Oprah meets sister she never knew she had

Oprah Winfrey has discovered she has a half-sister – a Milwaukee woman who was given up for adoption by Ms Winfrey’s mother nearly 50 years ago, when the TV talk show host was eight years old. An emotional Ms Winfrey introduced her newly found sibling...

Oprah Winfrey has discovered she has a half-sister – a Milwaukee woman who was given up for adoption by Ms Winfrey’s mother nearly 50 years ago, when the TV talk show host was eight years old.

An emotional Ms Winfrey introduced her newly found sibling to viewers and explained the woman’s persistent quest to find her birth mother.

“This, my friends, is the miracle of all miracles,” Ms Winfrey said before bringing out the 48-year-old woman, who throughout the programme was identified only as Patricia, with no mention of her occupation or any other details.

After years of searching for blood relatives, the woman met Ms Winfrey on Thanksgiving Day last November.

When Patricia was born in Milwaukee in 1963, the young Ms Winfrey was living with her father and did not even know her mother was pregnant, she said.

Patricia, who Ms Winfrey said bounced from foster home to foster home until she was adopted aged seven, had given up after previous searches for her mother.

But she decided to resume looking several years ago at the insistence of her grown children.

The effort seemed to hit a dead end when a woman from the Wisconsin adoption agency called to respond to her inquiries.

“She was telling me that my birth mother had called her back, and she had made the decision at that particular time that she did not want to see me,” Patricia said.

Coincidentally, on the local news that day was a story about Ms Winfrey’ mother, Vernita Lee, who revealed details about two of her children who had since died.

Those details, Patricia said, matched information she had seen in papers about her own adoption.

Ms Winfrey’s mother also said that one of the deceased children had been named Patricia.

“The hairs on the back of my neck stood up,” Patricia said. “Because I knew one of my siblings and I shared the same name.”

Later, she found more matching details, including the fact that Ms Winfrey was born in 1954, the same year as the woman Patricia knew was her surviving sibling.

Patricia found the daughter of Ms Winfrey’s dead sister in Milwaukee, and they took a DNA test that confirmed their relationship.

Ms Lee, who recently suffered a minor stroke, said she never told Ms Winfrey about her half-sister, “because I thought it was a terrible thing for me to do, that I had done, gave up my daughter when she was born”.

Ms Winfrey said documents from the girl’s birth reveal that Ms Lee gave up the baby for adoption because she did not think she could get off welfare if she kept the child.

“I made the decision to give her up because I wasn’t able to take care of her,” Ms Lee said during a recorded interview.

“So when I left the hospital, I told the nurse I wasn’t going to keep the baby.”

Ms Winfrey said she was particularly stunned by the news because of the way it came out.

She said Patricia had known since 2007 that the two were related, but never attempted to profit off her discovery, even as she tried un­successfully to contact Ms Winfrey, her mother or others in Ms Winfrey’s family.

Sign up to our free newsletters

Get the best updates straight to your inbox:

You can unsubscribe at any time by clicking the link in the footer of our emails. We use Mailchimp as our marketing platform. By subscribing, you acknowledge that your information will be transferred to Mailchimp for processing.