Eddie Fenech Adami hits out at ‘quick fix’ divorce Bill
President Emeritus Eddie Fenech Adami insisted during a debate on RTK radio he did not need an impact assessment to tell him divorce was bad because his religious beliefs already told him so. Anti-divorce movement chairman Andrè Camilleri (left) and pro-divorce movement chairman Deborah Schembri (not in picture) also participated in the debate. Photo Chris Sant Fournier
The divorce Bill before Parliament will introduce “a quick fix divorce”, according to President Emeritus Eddie Fenech Adami.
His criticism yesterday during a debate on Church radio RTK was possibly the first direct attack on the contents of the Bill submitted by Nationalist MP Jeffrey Pullicino Orlando and Labour MP Evarist Bartolo.
The Bill proposes that a couple who had been separated for four years can agree to draw up a divorce contract, which is then submitted in court for approval.
“I have read the Bill and it is not even clear whether the judge would hear the individual parties. I cannot see an easier way to obtain a divorce from the one being proposed,” Dr Fenech Adami said.
The chairman of the pro-divorce movement, Deborah Schembri, refuted the “quick fix” label, insisting the four-year time lag gave couples enough time to reconcile their differences.
“It does not make sense to prolong the suffering of those who have passed through a separation and have lived separate lives for four years. It should be enough for these people to obtain a divorce by filing a court application,” Dr Schembri said.
The three-way debate also included the chairman of the anti-divorce movement, Andrè Camilleri, who, however, was overshadowed by Dr Fenech Adami.
While saying his movement would be producing studies in the future to show the impact divorce would have on society, Dr Camilleri constantly jibed at the fact the divorce Bill was presented without accompanying research on the state of the family.
Dr Fenech Adami said he did not need impact assessments to tell him divorce was bad for society because his religious beliefs already told him so.
“Jesus Christ, who is not any other philosopher but the Son of God, said divorce was bad for society. This is the truth and it is what I believe in. I will not budge from this position,” he said, encouraging society to be true to its roots and believe in strong families.
Dr Schembri said Christians had every right to be enlightened by their religious values on the matter but insisted divorce was a purely civil matter.
“Although divorce would affect both persons in the couple it does not oblige any of the parties to get married again if that goes against their beliefs,” she said.
Dr Schembri constantly highlighted the fact that even though divorce was not available people were still walking away from their marriage and opting to separate.
However, both Dr Camilleri and Dr Fenech Adami insisted divorce would encourage family breakdown because the permanent bond of marriage would be diluted.
“A divorce law would simply make the state an accomplice to a person’s decision to walk away from a marriage and move into a new relationship,” Dr Camilleri said, adding a marriage that could be dissolved would cause chaos in society.
Cohabitation was hotly debated by the three speakers with Dr Schembri saying without divorce separated people were forced by the state to cohabit.
“We are in favour of divorce because we favour marriage. It is much better for separated people to get a second chance to marry rather than cohabit if they decide to form a new relationship,” Dr Schembri said.
Rebutting, Dr Camilleri said in Ireland cohabitation increased by 400 per cent after divorce was introduced. Dr Fenech Adami challenged the notion a second marriage was better than cohabitation. “It is only better for the individuals because it gives them a higher social standing in a society that still values marriage,” he said.
The final round of the debate was characterised by an intense exchange between Dr Fenech Adami and Dr Schembri over the social consequences of divorce. While the former President insisted divorce harmed society, Dr Schembri argued the harm was caused by marriage breakdown, which preceded divorce.
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M. Tabone
Jan 28th 2011, 12:08
Jien nahseb li meta jidhol id-divorzju il-formula li tinghad sewwa fiz-zwieg bil-Knisja u anke f'dak civili ghanda tinbidel! Issir hekk:
'Inweghdu li nibqghu flimkien sakemm jinqala l-inkwiet u mbaghad inhallu lil xulxin u jekk insibu lil xi hadd iehor immorru u nizzewgu lilu!'
X'sens jibqala' l-formula l-antika sakemm il-mewt tifridna' meta kulhadd ikun jaf li hemm id-divorzju jekk wiehed irid juzah? U mbaghad l-ulied - ulied Mrs. X mir-ragel jiehdu l-kunjom X, It-tfal mir-ragel il-gdid, Y, ikollhom kunjom Y u ulied l-ewwel ragel X ikollu ulied X mill-mara l-originali u ohrajn X mit-tieni zwieg! Xi hadd qatt hadem mat-tfal u ra b'ghajnejh xi tgerfix johloq dan kollu fit-tfal? Jien naf ghax hdimt mat-tfal u rajt b'ghajnejja stess l-effett fuq it-tfal kollha! Ulied originali u ohrajn b'kunjom differenti li t-tieni ragel irrikonoxxa bhala tieghu! Imsieken trid tghid!
Ramon Casha
Jan 29th 2011, 06:41
Il-wegħda taż-żwieġ tindika l-intenzjoni tal-koppja, u għandha tibqa' kif inhi - il-koppja għandhom jagħmlu ħilithom kollha biex iż-żwieġ tagħhom jirnexxi u jibqa' sħiħ tul ħajjithom.
Iżda x'jiġri jekk, minkejja l-isforzi kollha, din ma tirnexxiex? Jekk il-mara jew ir-raġel jaqbdu u jitilqu lil żewġhom u jmorru ma xi ħadd ieħor u ma jerġgħu qatt lura, x'jiġri mill-persuna l-oħra? Tibqa' hemm ċassa, tistenna? Tingħalaq id-dar għall-kumplament ta' ħajjitha?
Fil-fehma tiegħek, jekk ir-raġel isir vjolenti lejn il-mara jew saħansitra t-tfal, il-mara għandha tibqa' hemm għax hekk wegħdet? Wara kollox, fil-wegħda taż-żwieġ il-koppja jwegħdu li jibqgħu iħobbu lil xulxin, u f'każ bħal dan ir-raġel diġà kiser il-wegħda.
S Zammit
Jan 29th 2011, 20:45
Mela allura ghax ma nibdlux il-weghda taz-zwieg; inwieghdek li nibqa fidil lejk sakemm ma ssawwatniex, ma teqlibiliex, ma ddejjaqnix u ma tiksirx il-wieghda l-ewwel int.... Jew ser tghamel hiltek kollha jew ser tissetja benchmark minn qabel, li kif jintlahaq iddabbar rasek. Nahseb Dr. Eddie Fenech Adami ghandu punt; qed jinholoq benchmark u qed jidghajjef iz-zwieg b'dan li qed jigi propost.
Kull min irid jitlaq il-mara (jew ir-ragel) issa ghandu: jitlaq malajr kemm jista jkun mid-dar, jista wkoll jibda relazzjoni ohra, 4 snin wara bla sforz ta xejn jitlob divorzju. Jekk ikun lehaq beda relazzjoni ohra jista wkoll jerga jizzewweg ezatt wara li jinghata d-divorzju...
U allura nghid jien nistaw nibqghu kif qeghdin fejn wiehed jista jpoggi mill-ewwel hux u jaghmel kuntratt ghand nutar jekk jidhirlu li ghandu drittijiet civili anqas minn wiehed mizzewweg. M'hemmx alfejn inwaqqghu iz-zwieg ta kulhadd biex nagevolaw xi uhud li jhossu li ma jistawx jghatu aktar fiz-zwieg taghhom.
Joe Zammit
Jan 28th 2011, 12:05
Divorce is the dissolution of a validly contracted marriage by a human person.
No State has the power to make such declaration. In the celebration of marriage the State has ABSOLUTELY no say.
In every marriage it is God who is uniting two together and Christ commanded (not advised!) us that what God has united let no man, no State put asunder. Divorce is always evil.
God has created the institution of marriage and so ONLY he can put the rules to it. Christ, God made Man told us clearly that God, who has created marriage, does not want divorce! This was before the setting up of any State!
The two characteristics of marriage are UNITY and INDISSOLUBILITY. So marriage is for ever.
Ramon Casha
Jan 29th 2011, 06:34
"In the celebration of marriage the State has ABSOLUTELY no say. "
So you're saying we should do away with marriage altogether, as far as the state is concerned? So much for protecting marriage, and marriage being the foundation of society. If you can't have it your way you'd break it for everyone else?