makes are sometimes interpreted, misinterpreted, mangled and jumbled,” he(Fr. Joe Borg) said.
Fr. Borg was referring to comments he made some days ago. Now imagine someone speaking 2,000 years ago and his words being repeated by word of mouth (no recording equipment or internet, newspapers, t.v. etc. back then) for decades before they are put down in writing and translated into different languages by unprofessional translaters. Both speaker and words taken out of context and time.
Mr M Borg
May 18th 2011, 16:28
Do you mean that you have another version of the bilble ?
Mr Matthew Grima
May 18th 2011, 17:04
Mr Borg, a story of a man, written decades after it happened, then translated to other languages is bound to change.
Ever heard of the game telephone? And the phrase "lost in translation", you'll probably say no just for the sake of it, but anyway.
This obviously not including the HUGE possibility that it was written by human beings who could have had a hidden agenda themselves.
Ms S Micallef
May 18th 2011, 15:54
@ Matthew Vella.
You're 24 years old and you seem a little immature. Get off your high horse and declaring who is and is not a Catholic. Just in case you haven't realised yet, you are a nobody and have no authority to make such statements and should realise that it actually goes against our religious values to judge, point fingers and exclude others.
IT IS NOT UP TO YOU TO DECIDE WHO IS CATHOLIC AND WHO ISN'T.
Mr Michael Galea
May 18th 2011, 15:41
Bishop Mario Grech, hinted that Catholics promoting divorce legislation are “wolves in sheep’s clothing”
Does the same saying go for Paedophile Priests ??? They exist in Malta !!
"The one who has no sin shall throw the first stone." Said Jesus
Mr Angelo Vassallo
May 18th 2011, 15:37
@ Jack Vella
L-isqof ta' Ghawdex Mons Mario Grech kien qieghed jitkellem fil-kuntest ta' l-Evangelju li kien ghadu kif inqara waqt il-quddiesa.
KRISTU kien li ghajjar lil min ma jidholx fil-maqjel mill-bieb imma jaqbez xi hajt jew jidhol mit-tieqa huwa BRIGANT - HALLIEL - QATTIEL. U l-BIEB li kien qieghed jitkellem dwarhu huwa hadd hlief KRISTU nnifsu.
Mr Jack Vella
May 18th 2011, 15:56
Prosit Sur Vassallo,
Nissugerilek terga tismagha mela!!!
Mr Michael Debono
May 18th 2011, 15:34
Michael Debono
This was sent to Mr.Joe Zammit with no reply but it involves everyone particulatly theologians
Could this resoning contribute positevly to the ongoing debate on divorce yes or no?
A billion Catholics. A fine number, but the world population is 6 billions so the Catholics are in a minority and have always been.. However, and this is reasonable to say, that more non Catholics than Catholics are saved- go to Heaven- These include members of other religions. I am basing my reasoning on the fact that Lucifer is constantly at war againsr Christ and tries to attract more people to his evil state. But reason tells us that after all Christ will win, and cannot be otherwise. Don't you share this opinion, that Christ will prevail against Satan, against Lucifer.
Now since non Catholics reasonably outnumber Catholics, in heaven there must be a superior number than Catholics otherwise we cannot say that Christ is winning, which such a negative answer would be a heresy. Christus Vincit!
How do you explain that, if not the fact that non catholics who have their own religion and follow it in good faith are saved. Since these religions admit divorce how can you keep on saying that divorce leads to hell?
Victor Pulis
May 18th 2011, 16:07
Mr. Debono I advise you not to hold your breath for an answer from Joe Zammit. The best you will get is a cut and paste mantra which has nothing to do with your question. With all his 'knowledge' of the scriptures Joe is unable to answer questions about his faith.
As for your question it makes perfect sense and i have been asking Joe to explain how out of a population of 6 billion only less than one billion (since not all catholics will go to heaven) will be saved. His answer was that Jesus does not look at numbers. Then I reminded him of the parable of the good shepherd.
Mr Joseph Aquilina
May 18th 2011, 15:30
The major problem here is that the pro-divorce movement has been hijacked by people who for some reason or another (usually most of all peer-pressure) have some form of personal issues with the Church. The Bishop is saying nothing new and what he says only applies to those that consider themselves as members of the Roman Catholic Church. Those that do not consider themselves as so (which seems to be the majority of people commenting on times-of-malta regarding the subject) should pretty simple not be effected. They are free to form their opinion by themselves. That said, those that are Roman Catholics - not because simply baptised but because they truly believe in the values of this institution - cannot just form their opinion and ignore what the Church has to say about the subject. They can vote YES for divorce, but in doing so will automatically make them no longer part of that institution.
It is as if I become a member of a football club but then I go an support another football club!! It does not make sense. People who find themselves in that situation should first of all be honest with themselves and only then an they say if they are in favour or not for divorce.
Mr Michael Debono
May 18th 2011, 16:56
You cannot generalise. There are good christians that are in favour of introduction of divorce- which is not the same as in favour of divorce. One could be in favour of the intoduction of legislation on divorce but would be against applying for it. Very simple. It is like issuing permits to drive motorcycles for whoever is in favour but against recommending people to drive it because of the danger involved.
Mr Alex Buds
May 18th 2011, 15:16
Nobody can hold back progress, although religious establishments have done a mighty fine job throughout history of delaying it.
Sooner or later, whether this time or next, divorce legislation is inevitable.
Mr Jack Vella
May 18th 2011, 15:34
Sur Cutajar,
Nahseb ahjar terga taqra il post tieghi qabel taqbez f'konkluzjonijiet!!!
Mr Jack Vella
May 18th 2011, 15:52
Dan il Kumment lis-Sur Cutajar gie indirizzat. Apologies for the mishap Mr. Buds :)))
Mr Louis Cutajar
May 18th 2011, 15:09
Sur Vella, naħseb l-aħjar li is-silta tal-Adultera terġa taqrha u aqrha sħiħa. Kristu mhux biss aċċettha u m'għajjarihiex imma żied jgħidilha ukoll ... "Mur u mil-lum il-quddiem tidnibx aktar." Ħafna drabi l-aħħar biċċa ninsewha.
Mr Louis Cutajar
May 18th 2011, 16:10
Imma taf'x nahseb li kulħadd irid li il-ħazin nghidulu tajjeb. L-Isqof qed jghid il-verita oggettiva . Dak li hu hazin qatt ma nistghu nghidulu tajjeb. L-aghar hu mhux biss li tara l-hazin f'haddiehor, imma meta taghmel dan tinsa l-hazin li tkun ghamilt int. Hemm differenza minn meta jien se niggudikak biex inti tmur ahjar u tirranga u altru niggudikak biex inkissrek u naghmillek il-hsara biex jien nidher nfuh bhalma ghamlu l-kittieba mal-mara adultera. Mhux qed nghid ghalik personali, imma hafna nies hekk jagixxu jaraw il-hazin biss f'haddiehor u jinsew it-tajjeb li hemm f'dik il-persuna u wisq aktar jinsew l-ghemejjel hziena taghhom. Hadd ma jonxor il-hwejjeg mahmugin barra. Zgur li hu isqof li l-affarijiet hziena li hemm fost il-kleru se jghidlhom tajjeb, forsi ghax ma narawhx jagixxi nahsbu li ma jsirx xejn. Imma kemm ghandna zball kbir. Jien nista haga hazina nghidilha tajba imma fil-verita tibqa hazina, bik forsi nkun qed nithaq imma b'Alla le, u fija xorta jkun hemm xi haga li tibqa tghidli li hi hazina ghalkemm nghid li hi tajba. Qed nippruvaw insibu kull haga ma xix ningranfaw biex nippruvaw inserrħu l-kuxjenza.
Mr Jack Vella
May 18th 2011, 16:31
Sur Cutajar,
Prosit Punt validu biss ghedt int stess li jekk ma narawhx jagixxi nahsbu li mhux qed isir xejn Hu hemm id-differenza fl-opinjonijiet taghna JIena qed nitkellem fuq li smajt b'widnejja stess u fuq li rajt. Il-Knisja min zmien zemzem kienet dejjem tibqa siekta u fl-ahhar mill-ahhar bhal fil-kaz tal-pedofelija ibatu l-ewwel it-tfal infushom imbaghad il-familji tagghom. Jiena ghalekk favur id-divorzju ghax hija ghazla u l-ghazla li ghandu qassis biex jinhall mill-irbit jekk dan jiehu grazzja ma mara li sa certu punt huwa uman imma dnub, hekk ukoll ghandha l-istess KNISJA taghti L-ISTESS GHAZLA lil min huwa mizzewweg. Id-Divorzju huwa ghazla ghal min iz-zwieg tieghu ma rnexxiex.
Ms B Cassar
May 18th 2011, 15:08
Qed nistenna l-ittra ta l-interdett. Isa isqfijiet, naqra zghira ohra jonqoskom, toqghodux tiddejqu, tant rajniha l-istorja ta Malta.
Mhux problema ta, ghalija zgur li mijiex, meta nara dan l-atteggament nisthi nghid li ommi u missieri ghamduni. Isqof Gonzi iehor dan mid-dehra.
Mr James Grech
May 18th 2011, 14:49
I've been in the teaching profession all my life. I used to teach in a trades school for a number of years and way back then, the issue of broken families was already becoming an issue for the school, since students coming from those broken families began having problems of their own. As someone else commented earlier, these students could only be reached if due attention was given to them. So yes I totally agree that children suffer whenever their parents separate, however one cannot make divorce a culprit, more then one can make legal separation the cause of the family break down. Both separation and divorce (and obviously annulment) are the result of a society which is facing problems. Both financially, socially and also spiritually. While government is saying that it is against divorce, it is brushing aside all the financial burden that families are experiencing. For the government divorce is yet another excuse which it can exploit in its favour. For the Church, which has been experiencing difficulties in making its teachings heard, especially to the younger generations, the attitude being adopted against divorce will make it even more difficult to reach out. The Church is sending yet again the wrong message. Instead of preaching hope and salvation, they are preaching damnation and wrongly trying to influence a democratic process from taking its due course.
While divorce may not be the best solution, it will definitely not be worse then separation or annulment. It will provide another possibility for separated couples to re-establish new family. Those that are differentiating between them and saying that while annulment is good, divorce is bad, are those that are factoring in the religious aspect, and thus confusing things.
Deo Catania
May 18th 2011, 14:47
Argument bazwi. Bl-istess ragunar lanqas min jaqbel ma' l-annullament ma ghandu jitqarben. Din il-kummiedja li juzaw l-iskuza 'zwieg li qatt ma kien' m'hi xejn hlief gidba sfaccata. Annullament huwa divorzju bil-barka tal-kurja Maltija. Hafna tejatrini biex taparsi ara kemm ahna nsara. Taghmilx deni lil haddiehor u daqshekk, hadd m'ghandu dritt jindahal la fil-hajja privata u izjed u izjed fir-relazzjoni ta' bejn kull individwu u Alla. Dan Mario Grech ghandu xi super power jew? Mela min hu separat u jghix ma' haddiehor ma jistaghx jitqarben, min jaqbel mad-divorzju ma jistghax lanqas, injoranza grassa.
Ms B Cassar
May 18th 2011, 15:17
juzaw l-iskuza 'zwieg li qatt ma kien'
anke jien meta nircievi il-kont tad-dawl ukoll nghid dan qatt ma rcevejtu imma fir-realta malajr insib xi reminder fil-kaxxa tal-posta.
Ronald Cassar
May 18th 2011, 14:26
Bishop Grech is not doing the Catholic Church in Malta any favours with his comments... These are comments of fundamentalists!!
Mr Jack Vella
May 18th 2011, 14:06
Ma kien ikollok l-ebda setgha li kieku ma kinitx mghotija lilek min Missieri!!!
by Jack Vella - facebook page: Jack Vella (Author & Poet) - Blog: jackvella.blogspot.com
Meta snin ilu kont hdimt il-parti ta' Gesu' kont irrealizajt li l-parti tieghu mhux lakemm tahdimha, ghax ta' Kristu hija parti li ma tistax terga tiinhadem. Gesu huwa uniku f'kull sens. Kull haga li ghamel. Il-Mirakli li wettaq. Imma fuq kollox KLIEMU. Kliem illi ghadu jghodd u jidwi sallum. Bhalma xi kultant jibqa jghodd u jidwi kliem illi jinghad lilna jew minn fommna lejn xi hadd, minn xi hadd jew ghal xi hadd. Imma tiskanta il-hazin dejjem jidher iktar u dejjem jaghmel hafna aktar hoss. Il-bniedem ghandu tendenza li jinsa t-tajjeb u jiftakar il-hazin. Jinsa dak kollu li jkun twettaq u sar biex jinbena grupp, post, nazzjon, pajjiz u jiftakar f'dak li farrak lil dawn li semmejt.
Ibda per ezempju mix-xufiera tal-linja lejlet li dawn ser jigu mgedda jew mibdula minn kumpanija gdida. Zmien ilu kien hemm 508 xarabanks u l-istess ammont ta' xufiera. Minn dawn xi ghoxrin jew anqas kienu jzebilhu l-isem kemm ta' l-ADT u sahansitra t' Alla u l-Madonna u l-ohrajn kollha. Hazin. Dak li huwa hazin trid tghidlu hazin. U hekk kien u hekk huwa. Imma l-hazin taghna huwa li ghalina, li ahna tant gusti li nistaw nittimbraw bl-addocc lil haddiehor, wahhalna f'tal- linja kollha u ghalina huma kollha hziena. Dan huwa hazin ukoll!! Kien hemm min fahhar il-globalizzazjoni meta ahna kellna u ghad ghandna il- generalizzazzjoni!!
Kristu ltaqa ma' hafna u hafna nies illi tista tghid li kienu dell ta' karattru li ghandna jien u int. Huwa kien jaf x'kellhom f'mohhhom. Huwa kien jaf x'ghandna ahna f'mohhna. Kien jaf li ser jissallab ghal dawk il-hziena u ghat-tajbin. Xi whud, kienu ser jindmu u jergghu lura ghat-triq it-tajba. Ohrajn kienu diga hemm. Ohrajn kienu lesti li jintilfu u jigu dannati ghal dejjem. Dik kienet, ghadha u tibqa GHAZLA, li wiehed kien, qed u sejjer jaghmel f'xi waqtiet f'hajtu b'decizjonijiet u azzjonijiet li ser jiehu favur jew kontra tieghu nnifsu w'ta ohrajn. Imma ghal Kristu, ahna kollha l-istess u ghamilna x'ghamilna, l-imhabba tieghu hija tant li infinita bhala kelma m'hijiex bizzejjed!!!
Immagina li jsawtulek xi hadd minn tal-familja. Lest li tahfer???
Immagina li jghajruk u jzebilhuk quddiem in-nies ghal xejn b'xejn. Lest li tahfer???
Immagina li jtuk daqqa ta' ponn u jghidulek aqta min tahilek!!! Lest li tahfer???
Immagina li jobzqulek. Lest li tahfer???
Immagina li jnezzghuk minn hwejgek u gheri quddiem kulhadd inehhu d-dinjita tieghek. Lest li tahfer???
Immagina li jsawtu, jaghtu, jifilgu, jtertqu, jsallbu imbaghad joqtlu lil ibnek. Lest li tahfer???
Ghal dawn il-mistoqsijiet perswaz li hafna minnha ser jghidu LE. Hafna minnha jmorru l-quddies, imma meta jigu affacjati b'dawn it-tip ta' cirkustanzi jzebilhu, jsaqsu u johduha kontra Alla nnifsu. Ghala? Huwa qabel ma pponta subghajh lejk ghax ghandu kull dritt halla lil ghadam kollhu ta' gisem ibnu jitkisser. Halla l-idejH u saqajH imqaddsa jigu ippenetrati minn hadid mahdum mill-bniedem. Halla l-kustat u l-qalbu jigu minfuda minn lanza - sinjifikat ta' gwerra meta gismu nnifsu kien sinjifikat ta' paci, meta Hu nnifsu qatt u qatt m'ghamel xejn biex jigi ttorturat u maqtul b'dak il-mod.
Illum l-istess knisja li waqqaf Hu qeghda tagixxi mieghi u mieghek b'mod differenti, ingust u dak li Hu t'Alla qed taghtih lil bniedem qisu huwa il-krejatur ewlieni!! Irridu niehdu post Alla. U is-setgha li taghna huwa nnifsu qeghdin nabbuzaw minnha u ndawruwa kif irridu ahna u kif jaqblilna. Hemm mijiet hemm barra li jibzghu jitkellmu, jiddejqu, jisthu ghax jigu mghajjra, mzebilha u t-torturati bl-ilsien min haddiehor!!!
L-Isqof t'Ghawdex, waqt omelija li ghamel nhar il-hadd li ghadda, ghajjar lil kull min ser jivvota IVA ghad dhul tad-divorzju - HALLIEL - BRIGANT- QATTIEL.
L-ISQOF TA GHAWDEX!!!!!!!!!!!
Ir-rapprezentant ta' Kristu f'dik il-gzira li jiena tant inhobb. Imma Eccellenza ghidli inti...fejn kont Int meta tfal mir-Rabat Ghawdex, soffrew taht qassisin hutek u ULIEDEK fi Kristu??? Fejn kont int meta ma' widdibthomx u ammetejt f'isem hutek w'uliedek l-izball li sar??? Il-ghala ma' tkellimtx u bqajtu tahbu dak li haddiehor bata??? Ghalfejn meta tridu biss taqbzu ghal batut??? Jaqaw m'hemmx il-poter tal-Knisja fin-nofs?
Imma ahna bhala poplu qatt GHAJJARNA LILEK LI INTI WKOLL QASSIS pedoflu???? Meta fil-fatt m'intix????
Mons.Grech...taqraha il-Bibbja kuljum INT? Mela suppost taf li Kristu qatt ma ghajjar lil Madalena QAHBA!!! Mhux talli, imma talli laqaha kif kienet, bl-izbalji kollha li ghamlet u biz-zwigijiet kollha li setghet kissret u deher lilha wara mewtu u l-qawmien tieghu. Ridha tkun ezempju...u nerga ntenni qatt ma ghajjarha QAHBA...u int li ma' int xejn kieku ma riedx HU, tigi tghajjar lili u lil HUTI - BRIGANTI, HALLELIN u QATTIELA...ara vera qeghdin sew!!! Min jaf jekk habbatx INT l-ewwel wiehed il-bieb hazin u issa ghax indunajt u tridna kollha warajk, ha naghmlulek kumpanija!!!
Il-ghala qed taghmel dan??? Ghalfejn meta suppost kollok imhabba qed tohrog bir-rawgha f'halqek ghalina???? B'liema dritt qed taghmlu dan u ccahdu lilna min drittijiet taghna??? B'liema dritt tiddecidu min u mhux ser jitqarben? B'liema dritt taghzlu nies biex jirraprezentawkom meta dawn stess m'humiex ta' min jafdhom ghax huma stess hadu l-irgiel/ nisa ta' haddiehor? Huma stess zbaljaw u regghu zbaljaw u intom ilqajtuhom f'darkom. Kristu lil midinbin irid lura. Imma din li qed taghmel int m'hijiex proponiment u twiddiba gusta. Din hija theddida. Theddida ghal LIBERTA. Theddida ghal GHAZLA. Theddieda ghal FUTUR tieghi u ta' hafna ohrajn.
Inti f'Kercem meta ghazluk Isqof kont ghedt " Il primo amore non muore e' non si scorda mai". Tieghi l-ewwel imhabba kien Kristu ghax lilhu nnatajt. Min ghandu permezz ta' qassis tghammidt. Imma jekk qassis zbalja jiena dejjem stennejt lil min ghandu l-poter biex jara u jizen kollox imbaghad jghaddi s-sentenza. Imma minn dak li qeghdin naraw u nisimghaw, il-qassisin igawdu minn beneficcji li AHNA bhala nies MIZZEWGA mhux ser nistghu ngawdu minnhom qatt jekk id-divorzju ma' jidholx. AHNA favur ghazla. U l-ghazla hija t-triq li twassal ghal bibien li semmejt inti. Imma t-triq trid tkun hemm biex jiena nasal ha niftah il-bieb. Imbaghad m'Alla u m'Alla biss jiena irrid nirrispondi ghala ftaht dak il-bieb hu mhux l-iehor.
Meta tixorbu l-inbid ftakru li dak huwa d-demm ta' Kristu u mhux flixkun biex tiddamdmu u tfajru u tghajru lil haddiehor BRIGANT - HALLIEL - QATTIEL!!!!!
IN VINO VERITAS
Jack Vella
17.V.XI
Mr Matthew Vella
May 18th 2011, 15:02
Int wiehed min dawn li tghodd ruhhek bhala Nisrani??
jekk iva sejjer zball ta ghax ma tistax tkun nisrani u tmaqdar b'dan il-mod mexxej tal-knisja (l-isqof ta Ghawdex), jew int ahjar minnu???
Illum il-gurnata anke lilna nfusna sirna nikkonvincu li ahna perfetti!!!!
Ms Xaxa Caruana
May 18th 2011, 15:06
@Jack Vella,
Ma ghandi xejn xi nghidlek hlif PROSIT, veru ktibt bis sens, u lqat il musmar fuq rasu.
Wiehed l-ahjar comments li qatt qrajt . PROSIT AGAIN.
Ms Xaxa Caruana
May 18th 2011, 15:12
@Mr.Matthew Vella.
Mhux imaqdar imma kiteb il verita, u bhal ma jejdu il VERITA TWEGGA.!!!
Mr Matthew Vella
May 18th 2011, 15:42
@ Xaxa Caruana
Int qed ticcajta hux? Tahseb li dan ser iwwegga lili? Jiena ma jienx bniedem li ma nizbaljax imma nipprova nghix kemm jista jkun sew, kemm jista jkun ta Nisrani ubidjenti lejn it-tghalim tal-knisja (kollhu u mhux il-bicciet li joghbu lili). Jien ma nqisx ruhi ma xi bniedem perfett anzi naf li jien midneb imma nemmen fil-hniena ta Alla.
Il-knisja hi maghmula min nies tad-demm u l-laham u kulhadd jizballja sahansitra l-patrijiet. Il-knisja dejjem ikkundannat kwalunkwe tip ta ghagir mhux-xieraq (inkluz l-abbuzi li saru) u dejjem talbet mahfra.
It-tghalim tal-knisja qatt ma nbidel u qatt ma hu ser jinbidel. Min ma jabilx ma dan it-tghalim ghandu kull dritt jitlaq mil-knisja imma ma tistax toqod sieq gewwa u sieq barra. Ma tistghux tghidu li dak in-nisrani li jivvota Le ghad-divorzju qed jiddetta kif jghix haddiehor ghax kullhadd ghandu id-dritt li jivvota kif jahseb li hu l-ahjar. Id-dhul tad-divorzju mhux ser jaffetwa l-knisja biss imma s-socjeta kollha, ghalhekk in-Nisrani ghadu dritt jivvota LE.
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Well said. I am 24 years old and I totally aggree with the Bishop's speech.
Illum il-gurnata hafna nies jahsbu li huma kattolici ghax immorru l-quddies il-Hadd (u forsi matul il-gimgha ukoll). Imma tkun kattoliku jekk verament temmen u tobdi dak li tghidlek il-knisja u timxi fuq it-tghalim ta Gesu Kristu. Ma tistax tghid li int kattoliku jekk taqbel mad-divorzju, l-abbort or l-ewtanasja.
Il-knisja mhux xi pizza 'quattro stagioni' tiekol il-bicca li tghogbok u l-kumplament thalliha hemm, ma tistax tghazel biss dak li jaghmel sens ghalik u l-kumplament ma taghtix kasu. Il-kattoliku hu dak li verament jifhem it-tghalim tal-knisja u jobdi (mhux ghax bilfors imma ghax jaf li din hi il-hajja tan-nisrani, li taghmel sens).
Ghalhekk jekk int ma taqbilx ma l-affarijiet fundamentali tal-knisja, int ma tistax tghid li int kattoliku u ma tistax titqarben lanqas.
Jekk int Kattoliku prattikant MA TISTAX tivvota IVA, u jekk tivvota IVA int ma tistax tghid li int Nisrani. Jekk mintix Nisrani ghandek id-dritt tivvota kif trid.
Gesu Kristu lill-appostili qalilhom 'Tridux titilqu intom ukoll?'. U l-knisja ghandha tghamel l-istess. Ghanda tkun cara u mhux toqod tibza titkellem. Min ma jridx jibqa Nisrani ghax ma jaqbilx mat-tghalim tal-knisja dan jista jitlaq, hadd ma hu qed izzommhom. Gesu Kristu 'jobzqu' lil-dak il bniedem biered - li la hu kiesah u lanqas shun.
Ma nistghux nibqghu inkunu 'doppja facca' immorru l-quddies, nitqarbnu u nippretendu li ahna kattolici u mbghad nighxu kif jidrilna!!
Mr Jack Vella
May 18th 2011, 15:51
Jiena wiehed minn dawk il hafna li gejt mghajjar brigant, halliel u qattiel. Int Kristu biex tghidli li sejjer zball, ghax qieghed nghid l-opinjoni. Habib xomm taht il-komma u jekk m'ghandekx dnub itfa l-ewwel gebla!!!
@ Matthew Vella
L-Isqof qal (kif qal is-sur Cremona aktar l-isfel) li kellu il-freedom of speech u jien hekk ukoll ghamilt. il-Hasra hi li jekk tghid il-verita (u ghidli fejn tkellimt hazin fuq li ghidt, jew ghidt xi haga li mhux vera) hawn taqlaha xorta. Hallina nghixu tridx? U jekk int ser tivvota LE u kburi, jiena ser nivvota IVA u kburi.
Bilhaqq Sur Vella, tkunx perfett int u tiggudikani u tghidli li sejjer zbaljat!!! Ghax il-Hmar dejjem iwahhal f' denbu. U tinkwetax, jekk jghidulek mur aqbez, mur - jiena mhux ser inkun mieghek, tinkwetax!!!
Alla biss huwa perfezzjoni u Alla bata ghalina. Alla qatt m'ghajjar anzi laqa ghandu lil iktar nies midinba Issa jekk din hija l-istrategija taghkom biex tbezzghu, ftakar li l-poplu illum m'ghadux mazzun bhal fiz-zmien l-interdett, meta il-Kapijiet NSARA stess geghlu lil hutna l-LABURISTI KOLLHA ibatu. AHNA ILKOLL AHWA fi KRISTU. M'hemmx kulur, m'hemmx religjon u m'hemmx differenza politika jew differenza!!! U ghal dak li naghmel jien, jiena biss irrid nirrispondi lil Alla!!!
@ Ms Xaxa Caruana
Nirringrazjak, ghidt dak li huwa migmum fil-qalb ta' hafna, ghax gew imwegga mill- Mexxej tal-Knisja, Kap spiritwali u Raghaj tal-Merhla!!
Ghal darb'ohra nirringrazjak !! :))
Jack
Mr Matthew Vella
May 18th 2011, 17:50
Kulhadd ghandu dritt jghati l-opinjoni tieghu u jien qatt ma ghedt lil-hadd biex joqghod bi kwietu u joqghod kwiet.
Il-knisja mhux qed tbezza lil-hadd. Jekk int trid tissejah Nisrani, trid tghix ta Nisrani u tobdi il-ligijiet tal-knisja li huma l-istess ligijiet li taghna Kristu.
Jekk int Nisrani, l-knisja mhux ser tigi mieghek biex tara li ivvotajt kontra id-divorzju. Il-knisja mhux ser timponi xejn fuq hadd, kulhadd huwa liberu. Imma ma nistghux inqarqu bina nfusna li ma ahna qed naghmlu xejn hazin jekk nivvutaw IVA ghad-divorju, ghax dan imur kontra il-bazi fundamentali tat-taghlim tal-knisja .
Imma jekk m'intix Nisrani ma ghandekx ghax tinkweta ghax inti qed tghix u taghmel kif tahseb li hu l-ahjar. U jekk int nisrani fil-fond ta qalbek taf li d-divorzju imur kontra it-taghlim ta Kristu (anke jekk tipprova tahbi dan). Ma nqarqux b'ina nfusna.
Forsi f'din id-dinja nistghu nidhku b'xulxin u nissejhu Nsara anke jekk m'ahniex, imma b'Gesu Kristu hadd ma jidhak. Jien ma jien ser niggudika lil-hadd, ghax kif ghedt inti stess, jien ma jienx perfett u probabli nizbalja aktar minnek (ghalkemm naghmel il-kuragg biex nerga inqum) - il-gudizzju nhallih f'Idejh.
George Cremona
May 18th 2011, 13:52
I was present at that particular ceremony and therefore heard very clearly what Bishop Grech said. Bishop Grech was quoting from the Gospel something he is duty bound to do apart that he is endowed with the freedom of speech as any other citizen in Malta and Gozo. Yes he was absolutely right when he said that everyone has the civil right to marry but not everyone has the right to receive the sacrament of marriage. He was absolutely right when he said that those who are not in communion with God, with the teachings of Christ cannot receive Holy Communion. Those who are not willing to follow the Gospel, the teachings of Christ and therefore of the Church which He Himself established cannot be called true Christians.
I cannot understand how or why some people and some of the media pretend to stay in the Church and not abide or comply with its rules. You are either in or out. No one can be both at the same time. So it's not the Bishop's choice, it's mine and yours. You have to choose between Yes to Divorce and disobey or ignore completely the Church's teachings and rules and No to Divorce as a devout catholic. Bishop Grech simply showed the way of Christ and appealed to the Congregation of which I was fortunate enough to be part of, to follow it.
Mr M Borg
May 18th 2011, 13:16
@ Charlie Borg ( 11.56 )
" Why at Fgura Malta ? Hasn't he got enough on his plate in his little Gozo ? "
Since when has the church to ask your premission before holding talks in one of her Parish Centres ?
Do you think that just because you are against the church and in favour of divorce you have some special
rights over the church ?
BIshop Grech was right to talk the way he did, if you do not agree with him , you are free not to go to Fgura on
Friday .
Mr K Littlejohn
May 18th 2011, 13:15
@Mr Angelo Vassallo
Being Catholic or religious doesn't necessarily mean going to church or getting drunk in some village festa. Most Maltese just go to church, and dramatise religion. Its not obligatory to be catholic. I really dont know what's the fuss all about. Stupid campaign from both sides I must say!
Mr M Borg
May 18th 2011, 14:59
@ K Littlejohn
If as you say you know nothing about the Catholic faith, don't you think it would be better if you do not try to
give an opinion on something you are not familiar with.
Mr Joe Xuereb
May 18th 2011, 13:04
@Matthew Vella (Today 9:49). You are making a lot of fuss about what makes a Catholic and what does not. We are in 2011. So one is a Catholic in 2011. What is the big deal? Bishop Grech used a very powerful metaphor, ie Christ is the one and only door. What if the door is a figment of a fertile human imagination that Man put there to cosset himself against the this terrible dilemma we call life. Ironically, given by god himself. And he gave us the freedom to do with it what we life, as in 'freewill'. With conditions of course. Conditions set down by god himself who set us up in the first place. Do you see what I am getting at Matthew? Or do you prefer to listen to bishops and their doors, sounding like failed carpenters? Of course you have freewill. Of course I am not god and I will not rise from the dead. But at least I am real in the here and now, I can be seen and touched and verified. But don't expect me to walk on water to impress. Or levitate like I were a bed-sheet on a clothes-line, washed clean of blood that proved I was a virgin on my wedding night, flapping in the breeze. Like a dementing banshee fighting windmills perhaps?! Like the Bishop, I am quite good at metaphors, see!!
Cecil Herbert Jones
May 18th 2011, 12:45
And so the debate that should have never been is centred around the Maltese Catholic Church's values. If I am not mistaken the question is whether Civil Divorce should be introduced in our legal code, that is all !!
Mr Angelo Vassallo
May 18th 2011, 12:44
@ David Caruana
How about being elected as our next POPE since you know exactly what the Nazzarene said.
Even Dr Charlie Azzopardi, the Systemic Family Therapist can be papable for the next POPE as he told us on TV that even Christ was wrong when he spoke about divorce. Halluna tridu!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Philip Hili
May 18th 2011, 13:22
Mr. Vassallo, No thanks, do not encourage David Caruana to go to the Sistin Chapel in order to be elected and represent us. Catholics are not in favour of persons who talk NON-SENSE to guide them in their spiritual needs!!!!
As to Charlie, he is very smart and bright. I remember him as Charles Azzopardi - The Family Therapist on Xarabank. A few years ago he obtained the Doctorate and therefore now he is Dr. Charles Azzopardi and I think that now he feels that he is much more important!!!!!so much so that he felt that he should make that feeble statement in order to get some popularity.
The way he spoke recently, shows that divorce is his daily bread and therefore he could not speak of good families. I think he has a conflict of interest. Now either advice couples to settle their differences (as a family therapist) or encourage them to divorce. Which road is going to choose? I tried to get an answer from him but he blocked his link on fb because he was receiving a truck load of comments showing disapproval for what he had said.
M. Grech
May 18th 2011, 14:51
Mr Hili. I have seen and heard Dr Azzopardi on TV that day. And he was very clear in that in his work as a family therapist in cases of infidelity the success rate of couples staying together and responding well to councilling was very high ( he quoted 80-90%). This was being said in the context of the assertion being continuously made by the No movement that apparently the major, if not the single casue, of marriage breakdowns is infidelity, or cheating to be more direct.
This cannot be further from the truth as I myself can vouch for from my own experience. Dr Azzopardi countered this stament by saying that most couples respond well to councilling and remain together. And was it not quoted from the gospel soemwhere that Christ condoned divorce in case of infidelity (of course taken in the context of jewish society of 2000 years ago). Now from his position as family therapist he knows better than most. besides Dr azzopardi never appeared to be a frivolous person in his numerous appearance on TV discussion programs.
Philip Hili
May 19th 2011, 01:55
Iva, hekk nibqghu!!!!!
J Borg
May 18th 2011, 12:43
Can a Catholic in good conscience vote in favour of the introduction of divorce legislation?
This was already settled in the statement by the 7 priests last October which says:
'A Catholic ... may ... in conscience not see why to vote against legislation favouring divorce. This one too has the right and the duty to follow what one's conscience tells one.'
This statement was endorsed by Archbishop Cremona.
Mr Jo Camm
May 18th 2011, 12:40
What I notice in these blogs is that all those who usually speak in favour of the PL also speak against the Church's teachings. They have not changed.
Mr Lawrence Fenech
May 18th 2011, 13:55
It's the PN that go hand in hand with the chruch to achieve any cause this is a replica of the 60'.
Mr Louis Cutajar
May 18th 2011, 12:38
Rigward il-laqgħa tal-Isqof Mario Grech ġewwa l-Fgura, għall-informazzjoni tal-pubbliku ma kienx hu li għażel li jiġi ġewwa l-Fgura imma kien il-Kappillan stess flimkien mal-Kummisjoni Familja tal-parroċċa li stiednu lill-Isqof biex jagħti laqgħa ta' formazzjoni fuq iż-żwieg fejn wara dawk li jattendu jistgħu jagħmlu xi interventi u mhux answer and question session kif inhu irrappurtat. Din il-laqgħa kienet ġiet ippjhanata kmieni din is-sena u mhux minħabba l-każ li ġara. Din kienet waħda mit-tliet laqgħat ta' formazzjoni dwar il-valur taż-żwieġ u l-familja. Ġie magħżul l-Isqof Mario Grech mhux għal-fatt li hu l-Isqof ta' Għawdex imma minħabba l-fatt li hu studja il-liġi kanonika fejn jidħol iż-żwieġ u ħadem u għadu jaħdem fit-Tribunal Ekklezjastiku.
Benjamin Sant
May 18th 2011, 12:32
bi skuza tal bibbja noqodu niggieldu ad divorzju imbad ninsew li
1) Guda ittradixxa il Kristu u Kristu xorta hallih emm ghall ikla....
2) u xi nghidu al meta Kristu mar jikol ghand Zakkew... ma qabadx ikeccih u jghajru
3) taf il min ghajjar Kristu -- oqbra imbajda?....... aqqas temmen il min!!!!
dawn il 2 stejjer juru li ir religjon taghna biex indendlu d damask tajba u xejn iktar.
Mr Saliba Francis
May 18th 2011, 13:21
@Benjamin Sant.
Skond liema Vangelu Kristu approva li Guda jittradih? Jaqaw il-vangelu tieghek huwa dak apokrifa li suppost kiteb Guda?
Mhux very li Kristu halla lill-Guda hemm ghall-ikla, anzi keccih il-barra u qallu li jfittex itemm it–tradiment li kien iddecieda li jaghmel. Kristu qal ukoll li ghalkemm kien jehtieg li jigi ttradut, miskin ghalih min kien ser jittradih!
Kristu mar ghand Zakkew mhux biex ikeccih minn daru stess, mhux biex jghajjru u anqas biex jaghlaq ghajnejh ghan-nuqqasijiet tieghu. Mar ghandu biex ihajjru jibdel hajtu, kif effetivamnet gara. Mar biex jikkonvertih. L-Isqof Grech qed jaghmel l-istess imma t-twissija tieghu ta’ missier tniggez u min jinqaras, flok jindem bhal ma ghamel Zakkew, jixli lill-Isqof fil-falz billi jakkuzawh li qed jitghajjar! Kif jghidu bl-Ingliz “The boot is on the other foot!”
Jason Borg
May 18th 2011, 13:42
1. Ġuda telaq minn jeddu waqt l-ikla u Kristu qal fuqu li aħjar li ma twieled xejn.
2. Żakkew nidem meta mar għandu Ġesu' u patta billi qassam ġidu.
3. Ġesu' sejjaħ 'oqbra mbajda' lis-Samaritani li flok iwettqu l-fidi lill-poplu, kienu qegħdin ifixkluhom.
U d-dendil tad-damask inħallih f'idejk.
Michelle Buhagiar
May 18th 2011, 12:32
We are wolves says the shepherd in royal clothing!
Mr Sandro Cremona
May 18th 2011, 12:19
I know of Wolves in priest's clothing!!! abusing children and minors. Can they receive the Holy Sacrament.. these wolves were never mentioned by the Gozo Bishop.
Ms Christine Micallef
May 18th 2011, 12:41
Well said !!!!
Mr Joe Grima
May 18th 2011, 13:59
True,...but does that mean that divorce is holy???? Two wrongs don't make a right!
Joe A M Grim
Mr l Azzopardi
May 18th 2011, 12:10
what about Ghajsielem Mgr Grech? is looking away a sin?
Victor Cauchi
May 18th 2011, 12:02
One thing both Bishops have to learn when all is said and done is the need for more training in Christian faith and less "religious" traditionalism. The local Church has started realising this by raising the Confirmation age. Considering that this sacrament, together with Communion and Baptism were imparted together during the adult Baptism rites in the early Church, when catechument were baptised at a mature age, the raising of the Confirmation age can be interpreted as a return to the times when Baptism was given to adults.
EDWIN DE MARCO
May 18th 2011, 11:58
@David Caruana. Keep talking, some day you'll say something intelligent!
Mr l Azzopardi
May 18th 2011, 12:17
it all depends what you mean by intelligent dear Edwin!
Galileo Galilei was not considered intelligent for more than 350 years by some people until
Pope John Paul II admitted that theological errors had been made in his case.
David Caruana
May 18th 2011, 12:38
Thanks I Azzopardi, you couldn't have explained it better.
I will let TIME judge my beliefs, and definitely not Edwin De Marco.
Charlie Borg
May 18th 2011, 11:56
'Bishop Grech will hold a question and answer session on marriage and the family at the Fgura parish centre on Friday.'
Why at Fgura, Malta? Hasn't he got enough on his plate in his little Gozo?
Mrs Lucia Vella Vella
May 18th 2011, 11:55
Iktar ma nisma iktar nitbieghed mill-knisja u nitlef il-fiducja kollha fdwan li taparsi huma qassisin
Mr B. Cachia
May 18th 2011, 13:25
Actually, I don't think the decisions and words of the fallible human beings that make up the Church at any point in time can ever invalidate the Church's divine mission, which is permanent. What we are opposing is a political position, just as we would have opposed the burning of heretics or the suppression of science in a previous age. The Church itself has survived all the mistakes of individual members of the Clergy, including high-ranking ones, and will certainly survive this unfortunate episode.
M F Grech
May 18th 2011, 11:49
May I dare ask who is the Wolf in sheep's clothing? Lest we have forgotten the saga of the night of the 17th September 2007 and the recurring consequences up to this day!!! "He who is without sin should cast the first stone." History will judge us all My Lord.
Michael Hudson
May 18th 2011, 11:40
We seem to be so lost with child like arguments that we have forgotten the very basics. I may be wrong, but my logic tells me to ask simple questions first, like, has a serious study been carried out to identify the main causes of annulments, seperations, divorce (obtained from other countries)?
Why does the church still marry couples, which prior to tying the knot have entered into a public contract to divide the material things, once they split? Does the church enquire about such things? How can you acknowledge a marriage, with a mind already set for seperation.
Has the state investigated other causes, such as families on the verge of poverty, poor education and many other reasons. I'm very sure there are exceptions where failed marriages really need a divorce law, but what we're doing is applying stitches to an injury and not correcting what is causing one to fall and cut himself.
I have personally seen annulment documents from the Curia, where family members where involved and the lies I've read in those documents are astonishing. I'm sure one would do anything to obtain an annulment, but the institution needs to verify what witnesses may testify because there could be serious issues. This I can prove, if anyone is interested.
Lets do things as one should, oh sorry, I forgot we're in Malta and only in Malta!
Mr Joe Grima
May 18th 2011, 11:40
The only fault I find with the Bishop's proclamations is that he failed to ask the divorce movement what he should say!! The divorce movement expect the Church to teach what THEY say, not Jesus' teachings!! And reading from the pro-divorcists about the church being a bunch of hypocrites....well, I don't think that there is any hypocricy in echoing Jesus' teaching. I see more hypocricy in those who proclaim 'responsible' divorce, and that divorce is a human right, .... How can a divorce be 'responsible'? Surely NOT towards the first spouse, and kids! Is abandoning one's vow, responsibility and commitments regarded as being 'responsible' today? And how can divorce be a human 'right', when the children suffer a lot from the parent's decision. Nobody ever mentions the children's 'human rights' in cases of divorce. Probably because of two facts: a: they don't have a vote, and b: they don't have enough money to pay the lawyers!
Joe A M Grima
Peter Gee
May 18th 2011, 11:35
Sounds like fundamentalism creeping in.
Mr Joe Zammit
May 18th 2011, 11:31
Par.2384 of the Catechism of the Catholic Church states: “Divorce is a grave offence against the natural law…. Contracting a new union, even if it is recognized by civil law, adds to the gravity of the rupture: the remarried spouse is then in a situation of public and permanent adultery: …”.
‘A grave offence against natural law’ means a grave sin against God who is the author of natural law. So, divorce is a grave sin. Adultery is a grave offence against God as well since it transgresses seriously the Sixth Commandment of God. Adultery denotes sexual acts by married persons outside a valid marriage, i.e. outside a marriage that is valid before God.
Christ spoke clearly of the evil of divorce: “What God has joined together let no man put asunder”. ‘Let no man put asunder’ means ‘let no-one resort to divorce’. This is a command not an advice and it is so serious a command that amounts to a grave sin if it is ignored. Moreover, the fact that it is expressed in the negative clearly shows that it admits of no exception. The Catholic Church, as the One Holy Catholic and Apostolic Church of Christ, has never resorted to divorce in her 2000-year-old history.
Christ was clear also on the evil of adultery and said that, if one divorces his spouse and enters another marriage, one lives in adultery. (Mk 10, 2-12; Mt 19, 2-9). In the first letter to the Corinthians, St Paul says: “Do not be deceived; neither … nor adulterers… will inherit the kingdom of God” (1 Cor.6, 9-10).
Divorce is a grave sin. Par. 1789 of the Catechism of the Catholic Church runs: “… One may never do evil so that good may result from it; …”
On July 13, 1917 the Virgin Mary told the three children of Fatima that “many go to hell on account of the sins of the flesh”. Among the sins of the flesh there is adultery. Padre Pio had regular mystical contacts with God, saints, angels and devils, and used to say that "divorce is a passport to hell". He knew what he was saying and no one could belie him. It is not a joke to go to hell … and to hell for ever!
Divorce leads to hell because it transgresses God’s categorical law on marriage, namely indissolubility. Divorce purports to do what it cannot do, namely to dissolve a validly contracted marriage.
Let no one try to deceive God by planning to live in sin and die in grace. Such a plan will be the devil’s snare. You die as you live!
EDWIN DE MARCO
May 18th 2011, 12:17
I can't seem to remember your name, and please don't help me!
Mr R. Abela
May 18th 2011, 13:26
Your tool, scaring people with sin hell and etc.. etc.., was very effective a century ago.
Nowadays you need more perfection in your tool, like,
1. Explain why after 11 years justice with abused children from priest is still pending, "probably because it's not a sin for church Leaders.
2. Explain why eating meat on fridays was a sin and nowadays isn't.
3. Explain why Holly communion is given in your hand nowadays and decades ago was a grave sin touch it by hand.
4 Endless senseless sins etc...
Words of wisedom from a farmer that lived almost 90 years.
' THE CHURCH MADE US LIVED ALL OUR LIFE GUILTY OF A SOMETHING WE DIDN'T KNOW WHAT IT IS'
Mr Joe Zammit
May 18th 2011, 11:29
Conscience is reasoning.
No conscience can contradict the express and clear words of Christ about the evil of divorce: What God has joined together let no man put asunder! No conscience can genuinely go against this clear commandment of Christ on the necessity of the indissolubility of marriage and the intrinsic evil of divorce.
A conscience that suggests divorce to anyone is diabolical. The devil is pleased with divorce. God does not want divorce. This is the clear teaching of Christ and the infallible teaching of the Catholic Church.
If your conscience tells you something against the infallible teaching of the one holy Catholic and Apostolic Church, do not follow your conscience. Your conscience is not infallible. Your conscience is subject to the teaching of Christ and his Church.
If you follow your conscience in disagreement with the Church, you are grievously stubborn and proud. Your stubbornness and pride will lead you only to hell. All those in hell appeal to their conscience for being there ... for ever... without any hope of redemption... there for ever!
Conscience is reasoning!
Mr Anton PIsani
May 18th 2011, 13:42
One question re conscience and reasoning - imagine we were asked to vote in another referendum whether adultery should be illegal? How should a Catholic vote?
Mr Jason Fenech
May 18th 2011, 11:14
What I fail to understand is why people still applaud someone who clearly treats people as if they were little children. You can lead decent and respectful lives independently of what a few funnily dressed men would have you believe. It’s about time people outgrew the childish mentality instilled by religious indoctrination and learned to think for and by themselves. Breaking the chains is indeed liberating.
EDWIN DE MARCO
May 18th 2011, 12:30
I agree with you that some people are still perile regarding religion. I mean, for God's sake, I know they're stupid, but why did they have a relapse? I could make monkeys out of trhem but why should I take all the credit?
Mr Louis Cutajar
May 18th 2011, 11:14
Nixtieq ngħid lil N. Buttigieg li ħalla jew ħalliet kumment, li jkun aktar ta' ġid jekk hi stess nhar il-Ġimgħa li ġej tattendi għal-laqgħa mill-Isqof Mario Grech ġewwa ċ-ċentru parrokjali tal-Fgura, milli tagħmel kummenti neggattivi fuq il-patrijiet tal-Fgura mhux biss fuq it-Times of Malta imma anke fuq gazzetti oħra. Din il-persuna tara biss azzjoni waħda biss li hi ħażina imma tinsa u ma ssemmiex il-ħafna azzjonijiet tajbin li jagħmel l-istess patri. Imma dan ma tgħidux. Rigward il-kaz li ġara l-ġewwa l-Fgura l-aktar ħaġa li wieħed ma jqabilx magħha huwa il-fatt li għajjat mal-persuna u l-mod kif qalilha u mhux it-tqarbin fih innifsu. U Tajjeb li lil dan il-patri ma niġġudikawhx biss fuq dan il-kaz biss, tajjeb li wieħed jara il-ħafna tajjeb li jagħmel. Issa l-Isqof Mario Grech huwa car biżżejjed rigward min hu dehen jew le li jersaq għat-tqarbin. Trid tigi min-naħa tal-persuna li ma tersaqx ghat tqarbin u mhux li s-saċerdot ma jqarbnikx. Pereżempju persuna li hi poġġuta taf li mhux suppost titqarben imma jekk waqt quddies titla titqarben is-saċerdot daki il-ħin ma jistax ma jqarbinix, f'dan il-każ tiġi minn naħa tal-persuna li ma titlax titqarben. San Pawl stess huwa ċar fuq dan meta jgħid: “Kull min jiekol il-ħobż jew jixrob il-kalċi tal-Mulej bla ma jixraqlu, ikun ħati tal-ġisem u d-demm tal-Mulej… Min jiekol u jixrob bla ma jagħżel minn ikel ieħor il-ġisem tal-Mulej, ikun jiekol u jixrob il-kundanna tiegħu stess” (1 Korintin 11, 27-29).
Mr C Muscat
May 18th 2011, 11:11
Thawdet sew il-borma!!!
Inhalltu ic-civil mar-religjon u hawn min jiehu kull okkazjoni biex jattakka l-knisja. Ikolli nerga nghid li mal-ftit hazin taghmel hafna tajjeb. Naturalment min irid jattakka l-knisja ma jimpurtahx la mit-tajjeb u lanqas minn min ghandu bzonn dan it-tajjeb.
Il-knisja hi maghmula minn nies bhali u bhalek u tistenna li kulhadd ghandu jkun rispettat u kulhadd ghandu dritt ta' vot bhal kulhadd.
La semmejna l-vot jien ser nghid ghala ser nivvota le:
a. ghax blu jew ahmar tista tkun;
b. id-divorzju ma fihx limitu, tista tiehdu darba, darbtejn, tlieta etc;
c. dwar manteniment ma sejrin nirrangaw xejn;
d. lit-tfal tieghi nixtieqilhom zwieg dejjiemi u mhux ghal 4 snin;
e. ma rridx inbellghu lil min ma jridux; jigifieri jekk parti tridu u l-ohra ma tridux jien ser inzomm dak li ghandi llum;
f. il-ligi bhal din ghanda tghaddi mill-parlament u mhux minn referendum.
Kull min ma jaqbelx mieghi jista jibqa jkun habib tieghi ghax inhossni nirrispetta lil kull opinjoni.
George Azzopardi
May 18th 2011, 11:06
J.M. has already hinted out about this grave situation where with this attitude, whatever the result would be, the main loser in this would be the Maltese church. With this attitude the Maltese church is making a lot of enemies especially from the young generation. They (the Maltese church) still think that we're still in the 1960's.
I strongly believe this will probably end up in more civil marriages.
Mr John Azzopoardi
May 18th 2011, 11:00
It is sad indeed as to what is happening in Malta in the year 2011. WE are still fighting to legalize divorce when we all know well that this is a basic human right. The church will never recover from this and I believe that many people will turn away from the church. The church should preach it's believes, but not threaten or judge. It can only preach what it believes in as a right, but not impose it's believes via threats. That is up to the individual to decide as a basic human democratic right. That is why there is a referendum. The church will do well to unite the people and not divide them. That is what the Bishop is doing. Time out please and do not do any more damage. People should be treated as adults and not little children.
Mr M Vella***
May 18th 2011, 10:54
Christ did not have any belongings in this world, He had no testament, He left no material inheritance; only spiritual ones.The Curia masters are brainwashing the Maltese flock and twisting their minds,Paganism at its best,Harsu lejhom, kollhom dehbijiet, ruzetti, bokli tad-deheb, tronijiet indurati , mitri kollhom hajt tad-deheb, eccetra. X'jidhrilkom minn din eccellenzi reverendissimi ?. U mela d-divorzju jwerwirkom
Mr David Smith
May 18th 2011, 10:48
Why do people, who are not Catholics, have to feel so offended, because a man of the cloth is courageous enough to call a spade a spade? Let's put everything in perspective. Many people in Malta in this day and age are saying that a divorce is a civil right (it is not, but that is beside the point). Many of these same people are saying that they are also against abortion. But all over the world, it is said that abortion is allowed because of the right of a woman over her body. Societal concepts change, and it is only a matter of time before people in Malta start pushing for abortion...because they would say it is a civil right!
Mr Victor vella
May 18th 2011, 10:41
Fl-ahhar qam mill-mewt l-isqof ta` ghawdex. Dan l-issue illu ghaddej ix-xhur issa stembah. X`jghid Kristu kulhadd jaf m`hemmx ghalfejn jghidilna Mario Grech. Immissu Grech qam meta beda l-issue li la il-Partit Nazzjonalista ma ghandu l-ebda dritt jindahal f`xi haga li hija moralment ligi tal-knisja. Issa harget fil-berah l-ippokretizzmu tal-knisja kattolika Maltija. Ara li kieku kien il-PL li hareg bid-divorzju, li kieku Malta u Ghawdex ga huggiega wahda. Izda huwa u siehbu Pawlu ghadu kwieti u muti dwan l-ahhar 10 xhur. Biex imbaghad il-knisja tkompli tohrof l-ippokretizzmu taghha fuq ix-xandir baghtet mara titkellem fuq Mintoff li kien dejjem kontra id-divvorzju. Issa qed jitkellmu fuq Mintoff xebghu jaghjruh u jzebbilhuh sa riedu ssalbuh. Il-Knisja ta` Malta hija il-knisja tal-Farrizzej, ippokretizzmu u tal-poter billi dejjem immanipulat mohh il-Maltin x`kont l-essigenzi taghha u dejjem kienet it-tarka tal-partit Nazzjonalista. Din hija l-istorja tirrepetti ruhha.
Mr Mario P. Sciberras
May 18th 2011, 10:38
As reported in a local paper "Several parishioners walked out of Mass at the Zejtun parish church last Saturday, after Fr Angelo Seychell threatened to withhold sacraments from those who vote ‘Yes’ in the May 28 divorce referendum.
“If there are any of you planning to vote ‘yes’ to divorce, don’t expect to come here the day after and receive Holy Communion,” Fr Seychell warned his congregation during the 5.30pm mass… whereupon a number of people stood up and walked out of Church altogether."
Ramon Casha
May 18th 2011, 10:36
"Fr Camilleri said the Church teachings on the issues of divorce and conscience were clear and he referred to the position paper drawn up in October by seven prominent priests."
What about the priests who denied communion or confession to those who said they'd be voting in favour? Are they representatives of the same church? What about those who are implying or even saying outright that anyone who votes in favour is a sinner and is "not in communion with the church" (excommunicated)?
Mr Michael Buhagiar
May 18th 2011, 10:35
Kull min jghid li huwa kattoliku irid bilfors jisma u jobdi dak li tghid il-Knisja Kattolika u l-isqfijiet taghhom. Min ma jaqbilx ma dak li jghidu m'ghandhux jissejjah iktar kattoliku jew nisrani. In-nisrani irid JOBDI it-taghlim tal-Knisja, inkella m'ghandhux dritt la jircievi sagramenti u l-inqas jipprova jghallem u jxerred taghlim falz bhal ma qed jaghmlu dawk li qed isejjhu lilhom infushom Kattolici Favur id-Divorzju. Il-Kattoliku ma jista qatt ikun favur id-Divorzju ghax ikun qed jisfida l-ligi t'Alla. U min jisfida 'l Alla qed jikkundanna lilu nnifsu. U dan mhux theddid - din hija VERITA' sagrosanta. Il-Kampanja qalilha kontra l-Knisja kattolika ilha gejja. Wasal il-m,ument tal-verita' ghal dawk li jghidu li huma insara kattolici. Min hu ghar-rimi insewh. Halluh jghereq fil-hama tal-hajja tieghu. Dik affarih. Imma Kattoliku nisrani m'ghandhu qatt jivvota ghat-tifrik tal-familji maltin. Id-divorzju hsara jgib lil pajjizna bhalma hemm il-hsara f'pajjizi ohra. Il-Knisja lil Alla trid tghogob u mhux lil bniedem. Huwa l-bniedem li jrid jghogob lil Alla u mhux bil-kontra. finalment il-bniedem jemmen jew ma jemminx f'Alla irid jaghti kont ta' eghmilhu f'din l-art lil Alla.
VV Bartolo
May 18th 2011, 10:32
ma nistax ma nikkumentax meta naqra/nisma certu diskors. naghmilha cara li jien id-divorzju MA JINTERESSANIEX imma ma nistax nifhem kif qieghed jinghad certu diskors.
nhar it-Tnejn kont qed nara/nisma programm fuq l-istazzjon nazzjonali wara l-ahbarijiet tat-8pm li l-mistieden tieghu kien profs. Serracino Inglott. meta gie mistoqsi mill-prezentatur; jekk ma jidholx id-divorzju se jkun hawn iktar koabitazzjoni - x'se jsir umbaghad? il-profs wiegbu li jkollna nemmendaw il-ligi tal-koabitazzjoni.
jigifieri jien fhemt sew? il-knisja hija kontra d-divorzju imma FAVUR IL-KOABITAZZJONI?!?! id-divorzju forsi jerga jghaqqad familja ohra imma l-koabitazzjoni isimha maghha kemm TIKKOABITA BISS!!! jew forsi l-koabitazzjoni ghal knisja ma thollx dak li jghaqqad Alla?? il-Knisja Maltija qed taghmel HAFNA HAFNA HSARA u qed tkun ta' kagun ta hafna Maltin li waqqfu jersqu lejha. min jaf min irid jaghti kont l'Alla meta jigi wicc imb'wicc mieghU jekk hux il-Knisja/membri taghha jew il-Maltin imweggghin?? x'bahar jaqsam hemm bejn kif qed jippriedka l-Kleru u kif kien jippriedka Gesu. "MIN M'GHANDUX DNUB IWADDAB L-EWWEL GEBLA"!!!
Mr Angelo Vassallo
May 18th 2011, 10:27
@ Mr K Littlejohn
First of all your state is not absolutely not true. The vast majority of Maltese and Gozitans are Roman Catholics and this was overwhelmingly shown when the Shepherd Benedict VXI and his predecessor John Paul II made pastoral visits to Malta.
If it is REALLY as you said “nothing to worry about” than why all this FUSS from the pro-Divorce movements? From your calculations you are on your way to a landslide victory, OR NOT?
mario spiteri
May 18th 2011, 10:27
A sure way to make people forget about the child abuse at Lourdes Home!
Gullible people are a must and when they stand up..show then authority..Let's get the stones ready for a public stoning. I thought the Ayotallah came from Iran and nort Sarc Street, Kercem , Gozo!!
Mock the sheep in a wolf's clothing for all its bleatings to sound as howls will only show how scared the sheep itself is of chaging times!
Mario Spiteri
Mr Kyle Boffa
May 18th 2011, 10:15
Imma kif tistghu tibqghu raskom mghaddsa qisu kollox ward u zahar f dal-pajjiz, u kollox idur mal-Knisja..x'hemm daqshekk dificli biex in-nies jifhmu li d-divorzju jekk jidhol huwa hemm biss ghal min ghandu bzonnu, u min ma jridux ma jihdux. Hadd mhu jimponieh fuq hadd, pero qieghed hemm ghal min ikollu bzonnu.
Mr Alfred Hili
May 18th 2011, 10:51
The question is: Is it acivil right or not ?
Philip Hili
May 18th 2011, 11:13
@ Kyle Boffa
Imma kif tistghu tibqghu raskom imdahhla fir-ramel to timponu fehmithom fuq dak li jrid jghix hajtu, kif dejjem ghixha sa minn mindu twieled?
Issa ser nigu li l-ftit jikkmandaw lill hafna? Skond ir-ricerki li saru, minhabba 11 il-koppja jew forsi isa, 20 koppja ser naqilbu kollox ta' taht fuq? Donnu kellhom jordnaw is-"security" biex izommu l-ordni tant kemm kien hemm!!!!!
Mr Kyle Boffa
May 18th 2011, 14:33
@Philip Hili
Mela bir-ragunament tieghek, m'ghandna qatt nimxu l quddiem ma tmurx tinbiddilek xi haga ta' minn meta twelidt. U hallina tridx.. dawk l-20kopja huma dawk li qed jidhru, possibli tghix daqsekk fis-sema li mintix tisma b'kawzi differenti ta' seperazzjoni, glied fil-familji, tfal bi problemi habba l-qaghda tad-dar?
Ms Rudi Mcbeal
May 18th 2011, 17:53
Kyle, il - qaghda fid-dar mhux ha tinbidel bid-divorzju. Hadd ma ghandu garanziji li is-sitwazzjoni fid-dar ha tinbidel ghal wahda tajba bit- tieni, it-tielet jew ir-raba zwieg wara li jkun ittiehed divorzju. Dawk li tassew qeghdin isofru (minhabba xi tip ta abbuz) mhux veru li ma jistghux johorgu mis-sitwazzjoni ghaliex mhemmx id-divorzju ghax dak li jkun jista jissepara bil-ligi illum il-gurnata. Min jghid hekk jaf li dik mhux skuza. Id-divorzju jippermettilek biss terga tizzewweg, BLA LIMITU ukoll ghal min ikun irid. Jien kieku kont f'sitwazzjoni fejn nara lil uliedi ibatu nohrog minnha mil-iktar fis possibli kif tippermettili il-ligi u il-fatt li ma nistax nerga nizzewweg ikun l-anqas haga li tinkwetani, ghax l-aqwa u sagosanta haga tkun li nara lil uliedi imrobbijin f'ambjent ahjar minn dak li jkunu fih.
Ghandek zball. Qieghed jigi imponut fuq is-socjeta kollha ghaliex is-socjeta kollha sejra tigi affettwata. Ghalkemm dawk li ghandhom leblieba sa biex ikollna dritt bil-ligi li nkunu nistghu nizzewgu bla limitu ma jridux jammettu, il-fatt jibqa dak li hu.
Mr K Littlejohn
May 18th 2011, 10:08
He was speaking to Catholics. Nothing to worry about. Only 35% of the Maltese are Catholics.
Mr William Flynn
May 18th 2011, 10:07
Thank you bishop for spitting it out loud and clear.
For, let’s face it, it was always going to be said one on one by priests to individuals or shouted from the pulpits. And those who can’t think for themselves and were going to succumb to this religious pressure were always going to succumb.
But for the rest who are undecided, confused and who don’t remember the last time the church put their foot in it and fell facedown in it, this is classic behaviour by the Catholic king-makers.
Grech has defined precisely what this is all about; and it's about the ability of the church to control the voting patterns of Malta or at least enough to frighten and sway the politicians into submission for fear of losing their cushy jobs.
On 28 May each and every voter has a decision to make whether to continue with this state of affairs or whether to blow the power of religion over politics in Malta once and for all.
Voting “YES” will not only prevent every Maltese from appearing to be a cretin as a result of a “NO” vote, but it shall pave the way for an early removal of Article 2 from the Constitution.
Consign religious interference in Malta to history; Vote “YES”.
Meantime, is there one who is going to stand up in Parliament and call for the indictment of bishop Grech?
Philip Hili
May 18th 2011, 11:01
Mr Flynn,
"but it shall pave the way for an early removal of Article 2 from the Constitution." These are your words.
Why you stated so in your comment? It seems that you are aware or the Constitution of Malta and therefore you know that as things stand, His Exe. Bishop Mario Grech being part of the authorities of the Roman Catholic Apostolic Church in Malta has the duty and the right to teach which principles are right and which are wrong. This is what he did. If this does not please you, ignore it and follow your way. Nobody is interfering in your decisions. But to try to stop somebody else who have the duty and the right to teach what is right and what is wrong that is called "arrogance".
Who knows, it maybe that one day you might turn on who was supposed to teach you what is right and what is wrong and accuse him that he did not exercised his duty granted to him both by the Constitution of Malta and by God.
Mr Joe Grima
May 18th 2011, 12:08
There are other people who don't even have a vote; are living thousands of miles away; have divorce in their country; AND YET, they want to impose on us as to how we are to vote. They even go as far as to insult our church leaders, our beliefs, and what we hold dear!
Thankfully I can think for myself, and FREELY I accept what the Bishop says, because that is my HUMAN RIGHT. I am not going to 'succumb' to your homily of 'church hate'. That is YOUR problem, not mine!
Joe A M Grima
Mr Lawrence Fenech
May 18th 2011, 10:06
Dawn l-annimali kollha ghal go xi farm tajjeb.
Mr Joe Grima
May 18th 2011, 11:57
Mr Fenech,
Your comment gives us an idea of the attitude of some divorce campaigners. If one does not agree with their opinion, they label him 'animal'! Says a lot about WHY some actually are voting 'yes'! If they treat others as animals, probably including their spouse, no wonder their vote is going to be 'yes'!!
Joe AM Grima
Mr Angelo Vassallo
May 18th 2011, 10:02
Il-kwistjoni dwar l-introduzzjoni jew le tad-divrzju f'pajjizna issa saret KRUCJATA, din id-darba KRUCJATA sistematika kontra il-Knisja Kattolika f'Malta u f'Ghawdex. Meta jitkellem l-Eccellenza Tieghu l-Arcisqof Pawlu Cremona u aktar u aktar meta jitkellem l-Eccelenza Tieghu l-Isqof Mario Grech (ghax dan aktar zbukkat) iqumu l-irwiefen tad-dinja kollha. Attakki min kullimkien. Fuq stazzjon televisiv Malti li hareg ghonqu favur l-introduzzjoni tad-DIVORZJU f'Malta qieghed juri dokumentarji tas-snin sittin dwar id-dnub il-mejjet, l-interdett u d-dfin fil-mizbla. Jien nahseb li dawn zgur mhux qed jaghmlu l-ebda gid anzi qeghdin ixettlu l-mibeghda fostna il-Maltin u l-Ghawdxin.
Ghal dawn l-ahhar 25 sena f'Malta dejjem kellna DEMOKRAZIJA TA' VERU fejn kullhadd jghid li jrid anki jekk ikun qed jghid cucati u hmerijiet. Mela hallu fil-liberta` kollha lil dawk li meta jitkellmu jghid xi haga verament bis-sens, fosthom Isqfijiet Cremona u Grech.
Alfred Vassallo
May 18th 2011, 10:34
Hemm int gharrak trid bilfors tejd l'Eccelenza tieghu.....l-istess bhall Kristu dawn.....fejn qatt Kristu kien jemmen fil Titli li din l-istituzzjoni li tissehah Knisja hlief titli bannali ma taghtix. Imma terga u tejt bniedem ma irridx jinsa li din il Knisja hija il 'Legacy' li hallew Pappit warajhom bhall Papa Alexander V1, il famus Papa Borgia!!!!.
Mario Camilleri
May 18th 2011, 10:57
LIKE
Christian Sciberras
May 18th 2011, 09:58
So you expect Catholics to egoistically vote and decide for those non-Catholics or else...?
This isn't being in line with the Church or anything of the sort, it's outright being egoistic. Divorce affects the country, not the Church. The Church can happily go around its business as usual scaring people against divorce after it has been accepted into legislation.
Ms Rudi Mcbeal
May 18th 2011, 10:46
Or else you'll be hanged, stoned and possibly beheaded. Sigh.
Il -veru poplu gemgem u ghaggieb.
Mr Alfred Hili
May 18th 2011, 10:54
If divorce were a civil right, why the need of a referendum ?
Philip Hili
May 18th 2011, 11:32
Christian,
"So you expect Catholics to egoistically vote and decide for those non-Catholics or else...?" You made me laugh!! Yours is a sound argument. - well said!!!! U HALLINA XBIN. MELA you don't expect Catholics to vote egoistically for those non-Catholics or else, but on the other hand it seems that you don't find it funny for the few to vote and decide for the majority. Le, tmexxija gdida, u nahseb li tmexxija progressiva!!
Mr Mario P. Sciberras
May 18th 2011, 09:56
And as Miss Maudie said "but sometimes the Bibile in the hand of one man is worse than a whisky bottle in the hand of another"
Michelle Buhagiar
May 18th 2011, 09:52
How very sad! And what hypocricy from "a shepherd in royal clothing"!!
Michelle Buhagiar
May 18th 2011, 09:57
hypocrisy*
A. Attard
May 18th 2011, 10:08
agree 100%
A. Attard
May 18th 2011, 10:16
my 100% agree was meant for Mr Matthew Vella!!! not for Michelle.
Mr Matthew Vella
May 18th 2011, 09:49
Well said. I am 24 years old and I totally aggree with the Bishop's speech.
Illum il-gurnata hafna nies jahsbu li huma kattolici ghax immorru l-quddies il-Hadd (u forsi matul il-gimgha ukoll). Imma tkun kattoliku jekk verament temmen u tobdi dak li tghidlek il-knisja u timxi fuq it-tghalim ta Gesu Kristu. Ma tistax tghid li int kattoliku jekk taqbel mad-divorzju, l-abbort or l-ewtanasja.
Il-knisja mhux xi pizza 'quattro stagioni' tiekol il-bicca li tghogbok u l-kumplament thalliha hemm, ma tistax tghazel biss dak li jaghmel sens ghalik u l-kumplament ma taghtix kasu. Il-kattoliku hu dak li verament jifhem it-tghalim tal-knisja u jobdi (mhux ghax bilfors imma ghax jaf li din hi il-hajja tan-nisrani, li taghmel sens).
Ghalhekk jekk int ma taqbilx ma l-affarijiet fundamentali tal-knisja, int ma tistax tghid li int kattoliku u ma tistax titqarben lanqas.
Jekk int Kattoliku prattikant MA TISTAX tivvota IVA, u jekk tivvota IVA int ma tistax tghid li int Nisrani. Jekk mintix Nisrani ghandek id-dritt tivvota kif trid.
Gesu Kristu lill-appostili qalilhom 'Tridux titilqu intom ukoll?'. U l-knisja ghandha tghamel l-istess. Ghanda tkun cara u mhux toqod tibza titkellem. Min ma jridx jibqa Nisrani ghax ma jaqbilx mat-tghalim tal-knisja dan jista jitlaq, hadd ma hu qed izzommhom. Gesu Kristu 'jobzqu' lil-dak il bniedem biered - li la hu kiesah u lanqas shun.
Ma nistghux nibqghu inkunu 'doppja facca' immorru l-quddies, nitqarbnu u nippretendu li ahna kattolici u mbghad nighxu kif jidrilna!!
Christian Sciberras
May 18th 2011, 10:04
I completely agree that one has to live his beliefs, and ironically, only now the issue is making headlines (even if I've been talking about this for years).
The problem is that this sin is being used by the Church for something else completely.
To Mjr Grech, how many times have this been addressed during mass? How many times have I complained about it to priests?
From the other perspective, the Catholic majority will be voting for a right that concerns the country. Voting "no for divorce" for this reason alone isn't about "living your values" but being outright egoistic.
Actually, this isn't entirely unexpected either, the Church still believes it's at the center of the universe...!
Mr Robert Agius
May 18th 2011, 10:13
'There was only on Christian and he died on the cross.' Nietzsche
And those who are not Christians or Catholics Mr. Vella? why are their beliefs denied? 'doppja faccia' are those that preach tolerance but breed contempt. If one were truly Catholic then they wouldn't divorce just because it's available in the law. Doing so would, and should, be considered 'doppja faccia'.
A. Attard
May 18th 2011, 10:16
100% agree. well said.
V Cassar
May 18th 2011, 10:17
I beg to differ....
If you vote yes it doesn't make you uncatholic...it makes you all the more:
1. Speaking in religious views; "Thou shall not kill" for example, however we have the liberty to kill someone, so god is uncatholic for giving us the liberty to kill, and break the catholic rules. Liberty and Love is the christian God, don't dampen that!
2. You must tolerate those who do not have your beliefs, you cannot impose your religious ideas on other people, it is your choice whether you do it or not for yourself. It is a catholic sin exclusively "if you sleep with a person who is not your wife/husband". Annulling a state-marriage is no sin.
Apart from that, keep in mind that there are those people who are not religious or do not have catholic beliefs, why the hell should they be prohibited from devorcing just because some Conformist old man said they couldn't?
Mr Matthew Vella
May 18th 2011, 10:58
Once again, I am not imposing anything on anyone, everyone has the right to vote YES or NO.
However if you are a true practicing catholic you cannot aggree with Divorce, so you cannot Vote Yes for the intoduction of Divorce. If you are not a Catholic than you are free to choose whichever you think is best. If on the other hand you are a 'Catholic' and you still want to Vote Yes for Divroce, then you are committing a Sin in the eyes of the Church (and if this is ok for you then this confirms that you are not really a catholic).
In reply to V Cassar, I'm not voting against Divorce just because I'm Catholic. Everyone knows that through the indroduction of Divorce, people will start marrying, remarrying, having children from different partners, children who are being brought up by adults who are not their actual parents, children spending one weekend with a parent and the next weekend with the other ....and so on.
I have the right to vote in favour of a better society, i have the right to vote NO for Divorce
Mr Matthew Grima
May 18th 2011, 11:15
"However if you are a true practicing catholic you cannot aggree with Divorce, so you cannot Vote Yes for the intoduction of Divorce". False, if you do not agree with it, you do not use it. That is why the referendum is a farce, as it's giving some the liberty to dictate the lives of others.
Mr D Galea
May 18th 2011, 11:44
Prosit Matthew, nammirak
Jien żgħażugħ bħalek ta' 21 sena, naqbel perfettament ma' dak li tgħid.
Il-Knisja trid tkun awtentika għax la kristu u lanqas il-knisja ma hija tal-biċċiet. Meta jfettlilna naqblu magħha u meta jfettlilna ma naqblux.
Mr Jens Budinger
May 18th 2011, 09:40
The result of the referendum will on the face of it determine whether divorce will be possible or not in Malta. However the underlying result will determine the fibre of the Maltese fabric, the backbone of Maltese character.. We will see if the population can still be subjugated by higher morality, and veiled threats. We will have an answer on how far can the population resist the influence of those who seek to sow dissent and superstition amongst us. Ultimately, this should be a test of how free we are as a people, as individuals, to make choices independently, without an party, preacher or person telling us how to think. I don't have high expectations on a yes vote, however, what must be understood is that this referendum is a test of the quality of the freedom the Maltese people have.
A. Attard
May 18th 2011, 10:14
the only person telling us what to do is yourself! the Church is only preaching its beliefs. if you want to abide by the Church's teachings, you are FREE to do so. otherwise, just get up and leave. Malta is Roman Catholic. whoever does not like this, can get out. The Church is not telling people what to do. The Church has only told the people that IF they want to form part of the Church, thn they should abide by the rules. it is simple as ABC. one cannot form part of a group and choose only the parts of the rules which he likes. it is a take all or leave all situation. this is the same for every religion. if one does not like it, he has lots of other religions to choose from. and he is FREE to do whatever he wants. nobody is imposing anything on anyone. so pls keep your bla bla "sowing dissent and superstition amongst us" comments to yourself. Being Catholic does not mean we are superstitious. if anything, it seems that YOU are indicating an element of superstition here!!!!!!!!!
Ms Rudi Mcbeal
May 18th 2011, 10:37
No one is threatining anyone here and there need to be no test to confirm it - everyone is free to live their life as they wish. And vote as they wish as well. Be happy you were not born in a country where you are not even allowed to voice your own opinion, as you are doing now.
For the thousandth time: The Bishop. The Clergy. The Church. They have every sacrosanct right to preach and defend the Church's teachings - now whether one wants to live according to those teachings or not is up to the individual and no one else. It is a one's own choice. No matter what anyone says - that is how things are.
Mr Etienne Bonanno
May 18th 2011, 10:38
What are you talking about, Attard? I am Maltese through and through and I agree 100% with the introduction of divorce legislation, no matter what the Bishop says. Divorce legislation deals purely with the legal aspects of marriage and not the religious ones. If you are a Catholic, then divorce is not for you - don't make that choice for yourself.
You have unfortunately been given the right to make that choice, however, for a minority of others who may not share your religion, culture or world view - a right that in any modern democratic society you should never have been given.
The hypocrisy of holding a referendum on divorce is that the uncaring majority have been given power over a needy minority and the even greater hypocrisy is that a supposedly caring and loving Catholic church is steamrolling over this minority without as much as a second thought.
Note that I have no personal interest in divorce as I am not even married, but I don't think that gives me the right to decide for anybody else.
Mr Joseph N. Attard
May 18th 2011, 09:36
Whether I am going to vote yes or no, what irks me in the whole matter is the way that many, including some who should know better, are pretending that the Church does not carry out its mission. You may agree with the Church, or you may be vehemently against its teachings, and not only about divorce. You may submit to the Church'e beliefs, or you may ignore, even ridicule them. But since when, in a supposed democracy, does anyone have the right to silence those who do not agree with him?
Mr Paul Barrett
May 18th 2011, 10:14
@ Mr Joseph N. Attard.
In a secular state, a democracy, people may have the freedom of speech but when that freedom of speech is abused to threaten the population then the right to free speech is being abused. The Church has a mission supported by the Constitution to teach the Roman Catholic faith. It does not have the right to threaten the population with retribution either physical or mythical should they fail to comply with the Church doctrine in a manner which is designed to or will effect the outcome of an election or a referendum.
Mr Joseph N. Attard
May 18th 2011, 10:49
@ Mr Paul Barrett
Physical retribution in 2011?!! I'll take that as a momentary lapse. Mythical retribution? Here is the crux of the matter. It may be mythical to you, and naturally you are perfectly entitled to your views. But to the Church, its teachings are not mythical. They are the cornerstone of its beliefs. You may take it, or you may leave it. But do not pretend to gag the Church in its mission. That is going one step too far. I have a nagging feeling that the over reaction of some to any utterance by the Church will convince many who would otherwise have voted yes, to change their vote to no.
Mr A. Grech
May 18th 2011, 09:30
The Gozo church only concern, is the financial income, Ask all Gozitan parishes if the Gozo Curia takes a share from all the collectins and a share from every project that is founded by the village people. Then ater all sucrifices done by the Gozitan people did to build the churches (since all these had been built by our money) the Gozo Bishop tells us (the Gozitan People) specifically that they has nothing and everyhing is poperty of the Gozo Curia. We just pay. Just a simple question to the Bishp. Are you concerned regarding the kids of Ghajnsielem? He will surely understand my question?
Alfred Gatt
May 18th 2011, 09:25
I agree with Fr Charlo Camilleri's comments regarding the statement of Mgr Grech. It should be taken in its context. You cannot believe in one thing and then act differently. It is as simple as that. Either you believe or else go your own way. Freedom is the gift God gave us. It can be used for good or for bad. But then everyone is responsible for the consequences of his or her actions.
Mr l Azzopardi
May 18th 2011, 10:04
"You cannot believe in one thing and then act differently"
And what do you say to Maltese citizens that pay taxes like yourself and are non Christians?
On what legal, moral and civil grounds would you impose a set of rules on non Christians when their Religion does not impose the same restrictions on them?
Its a matter of tollerance too Mr Gatt. There is more than the Christian reality in Malta.
Mr Mario P. Sciberras
May 18th 2011, 09:20
Another one from the Bible Brigade.
Am I correct in thinking that the following people, amongst others, are going to HELL:
Gays
Condom users
Pill users
IVF patients
Separated couples
Co-habiting couples
Divorced couples
Voters for Divorce legislation
Etc etc.
I am voting for a system that allows the civil law to regulate the aspirations and wishes of every single member of civil society, I AM VOTING YES
Mr M Borg
May 18th 2011, 09:42
Brovo ! You are right.
What Bishop Grech said did not concern you, you are more than free to live your life the way you want.
No one is forcing you to be or live the life of a Catholic !
You are free to vote Yes
But do not try to " act " the Catholic, because then what Bishop Grech said would fit you
Mr Mario P. Sciberras
May 18th 2011, 10:17
the question is not how I want to live my "secular" life but how the church is trying to impose on people like me, its will, on how to live our lives. We are not voting for divorce in Church but divorce legislation in relation to CIVIL marriages
Mr M Borg
May 18th 2011, 10:31
@ Mario P Sciberras
Sorry you are very wrong !
You can be sure that Bishop Grech is not going to be in the polling booth you,
You are more then free to vote yes.
If you bring up Bishop Grech all the time in your arguments it gives one the impresion that after all your conscience is not very clear.
In other words you are not sure if it is right to vote yes.
Mr Alfred Hili
May 18th 2011, 10:44
According to the teaching of the church couples using contraceptives are living in sin; it doesn't mean they are going to hell. God is all merciful.
Gays, separated couples, co-habiting couples, who lead a clean life are not living in sin.
A catholic sins if he forgets his commitment, breaks his oath and asks for a divorce to marry another partner. If a catholic couple are completely incompatible, cannot live together any more and therefore separate and go different ways, they commit no sin as long as they lead a clean life. If they have sex with other partners after that, they commit adultery.
On the other hand, I can't impose my catholic beliefs on non-religious persons.
Mr G Psaila
May 18th 2011, 11:01
SEE YOU IN HELL!!
Mr Paul Borg
May 18th 2011, 09:13
Naqbel perfettament li "HEMM ILPUP IXXIDHU L-LIBSA TA HARUF" IZDA PERSWAZZ UKOL LI "HEMM ILPUP IXXIDHU L-LIBSA TA' QASSISIN"
Philip Hili
May 18th 2011, 11:52
Le Pawl, ghazaqta!!
Jekk il-lupu ixxidd il-libsa ta' haruf kif jghid il-qawl, dan ma jintarafx u allura jista' jqarraq bik, jigdmeg, jibilek jew iweggek.
Izda jekk bhal ma ghidt int l-lupu jxxid il-libsa ta' qassis dan tkun tista' taghrf u allura ma jistax jigdmeg ghax sa fejn naf jien il-libsa tas-sacerdot jew qassis hija SEWDA u tal-lupu hija BAJDA u allura t0-tnejn jintaghfu!!!!
PAWL, META TIGI BZONN LIL DAK LI JXIDDT IL-LIBSA S-SEWDA TIGI BZONN U FORSI JEKK MA SSIBUX JIDDISJPACIK!!! IMMA MBAGHAD IKUN TARD WISQ.
Mr Paul Barrett
May 18th 2011, 09:12
Quote: Mgr Grech said those not in line with Church teachings should not expect to receive the Eucharist, Unquote.
or in other words - you take the bread from our mouths and we take the bread from yours.
Mr M Borg
May 18th 2011, 09:19
Seeing that you are not a Catholic and that you know nothing about our religion don't you think that you are
being presumptuous by trying to interpret what Bishop Grech meant ?
Believe me your " in other words " do not mean a thing !
David Caruana
May 18th 2011, 09:32
M Borg, you are WRONG!
Maybe Paul Barrett's "in other words" do not mean a thing for you...
... but they make perfect sense for those who got brains AND make the effort to use them.
Mr M Borg
May 18th 2011, 09:38
@ David Caruana
Or to those who rather than using their brains take every opportunity to say things which they think might demage the Church.
They do not know that the Church has survived for thousands of years and you, and other like you, using your brains to say or write things against it will not make it die out.
Mr Paul Barrett
May 18th 2011, 10:01
@ M Borg.
I am not a practising Catholic. I did however spend two extremely painful years of abuse by Priests at a Roman Catholic boarding school before I could persuade my parents that I just could not stand the 24/7 brainwashing and bullying any longer. I would not say that I know a great deal about the Roman Catholic faith but concede that there is a great deal that I have tried hard to forgive though difficult to forget.
David Caruana
May 18th 2011, 10:01
M Borg,
I guess time will tell! I'm confident that during my lifetime we will see the Roman Catholic Church (not the story of Jesus of Nazareth) be reduced to a relic - a looney idea of the past followed a small number of people.
Mr Patrick Gatt
May 18th 2011, 10:16
Mr. M. Borg: The church has survived thousands of years through fear, coercion, torture and bloodshed. Do we really want a thousand more of this? It's high time we start getting rid of these archaic mythologies and barbaric traditions.
Raymond Sacco
May 18th 2011, 10:27
@m.borg:
i agree with you that the bishop has the right to say what he pleases regarding religious matters. but what the bishop and you do not seem to understand is that divorce does not concern catholic marriage therefore does not concern the catholic church. divorce will be introduced for civil marriages ONLY! get that?
Mr Michael N Cassar
May 18th 2011, 09:03
While the state has to find a way to govern and address broken families where children are born out of marriage, and while not everybody wants to follow and hinder the message of Jesus according to the Bible. It is only fair to say that it is up to each individual to choose between a life of sacrifice or happiness. All marriages go through hardship and nothing is rosy. Quote Matthew5:27But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart. Divorce 31 the last line) anyone who marries the divorced woman commits adultery. Oaths 5:33 Second line) do not break your oath, but keep the oaths you have made to the Lord.
David Caruana
May 18th 2011, 09:17
Matthew 19:9, he says, "And I say to you: Whoever divorces his wife, EXCEPT FOR UNCHASTITY, and marries another, commits adultery"
There you go, if your partner cheats on you, you can divorce her or him with the blessing of the Nazzarene!
JESUS IS PRO-DIVORCE
YES FOR DIVORCE!
Mr l Azzopardi
May 18th 2011, 09:46
"All marriages go through hardship and nothing is rosy"...agreed Mr Cassar.
But arguing and disagreeing is one thing whilst suffering abuse, being terrorised and having your children witness it is another. I understand your view about sacrifice but there are some couples that have colds and others that have cancer metaforically speaking. And its not fair to put them in the same category of suffering.
Especially when some children are exposed to way too many physical and psychological abuse and are traumatised for life. As an adult/parent you would be tempted to sacrifice yourself and try to do the best you can but would you leave your children in harms way? I doubt it!
Its not black or white Mr Cassar and its not that simple either!
Ms Rudi Mcbeal
May 18th 2011, 10:09
@ David Caruana
What a load of codswallop.
I think you need to calm down, Mr Caruana.
David Caruana
May 18th 2011, 10:17
Rudi Mcbeal,
Don't hate the messenger, hate the message!
David Caruana
May 18th 2011, 10:19
@ Rudi Mcbeal again,
I think you are no one to tell me what I can or cannot do.
It seems that the antis oppose any form of freedom, including that of expression
Ms Rudi Mcbeal
May 18th 2011, 10:52
@ David Caruana
I am in no way telling you what to do. I am telling you what I think of your comments and suggesting you to calm down - you sound hysterical.
David Caruana
May 18th 2011, 13:58
Quoting a passage from the bible (as I did at the start of this thread) does not sound hysterical to me.
Still, you called my interpretation of the passage "codswallop" without having the decency to give us your interpretation. There are other passages where Jesus of Nazareth says that divorce is OK under certain circumstances.
Can you give us an explanation to this. Thanks
Ms Rudi Mcbeal
May 18th 2011, 18:00
David, my codswallop comment was especially meant to the example you gave to compare with what the Bishop said. Yes indeed, that is a load of codswallop. I apologise for my misquoting of the comment though.
David Caruana
May 18th 2011, 09:02
Imagine you are reading the newpaper and you come across an article saying : "A man walking through Paola Square got out a gun and shot 3 people. All 3 people died before medical support arrived on the place. The man, then walked calmly to a Cafe' where he spent the rest of the day drinking coffee and enjoying the view. No criminal charges have been pressed against the man and he was not contacted by the police."
Wouldn't that be shocking? A man, commiting a crime in broad daylight and no one cares?!
Well, don't be too shocked, here's another one. This time it's real:
"Mgr Grech said those not in line with Church teachings should not expect to receive the Eucharist, a comment which some interpreted as a SPIRITUAL THREAT AGAINST THOSE PLANNING TO VOTE YES IN THE REFERENDUM."
In terms of the General Elections Act, Schedule 14, Section 55: "Every person who directly or indirectly, by himself or by any other person on his behalf, makes use of or threatens to make use of any force , violence , or restraint , or inflicts , or THREATENS TO INFLICT….. ANY temporal or SPIRITUAL injury, damage, harm, or loss upon or against any person IN ORDER TO INDUCE OR COMPEL SUCH PERSON TO VOTE OR REFRAIN FROM VOTING, or on account of such person having voted or refrained from voting at any election….. SHALL BE GUILTY OF THE OFFENCE OF UNDUE INFLUENCE"
Mario Grech should be taken to court, NOW!
Oh, I guess the boys in blue are too busy running after people who dress up as nuns and priests during Carnival.
Oh, and I almost forgot that in Malta Cattolicissima, clergymen who abused children many years ago are still running free.
Henrietta Restall
May 18th 2011, 09:02
I don't know why people are complaining - you can't have it both ways.
If you're a practicing Catholic, and you want to receive commUNION, then you have to be in UNION with Christ and His Church. If you vote for something that is clearly at odds with Church teaching then how can you claim that you have the union.
The Church teaches that there may be valid reasons as to why a couple would separate, but divorce is much more than that, allowing for the possibility of "re-marriage" when there is still a valid marriage bond between the two which is indissoluble.
Bishop Grech is just stating the facts
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EDWIN DE MARCO
May 18th 2011, 11:50
careful now, don't let your brains go to your head!
Ms N Buttigieg
May 18th 2011, 09:00
Iktar biza bid-dnub gej nhar il-Gimgha gewwa l-Fgura. Interessanti x'ha jghid, jekk ghamilx sewwa il-patri li cahhad lil dik il-mara anzjana mit-tqarbin? Ha jfahhru tghid jew ha jikkundanah Mons Mario Grech?? U jekk ha jghidlu li ghamel sewwa, ghax skond hu min huwa favur id-divorzju ma ghandux jigi mqarben, imbaghad ha jmaqdar lil Kappillan ghax talab skuza lil anzjana u qalilha li ha jibda jmur iqarbinha huwa??
Iddecidu x'direzzjoni ha tiehdu din il-Knisja, mhux saret qisha knisja tal-biza u thedid bid-Dnub.
Mr D Galea
May 18th 2011, 08:52
To Dominic Fenech
Jekk bniedem irid joqtol u tagħtih sikkina tkun kompliċi tal-qtil ... mela jekk ma għandhiex bżonn id-divorzju, imma nivvota iva għax jista' jużah ħaddieħor hekk sew? Jekk għalija ħażin huwa ħażin għal kulħadd.
Alistair Farrugia
May 18th 2011, 09:20
L-ahwa, qed thalltu l-hass mal-gass. Il-mekkanizmu tad-divorzju li ha jidhol huwa wiehed legali biss, u jikkoncerna biss zwiegijiet civili, iz-zwieg ta' quddiem l-istat, mhux il-knisja. Dak li sar fil-knisja tista thollu l-knisja biss, u l-ebda ligi tal-bniedem ma tista tbiddlu. Li wiehed jivvota iva ghal divorzju legali ifisser li jaccetta li bniedem li dahal f'kuntratt LEGALI jista jholl dan il-kuntratt b'mod LEGALI. Xejn iktar, xejn inqas. Iz-zwieg tal-Knisja, f'Malta, ghandu wkoll porzjon LEGALI, ghax fil-fatt individwu jigi qisu zzewweg kemm bis-sagrament u kemm b'mod civili ghal finijiet legali. Jekk jidhol id-divorzju, l-unika haga li ser jigri huwa li individwu jkun jista, ghal ragunijiet legali, jholl ir-rabta civili taz-zwieg. Quddiem il-Knisja pero, dil-persuna tkun ghadu mizzewga. Id-dnub isir biss ghal dawk in-nies, mizzewga bil-Knisja, li jiehdu d-divorzju u ma jibqawx fidili ghal zewghom / marthom. Id-dnub jista jsir biss minn dawk li taw weghda quddiem il-Knisja - dawk li a) izzewgu bic-civil jew b) sempliciment ivvutaw IVA imma ma hadux id-divorzju m'humiex qedin jidinbu. Gibuli argument WIEHED biss kontra li qed nghid u nghidilkom ghandkom ragun.
Biex nghamilha iktar semplici - jien jekk naccetta li jidhol Divorzju Legali (nivvota IVA), ma jfissirx li z-zwieg tieghi irrid inhassru, ifisser biss li naccetta li hawn zwiegijiet LEGALI li jista jkun ahjar jekk jinhallu, partikolarment ghal gid ta' dawk involuti fil-kaz. Fejn qed nidneb hawn jekk nahsibha hekk? B'dan li ghidt mhux qed inmur kontra l-ebda taghlim tal-Knisja - nemmen li zwieg kattoliku huwa dejjiemi, u hekk ghandu jkun ghax il-koppja jaccettaw il-prezenza ta' 'terza persuna' fiz-zwieg - u mhux zwieg b'karta biss. Pero zwieg civili huwa, b'mod 'crude', kuntratt. M'hemmx moralita jew fidi involuta.
Nirrepeti - ejja ma nhalltux l-affarijiet l-ahwa!
Ivan Muscat
May 18th 2011, 10:36
Fl-ahhar, sibt persuna li tikteb bis sens. Kemm nixtieq li kulhadd jikteb bhalek Sur Alistair Farrugia
EDWIN DE MARCO
May 18th 2011, 12:01
You are living proof that man can live without a brain!
Philip Hili
May 18th 2011, 12:11
@ Alistair Farrugia.
Meta rajt il-kummnet ta' Ivan Muscat, qabbadni l-kurzita' ghax qal "Fl-ahhar, sibt persuna li tikteb bis sens. Kemm nixtieq li kulhadd jikteb bhalek Sur Alistair Farrugia"
Lanqas irrid inkompli naqra wara li qrajt l-ewwel sentenza gha vera bhal ma ghidt int Alistair hawn min ihallat l-affarijiet.
Nistaqsi - jekk huwa bhal ma ghidt int, "lil-mekkanizmu tad-divorzju li ha jidhol huwa wiehed legali biss, u jikkoncerna biss zwiegijiet civili, iz-zwieg ta' quddiem l-istat, mhux il-knisja." tista' tghidli kif koppja li ggib id-divorzju quddiem l-istat tista' tibqa tghix bhala koppja quddiem il-knisja, dejjem jekk dan jista' jsir? Jew dan ser ikun xi mezz ta' sgiccatura biex dak li jkun ikun jista' jgawdi minn xi beneficcji socjali jekk 'l-quddiem l-istat jintroduci xi forma ta' beneficcji ghad-divorzisti?
Alistair Farrugia
May 18th 2011, 12:16
Grazzi Sur Muscat. :)
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