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Catholics set up group for divorce as civil right

A group of Catholics has been formed to promote the idea that divorce is a civil right and voting yes is not a sin.

The group is called Kattoliċi: Iva Għax Dritt (Catholics: Yes because it’s a right).

“Our group is made of practising Catholics. Some agree with divorce, others don’t. But we all agree it is a civil right,” said spokesman Carmel Hili.

The group, he said, felt the pro and anti divorce movements have left a vacuum because they failed to reach out to those Catholics who agreed with divorce.

The group sees a clear distinction between Church and civil unions and believes it is the duty of Catholics to ensure the state does not impose a particular morality on all of society.

The values of love and mutual respect taught Catholics to promote the rights of others even if they disagreed with them, he said.

The group wants to transmit the message to Catholics that the decision they have to make in the divorce referendum is not “that catastrophic”.

Mr Hili said he heard of “scaremongering” among religious groups whose members were told that voting for divorce was a mortal sin. His movement believed the only sin was cohabitation. The group will be officially launched tomorrow and will be the fifth lobby group to be set up ahead of the May 28 referendum. It will be the third group to speak in favour of divorce together with Yes for Divorce and StandUp. The two anti-divorce movements are Marriage Without Divorce and Kristu Iva, Divorzju Le (Yes to Christ, No to Divorce).

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Mr Mike Rizzo

May 15th 2011, 21:33

And everything you say is the ultimate wisdom, no doubt.

Ms S Micallef

May 14th 2011, 00:34

you say you're not judging persons on whether they are true catholics yet in the same line you say you are distinguishing between a genuine observant catholic from a sham a la carte. You contradict yourself in the same sentence.

Where do you come off taking God's place and deciding who is truly observing Catholiscm and who is not, and who is a sham and who isn't????

You have no right to base distinctions on yur own assumptions absolutely no right and if you do then yes you are being judgemental and yes being judgemental is a sin.

Mr Saliba Francis

May 14th 2011, 10:46

@ Ms S Micallef

You pretend that you cannot make the distinction between expressing an opinion and judging or condemning others. Very sorry I won't waste my time explaining to those who do not want to be understand but who only want to mislead.

Christ himself defined what he expected from those who would follow him and who would therefore qualify to be called Christians. His true followers do not include those who pick and choose which of his commanments to observe, which to ignore and which to distort.

Mr Joe Zammit

May 13th 2011, 21:07


You are wrong in saying that the right to form a family includes the right to divorce. No. The right to form a family does in no way include the right to divorce. Take the law cases on the matter. Divorce is not even a human right. It is not mentioned among human rights. What is mentioned is the right to form a family which does not include any right to divorce. After all, marriage is for ever. If it is not for ever, it is cohabitation.

Mr Robert Callus

May 13th 2011, 20:00

Opposing a law that entitles OTHERS to divorce is not "Christ's message of love towards God and neighbour". It's twisted logic. Christ never ordered the faithful to make sure OTHERS do not sin.

Mr Saliba Francis

May 13th 2011, 21:56

@ Callus & Buds

It would be sinful for anyone to become a willing accomplice to the enactment of divorce laws that enable others to pull asunder what God had joined together, especially so when that accomplice declares in advance that s/he would never dream to commit the evil deed themselves. Christ's prohibition to divorce refers to all marriages "from the beginning" and not only to marriages between practicing Catholics.

"Christ never ordered the faithful to make sure OTHERS do not sin" - No! of course not. But you cannot go to the opposite extreme and pretend that Christ approves that the faithful could assist others to do that which he was forbidding.

Ms S Micallef

May 14th 2011, 00:36

Where are you sharing the message of love with your neighbour?

All im seeing from you and others like you is judgemental messages of hate, intolerance, not wishing to give others a chance, being obsessed with others sinning rather than yourself.

Is that God's message of love? If it is then I guess you and my are following two very different religions.

Mr M Borg

May 13th 2011, 18:24

@ M Vella ***

Art 8 The European Convention of Human Rights.

1 ) Everyone has the right to respect for his private and family life, his home and his correspondence.

2 ) There shall be no interference by a public authority with the exercise of this right except such as in accordance with the law and is necessary in a democratic society in the interest of the national security. public safety or the economic well - being of the country, for the prevention of disorder or crime, for the protection of health or morals , or for the protection of the rights and freedoms of others.

I have gone over and over this article , and I have failed to find anything which says " that divorce is a civil right ".

If you go through it well , if anything you will find that most of it is against divorce. !

" Authority has the right to interfere in a democratic society in the interest of ............economic well-being of the country ............prevention of crime.............protection of morals. "

All these point s go against the introduction of divorce.

We all know that divorce, single parents and separated couples are costing the UK government £24 billion yearly. Knowing this who can blame any government from trying to stop the intrduction of divorce for the econimic well-being of the country ?

Prevention of crime :- It is another well known fact that children of divorced couples very often turn to drugs and crime. The introduction of divorce will increase crime.

Protection of morals:- Who can say that there is any moral value in divorce ? Divorce will create a generation where anything goes.

As you can see there is nothing to say that divorce is a civil right, but if you take it literally it says the very opposite !

Ms S Micallef

May 13th 2011, 14:46

and excuse me who are you to decide that God's way is NO.

I say God's way is YES.

Ms S Micallef

May 13th 2011, 14:54

and exactly how did you decide that God's way is no?

Mr Joseph Huber

May 13th 2011, 15:13

You have it ALL wrong. Divorce IS NOT a right as declared by the European Court of Justice way back in 1986.

Mr Michael N Cassar

May 13th 2011, 15:58

I will put it more simply for you if you want divorce don’t get married. God way is one woman and one man. those which are divorced and roman catholics are still living in adultery If you haven’t read the Bible do so,The state will give you another partner but we have only one soul.

Ms S Micallef

May 14th 2011, 00:39

@ Michael Cassar people don't get married to get divorce.

Plus with your comment you seem to be encouraging cohabitation. Don't divorce, cohabit, then us holier than thou people can have a field day calling you pogguti and looking down on you as a contorted way of making ourselves feel better and holy.

COME ON!!!

Gerry Cowie

May 13th 2011, 20:01

Rather than offer sarcasm, why not actually counter constructively what the good doctor has to say? This campaign will fall flat on its face if the pro divorce lobby cannot do better! I truly think that the pro divorce lobby has given itself on a plate to the anti divorce lobby by its whole approach.

Ms S Micallef

May 13th 2011, 15:13

yes right after we see how you and your anti-divorce threatening friends prove how they live like catholics.

Mr Antoine Azzopardi

May 14th 2011, 00:19

Nixtieq ngħarrfek Ms S Micallef li jiena fl-ebda punt ma wżajt ir-reliġjon tiegħi biex nikkonvinċi lilek jew lil ħaddieħor. Jekk is-Sur Hili żeffen il-fatt li hu kattoliku, issa huwa obbligat jagħtina kont tal-kattoliċiżmu tiegħu. For all it matters nista' nkun anti-kattoliku meta nagħmel din ic-challenge.

Forsi tajjeb taqra l-kumment tiegħek u tara ftit min huwa "threatening" fl-argumentazzjoni kollha. Thanks.

Mr Ronald Cauchi

May 13th 2011, 12:57

To accuse Mr C.Hili of drawing the divorce debate into the political arena is a bit thick. Assuming Mr Hili is the Mr C Hili of AD then he belongs to a party that has, in all honesty ,never been of any great influence in the political struggle. Now if Philip Hili was scandalized by Laurence Gonzi,s fundamentalist stand on divorce then he would have been quite right to comment. For the leader of the party in government to want to impose his sectarian christian values on what is claimed to be a pluralistic secular state is arrogance of the first degree comparable to the Ayotallahs of Iran and the religious police of Saudi Arabia.

Mr Saliba Francis

May 13th 2011, 13:04

@ Mr Alfred Hili.

As a Christian you are not supposed to impose anything on anybody. You are supposed not to collaborate and not to become an accomplice, actively or by default, in the enactment of laws calculated to promote adultery as defined by Christ - not if you are a true Catholic, anyway. Christ's did not restrict his prohibition of divorce to believers only. He applied it to all marriages "from the beginning".

Ms S Micallef

May 13th 2011, 15:11

again Mr. Saliba IT IS NOT UP TO YOU TO DECIDE WHO IS A TRUE CATHOLIC!

to me you are not a true catholic because you impose yourself on others, you constantly accuse others of sinning and are very judgemental.

Philip Hili

May 13th 2011, 17:54

@ Ronald Cauchi.
Mr Cauchi, as far as I know, my comment was in clear and simple Maltese language and not in any other language which could not be read by you.
First and foremost I asked a question and I did not accuse Mr. C. Hili of drawing the divorce debate into the political arena.

Secondly I gave credit to the Mr. C. Hili IF HE IS THE SAME PERSON OF ALTERNATTIVA because I said that "jekk is-Sur Hili skond it-tbassir tieghi huwa dak ta' l-Alternattiva, haga wahda hemm tajba. Din hi li l'alternattiva dejjem kienet konsistenti ma' dak li temmen li hi dik ta' favur id-divorzju."

Thirdly I did not scandalized myself by Dr. Lawrence Gonzi's stand, anzi I applaude his stand and I am of
the opinion -( I do not know whether it is acceptable or not by the Standing Orders of the House,)that he should have never accepted the "personal membr's bill" due to the fact that the Nationalist Party never had divorce on his electoral agenda and this is know by both disloyal Nationalists MPs who voted in favour of the Oppositiion and against the Government.

May be you would have been correct had you said that I tried to accuse "the Alternattiva" as a political pressure by trying to go down into the political arena with regards to the divorce issue debate. But even this, you were unable to do because as stated above, I gave credit to the Alternattiva were her credit was due.

As regards to arrogance, whether it is first or second degree, I leave that to the PL because the PL is qualified in this field, remind you only in the secret agreement signed by Dr. Alex Sciberras Trigona with the dictator of North Korea - Kin-li-Sung, when Dr. Alex Sciberras Trigona was foreign Minister during the dark days of our political history.

Philip Hili

May 14th 2011, 00:23

Ma hemmx ghalfejn nistenna sa ghada biex inkun naf min hu is-Sur Carmel Hili tal-moviment il-"gdid" "Kattoliċi: Iva Għax Dritt (Catholics: Yes because it’s a right)."
Iva bhal ma shibt - ta' l-Alternattiva.!!!!Kien prezenti u tmashan fuq il-progamm ta' bundy fuq is-super one il-lejla.
Issa izjed qeghdin tajjeb!! Mela filli il-politika ma ghandiex tidhol izda issa dahlet u harget ukoll, l-ewwel b'Joseph Muscat, issa bl-Alternattiva!!
X'ser jigri allura? Nahseb li issa l-Alternattiva ser ikollha lehen fuq l-ispots ta' l-Awtorita' Tax-Xandir.
Nahseb li wasal iz-zmien li minn ma hux lejali lejn il-Partit Nazzjonalista, jitqalfat ghax izjed qeghdha ssir hsara lill-Partit.
Tifilhu tgahddu z-zmien bin-nies?

Mr Saliba Francis

May 13th 2011, 13:10

(Divorce is a civil right ... " (Mr M Vella)

Prove it! I have already explained why it is NOT a civil right. Repeating that lie a thousand times remains a thousand lies without one single truth!

Timmy Farrugia

May 13th 2011, 13:30

how do you know that "god" hates divorce? do you ahve direct contact?

Mr Martin Saliba

May 13th 2011, 15:17

Divorce has caused a tsunami in Indonesia , a tsunami in Japan , an earthquake in China , Spain and Cile amongst other places. Beware of the tremors of the Maltese coast , they are a consequence of the divorce debate in Malta.

Mr Robert Agius

May 13th 2011, 12:06

Human nature....then you quote a religious figure. Mr. Theuma, isn't sex before marriage natural?

Mr Saliba Francis

May 13th 2011, 12:54

@ Robert Agius.

Sex before marriage is "natural" for lower forms of life. Human beings who are supposed to be endowed with a personal and civic conscience and a superior intelligence are not supposed to exercise that natural gift before they have prepared themselves to meet their responsibilities as parents through marriage..

Mr Matthew Grima

May 13th 2011, 17:32

I'm sorry Mr Francis, but you have crossed the line here. Calling others lower forms of life.

A lower form of life is someone who believes in a man in the sky. The same man who you cannot see but one day chose to appear in a burning bush to give you a set of rules. He warns you that if you make a gave mistake he will punish you with eternal fire, BUT he loves you.

As arrogant as they get..

Timmy Farrugia

May 13th 2011, 12:10

"You can laugh with common mortals, but God will have His last laugh." i can see the threatening people with eternal damnation is still going on!!!

Ms S Micallef

May 13th 2011, 12:34

I find you vulgar Mr. Buhagiar.

The Inquisition is long dead and buried and it's high time you accept it.

Your interpretation of Catholic values is a disgrace! You don't dictate the rules for the religion I believe in.

Your judging others, threatening others is also mortal sin so yout oo have chose your evil destination to hell.

Lisa Bonnici

May 13th 2011, 12:39

- God's commandment is still preserved since "what god has united" is not destroyed (the couple will forever be married in the churches eyes), which is the point that the "Kattoliċi: Iva Għax Dritt" movement are trying to make; this is a civil issue and not a religious one

- This is not about "taking sides", how old are you, 5? This is about the good of our country and its population. If you still don't agree that divorce will benefit our country that is fine, but please do not put it down to "taking sides".

- "Catholics cannot choose what the believe and what not to believe otherwise dont call yourselves catholics"; i hope this means you have never broken ANY of the 10 commandments at ANY point in your catholic life (including blasphuming, coveting your neighbours possessions, honouring your parents etc).

- As far as I was taught, god forgives and does not punish, due to the fact that he realises that we are human and therefore fallable

- "There is nothing good about divorce" is an opinion, which you are entitled to, the same way I am entitled to disagree

- What "damage and consequences" will be be "doing to the common good"? Studies have proven that children are neither better nor worse off with divorce vs seperation and statistics show that divorce in the UK is at a 30 year low (http://www.statistics.gov.uk/cci/nugget.asp?id=170)

Philip Hili

May 13th 2011, 12:32

Ronald, why you classified yourself as "non-believer"?
Is there anything which makes you believe in something or in any person which you do not want to believe in because otherwise, you would not have classified yourself as "non-believer"?
Therefore, the fact that you already believe in something (as explained above) you are a believer.
Jew irridu naghmluha tal-bravi?
Come on Man!!!!

Mr Mike Abbot

May 14th 2011, 23:04

he means god... Does it need to be spelled out?

Ms S Micallef

May 13th 2011, 12:31

"self-styled Catholics"...le int Catholic! Playing God and deciding when, how and who sins!!!!

Let us try and be serious and honest...this holier than thou attitude has made everyone sick! We need to see people observing real Catholic values!!!!

Toqodx titkaza bhaddiehor Mr. Saliba ghax li titkaza huwa dnub! So I guess we're all sinners afterall.

Gerry Cowie

May 13th 2011, 20:03

Good to see that as ever you are studying your bible, Ramon! Conversion is coming!

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