Woman ‘beaten repeatedly’ while locked up for 10 hours
Woman recounts harrowing ordeal
A 23-year-old woman who admitted stabbing her boyfriend on Christmas Day yesterday recounted a horrific 10-hour ordeal she had gone through a week earlier in which the man beat her repeatedly and savagely.
Alicia Spiteri said Sean Grima locked her in the bedroom of the Fgura flat they shared and for 10 hours he would beat her, leave and return to beat her again and grab her by the throat, over and over, eventually bursting her left eardrum.
The couple have two daughters together aged five and two.
Two graphic photos exhibited in court yesterday showed heavy bruising on her neck which formed in horizontal lines as well as bruising below her left eye.
The pictures were taken by the woman’s mother the day after the ordeal. A week later, Ms Spiteri said, she was savagely beaten again at the flat. This time, however, she fought back and stabbed Mr Grima, 26, in the shoulder with the same knife he was threatening her with.
The young woman was testifying in the compilation of evidence against Mr Grima, who is pleading not guilty to injuring her grievously in the attack.
Ms Spiteri said that on the day of the first attack, on December 17, she had just returned home after cleaning her grandmother’s house when her partner quite literally interrogated her, insisting that she had been with another man.
She denied it but he quickly became aggressive and grabbed her by the throat. He took her to the bedroom where he beat her up and kept her for 10 long hours, she said.
At one point, she tried to escape by telling Mr Grima that there was a gun on the roof that needed to be removed. He unlocked the door and walked up the steps with her but she managed to get away from him and even knocked on a neighbour’s door.
She signalled to the neighbour to let her in and leave him outside but the woman refused and he caught up with her, dragging her back down to the bedroom, she said.
Then Mr Grima asked her mother to come to the flat to extract a confession of infidelity from her daughter. The mother did go but called the police straightaway.
When the officers arrived, Mr Grima refused to open the door and made his girlfriend walk out onto the balcony to tell the officers that everything was fine but the police insisted on coming in.
Eventually, Superintendent Sharon Tanti was allowed in. She spoke to both of them for an hour and a half, Ms Spiteri said.
The police offered to escort her out or have Mr Grima removed but she turned down the offer, reasoning that she was already in such a bad state that he would not lay a hand on her again.
She went to the polyclinic and then to her parents where she stayed with the children until Christmas Eve, when Mr Grima turned up at the house asking to talk things over.
She was in her pyjamas and he demanded that she get dressed and leave the house. When she refused, Ms Spiteri said, he followed her up the front steps before she realised it and entered the house.
As her mother called the police, he grabbed their two-year-old daughter and fled back to their flat. He then called her incessantly all night until he gave her an ultimatum: If she wanted their daughter back, she would have to go and get her.
She said that call was followed by another in which she heard her daughter crying and was told she was hungry. When Ms Spiteri told him there were chicken nuggets in the freezer, he told her he would not lift a finger and she would have to do the cooking herself.
At that point Ms Spiteri called a police inspector, who told her that if she was feeling afraid she should not go to the flat even though, given that the father was a legal guardian, the police could do little about the situation.
The next day, Christmas Day, she went to the flat and took her five-year-old daughter with her because he had insisted she did so.
She told the court that when she walked into the flat she noticed he was injecting cocaine. She started cooking and things appeared calm for some time but he became increasingly paranoid and started looking at her in a “scary way”.
At that point she realised something was going to happen and she called her parents. But he pushed the furniture up against the door and refused to let her leave.
As he pulled her by the hair and arms towards the bedroom, holding a penknife, she tried to make a dash for the balcony but he stopped her and pulled her back.
By this time her parents had arrived at the front door and she pleaded with him to let her go. It was at this point that she managed to grab hold of the knife and stab him with it in the shoulder, she testified.
He rushed out into the street and her father grabbed the children. As she fled the building she saw him in the street and ran in the direction of her parents’ house.
In a panic she stopped a car driven by a stranger and jumped in but the startled woman driver told her to get out. She then saw her mother in another car behind and got into that.
The case continues.
Lawyers Gianella Caruana Curran and Joseph Giglio appeared for Ms Spiteri.
Lawyer John Bonello appeared for the accused.
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Patricia Saliba
Oct 25th 2012, 19:51
continued.... the other cheek, how would someone feel if it was their daughter, shutting the door on the poor woman thats not christian act is it? Prison for the offender!!!!!!!!
Patricia Saliba
Oct 25th 2012, 19:49
regarding the domestic abuse the abuse that one gets from a repeatedly drunken partner should also be looked into, yes it makes a mn feel powerful, but really they have no backbone beleive me. They should serve a prison sentence fir sure abusing defenceless women is just not on and of course being in a position like the above mentioned woman they need as much help as they can get,not people turnin
Patricia Saliba
Oct 25th 2012, 19:40
Until you are in the position of violence it is very hard to comment about safety, there is domestic abuse and mental abuse, of course the police when called should do something about it, surely its better than it ending up in a fatality, more has to be done concerning abuse that goes on behind doors, even more so where cihildren are concerned, a restraint order should be made. If broken offender
A Vella
Jan 11th 2011, 22:05
If what she said was true, I hope he'll rot in prison, the place where he belongs!
L. Dimech
Jan 11th 2011, 15:37
So can someone explain to me why if a single woman trying to make ends meet has a child, the State can take the child away from her even though the poor mother does her utmost to hang on to a beloved child, and in this case nothing happens because the father is the child's guardian?? What sort of cross-eyed reasoning is this? In such cases the women and children must be protected and then the police can start asking.
Thank God it was the woman who managed to stab him first because had it come from the man you can be sure she wouldn't be alive to tell the story !!!
This is a great injustice and a disgrace. When a man treats a woman like an animal by beating her, he's degrading himself. Smart men would never raise a finger on a woman to make him feel a sense of power. If the Government won't seriously do something about these cases, I think it's about time women find ways and means to protect themselves. One thing for sure, just don't rely on any help from the police station - they don't like to get involved in family matters!!
e. muscat
Jan 11th 2011, 19:54
If the public does not feel comfortable contacting the police. why doesn't Mr Joe Gerada of Appogg shout louder to be contacted in such cases. Then he would refer it to the police. Or we only appear on screens after post mortems. Fair comment by Mr. Chris Agius.
Joseph Calleja
Jan 11th 2011, 14:17
To be honest, I would award a medal for bravery to Ms Spiteri. I don't condone violence but this was purely self defence and it is about time too. Domestic violence must be stopped and these battered men or women have to be helped. To all abused men and women, please understand that if a mate hits you once, he/she will do it again and again. If you see any sign of abuse, get out because it will happen again. Please don't fall for empty promises and excuses. Join the move against domestic violence.
Ms p m Graham
Jan 11th 2011, 13:07
It amazes me, how few comments there are on this News Story, compared to others.
It seems “egg throwing” gets more of a response than this young woman’s ordeal and letters such as, “Silent Protest” “zero tolerance to violence” are all but ignored.
Why is that?
Here is this horrific account of what this very young mum has gone through, that her children have witnessed, obviously, that so many people seemed to have known about and did relatively little about.
What is the problem?
Surely it is our duty to report any and all signs of Domestic Violence even if the victim won‘t. (Can’t). The days of keeping it in the family, hiding it and not talking about it are over, if not for the sake of the abused partner but for that of the children involved.
I can understand not wanting to get involved, in part, but lifting the telephone and getting the Police to attend could save a life.
It’s not like the commenter’s here are slow to get into other people’s private business on other issues. Why is this swept under the carpet?
John Portelli
Jan 11th 2011, 11:32
What a shame that these type of stories occur. The large in Malta is not harsh enough with people beating or killing other things. THe Maltese justice system should stop protecting the rights of abusers like this individual and protect the right of the victims. It should always be about protecting the rights of victims NOT criminals.
Michael Camileri
Jan 11th 2011, 08:53
So much for a Christian neighbours eh, makes me sick.
Poor woman, good for her!
Morana Axisa
Jan 11th 2011, 08:53
I hope that at least they will revoke his legal guardianship of the children. Such an allegedly violent person should be kept away from them and not be their legal guardian! One cannot hear episodes like this and then be told that 'the police cannot do anything' if he takes the children because he is their father!
Julia Bonett
Jan 11th 2011, 08:48
and the police..... what do they do about such an abuse ? self defence poor woman - and many others like her. You have to be in one's shoes to know. Wake up Malta and start doing something to protect these woman !
chris aguis
Jan 11th 2011, 15:43
I think it is also about time some of these women start looking after THEMSELVES. Apart from the fact that she kept the relationship, allowed him to go near her home without ever thinking of doing a legal order, she never thought of trying to open a court case to prevent him from being able to keep the children, and so on, at one time the police DID offer to escort her out or else take him away but she refused because she thought everything would be fine .... and this after a very severe beating which she didn`t even initially report !!
WIth all due respect, but in such cases what do we expect the authorities to do, if the people themselves keep refusing to admit to themselves that the relationship is over but keep hoping that everything will be fine after each quarrel or fight ??
If these people do not help themselves, look for the possibile remedies or accept the help they are offered, why is joe public expected to protect them ???
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