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Gozo Bishop’s comments on Eucharist draw mixed reaction

Mgr Mario Grech saluting the people in Victoria on January 22, 2006, the day he was consecrated Bishop of Gozo. Photo: Chris Sant Fournier

Mgr Mario Grech saluting the people in Victoria on January 22, 2006, the day he was consecrated Bishop of Gozo. Photo: Chris Sant Fournier

People are divided on the proclamation by Gozo Bishop Mario Grech, who hinted that Catholics promoting divorce legislation are “wolves in sheep’s clothing”.

Mgr Grech said those not in line with Church teachings should not expect to receive the Eucharist, a comment which some interpreted as a spiritual threat against those planning to vote yes in the referendum.

But while comments flooded in online to label him “intolerant”, “ridiculous” and “arrogant”, others defended his homily on Sunday as being in line with Church dogma.

Fr Charlo Camilleri, who last August argued that Catholic politicians can, according to their conscience, vote in favour of divorce if research showed it was beneficial for the common good, said the homily had to be taken in its context.

The Bishop, he said, was speaking during the celebration of the sacrament of confirmation, explaining the gospel of the Good Shepherd, where Christ presents himself as the “one door”.

Bishop Grech said: “If we want to find the right door, shortly... and adults, understand what I am trying to say... do not make a mistake, there is only one door.”

“As an adult Christian I fully agree that there is only one door and this is Christ. The Bishop did not limit himself to divorce. Rightly so he stated that our faith should be translated in all spheres of our life. You cannot call yourself a Christian, follower or disciple of Christ and then not follow the Gospel values.”

Fr Camilleri pointed out that the discussion on divorce had degenerated, showing that the issue at stake, “perhaps unconsciously”, was the relationship between Church and state.

He said people in favour of divorce seemed to be very concerned about attacking the teachings of the Church instead of sticking to their arguments. This gave the impression they were acting out of panic and causing confusion by mixing up the sacramental and legal definitions of marriage. On the other hand, the Bishop made a distinction by saying everybody had the civil right to marry but not to receive the sacrament of marriage.

Fr Camilleri said the Church teachings on the issues of divorce and conscience were clear and he referred to the position paper drawn up in October by seven prominent priests. The paper concluded that Catholics must form their conscience by keeping in mind the word of God, the teaching of the Church and the true needs of the common good.

Those who only followed their own “feelings, thoughts and personal advantage” should realise they were not doing their Catholic duty. “One is responsible for such action before God and may possibly be sinning.”

Priest blogger Fr Joe Borg said he had no comment to make on the homily of Bishop Grech.

The Times asked Fr Borg if he agreed with Mgr Grech that the Church was not being forceful enough on divorce. Fr Borg recently criticised the movement Kristu Iva Divorzju Le, saying such an attitude built no bridges with “all those good Catholics who favour divorce”.

Fr Borg said he stood by his comment.

“If you go through timesofmalta.com you will notice that I have been the target of harsh criticism and personal jibes by the extremists on both sides of the divide. It is incredible how comments one makes are sometimes interpreted, misinterpreted, mangled and jumbled,” he said.

He added there was no need to add or clarify anything regarding the joint declaration of the seven priests, which was also endorsed by Archbishop Paul Cremona who, he pointed out, was also president of the Maltese Episcopal Conference.

Historian Dominic Fenech alluded to a rift between the Church leaders of the two dioceses.

“The Church has been surprisingly circumspect as an institution and has left the talking mostly to lay organisations of people who, although known for their religious fervour, prefer to attack divorce legislation from social, legal or economic angles rather than from a moral spiritual one.

“It seems the ecclesiastical establishment is keeping on a tight leash any priest who appears to condone divorce legislation but not individual priests who campaign against. The Gozo Bishop now seems to have lost his patience with such strategic subtleties.”

Asked if Bishop Grech’s statements could be legitimately perceived as a threat, he said “it is certainly pressure” and based on a wrong premise.

“Voting in favour of introducing divorce legislation for those who want to use it does not deny anyone the choice of not using it if they want to abide by the Church’s doctrine. I hardly think it is a state of sin, even by the Church’s own rules, to favour a model of society which is different from that which the Church wants conserved.”

Bishop Grech will hold a question and answer session on marriage and the family at the Fgura parish centre on Friday.

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Alfred Falzon

May 20th 2011, 11:47

ERRATA CORRIGE
Please note that the term "licentiousness" (4th paragraph, line3) was inadvertently spelled wrongly. The "c" should be dropped before the "t".
In the 5th para, line 1, "to join the pieces" should read "to pick up the pieces".
With apologies for any inconvenience.

Mr Matthew Grima

May 20th 2011, 09:59

1. It is different, first you need separation, all custodial and maintenance agreements are done at this stage, divorce is the final stamp on the contract that the marriage has ended and both can re-marry if they want to.

2. All custodial and maintenance agreements are done at separation stage, the point being that both might not want to divorce in the future, and even if they do, such agreements need to be done anyway as maintenance and custodial issues start once the couple is no longer living together.

3. See point 2, also, tax payers are already paying for women who have children outside of wedlock and choose to take the extra cheque as they can declare themselves single mothers, because they cannot remarry,.

4. Lawyers are already making money from separations (which is the longer process), while the church is making money from annulments, yes it is fearing financial losses.

5. The church is still imposing mortal sin and it's beliefs, it is trying to control a civil issue (this time a referendum not elections) through it's teaching, you won't agree with me obviously as you agree with the church's teaching.

I can quote your last line as it applies to your approach:
"This barrage of deliberate deception should alert the intelligent voters and put them on their guard at the imminent referendum. "

Mr Matthew Grima

May 19th 2011, 19:20

Joe, you have no idea how much I enjoyed reading that.

We just into the discussion of filling the unexplainable void with a god at work, at the end of the discussion (not much of a discussion when we were all agreeing) we decided to sod it all and not bother, I'm happy with understanding the big bang, evolution and the rest, not knowing how big the universe actually is, and what it's container (if there is one) might be like.

But I'll stop there until another genius comes along and finds something new.


Mr Matthew Grima

May 19th 2011, 14:22

I remember calling the game "telephone" thanks for the correction.

My reasoning is this, if I cannot explain something, I just don't bother about it (though I used to), but I will not put a god as an explanation for it just to fill the void.

VV Bartolo

May 19th 2011, 11:09

* i meant so you're voting no mr m borg to safeguard yourself?? ....

Walter Volz

May 19th 2011, 13:45

Dear Mr Grech, I don’t want to enter into a discussion about our religious believes on this site. But let me shortly state the following:
When you quote the words of Jesus, very much depends on the context in which they were spoken. The context for Mt 23:7-11 e.g. is the hypocrisy of the Pharisees.
You take issue with the word ‘priest’. According to the Oxford Dictionary it comes “from Greek presbuteros ‘elder’ (used in the New Testament to denote an elder of the early church)”. The same is true for the expression ‘bishop’, “based on Greek episkopos ‘overseer’”, an office already present in the New Testament church as well. You will agree with me that it is not so much the title that counts, but the inner disposition behind it!
Fr. Walter Volz

Mr M Borg

May 19th 2011, 08:59

Why should you be shocked, maybe you do not know what this woman knows.

With this on-fault divorce even if this woman does not want to divorce her husband, he can still divorce her and she will have no say.

Forget this woman, how whould you like it if your partner, although ,you might be the best husband /wife
can still divorce you.

With this divorce it is not you who controls your life but your wife / husband , do you think that this is right ?

Do not bring political parties in. JPO and Brincat belong to two different parties.
Both political leaders have made theri position known. Dr Gonzi is against. J. Muscat said he will
campaign in favour of it. Not only that but on One we are being shown what took place in the 60's every day..

We are living now, the effects of divorce will be felt in 2011, and they are not good.

Vote no for divorce.

Mr Joseph Aquilina

May 19th 2011, 09:43

Do not try to bring politics in the issue. the pro-divorce movement is already doing its best to built an anti-church campaign in order to try and bring votes from those that YES are not Catholics, but NO they don't agree with divorce. There is no need to turn this into another vote of confidence in the government - we are not going to vote on that!!!

Mr Matthew Grima

May 19th 2011, 09:46

"Forget this woman, how whould you like it if your partner, although ,you might be the best husband /wife
can still divorce you."

So you'd want to stay with someone who doesn't want to stay with you? Wow.

Mr M Borg

May 19th 2011, 09:59

@ Matthew Grima
I do not know about you. But I want to be the one who is charge of my life.

I do not want to turn into a slave just because I am married , do you ?

I do not want to be divorced against my will, do you ?

Do you consider yourself a slave, some one that can just be discarded when not needed ?

Well I do not ! I am in control of my life and I will not hand over that control to anyone , will you ?

VV Bartolo

May 19th 2011, 10:05

so you're voting YES mr m borg to safeguard yourself?? so your wife won't be able to control yr life?? :)

and what about those hundreds and even thousands of women/men who has been suffering thru their marriage life? don't they have a RIGHT to safeguard themselves as well by voting YES?!?!

Mr M Borg

May 19th 2011, 10:56

@ W. Bartolo

No , I am not voting no to safeguard myself . I am voting No because I believe in marriage.

I used that example to show you how this no-divorce works.

Do you think that it is right , that although you might be the best husband / wife in the world your husband/
wife can still divorce you. Once this no-divorce is filed you cannot stop it.

Your partner has taken control of your life , and want it or not , you have to be divorced, you are not given a
chance to save your marriage.

Do you agree with this ? This is what I meant why I wrote " control my life ".

Mr Matthew Grima

May 19th 2011, 11:35

What a twisted argument, you want to stay with someone who has no interest in staying with you, just so you feel "in control"? With the same argument, you're trying to control your ex-wife by not letting her move on so you can stroke your own vindictive ego. I repeat, what a twisted argument.

Mr Joseph Aquilina

May 19th 2011, 09:45

I am not married and still going to vote no. Not because I am Christian - indeed I agree with cohabitation before marriage something which goes against Christian doctrine - but rather because divorce as proposed will quickly become (if not from day one) a tool for social injustice!!!

Mr Joseph Aquilina

May 19th 2011, 09:50

That is very hard to happen ... most of them are pro-divorce :P Joking apart. You cannot judge someone because he votes NO for divorce because of his or her own believes. These people put their trust of a better life (in this one and the next one) in the teachings of the Church in the same way that others may trust them into other things.

Mr Saliba Francis

May 18th 2011, 21:20

Christ himself advised his followers to be happy when they are vilified because of him, because they would be rewarded.

Somehow I do not think that Bishop Grech is losing any sleep because of the vituperation being hurled at him in the local press by the usual motley crown of "practicing" Catholics and others more openly admitting that they are lapsed Catholics or prospective self-excommunicated Catholics. I hope that there are many, many other priests who feel the same way and who would not be intimidated.

Victor Pulis

May 18th 2011, 21:43

'The people of Malta are not stupid! They will vote according to what their consciences tell them'
You are absolutely right on that aspect at least.

Mr Alex Buds

May 18th 2011, 22:04

Divorce legislation is inevitable, sooner or later, whether you like it or not. Get over it.

Ms Emma Xerri

May 19th 2011, 06:31

How can you in all honesty say that you are on the fence on this issue when you are clearly on the anti-divorce side and condone the church in using spiritual blackmail and extortion.

For records's sake, aetheists, humanists and secularists have been among the best that humanity has had to offer, numbering amongst them many Nobel Prize winners for science and medicine that contributed to the welfare of humanity. While on the other religions and religious people such as Popes have been responsible for keeping humanity backwards and have caused the bloodiest wars and violence not to mention the cruelest tortures and murders imaginable, including your Holy Inquisition and in modern times, the scandal of child abuse and rampant paedophilia by the clergy. These are verifyable facts and attacking the Church at every opportunity would be the least that should happen. In my opinion, in a just world the whole organisation ought to be abolished for the harm it has done throughout the centuries.

Mr Joe Gatt

May 19th 2011, 00:12

Well said Mr Pisani,

Good will and comon sence will prevail in the end.

Mr Joseph Aquilina

May 19th 2011, 10:03

So should we legalise drugs so that I can allow the individual to choose for himself. While at it while not also legalise other things such as abortion? Indeed their are countries that did that in the people in that country do not live a very happy life. You just need to see their suicide rates in order to realise in what misery they live in. That said, divorce can't even be labelled as allowing someone to choose for him or her self because at the end of the day divorce will always effect TWO-OR-MORE persons NOT JUST ONE! What if the other person does not want a divorce (for some reason or another). With the proposed law that person will be FORCED to take a divorce that he she might not have wanted. Do you want that?

Mr Anton PIsani

May 19th 2011, 11:30

Mr. Aquilina, i exlcude Abortion from civil rights simply because I believe rights should be limited by the rights of others - that's why murder should never be a right - it takes away the biggest right of all - the right to live. Re drugs - it is scientifically proved that drugs cause addictions and harm to the human body - that justifies drug censorship. Moreover, legally would it make sense if we say that drugs from UK, Netherlands etc are legally accepted in our country but Maltese drugs are not? Cos that's what we're saying when voting NO. Foreign divorce legal, local divorce no.

With regards to the imposition of divorce on the other party - in practice divorce will follow seperation. Its not like a person will receive a divorce notice out of a happy marriage. There are several steps before that including seperation and reconciliation attempts. Lets stop pretending seperation is ok because its not so easy to get but divorce is easy, bla raguni. Remember divorce has to follow seperation. But I insist that the question is not whether we agree with divorce or not, I personally don't agree with it in fact, but wheter a person should have the right to choose himself whether to divorce or not.

Mr M Borg

May 18th 2011, 19:39

Wouldn't it be better if you stopped living in the past.

The effects of the divorce referendum will be felt now !

Mr Alex Buds

May 18th 2011, 22:06

M Borg: if you think you can stop divorce, you are living in the past.

You might delay it this time around, but if you do, there will be another soon enough.

Religious zealotry is a concept whose time has passed. Human progress has moved on.

Mr Joseph Aquilina

May 19th 2011, 09:57

Don't think so... What Bishop Gonzi did was inhumane. He mixed politics with religion and made use of his secular power in order to get the people vote in one direction or the other. This was wrong and such wrongness was also recognised by the Church in Rome and Malta. That said, the subject here is a complete different one. Here we are not being asked to make a political decision but a moral one and moralities have all to do with religion.

Ms S Micallef

May 18th 2011, 16:44

he thinks he's going to heaven just by sitting in his comfy chair in front of a screen accusing people of mortal sin. how pathetic.

Walter Volz

May 18th 2011, 21:01

Dear Mr Joe Zammit, unfortunately you often seem to be lonely preacher in the desert! I am a German Catholic priest living temporarily in Malta. I appreciate very much the clear and courageous teaching of Msgr Grech, the bishop of Gozo. In this time of doctrinal confusion you have to call a spade a spade, all priests should do that, because only that can help.
I commend your undeterred defence of the teaching of the Catholic church in the face of so many violent and scorning attacks against you. Personally I would formulate a bit differently, but on principle I am with you!
You do well to quote the Catechism of the Catholic Church: Divorce is a grave offence against the natural law… The remarried spouse is in a situation of public and permanent adultery! (n. 2384).
But you know, as St. Paul already said: The time will come when men will no longer listen to sound doctrine. Instead, to suit their own desires, they will gather around them a great number of teachers to say what their itching ears want to hear! (2 Timothy 4:3)
Keep up the good work and don’t be discouraged! I pray for you!

Fr. Dr. theol. Walter Volz

Ms S Micallef

May 18th 2011, 16:24

nghidlek who is pleasing the devil and who is living in sin and on the path to hell.

Nahseb you are Mr. Zammit, with all your judgemental ways.

Mr Tony Camilleri

May 18th 2011, 18:08

Judge not lest you be judged Joe Zammit.

Raymond Sacco

May 18th 2011, 18:54

@joe zammit:
lol! richard the lion heart would have needed someone like you!

Mr Joseph Lungaro

May 18th 2011, 20:45

@ Mr Joe Zammit


The More I read Your Sad Spoof Post.......The more is my determination to Vote YESSSSSSSSSS!

Lets hope common sense prevail ........cause this is a funadamental civil rights We're voting for..... the Whole World cant be the Devil and us Maltese the Saints!

Mr Alex Buds

May 18th 2011, 22:40

Those who like to accuse others of mortal sin probably better be careful about their own salvation instead.

I wouldn't bet on yours Joe. I'm thinking the good Lord might not enjoy the prospect of spending eternity listening to you.

Ms Emma Xerri

May 19th 2011, 06:40

Joe, I have got news for you.

Both God and the Devil are figments of your imagination. And when we die, we do not go to heaven or hell, we just return back to the elements by rotting in the grave. The sooner you face these facts, the sooner you will be free. Set yourself free and get a life - by doing so you can spare us your asinine statements repeated ad nauseum.

Walter Volz

May 19th 2011, 09:40

Dear Mr Joe Zammit, unfortunately you often seem to be lonely preacher in the desert! I am a German Catholic priest living temporarily in Malta. I appreciate very much the clear and courageous teaching of Msgr Grech, the bishop of Gozo. In this time of doctrinal confusion you have to call a spade a spade, all priests should do that, because only that can help.
I commend your undeterred defence of the teaching of the Catholic church in the face of so many violent and scorning attacks against you. Personally I would formulate a bit differently, but on principle I am with you!
You do well to quote the Catechism of the Catholic Church: Divorce is a grave offence against the natural law… The remarried spouse is in a situation of public and permanent adultery! (n. 2384).
But you know, as St. Paul already said: The time will come when men will no longer listen to sound doctrine. Instead, to suit their own desires, they will gather around them a great number of teachers to say what their itching ears want to hear! (2 Timothy 4:3)
Keep up the good work and don’t be discouraged! I pray for you!

Fr. Dr. theol. Walter Volz

Margaret Richards

May 19th 2011, 18:08

Joe zammit strikes again - extremely boring and repetitive and best and psychotic at worst!!! Do us a favour and shut up

Victor Pulis

May 18th 2011, 16:09

It was sinful of herod to take his brother's wife because she was still married to him. The israelites practiced divorce in the time of Jesus so if Herodias had divorced her husband John the baptist would not have rebuked Herod.

Mr M Borg

May 18th 2011, 16:28

Do you mean that you have another version of the bilble ?

Mr Matthew Grima

May 18th 2011, 17:04

Mr Borg, a story of a man, written decades after it happened, then translated to other languages is bound to change.
Ever heard of the game telephone? And the phrase "lost in translation", you'll probably say no just for the sake of it, but anyway.

This obviously not including the HUGE possibility that it was written by human beings who could have had a hidden agenda themselves.

Mr Jack Vella

May 18th 2011, 15:56

Prosit Sur Vassallo,

Nissugerilek terga tismagha mela!!!

Victor Pulis

May 18th 2011, 16:07

Mr. Debono I advise you not to hold your breath for an answer from Joe Zammit. The best you will get is a cut and paste mantra which has nothing to do with your question. With all his 'knowledge' of the scriptures Joe is unable to answer questions about his faith.
As for your question it makes perfect sense and i have been asking Joe to explain how out of a population of 6 billion only less than one billion (since not all catholics will go to heaven) will be saved. His answer was that Jesus does not look at numbers. Then I reminded him of the parable of the good shepherd.

Mr Michael Debono

May 18th 2011, 16:56

You cannot generalise. There are good christians that are in favour of introduction of divorce- which is not the same as in favour of divorce. One could be in favour of the intoduction of legislation on divorce but would be against applying for it. Very simple. It is like issuing permits to drive motorcycles for whoever is in favour but against recommending people to drive it because of the danger involved.

Mr Jack Vella

May 18th 2011, 15:34

Sur Cutajar,

Nahseb ahjar terga taqra il post tieghi qabel taqbez f'konkluzjonijiet!!!

Mr Jack Vella

May 18th 2011, 15:52

Dan il Kumment lis-Sur Cutajar gie indirizzat. Apologies for the mishap Mr. Buds :)))

Mr Louis Cutajar

May 18th 2011, 16:10

Imma taf'x nahseb li kulħadd irid li il-ħazin nghidulu tajjeb. L-Isqof qed jghid il-verita oggettiva . Dak li hu hazin qatt ma nistghu nghidulu tajjeb. L-aghar hu mhux biss li tara l-hazin f'haddiehor, imma meta taghmel dan tinsa l-hazin li tkun ghamilt int. Hemm differenza minn meta jien se niggudikak biex inti tmur ahjar u tirranga u altru niggudikak biex inkissrek u naghmillek il-hsara biex jien nidher nfuh bhalma ghamlu l-kittieba mal-mara adultera. Mhux qed nghid ghalik personali, imma hafna nies hekk jagixxu jaraw il-hazin biss f'haddiehor u jinsew it-tajjeb li hemm f'dik il-persuna u wisq aktar jinsew l-ghemejjel hziena taghhom. Hadd ma jonxor il-hwejjeg mahmugin barra. Zgur li hu isqof li l-affarijiet hziena li hemm fost il-kleru se jghidlhom tajjeb, forsi ghax ma narawhx jagixxi nahsbu li ma jsirx xejn. Imma kemm ghandna zball kbir. Jien nista haga hazina nghidilha tajba imma fil-verita tibqa hazina, bik forsi nkun qed nithaq imma b'Alla le, u fija xorta jkun hemm xi haga li tibqa tghidli li hi hazina ghalkemm nghid li hi tajba. Qed nippruvaw insibu kull haga ma xix ningranfaw biex nippruvaw inserrħu l-kuxjenza.

Mr Jack Vella

May 18th 2011, 16:31

Sur Cutajar,

Prosit Punt validu biss ghedt int stess li jekk ma narawhx jagixxi nahsbu li mhux qed isir xejn Hu hemm id-differenza fl-opinjonijiet taghna JIena qed nitkellem fuq li smajt b'widnejja stess u fuq li rajt. Il-Knisja min zmien zemzem kienet dejjem tibqa siekta u fl-ahhar mill-ahhar bhal fil-kaz tal-pedofelija ibatu l-ewwel it-tfal infushom imbaghad il-familji tagghom. Jiena ghalekk favur id-divorzju ghax hija ghazla u l-ghazla li ghandu qassis biex jinhall mill-irbit jekk dan jiehu grazzja ma mara li sa certu punt huwa uman imma dnub, hekk ukoll ghandha l-istess KNISJA taghti L-ISTESS GHAZLA lil min huwa mizzewweg. Id-Divorzju huwa ghazla ghal min iz-zwieg tieghu ma rnexxiex.

Ms B Cassar

May 18th 2011, 15:17

juzaw l-iskuza 'zwieg li qatt ma kien'

anke jien meta nircievi il-kont tad-dawl ukoll nghid dan qatt ma rcevejtu imma fir-realta malajr insib xi reminder fil-kaxxa tal-posta.

Mr Matthew Vella

May 18th 2011, 15:02

Int wiehed min dawn li tghodd ruhhek bhala Nisrani??

jekk iva sejjer zball ta ghax ma tistax tkun nisrani u tmaqdar b'dan il-mod mexxej tal-knisja (l-isqof ta Ghawdex), jew int ahjar minnu???

Illum il-gurnata anke lilna nfusna sirna nikkonvincu li ahna perfetti!!!!

Ms Xaxa Caruana

May 18th 2011, 15:06

@Jack Vella,

Ma ghandi xejn xi nghidlek hlif PROSIT, veru ktibt bis sens, u lqat il musmar fuq rasu.
Wiehed l-ahjar comments li qatt qrajt . PROSIT AGAIN.

Ms Xaxa Caruana

May 18th 2011, 15:12

@Mr.Matthew Vella.

Mhux imaqdar imma kiteb il verita, u bhal ma jejdu il VERITA TWEGGA.!!!

Mr Matthew Vella

May 18th 2011, 15:42

@ Xaxa Caruana

Int qed ticcajta hux? Tahseb li dan ser iwwegga lili? Jiena ma jienx bniedem li ma nizbaljax imma nipprova nghix kemm jista jkun sew, kemm jista jkun ta Nisrani ubidjenti lejn it-tghalim tal-knisja (kollhu u mhux il-bicciet li joghbu lili). Jien ma nqisx ruhi ma xi bniedem perfett anzi naf li jien midneb imma nemmen fil-hniena ta Alla.

Il-knisja hi maghmula min nies tad-demm u l-laham u kulhadd jizballja sahansitra l-patrijiet. Il-knisja dejjem ikkundannat kwalunkwe tip ta ghagir mhux-xieraq (inkluz l-abbuzi li saru) u dejjem talbet mahfra.

It-tghalim tal-knisja qatt ma nbidel u qatt ma hu ser jinbidel. Min ma jabilx ma dan it-tghalim ghandu kull dritt jitlaq mil-knisja imma ma tistax toqod sieq gewwa u sieq barra. Ma tistghux tghidu li dak in-nisrani li jivvota Le ghad-divorzju qed jiddetta kif jghix haddiehor ghax kullhadd ghandu id-dritt li jivvota kif jahseb li hu l-ahjar. Id-dhul tad-divorzju mhux ser jaffetwa l-knisja biss imma s-socjeta kollha, ghalhekk in-Nisrani ghadu dritt jivvota LE.



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Well said. I am 24 years old and I totally aggree with the Bishop's speech.

Illum il-gurnata hafna nies jahsbu li huma kattolici ghax immorru l-quddies il-Hadd (u forsi matul il-gimgha ukoll). Imma tkun kattoliku jekk verament temmen u tobdi dak li tghidlek il-knisja u timxi fuq it-tghalim ta Gesu Kristu. Ma tistax tghid li int kattoliku jekk taqbel mad-divorzju, l-abbort or l-ewtanasja.

Il-knisja mhux xi pizza 'quattro stagioni' tiekol il-bicca li tghogbok u l-kumplament thalliha hemm, ma tistax tghazel biss dak li jaghmel sens ghalik u l-kumplament ma taghtix kasu. Il-kattoliku hu dak li verament jifhem it-tghalim tal-knisja u jobdi (mhux ghax bilfors imma ghax jaf li din hi il-hajja tan-nisrani, li taghmel sens).

Ghalhekk jekk int ma taqbilx ma l-affarijiet fundamentali tal-knisja, int ma tistax tghid li int kattoliku u ma tistax titqarben lanqas.

Jekk int Kattoliku prattikant MA TISTAX tivvota IVA, u jekk tivvota IVA int ma tistax tghid li int Nisrani. Jekk mintix Nisrani ghandek id-dritt tivvota kif trid.

Gesu Kristu lill-appostili qalilhom 'Tridux titilqu intom ukoll?'. U l-knisja ghandha tghamel l-istess. Ghanda tkun cara u mhux toqod tibza titkellem. Min ma jridx jibqa Nisrani ghax ma jaqbilx mat-tghalim tal-knisja dan jista jitlaq, hadd ma hu qed izzommhom. Gesu Kristu 'jobzqu' lil-dak il bniedem biered - li la hu kiesah u lanqas shun.

Ma nistghux nibqghu inkunu 'doppja facca' immorru l-quddies, nitqarbnu u nippretendu li ahna kattolici u mbghad nighxu kif jidrilna!!


Mr Jack Vella

May 18th 2011, 15:51

Jiena wiehed minn dawk il hafna li gejt mghajjar brigant, halliel u qattiel. Int Kristu biex tghidli li sejjer zball, ghax qieghed nghid l-opinjoni. Habib xomm taht il-komma u jekk m'ghandekx dnub itfa l-ewwel gebla!!!

@ Matthew Vella

L-Isqof qal (kif qal is-sur Cremona aktar l-isfel) li kellu il-freedom of speech u jien hekk ukoll ghamilt. il-Hasra hi li jekk tghid il-verita (u ghidli fejn tkellimt hazin fuq li ghidt, jew ghidt xi haga li mhux vera) hawn taqlaha xorta. Hallina nghixu tridx? U jekk int ser tivvota LE u kburi, jiena ser nivvota IVA u kburi.

Bilhaqq Sur Vella, tkunx perfett int u tiggudikani u tghidli li sejjer zbaljat!!! Ghax il-Hmar dejjem iwahhal f' denbu. U tinkwetax, jekk jghidulek mur aqbez, mur - jiena mhux ser inkun mieghek, tinkwetax!!!

Alla biss huwa perfezzjoni u Alla bata ghalina. Alla qatt m'ghajjar anzi laqa ghandu lil iktar nies midinba Issa jekk din hija l-istrategija taghkom biex tbezzghu, ftakar li l-poplu illum m'ghadux mazzun bhal fiz-zmien l-interdett, meta il-Kapijiet NSARA stess geghlu lil hutna l-LABURISTI KOLLHA ibatu. AHNA ILKOLL AHWA fi KRISTU. M'hemmx kulur, m'hemmx religjon u m'hemmx differenza politika jew differenza!!! U ghal dak li naghmel jien, jiena biss irrid nirrispondi lil Alla!!!

@ Ms Xaxa Caruana

Nirringrazjak, ghidt dak li huwa migmum fil-qalb ta' hafna, ghax gew imwegga mill- Mexxej tal-Knisja, Kap spiritwali u Raghaj tal-Merhla!!

Ghal darb'ohra nirringrazjak !! :))

Jack

Mr Matthew Vella

May 18th 2011, 17:50

Kulhadd ghandu dritt jghati l-opinjoni tieghu u jien qatt ma ghedt lil-hadd biex joqghod bi kwietu u joqghod kwiet.

Il-knisja mhux qed tbezza lil-hadd. Jekk int trid tissejah Nisrani, trid tghix ta Nisrani u tobdi il-ligijiet tal-knisja li huma l-istess ligijiet li taghna Kristu.

Jekk int Nisrani, l-knisja mhux ser tigi mieghek biex tara li ivvotajt kontra id-divorzju. Il-knisja mhux ser timponi xejn fuq hadd, kulhadd huwa liberu. Imma ma nistghux inqarqu bina nfusna li ma ahna qed naghmlu xejn hazin jekk nivvutaw IVA ghad-divorju, ghax dan imur kontra il-bazi fundamentali tat-taghlim tal-knisja .

Imma jekk m'intix Nisrani ma ghandekx ghax tinkweta ghax inti qed tghix u taghmel kif tahseb li hu l-ahjar. U jekk int nisrani fil-fond ta qalbek taf li d-divorzju imur kontra it-taghlim ta Kristu (anke jekk tipprova tahbi dan). Ma nqarqux b'ina nfusna.

Forsi f'din id-dinja nistghu nidhku b'xulxin u nissejhu Nsara anke jekk m'ahniex, imma b'Gesu Kristu hadd ma jidhak. Jien ma jien ser niggudika lil-hadd, ghax kif ghedt inti stess, jien ma jienx perfett u probabli nizbalja aktar minnek (ghalkemm naghmel il-kuragg biex nerga inqum) - il-gudizzju nhallih f'Idejh.

Mr M Borg

May 18th 2011, 14:59



@ K Littlejohn

If as you say you know nothing about the Catholic faith, don't you think it would be better if you do not try to

give an opinion on something you are not familiar with.

Philip Hili

May 18th 2011, 13:22

Mr. Vassallo, No thanks, do not encourage David Caruana to go to the Sistin Chapel in order to be elected and represent us. Catholics are not in favour of persons who talk NON-SENSE to guide them in their spiritual needs!!!!
As to Charlie, he is very smart and bright. I remember him as Charles Azzopardi - The Family Therapist on Xarabank. A few years ago he obtained the Doctorate and therefore now he is Dr. Charles Azzopardi and I think that now he feels that he is much more important!!!!!so much so that he felt that he should make that feeble statement in order to get some popularity.
The way he spoke recently, shows that divorce is his daily bread and therefore he could not speak of good families. I think he has a conflict of interest. Now either advice couples to settle their differences (as a family therapist) or encourage them to divorce. Which road is going to choose? I tried to get an answer from him but he blocked his link on fb because he was receiving a truck load of comments showing disapproval for what he had said.

M. Grech

May 18th 2011, 14:51

Mr Hili. I have seen and heard Dr Azzopardi on TV that day. And he was very clear in that in his work as a family therapist in cases of infidelity the success rate of couples staying together and responding well to councilling was very high ( he quoted 80-90%). This was being said in the context of the assertion being continuously made by the No movement that apparently the major, if not the single casue, of marriage breakdowns is infidelity, or cheating to be more direct.

This cannot be further from the truth as I myself can vouch for from my own experience. Dr Azzopardi countered this stament by saying that most couples respond well to councilling and remain together. And was it not quoted from the gospel soemwhere that Christ condoned divorce in case of infidelity (of course taken in the context of jewish society of 2000 years ago). Now from his position as family therapist he knows better than most. besides Dr azzopardi never appeared to be a frivolous person in his numerous appearance on TV discussion programs.

Philip Hili

May 19th 2011, 01:55

Iva, hekk nibqghu!!!!!

Mr Lawrence Fenech

May 18th 2011, 13:55

It's the PN that go hand in hand with the chruch to achieve any cause this is a replica of the 60'.

Mr Saliba Francis

May 18th 2011, 13:21

@Benjamin Sant.

Skond liema Vangelu Kristu approva li Guda jittradih? Jaqaw il-vangelu tieghek huwa dak apokrifa li suppost kiteb Guda?

Mhux very li Kristu halla lill-Guda hemm ghall-ikla, anzi keccih il-barra u qallu li jfittex itemm it–tradiment li kien iddecieda li jaghmel. Kristu qal ukoll li ghalkemm kien jehtieg li jigi ttradut, miskin ghalih min kien ser jittradih!

Kristu mar ghand Zakkew mhux biex ikeccih minn daru stess, mhux biex jghajjru u anqas biex jaghlaq ghajnejh ghan-nuqqasijiet tieghu. Mar ghandu biex ihajjru jibdel hajtu, kif effetivamnet gara. Mar biex jikkonvertih. L-Isqof Grech qed jaghmel l-istess imma t-twissija tieghu ta’ missier tniggez u min jinqaras, flok jindem bhal ma ghamel Zakkew, jixli lill-Isqof fil-falz billi jakkuzawh li qed jitghajjar! Kif jghidu bl-Ingliz “The boot is on the other foot!”

Jason Borg

May 18th 2011, 13:42

1. Ġuda telaq minn jeddu waqt l-ikla u Kristu qal fuqu li aħjar li ma twieled xejn.
2. Żakkew nidem meta mar għandu Ġesu' u patta billi qassam ġidu.
3. Ġesu' sejjaħ 'oqbra mbajda' lis-Samaritani li flok iwettqu l-fidi lill-poplu, kienu qegħdin ifixkluhom.

U d-dendil tad-damask inħallih f'idejk.

Ms Christine Micallef

May 18th 2011, 12:41

Well said !!!!

Mr Joe Grima

May 18th 2011, 13:59

True,...but does that mean that divorce is holy???? Two wrongs don't make a right!

Joe A M Grim

Mr l Azzopardi

May 18th 2011, 12:17

it all depends what you mean by intelligent dear Edwin!

Galileo Galilei was not considered intelligent for more than 350 years by some people until
Pope John Paul II admitted that theological errors had been made in his case.

David Caruana

May 18th 2011, 12:38

Thanks I Azzopardi, you couldn't have explained it better.

I will let TIME judge my beliefs, and definitely not Edwin De Marco.

Mr B. Cachia

May 18th 2011, 13:25

Actually, I don't think the decisions and words of the fallible human beings that make up the Church at any point in time can ever invalidate the Church's divine mission, which is permanent. What we are opposing is a political position, just as we would have opposed the burning of heretics or the suppression of science in a previous age. The Church itself has survived all the mistakes of individual members of the Clergy, including high-ranking ones, and will certainly survive this unfortunate episode.

EDWIN DE MARCO

May 18th 2011, 12:17

I can't seem to remember your name, and please don't help me!

Mr R. Abela

May 18th 2011, 13:26

Your tool, scaring people with sin hell and etc.. etc.., was very effective a century ago.
Nowadays you need more perfection in your tool, like,
1. Explain why after 11 years justice with abused children from priest is still pending, "probably because it's not a sin for church Leaders.
2. Explain why eating meat on fridays was a sin and nowadays isn't.
3. Explain why Holly communion is given in your hand nowadays and decades ago was a grave sin touch it by hand.
4 Endless senseless sins etc...
Words of wisedom from a farmer that lived almost 90 years.
' THE CHURCH MADE US LIVED ALL OUR LIFE GUILTY OF A SOMETHING WE DIDN'T KNOW WHAT IT IS'

Mr Anton PIsani

May 18th 2011, 13:42

One question re conscience and reasoning - imagine we were asked to vote in another referendum whether adultery should be illegal? How should a Catholic vote?

EDWIN DE MARCO

May 18th 2011, 12:30

I agree with you that some people are still perile regarding religion. I mean, for God's sake, I know they're stupid, but why did they have a relapse? I could make monkeys out of trhem but why should I take all the credit?

Mr Alfred Hili

May 18th 2011, 10:51

The question is: Is it acivil right or not ?

Philip Hili

May 18th 2011, 11:13

@ Kyle Boffa
Imma kif tistghu tibqghu raskom imdahhla fir-ramel to timponu fehmithom fuq dak li jrid jghix hajtu, kif dejjem ghixha sa minn mindu twieled?
Issa ser nigu li l-ftit jikkmandaw lill hafna? Skond ir-ricerki li saru, minhabba 11 il-koppja jew forsi isa, 20 koppja ser naqilbu kollox ta' taht fuq? Donnu kellhom jordnaw is-"security" biex izommu l-ordni tant kemm kien hemm!!!!!

Mr Kyle Boffa

May 18th 2011, 14:33

@Philip Hili
Mela bir-ragunament tieghek, m'ghandna qatt nimxu l quddiem ma tmurx tinbiddilek xi haga ta' minn meta twelidt. U hallina tridx.. dawk l-20kopja huma dawk li qed jidhru, possibli tghix daqsekk fis-sema li mintix tisma b'kawzi differenti ta' seperazzjoni, glied fil-familji, tfal bi problemi habba l-qaghda tad-dar?

Ms Rudi Mcbeal

May 18th 2011, 17:53

Kyle, il - qaghda fid-dar mhux ha tinbidel bid-divorzju. Hadd ma ghandu garanziji li is-sitwazzjoni fid-dar ha tinbidel ghal wahda tajba bit- tieni, it-tielet jew ir-raba zwieg wara li jkun ittiehed divorzju. Dawk li tassew qeghdin isofru (minhabba xi tip ta abbuz) mhux veru li ma jistghux johorgu mis-sitwazzjoni ghaliex mhemmx id-divorzju ghax dak li jkun jista jissepara bil-ligi illum il-gurnata. Min jghid hekk jaf li dik mhux skuza. Id-divorzju jippermettilek biss terga tizzewweg, BLA LIMITU ukoll ghal min ikun irid. Jien kieku kont f'sitwazzjoni fejn nara lil uliedi ibatu nohrog minnha mil-iktar fis possibli kif tippermettili il-ligi u il-fatt li ma nistax nerga nizzewweg ikun l-anqas haga li tinkwetani, ghax l-aqwa u sagosanta haga tkun li nara lil uliedi imrobbijin f'ambjent ahjar minn dak li jkunu fih.

Ghandek zball. Qieghed jigi imponut fuq is-socjeta kollha ghaliex is-socjeta kollha sejra tigi affettwata. Ghalkemm dawk li ghandhom leblieba sa biex ikollna dritt bil-ligi li nkunu nistghu nizzewgu bla limitu ma jridux jammettu, il-fatt jibqa dak li hu.

Philip Hili

May 18th 2011, 11:01

Mr Flynn,

"but it shall pave the way for an early removal of Article 2 from the Constitution." These are your words.
Why you stated so in your comment? It seems that you are aware or the Constitution of Malta and therefore you know that as things stand, His Exe. Bishop Mario Grech being part of the authorities of the Roman Catholic Apostolic Church in Malta has the duty and the right to teach which principles are right and which are wrong. This is what he did. If this does not please you, ignore it and follow your way. Nobody is interfering in your decisions. But to try to stop somebody else who have the duty and the right to teach what is right and what is wrong that is called "arrogance".

Who knows, it maybe that one day you might turn on who was supposed to teach you what is right and what is wrong and accuse him that he did not exercised his duty granted to him both by the Constitution of Malta and by God.

Mr Joe Grima

May 18th 2011, 12:08

There are other people who don't even have a vote; are living thousands of miles away; have divorce in their country; AND YET, they want to impose on us as to how we are to vote. They even go as far as to insult our church leaders, our beliefs, and what we hold dear!
Thankfully I can think for myself, and FREELY I accept what the Bishop says, because that is my HUMAN RIGHT. I am not going to 'succumb' to your homily of 'church hate'. That is YOUR problem, not mine!
Joe A M Grima

Mr Joe Grima

May 18th 2011, 11:57

Mr Fenech,
Your comment gives us an idea of the attitude of some divorce campaigners. If one does not agree with their opinion, they label him 'animal'! Says a lot about WHY some actually are voting 'yes'! If they treat others as animals, probably including their spouse, no wonder their vote is going to be 'yes'!!

Joe AM Grima

Alfred Vassallo

May 18th 2011, 10:34

Hemm int gharrak trid bilfors tejd l'Eccelenza tieghu.....l-istess bhall Kristu dawn.....fejn qatt Kristu kien jemmen fil Titli li din l-istituzzjoni li tissehah Knisja hlief titli bannali ma taghtix. Imma terga u tejt bniedem ma irridx jinsa li din il Knisja hija il 'Legacy' li hallew Pappit warajhom bhall Papa Alexander V1, il famus Papa Borgia!!!!.

Mario Camilleri

May 18th 2011, 10:57

LIKE

Ms Rudi Mcbeal

May 18th 2011, 10:46

Or else you'll be hanged, stoned and possibly beheaded. Sigh.

Il -veru poplu gemgem u ghaggieb.

Mr Alfred Hili

May 18th 2011, 10:54

If divorce were a civil right, why the need of a referendum ?

Philip Hili

May 18th 2011, 11:32

Christian,
"So you expect Catholics to egoistically vote and decide for those non-Catholics or else...?" You made me laugh!! Yours is a sound argument. - well said!!!! U HALLINA XBIN. MELA you don't expect Catholics to vote egoistically for those non-Catholics or else, but on the other hand it seems that you don't find it funny for the few to vote and decide for the majority. Le, tmexxija gdida, u nahseb li tmexxija progressiva!!

Michelle Buhagiar

May 18th 2011, 09:57

hypocrisy*

A. Attard

May 18th 2011, 10:08

agree 100%

A. Attard

May 18th 2011, 10:16

my 100% agree was meant for Mr Matthew Vella!!! not for Michelle.

Christian Sciberras

May 18th 2011, 10:04

I completely agree that one has to live his beliefs, and ironically, only now the issue is making headlines (even if I've been talking about this for years).

The problem is that this sin is being used by the Church for something else completely.

To Mjr Grech, how many times have this been addressed during mass? How many times have I complained about it to priests?

From the other perspective, the Catholic majority will be voting for a right that concerns the country. Voting "no for divorce" for this reason alone isn't about "living your values" but being outright egoistic.

Actually, this isn't entirely unexpected either, the Church still believes it's at the center of the universe...!

Mr Robert Agius

May 18th 2011, 10:13

'There was only on Christian and he died on the cross.' Nietzsche

And those who are not Christians or Catholics Mr. Vella? why are their beliefs denied? 'doppja faccia' are those that preach tolerance but breed contempt. If one were truly Catholic then they wouldn't divorce just because it's available in the law. Doing so would, and should, be considered 'doppja faccia'.

A. Attard

May 18th 2011, 10:16

100% agree. well said.

V Cassar

May 18th 2011, 10:17

I beg to differ....
If you vote yes it doesn't make you uncatholic...it makes you all the more:

1. Speaking in religious views; "Thou shall not kill" for example, however we have the liberty to kill someone, so god is uncatholic for giving us the liberty to kill, and break the catholic rules. Liberty and Love is the christian God, don't dampen that!
2. You must tolerate those who do not have your beliefs, you cannot impose your religious ideas on other people, it is your choice whether you do it or not for yourself. It is a catholic sin exclusively "if you sleep with a person who is not your wife/husband". Annulling a state-marriage is no sin.

Apart from that, keep in mind that there are those people who are not religious or do not have catholic beliefs, why the hell should they be prohibited from devorcing just because some Conformist old man said they couldn't?

Mr Matthew Vella

May 18th 2011, 10:58

Once again, I am not imposing anything on anyone, everyone has the right to vote YES or NO.

However if you are a true practicing catholic you cannot aggree with Divorce, so you cannot Vote Yes for the intoduction of Divorce. If you are not a Catholic than you are free to choose whichever you think is best. If on the other hand you are a 'Catholic' and you still want to Vote Yes for Divroce, then you are committing a Sin in the eyes of the Church (and if this is ok for you then this confirms that you are not really a catholic).


In reply to V Cassar, I'm not voting against Divorce just because I'm Catholic. Everyone knows that through the indroduction of Divorce, people will start marrying, remarrying, having children from different partners, children who are being brought up by adults who are not their actual parents, children spending one weekend with a parent and the next weekend with the other ....and so on.

I have the right to vote in favour of a better society, i have the right to vote NO for Divorce

Mr Matthew Grima

May 18th 2011, 11:15

"However if you are a true practicing catholic you cannot aggree with Divorce, so you cannot Vote Yes for the intoduction of Divorce". False, if you do not agree with it, you do not use it. That is why the referendum is a farce, as it's giving some the liberty to dictate the lives of others.

Mr D Galea

May 18th 2011, 11:44

Prosit Matthew, nammirak

Jien żgħażugħ bħalek ta' 21 sena, naqbel perfettament ma' dak li tgħid.

Il-Knisja trid tkun awtentika għax la kristu u lanqas il-knisja ma hija tal-biċċiet. Meta jfettlilna naqblu magħha u meta jfettlilna ma naqblux.

A. Attard

May 18th 2011, 10:14

the only person telling us what to do is yourself! the Church is only preaching its beliefs. if you want to abide by the Church's teachings, you are FREE to do so. otherwise, just get up and leave. Malta is Roman Catholic. whoever does not like this, can get out. The Church is not telling people what to do. The Church has only told the people that IF they want to form part of the Church, thn they should abide by the rules. it is simple as ABC. one cannot form part of a group and choose only the parts of the rules which he likes. it is a take all or leave all situation. this is the same for every religion. if one does not like it, he has lots of other religions to choose from. and he is FREE to do whatever he wants. nobody is imposing anything on anyone. so pls keep your bla bla "sowing dissent and superstition amongst us" comments to yourself. Being Catholic does not mean we are superstitious. if anything, it seems that YOU are indicating an element of superstition here!!!!!!!!!

Ms Rudi Mcbeal

May 18th 2011, 10:37

No one is threatining anyone here and there need to be no test to confirm it - everyone is free to live their life as they wish. And vote as they wish as well. Be happy you were not born in a country where you are not even allowed to voice your own opinion, as you are doing now.

For the thousandth time: The Bishop. The Clergy. The Church. They have every sacrosanct right to preach and defend the Church's teachings - now whether one wants to live according to those teachings or not is up to the individual and no one else. It is a one's own choice. No matter what anyone says - that is how things are.

Mr Etienne Bonanno

May 18th 2011, 10:38

What are you talking about, Attard? I am Maltese through and through and I agree 100% with the introduction of divorce legislation, no matter what the Bishop says. Divorce legislation deals purely with the legal aspects of marriage and not the religious ones. If you are a Catholic, then divorce is not for you - don't make that choice for yourself.
You have unfortunately been given the right to make that choice, however, for a minority of others who may not share your religion, culture or world view - a right that in any modern democratic society you should never have been given.
The hypocrisy of holding a referendum on divorce is that the uncaring majority have been given power over a needy minority and the even greater hypocrisy is that a supposedly caring and loving Catholic church is steamrolling over this minority without as much as a second thought.
Note that I have no personal interest in divorce as I am not even married, but I don't think that gives me the right to decide for anybody else.

Mr Paul Barrett

May 18th 2011, 10:14

@ Mr Joseph N. Attard.

In a secular state, a democracy, people may have the freedom of speech but when that freedom of speech is abused to threaten the population then the right to free speech is being abused. The Church has a mission supported by the Constitution to teach the Roman Catholic faith. It does not have the right to threaten the population with retribution either physical or mythical should they fail to comply with the Church doctrine in a manner which is designed to or will effect the outcome of an election or a referendum.

Mr Joseph N. Attard

May 18th 2011, 10:49

@ Mr Paul Barrett

Physical retribution in 2011?!! I'll take that as a momentary lapse. Mythical retribution? Here is the crux of the matter. It may be mythical to you, and naturally you are perfectly entitled to your views. But to the Church, its teachings are not mythical. They are the cornerstone of its beliefs. You may take it, or you may leave it. But do not pretend to gag the Church in its mission. That is going one step too far. I have a nagging feeling that the over reaction of some to any utterance by the Church will convince many who would otherwise have voted yes, to change their vote to no.

Mr l Azzopardi

May 18th 2011, 10:04

"You cannot believe in one thing and then act differently"

And what do you say to Maltese citizens that pay taxes like yourself and are non Christians?

On what legal, moral and civil grounds would you impose a set of rules on non Christians when their Religion does not impose the same restrictions on them?

Its a matter of tollerance too Mr Gatt. There is more than the Christian reality in Malta.

Mr M Borg

May 18th 2011, 09:42

Brovo ! You are right.

What Bishop Grech said did not concern you, you are more than free to live your life the way you want.

No one is forcing you to be or live the life of a Catholic !

You are free to vote Yes

But do not try to " act " the Catholic, because then what Bishop Grech said would fit you

Mr Mario P. Sciberras

May 18th 2011, 10:17

the question is not how I want to live my "secular" life but how the church is trying to impose on people like me, its will, on how to live our lives. We are not voting for divorce in Church but divorce legislation in relation to CIVIL marriages

Mr M Borg

May 18th 2011, 10:31



@ Mario P Sciberras

Sorry you are very wrong !

You can be sure that Bishop Grech is not going to be in the polling booth you,

You are more then free to vote yes.

If you bring up Bishop Grech all the time in your arguments it gives one the impresion that after all your conscience is not very clear.

In other words you are not sure if it is right to vote yes.

Mr Alfred Hili

May 18th 2011, 10:44

According to the teaching of the church couples using contraceptives are living in sin; it doesn't mean they are going to hell. God is all merciful.
Gays, separated couples, co-habiting couples, who lead a clean life are not living in sin.
A catholic sins if he forgets his commitment, breaks his oath and asks for a divorce to marry another partner. If a catholic couple are completely incompatible, cannot live together any more and therefore separate and go different ways, they commit no sin as long as they lead a clean life. If they have sex with other partners after that, they commit adultery.
On the other hand, I can't impose my catholic beliefs on non-religious persons.

Mr G Psaila

May 18th 2011, 11:01

SEE YOU IN HELL!!

Philip Hili

May 18th 2011, 11:52

Le Pawl, ghazaqta!!

Jekk il-lupu ixxidd il-libsa ta' haruf kif jghid il-qawl, dan ma jintarafx u allura jista' jqarraq bik, jigdmeg, jibilek jew iweggek.

Izda jekk bhal ma ghidt int l-lupu jxxid il-libsa ta' qassis dan tkun tista' taghrf u allura ma jistax jigdmeg ghax sa fejn naf jien il-libsa tas-sacerdot jew qassis hija SEWDA u tal-lupu hija BAJDA u allura t0-tnejn jintaghfu!!!!
PAWL, META TIGI BZONN LIL DAK LI JXIDDT IL-LIBSA S-SEWDA TIGI BZONN U FORSI JEKK MA SSIBUX JIDDISJPACIK!!! IMMA MBAGHAD IKUN TARD WISQ.

Mr M Borg

May 18th 2011, 09:19

Seeing that you are not a Catholic and that you know nothing about our religion don't you think that you are

being presumptuous by trying to interpret what Bishop Grech meant ?

Believe me your " in other words " do not mean a thing !

David Caruana

May 18th 2011, 09:32

M Borg, you are WRONG!

Maybe Paul Barrett's "in other words" do not mean a thing for you...

... but they make perfect sense for those who got brains AND make the effort to use them.

Mr M Borg

May 18th 2011, 09:38

@ David Caruana

Or to those who rather than using their brains take every opportunity to say things which they think might demage the Church.

They do not know that the Church has survived for thousands of years and you, and other like you, using your brains to say or write things against it will not make it die out.

Mr Paul Barrett

May 18th 2011, 10:01

@ M Borg.

I am not a practising Catholic. I did however spend two extremely painful years of abuse by Priests at a Roman Catholic boarding school before I could persuade my parents that I just could not stand the 24/7 brainwashing and bullying any longer. I would not say that I know a great deal about the Roman Catholic faith but concede that there is a great deal that I have tried hard to forgive though difficult to forget.

David Caruana

May 18th 2011, 10:01

M Borg,

I guess time will tell! I'm confident that during my lifetime we will see the Roman Catholic Church (not the story of Jesus of Nazareth) be reduced to a relic - a looney idea of the past followed a small number of people.

Mr Patrick Gatt

May 18th 2011, 10:16

Mr. M. Borg: The church has survived thousands of years through fear, coercion, torture and bloodshed. Do we really want a thousand more of this? It's high time we start getting rid of these archaic mythologies and barbaric traditions.

Raymond Sacco

May 18th 2011, 10:27

@m.borg:
i agree with you that the bishop has the right to say what he pleases regarding religious matters. but what the bishop and you do not seem to understand is that divorce does not concern catholic marriage therefore does not concern the catholic church. divorce will be introduced for civil marriages ONLY! get that?

David Caruana

May 18th 2011, 09:17

Matthew 19:9, he says, "And I say to you: Whoever divorces his wife, EXCEPT FOR UNCHASTITY, and marries another, commits adultery"

There you go, if your partner cheats on you, you can divorce her or him with the blessing of the Nazzarene!

JESUS IS PRO-DIVORCE

YES FOR DIVORCE!

Mr l Azzopardi

May 18th 2011, 09:46

"All marriages go through hardship and nothing is rosy"...agreed Mr Cassar.

But arguing and disagreeing is one thing whilst suffering abuse, being terrorised and having your children witness it is another. I understand your view about sacrifice but there are some couples that have colds and others that have cancer metaforically speaking. And its not fair to put them in the same category of suffering.

Especially when some children are exposed to way too many physical and psychological abuse and are traumatised for life. As an adult/parent you would be tempted to sacrifice yourself and try to do the best you can but would you leave your children in harms way? I doubt it!

Its not black or white Mr Cassar and its not that simple either!

Ms Rudi Mcbeal

May 18th 2011, 10:09

@ David Caruana

What a load of codswallop.

I think you need to calm down, Mr Caruana.

David Caruana

May 18th 2011, 10:17

Rudi Mcbeal,

Don't hate the messenger, hate the message!

David Caruana

May 18th 2011, 10:19

@ Rudi Mcbeal again,

I think you are no one to tell me what I can or cannot do.

It seems that the antis oppose any form of freedom, including that of expression

Ms Rudi Mcbeal

May 18th 2011, 10:52

@ David Caruana

I am in no way telling you what to do. I am telling you what I think of your comments and suggesting you to calm down - you sound hysterical.

David Caruana

May 18th 2011, 13:58

Quoting a passage from the bible (as I did at the start of this thread) does not sound hysterical to me.

Still, you called my interpretation of the passage "codswallop" without having the decency to give us your interpretation. There are other passages where Jesus of Nazareth says that divorce is OK under certain circumstances.

Can you give us an explanation to this. Thanks

Ms Rudi Mcbeal

May 18th 2011, 18:00

David, my codswallop comment was especially meant to the example you gave to compare with what the Bishop said. Yes indeed, that is a load of codswallop. I apologise for my misquoting of the comment though.

EDWIN DE MARCO

May 18th 2011, 11:50

careful now, don't let your brains go to your head!

Alistair Farrugia

May 18th 2011, 09:20

L-ahwa, qed thalltu l-hass mal-gass. Il-mekkanizmu tad-divorzju li ha jidhol huwa wiehed legali biss, u jikkoncerna biss zwiegijiet civili, iz-zwieg ta' quddiem l-istat, mhux il-knisja. Dak li sar fil-knisja tista thollu l-knisja biss, u l-ebda ligi tal-bniedem ma tista tbiddlu. Li wiehed jivvota iva ghal divorzju legali ifisser li jaccetta li bniedem li dahal f'kuntratt LEGALI jista jholl dan il-kuntratt b'mod LEGALI. Xejn iktar, xejn inqas. Iz-zwieg tal-Knisja, f'Malta, ghandu wkoll porzjon LEGALI, ghax fil-fatt individwu jigi qisu zzewweg kemm bis-sagrament u kemm b'mod civili ghal finijiet legali. Jekk jidhol id-divorzju, l-unika haga li ser jigri huwa li individwu jkun jista, ghal ragunijiet legali, jholl ir-rabta civili taz-zwieg. Quddiem il-Knisja pero, dil-persuna tkun ghadu mizzewga. Id-dnub isir biss ghal dawk in-nies, mizzewga bil-Knisja, li jiehdu d-divorzju u ma jibqawx fidili ghal zewghom / marthom. Id-dnub jista jsir biss minn dawk li taw weghda quddiem il-Knisja - dawk li a) izzewgu bic-civil jew b) sempliciment ivvutaw IVA imma ma hadux id-divorzju m'humiex qedin jidinbu. Gibuli argument WIEHED biss kontra li qed nghid u nghidilkom ghandkom ragun.

Biex nghamilha iktar semplici - jien jekk naccetta li jidhol Divorzju Legali (nivvota IVA), ma jfissirx li z-zwieg tieghi irrid inhassru, ifisser biss li naccetta li hawn zwiegijiet LEGALI li jista jkun ahjar jekk jinhallu, partikolarment ghal gid ta' dawk involuti fil-kaz. Fejn qed nidneb hawn jekk nahsibha hekk? B'dan li ghidt mhux qed inmur kontra l-ebda taghlim tal-Knisja - nemmen li zwieg kattoliku huwa dejjiemi, u hekk ghandu jkun ghax il-koppja jaccettaw il-prezenza ta' 'terza persuna' fiz-zwieg - u mhux zwieg b'karta biss. Pero zwieg civili huwa, b'mod 'crude', kuntratt. M'hemmx moralita jew fidi involuta.

Nirrepeti - ejja ma nhalltux l-affarijiet l-ahwa!

Ivan Muscat

May 18th 2011, 10:36

Fl-ahhar, sibt persuna li tikteb bis sens. Kemm nixtieq li kulhadd jikteb bhalek Sur Alistair Farrugia

EDWIN DE MARCO

May 18th 2011, 12:01

You are living proof that man can live without a brain!

Philip Hili

May 18th 2011, 12:11

@ Alistair Farrugia.

Meta rajt il-kummnet ta' Ivan Muscat, qabbadni l-kurzita' ghax qal "Fl-ahhar, sibt persuna li tikteb bis sens. Kemm nixtieq li kulhadd jikteb bhalek Sur Alistair Farrugia"
Lanqas irrid inkompli naqra wara li qrajt l-ewwel sentenza gha vera bhal ma ghidt int Alistair hawn min ihallat l-affarijiet.
Nistaqsi - jekk huwa bhal ma ghidt int, "lil-mekkanizmu tad-divorzju li ha jidhol huwa wiehed legali biss, u jikkoncerna biss zwiegijiet civili, iz-zwieg ta' quddiem l-istat, mhux il-knisja." tista' tghidli kif koppja li ggib id-divorzju quddiem l-istat tista' tibqa tghix bhala koppja quddiem il-knisja, dejjem jekk dan jista' jsir? Jew dan ser ikun xi mezz ta' sgiccatura biex dak li jkun ikun jista' jgawdi minn xi beneficcji socjali jekk 'l-quddiem l-istat jintroduci xi forma ta' beneficcji ghad-divorzisti?

Alistair Farrugia

May 18th 2011, 12:16

Grazzi Sur Muscat. :)

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