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'Iva' for divorce committee members named

The 'Iva' for divorce committee members have been named.

The committee will be co-ordinating the campaign in favour of the Divorce Bill, due to be discussed in Parliament and presented to the Maltese electorate for approval in the coming months.

It is composed of MPs Evarist Bartolo (PL) and Jeffrey Pullicino Orlando (PN), AD chairman Michael Briguglio, Michael Falzon, Marlene Mizzi, Yvonne Ebejer-Arqueros, David Micallef St. John, Roderick Bartolo, Etienne Borg and Martin Scicluna. The chairman is Deborah Schembri.

The committee, which has chosen ‘IVA’ as its name, will launch a campaign aimed at encouraging the introduction of the divorce.

The Bill proposes giving individuals whose marriages have failed irrevocably another chance.

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M Rizzo

Nov 14th 2010, 22:27

@Joe Vella

Not everybody is a Catholic. And some people choose to adopt some (but not all) of the Catholic doctrine - which they are perfectly entitled to do. So what exactly is your point?

JOe VELLa

Nov 15th 2010, 09:10

@M Rizzo
To answer you, those who are not Catholics have a right, not to be, and that is it.
Your reference that some prefer to adopt some of the church teaching not all. Which they are entitled to do so. It is not my competence to argue your assumption.
Your final question, what is my point? I only wish to guide you to the Scripture and refer you when Jesus said it how it is, the apostles told Jesus that followers are leaving, to this Jesus answered:
John 6: 68-69 Then Jesus said to the twelve: Will you also go away? And Simon Peter answered him: Lord, to whom shall we go? Thou hast the words of eternal life.
Paul advise, Colossians 2:8 Beware lest any man cheat you by philosophy and vain deceit; according to the tradition of men, according to the elements of the world and not
according to Christ.
My point is! Any true politician worth his salt and want to be a Catholic politician should follow the teaching of Our Lord, and not exploit Our faith for his political gain.

David Bonello

Nov 15th 2010, 12:14

@joe vella: "I know I will not convince those who want to be blind"

Good joke :)) thanks for this laugh. Keep us informed if you make progress in convincing yourself.

Matthew Grima

Nov 15th 2010, 13:45

I'm not quite sure who's blind here. If you are against divorce, fine don't get it, but please get off your high horse (you might also hit your head on your way down).

Shaun Azzopardi

Nov 15th 2010, 13:47

Campaigning for civil divorce is not incompatible with Jesus' teachings.
Civil divorce is in no way an attempt to render invalid Catholic marriage. Stop conflating civil marriage with Catholic marriage. They're two different abstract ideas belonging to two separate institutions, although the line might be a little blurred here in Malta.

victor pulis

Nov 14th 2010, 17:45

L-ufficjal ma semmix divorzju, semma tkissir fiz zwieg. Id divorzju mhux il kawza taz zwiegijiet imkissra, hu l-effett. Iz-zwieg diga jkun tkisser meta l-koppja titlob ghad divorzju. Min hu dak il mignun li jkollu zwieg hieni u jitlob biex ihollu?

Kenneth Curmi

Nov 15th 2010, 12:04

Sir,

Your impeccable logic betrays a mental prowess to be envied, as eloquently expressed in your flawless argument which shows a command of the logical intricacies governing deductive argumentation.

P. Borg

Nov 14th 2010, 10:46

Infact you can't still be bound by marriage if love isn't still alive. Given that social life and interaction between people is so complex and behaviour is unpredictable, why should affected parts be constrained not to fall in love again and have a real stable marriage?
We enter relationships because the other person becomes part of ourselves and that expands us. That’s why people who fall in love could stay up all night talking and it still feels really exciting even after many years.
It is a shame that in Malta one cannot be divorced and marry the one who's in love with.
So what's next? Xi nisrani li taharqu qalbu mbaghad jiftah xi ghaqda ghad-disprati li jhossuhom emarginati.. This is not a joke, people can have a real strong emotional problem with this constraint. No wonder this is not a happy nation!!

Fenech MD

Nov 15th 2010, 11:42

Zmien li fih ilkoll mistiedna
Ninvestu ghal uliedna
M'ahniex daqstant 'il boghod
Jekk ninsew id-differenzi
jintemmu l-inçertezzi
Saqajna tkun fis-sod
Maghqudin mhux ghaz-zwiegi
Ilkoll id f'id ­ ghax iz-zmien fil-qrib
Pass ­ biex flimkien ­ nghixu lkoll
L-ahjar gejjien
Iva ghad-dhul tad-divorzju
l-ghazla taghna
Nghidu iva ­ biex uliedna
fil-gejjieni jgawdu maghna
Iva ghalina. Ghal uliedna.
Ghal pajjizna
Nghidu iva...
Zgur bid-dhul tad-divorzju
Hemm post ghalik u ghalija
Kenn ghal kull cittadin
Din hi darna naturali
Ghal nies bhalek u bhali
F'idejna dad-destin.

Eh!

ray sacco

Nov 14th 2010, 23:12

@l.zammit:
can you illuminate us and explain the difference between divorce and annullment? because no matter how much you and other catholic fanatics try to twist your verbal skills, the fact is that they both end up with the same conclusion: the TERMINATION of a marriage! there is of course the difference of the financial element, that is, in which bank accounts the cash is ending up!

Mark Brincat

Nov 14th 2010, 11:06

U wara l-Abbort IVA ghal-gwerra kontra l-Iran!! Ara fhiex ha ggibuna!

victor pulis

Nov 14th 2010, 10:52

What God has joined together let no man put asunder. Putting asunder means separating. The church accepts separation and invented annullment in lieu of divorce as a loop hole,. Nowhere is annullment mentioned in the gospels.

ialamango

Nov 14th 2010, 12:36

and what if I am a Maltese Citizien and I am not Catholic? Can i have divorce in Malta?


victor pulis

Nov 14th 2010, 10:50

Gesu qal dak li jghaqqad Alla ma jifirdux il bniedem. Il knisja taccetta is separazzjoni (firda) u vvintat l-annullament (divorzju mit tieqa) li ma ssibu mkien fit taghlim ta' kristu.
Rigward it tieni zwieg jekk ikun hemm .Il koppji mhumiex jitolbu li jizzewwgu bil knisja. Kif inhuma l-affarijiet lanqas bic civil ma jistghu jizewwgu. Fl ahhar nett ftakar li mhux kulhadd hu kattoliku

Christian Sciberras

Nov 14th 2010, 00:53

"Evarist Bartolo (PL) and Jeffrey Pullicino Orlando (PN)"

jcamilleri - Uza ghajnejk bix taqra siehbi!!!

Christian Sciberras

Nov 14th 2010, 00:58

What are your credentials to ask those questions? Eh?

victor pulis

Nov 13th 2010, 22:51

Didn't know JZ had a win brother!

Joseph Aquilina

Nov 13th 2010, 23:19

And from which part of your Veterinary course did yout get all this?

Christian Sciberras

Nov 14th 2010, 00:57

How convenient. I could quote a passage from the other side of the Bible to prove my points.


Except both your quote and mine are completely useless with or against the actual argument.

If you had something to say, at least put some sense and forethought into it...

JOSEPH ZAMMIT

Nov 14th 2010, 06:49

ANY MORE SCARY TACTICS?
...After all, what is YOUR opinion?

matin saliba

Nov 14th 2010, 08:10

http://www.metro.co.uk/home/20616-pope-limbo-does-not-exist

The above is also ma teaching of your great church. With this teaching the church cause unmeasurable suffering to many god fearing parents.

A cassar

Nov 14th 2010, 18:46

Thank God that you deal with animals in your day to day life, because humans have rights and freedoms which animals don't.......but you seem not to believe that we live in a free world and your opinion doesn't matter as long as the decision by two consenting adults does not harm you. With animals things are different...but we are not dealing with dogs cats and farm animals over here!!!

Peter Dingli

Nov 13th 2010, 23:10

What ever happened to free will

m. briffa

Nov 14th 2010, 22:35

Thank you Dr. G. Schembri Adami... God Bless

B. Cachia

Nov 13th 2010, 21:20

Mhux ahjar jiddeciedu huma?

Vicki Soler

Nov 14th 2010, 08:11

Int ghamel li trid imma halli lil hadd iehor jidiciedi hu Grazzi

J Mizzi

Nov 13th 2010, 23:09

Maybe because both of you seem to be a little eccentric, and your presence would be a liability to the aims of the committee? Just a thought ... you don't need to be offended...

Philip Hili

Nov 13th 2010, 23:30

@ Dr. John Zammit

Because Dr. Jeffrey Pullicino Orlando wants to make this bill his own!! and not others. It would have been no surprise if you were forming part of the government and push your idea further, because the Maltese people knew what was your agenda. But things are different because Dr. Jeffrey Pullicino Orlando never spoke of this subject prior to the general election.
To add insult to injury, when the PN councilors were summoned to approve the electoral manifseto to which Dr. Jeffrey Pullicino Orlando was present for that meeting, he knew that this subject was not included in the manifesto and he voted in favour of the electoral manifesto.
As regards to your sister party in Great Briton - the Liberal Democrats of Mr. Glegg please inform him not to make another guff as he did when he first opened his mouth as Deputy Prime Minister.

Christian Sciberras

Nov 14th 2010, 00:55

First of, get rid of freewebs...it's shameful for such a serious campaign...

Dr. John Zammit

Nov 14th 2010, 15:34

I don't mind if Jeffrey Pullicino Orlando want to make the campaign for himself, as long as divorce is introduced as soon as possible and before the coming general election. All I can say is that I and Alleanza Liberali are for IVA CAMPAIGN and we are ready to support and do all that is necessary so that this time divorce will be in like the other countries. I can say that I have in 2004 presented an individual petition to the Committe of Petitions of the European Parliament which was admissable and put on the agenda of the same parliament. Every push helps, so now I auger this committee to succeed and to ask for our help if need be. We support them at all cost.

victor pulis

Nov 13th 2010, 21:03

Bl istess argument nghid jekk tridu tizzewwgu izzewwgu u rriskjaw li ma ssibux xorti!

T.Cauchi

Nov 13th 2010, 19:47

Ieqaf u ahseb. Xi tghid dwar tfal illegittimi u single parents? Ma tapplikax l-istess statistika ghalihom? ma jiswewhx ammont sostanzjali ta flus? m'humiex forsi dawk il familji imkissrin li kien qieghed jirreferi ghalihom? Id-divorzju mhux necessarjament jinstiga il firda miz zwieg, izda l-ghaqda fi zwieg iehor. Jiddependi kif thares lejh, jew ahjar kif qeghdin IGGHALUK thares lejh.

P.S.
"Mehuda minn IL-GENS ILLUM"

The end said it all!!! :D a very clear example of brain washing

JOSEPH ZAMMIT

Nov 13th 2010, 19:50

Mr. Borg., may I ask what has divorce to do with broken marriages?
You are implying that since in Malta divorce is not legalized, we do not have broken marriages?

victor pulis

Nov 13th 2010, 20:39

"Uffiċjal għoli fil-Gvern Ingliż stqarr li tfal minn familji mkissrin kellhom disa’ darbiet iktar ċans li jwettqu atti kriminali minn tfal oħrajn imrobbijin f’familji stabbli,"

M'hemm imkien imsemmi d-divorzju. Familji mkissra ma jfissirx kppji ddivorzjati imma zwiegijiet li ma rnexxewx.

axuereb

Nov 13th 2010, 20:55

" R. Borg: Ghidilna ftit kemm iddahhal il-knisja mill -annullamenti? (Jew din l-informazzjoni ma ssibhiex fil-Gens?). Jekk dak li jghaqqad Alla ma jhollu hadd, allura l-knisja kif tannulla z-zwigijiet? Missha tghidilhom jibqaw kif inhuma lil koppji li jirrikorru ghandha ghall-annullament, bhalma qed tghid li ghandhom jghamlu dawk li jridu d-divorzju.

IVA GHAD-DIVORZJU F MALTA!

Andrew Farrugia

Nov 14th 2010, 00:07

Miskin! Mela ghalhekk qabzitlu!

Wilfred Camilleri

Nov 13th 2010, 20:02

@victor pulis No, actually. Although the Church has a position on Divorce, as it should, my point is that children are the ones most hurt by divorce and separation.

I'm personally not in favour of divorce. However I'm totally opposed to divorce "on demand" like divorce laws that some countries have legalized and I'm totally opposed to civil divorce and separation if no reconciliation efforts have been made.

Yes, second marriages can succeed and can fail like first marriages can, but many people nowadays get divorced because they cannot see another of the opposite sex without wanting to be with them. Such people should not get married in the first place. If divorce is allowed, it should be because there is abuse involved or because the couple cannot otherwise reconcile

victor pulis

Nov 13th 2010, 20:49

"Wilfred Camilleri(33 minutes ago)
@victor pulis No, actually. Although the Church has a position on Divorce, as it should, my point is that children are the ones most hurt by divorce and separation.
1. So we are agreed on this but I also include annullment.

I'm personally not in favour of divorce. However I'm totally opposed to divorce "on demand" like divorce laws that some countries have legalized and I'm totally opposed to civil divorce and separation if no reconciliation efforts have been made.
2. The proposed divorce is not the Las Vegas type. and couples need to exhaust all possible means of reconciliation andhave to be separaated for at least 4 years.

Yes, second marriages can succeed and can fail like first marriages can, but many people nowadays get divorced because they cannot see another of the opposite sex without wanting to be with them. Such people should not get married in the first place. If divorce is allowed, it should be because there is abuse involved or because the couple cannot otherwise reconcile.
3. Exactly (see above) so you are in favour of divorce in certain cases..

axuereb

Nov 13th 2010, 21:01

Illuminana fuq dawn il-valuri serji ta pajjizna! Hares harsa madwarek u tara fejn qeghdin il-valuri serji hawn Malta. Prosit lil dawk il-politikanti li jghazlu li jghatu cans lil min hu batut. Kuragg, flimkien kollox possibli!

m. briffa

Nov 14th 2010, 22:45

I am Maltese and I'm sure that you do not even respect me, let alone "love" me...

Charles J. Buttigieg

Nov 13th 2010, 19:18

You have all the divine right to say no for yourself but not any God's given right to say no for others.

Charlene Giordimaina

Nov 14th 2010, 14:13

Than pay for your toughtless decisions.

Wilfred Camilleri

Nov 13th 2010, 18:32

@victor pulis I didn't mention the Catholic Church, you did!

Kids are traumatized when parents either are abusive or separate/divorce. No label attached to such an action will make any difference to the children!

And I know many cohabiting and remarried couples who are on their third relationship because it's too easy to get divorced.

Michael Spiteri

Nov 13th 2010, 18:12

Mela start praying for me!

martin saliba

Nov 13th 2010, 18:22

Oh my oh my. I'm so scared i just might vote no.

eugene sapiano

Nov 13th 2010, 18:39

You might as well pray for me as well.

victor pulis

Nov 13th 2010, 19:12

How considerate of you. Thank you very much.

Joseph Calleja

Nov 13th 2010, 17:46

Usually it is already broken beyond fixing. You can only fix something so many times. Like a car, sometimes you have to total it. It makes sense.

charlo' sammut

Nov 13th 2010, 22:37

dak li jaqqad alla mandux jifirdu il bnidem ......u full stop....

S Bonnici

Nov 13th 2010, 19:47

That's a real good one!!!!

B. Cachia

Nov 13th 2010, 17:24

Can you please explain why you think that the PN is in principle against divorce? As far as I know there's nothing in the statute about the subject and the party has not taken a position yet. Its supporters likewise appear to be split between those who support divorce legislation and those who oppose it.

Wilfred Camilleri

Nov 13th 2010, 17:54

@B. Cachia Yes and no. Someone needs to look after the interest of the children and in most cases, one or both of the parents involved in a divorce are looking after their own interest and not that of their kids!

Joseph Calleja

Nov 13th 2010, 18:02

"The PN in principle is against Divorce." You are talking about the party. What about the people? Do they have any say so in all this? I am for no party but I do think the people have a say so in what governs their lives. And who are the True Maltese Christians are you talking about? Because I consider myself a true Maltese Christian and I consider myself Catholic and I also favour divorce. My choice.

F J Brincat

Nov 13th 2010, 21:15

What an absurd comment by Mr Buhagiar. Obviously a poor attempt at trying to politicize the divorce issue. Back to the 50's and 60's are we?

Philip Hili

Nov 13th 2010, 23:44

@ Mr. Paul Buhagiar

U PL ha rikba rhisa minn fuq dahar Dr. Jeffrey Pullicino Orlando. Nesa Dr. Jeffrey Pullicino Orlando it-tattika li kien qieghed juzha il-PN, dik li jikkommetti lil Dr. Muscat biex johrog bdil-bahnanata hu????? Taf x'naf inghid li Dr. Jeffrey Pullicino Orlando paxxa lill Dr. Joseph Muscat u l-Partit Laborista.

B. Cachia

Nov 13th 2010, 17:26

That's their affair. No one has any right to decide other people's private lives for them, even if one thinks that one knows better.

Philip Hili

Nov 13th 2010, 23:46

@ Mr. Cachia,

It works both ways.

B. Cachia

Nov 14th 2010, 18:32

@ Philip Hili: If you mean that no one should be forced to get divorced either, then yes, I certainly agree with you.

Andrew Farrugia

Nov 13th 2010, 16:54

Hahaha! I am glad you appreciate humour! How about counting the sudden ripostes of certain characters as well? After all, all are free to express themselves anyway they like, don't you think?

C Gatt

Nov 13th 2010, 19:55

Your the one who claimed to be censored.. so i counted yours :)

Andrew Farrugia

Nov 14th 2010, 00:25

No worries at all, there will be time enough for you to do the counting.

Andrew Farrugia

Nov 14th 2010, 12:30

@ C Gatt

"and very cheekily asks why Marlene Pullicino is not on the board"; btw now we have Mons. Bud Moureaux who has already invited her and others to join; the guy has some clout it seems.

B. Cachia

Nov 13th 2010, 17:29

No one is doing anything to the Church or to Catholics. Nothing whatsoever changes for them with the introduction of divorce legislation.

Joseph Calleja

Nov 13th 2010, 16:49

U min qallek li in-nisa ma jridux id-divorce ukoll? Jien nahseb in-nisa iridu id-divorce izjed mil-irgiel ghaliex in-nisa l-izjed li jigu ittrattati hazin mil-irgiel. Il-mentalita li ir-ragel huwa superjuri izjed min mara jezisti biss fil-pajjizi gharbin. Hafna irgiel Maltin ghadhom jimxu fuq din is-sistema. Veru jew le? Il-mara ghanda dritt daqs kemm ghandu ragel. Is-sena 2010

victor pulis

Nov 13th 2010, 17:33

Sur Demartino,
Min jiddivorzja l-ewwel darba jigifieri tfarraklu l-ewwel zwieg. Allura iz-zwieg mhux tajjeb? Bhal ma jista' ma jirnexxix l-ewwel zwieg jista' jirnexxi t-tieni bhal ma naf kazi fejn irnexxa. Naf b'kazi fejn anke koppji jikkoabitaw ilhom flimkien ghoxrin, tletin sena.

michael scicluna

Nov 13th 2010, 16:27

anke l ordni sagri ghaqqdu alla.....imma konvenjentament jithassar!!

victor pulis

Nov 13th 2010, 17:23

xX'JIDHIRLEK MIS SEPARAZZJONI? DIK MHIX FIRDA WKOLL BIEX MA NSEMMUX ID DIVORZJU STIL KATTOLIKU IMSEJJAH KONVENJENTEMENT ANNULLAMENT?

victor pulis

Nov 13th 2010, 17:46

Sur Borg ma nahsibx li d-divorzju jinghata ghall l-ezempju li gibt int. Jekk mill banda l-ohra il hxuna tal mara qed tikkawzalek dannu fiziku(!) hemmhekk forsi jikkunsidrawha bhala mohqrija zejda!!

Ramon Casha

Nov 13th 2010, 15:09

Wow, been brainwashed at all lately?

C Sultana

Nov 13th 2010, 15:59

You see that is the problem with you anti-divorce people. You think that the whole world is wrong and you are right. Stop fighting for a lost cause, let me get to your level of logic, you're not going to heaven by opposing divorce only I assure you so stop wasting everybody's time including yours. Let's face it, you religious people are afraid of divorce because many people will just skip the marriage vows in the church. At the end of the day the church and "GOD" does not have a say in civil liberties. To bad we're not in the dark ages anymore, right? Same reasoning ... Well my god says its ok to divorce if marriage failed, so who are you to judge MY God and tell me to listen to YOUR god?? Thats absurd.

Andrew Farrugia

Nov 14th 2010, 00:29

@ C Sultana

Some people may be living in the dark ages, but some other people are so illuminated that their brains have been fried to cinders. Hahahahaha.

David Caruana

Nov 13th 2010, 15:04

AMEN!

Andrew Farrugia

Nov 13th 2010, 15:20

Temper, temper, Dr Bezzina, some of the language used (you can add the caps, as well) does not become or befit members of the Bar, or erudite citizens! Methinks you are slightly miffed about something!

K. Pullicino

Nov 13th 2010, 18:02

"HYPOCRISY IS INTEGRATED IN ALL OF OUR INSTITUTIONS NOW"

Except Mr. Bezzina obviously.

For a self-proclaimed intellectual and the bearer of several letters after your name, your choice of vocabulary leaves much to be desired. Also, it is common knowledge, that a civilised person should not yell (write in ALL CAPS) when they're sharing our opinions with each other. Pity such basic manners escape someone of your high mental capabilities.

S Azzopardi

Nov 13th 2010, 20:33

Chill out man ... relax :)

B. Cachia

Nov 13th 2010, 17:38

I think it's quite clear to everyone by now that this is not about one person but is something supported by around half the population, cutting across party lines. And incidentally, all those ordinary citizens could not possibly all have 'delusions of grandeur' or even any personal interest in the introduction of divorce legislation.

Joseph Scicluna

Nov 13th 2010, 15:41

Bad management my foot. If it wasn't for the PN government we would have finished like the UK...Italy...Greece...Spain...Portugal...etc...etc. Read the Bloomberg Business Report of the 24th. October 2010.

Josef Portelli

Nov 13th 2010, 21:43

Dear Mr Scicluna,

irespective of what bloomberg reported, you simply cannot compare the UK with Greece or Ireland. If you visit Bloomberg's website today you will see that Ireland is being encouraged to do what Greece already did, ask the EU for a bailout as the country has lost the confidence of the financial markets. The UK government can borrow for 10 years at 3.2%, hardly a penal rate.

Malta did not end up in the same situation as Ireland or Spain because the local banks are well funded by deposits owing to the local tradition of frugaliity. That did not stop the some maltese from rushing headlong in into a mania of home construction, and the PN was there cheerleading the speculators with all the resultant over supply that is now piling pressure on property prices.

LVella

Nov 13th 2010, 14:31

Are you also against the church voicing it's opinion?

Ramon Casha

Nov 13th 2010, 15:07

Well, to begin with this is only the committee. There are other members.

Besides, while Marlene Pullicino has recently realised that there is a need to introduce divorce, you can hardly say she's been at the forefront of the divorce matter. She may be a high-profile MP, but she's not a high profile pro-divorce activist.

D Vella

Nov 13th 2010, 15:40

You strike me as being a very sad person.What's with the personal jibes,if you have a valid argument then argue it otherwise stop this and other personal jibes that you come up all the time.
Like it it or not mister,you are blowing the wrong way at the wind.

Andrew Farrugia

Nov 14th 2010, 00:34

@ D Vella
And would it be your business to stop me commenting any way i like? Have you become a share holder of The Times of Malta, or one of its editors or even one of the moderators? So pack it up , i will continue to voice my opinion any whichever way i like. BTW, are you prescient or a quack doctor? How come you can diagnose my frailties over the internet? Astounding!

Andrew Farrugia

Nov 14th 2010, 12:33

@ Mr R Casha

Well, that issue has been sorted out now, hasn't it, thanks to Mons. Bud Moureaux's initiative; the guy seems to hold quite a few keys, doesn't he?

Robert Agius

Nov 13th 2010, 13:31

I am also part of this society, like plenty of others. How dare you speak out for everyone else on your concept of what marriage is and should be. Love has NOTHING to do with marriage. Marriage can be part of love and so can divorce.

Ramon Casha

Nov 13th 2010, 15:03

No sane person thinks that marriage lasts a lifetime. People should marry with the intention of making it last a lifetime, and indeed many succeed. However even a 99.999% success rate (which we don't have by a long shot) wouldn't mean that marriage lasts a lifetime. It would mean that most marriages do. A definition has no exceptions however. A triangle is defined as a shape with three sides, and it always does - no exceptions. Marriage does not last forever.

Joseph Galea

Nov 13th 2010, 15:04

@ Robert Agius: "Love has NOTHING to do with marriage." Are you kidding?

K. Pullicino

Nov 13th 2010, 17:28

No! I'm not telling you to accept my definition of marriage. I'm saying that, if we were to democratically agree that marriage lasts a lifetime, then it would be wrong of us to also have divorce. If, on the other hand, we agree that marriage can terminate at any time, then I'll be the first one to not marry because there would be no point (especially seeing the examples of the supposedly mature population of this country).

Please read my comment well before going about what I should dare and not dare to do. I'm asking you to think with your heads not succumb to some thought because everyone else in the world does it.

Robert Agius

Nov 14th 2010, 10:46

@J Galea - read the following sentence... 'you say love thy neighbors. I say love the one furthest away from you' Nietzsche

@K. Pullicino - you clearly don't know me if you think i am a person who follows what other people do. Are you sure that you are not brainwashed by the church? Marriage COULD last a lifetime but sometimes it does not. Snap back to the real world. Nobody can foresee the future and the troubles it might bring. I say leave the options open for people in the situation to decide not others who more often than not boast about their fortunes and/or lack of experience from their ideological minds.

K. Pullicino

Nov 14th 2010, 19:14

Robert Agius, I do not believe you understand my arguments. You said that you're thinking independently but, like everyone else, you suggest that I am brainwashed by the Church. I make it a point to keep the Church and religion out of all my reasoning because this is, in the end, a decision which will not effect the Church or any religion. It does affect our society though and, it is for this reason, that I base my arguments on the issues relationship with our society.

My arguments still hold because you are still yet to point out a flaw. Let me rephrase my argument, just so you understand me better. Remember, that it is our understanding of marriage that will ultimately decide whether we should introduce divorce or not.

If as a society we decide, through our means (democratically), that marriage is a lifelong commitment then it would be contradictory for us to also allow divorce.
If as a society we decide that it is not possible for us to make all marriages last a lifetime (you, apparently, fall under this group), then it would be better for us to have no marriages at all.

Robert Agius

Nov 14th 2010, 23:01

Well, i would like to point out that you have a small, yet fatal, flaw in your argument. This is a Republic. This is a good thing because it gives minorities (those who have a different opinion on what marriage should be) rights without trampling over the majority. You fail to realize that concepts, such as marriage, were, are and will always be based on interpretation which might be different to that of your own. Nobody is imposing anything on you anyways. It is rather the other way around. And if you can't see the traces of religion in your argument then that is your mistake, not mine. There was never such a thing as OUR understanding of marriage only an illusion of it. That is what gave us 'common folk' voting power to start with.

Fenech MD

Nov 15th 2010, 11:34

Choose your love; love your choice.

Carmel Serracino-Inglott

Nov 13th 2010, 14:48

Are those who support the IVA ready to pay handouts to divorced persons when it is their fault that their marriage has flopped? Funds for divorced people should come from the pockets of those in favour of divorce. Why should I give money in the form of taxes when I am totally against divorce? Even if the LE group will be in the minority then where are the minority rights ? Remember many of the IVA group say protect the minority so if the IVA group win then they should fork out the expences not those who are against our moral principles. The conditions of JOP will disappear after a few years, as happened else where. SO beware look ahead and do not let EVIL lift its head. I do not wish you well in your campaign.

Philip Hili

Nov 14th 2010, 00:22

@ Carmel Serracino Inglott.

No Mr Serracino Inglott, they are not prepared to fork out expenses from their own pocket. That's why they want to legalise divorce, so that if and when this horrible mistake be committed and the law will be introduced in our legal system, they could turn on the State and claim assistance. Not only that, but once it is introduced in our legal system, they will be at liberty to amend the law according to their likings so that if the proposed law does not suits them, the law will be amended accordingly, in order to claim funds from the state - thus from the taxpayer coffer. The single-mothers example is a case in point.

Philip Hili

Nov 14th 2010, 00:55

@ Malcolm Seychell

Mr. Seychell, how it comes that you or your leader did not protest for being left out of this committee? Always if you are the one who forms part of the Maltese A.N.

Ramon Casha

Nov 13th 2010, 15:00

The two are not mutually exclusive. We could both work on strengthening marriages AND provide a solution in those cases where the marriage is beyond "strengthening".

victor pulis

Nov 13th 2010, 17:54

Just like the medical profession. Doctors work to prevent disease but they also develop medicines for those who succumb to illness. Medicine is there for all but only the sick make use of it. So with divorce. By forbidding divorce we are not strengthening marriages just as by prohibitting aspirin one doen't eliminate headaches. Strengthening marriage should be our priority but always keeping in mind that some (to put it mildly) marriages do fail.

Ramon Casha

Nov 13th 2010, 14:59

So you're saying that the word "Iva" can never be used again for any campaign, slogan, or similar initiative?

Lino Mallia

Nov 13th 2010, 16:21

Please list for us the many advantages we have gained so far from our entry in the EU. I don't see that many personally - well except for the cheaper plonk.

Ramon Casha

Nov 13th 2010, 14:58

It is pretty much the initiative of the people on the committee.

Joseph Mizzi

Nov 13th 2010, 13:04

Jew il-Filippini fil-Mediterran committee ...

Philip Hili

Nov 14th 2010, 00:41

@ Richard Curmi

No Mr. Curmi, in my opinion there should not be a "LE" committee because the "le" movement already exists. It began to exist as of the date when one gets married - "till death duo us part". In my opinion it will be a mistake to organise a "LE" committee to struggle a principle which existed ages ago.

K.Anastasi

Nov 13th 2010, 12:48

I agree in principle, but this will never happen here in Malta because of church meddling.

S. Zahra

Nov 13th 2010, 13:01

totally agree

LVella

Nov 13th 2010, 13:05

This committee is simply balancing things out with the church..just like the clergy has the right to talk against divorce and instil fear through mentioning hell and punishment, so do the people who are unfazed by such moralistic arguments and recognize that they are irrelevant to the state.

Matthew Grima

Nov 15th 2010, 13:07

I for one am hoping for an information committee and not a marketing committee. If it is the former then well done, if not then I fully agree with your point.

Marius Zulgis

Nov 13th 2010, 12:30

...and your point is?

patrick zammit

Nov 13th 2010, 12:53

Can these "young beauties" be savoured only if divorce is introduced?

A.Gauci Cunningham

Nov 13th 2010, 13:12

Giov De Martino---Your reasoning is totally flawed and yet perfectly understandable since its coming from a guy who thinks that the world is the Mosta PN club. But strippers apart, what exactly is your argument here? Are you saying that we should not allow divorce to be introduced because of a couple of beauties?? If marriage is as strong as we say it is then divorce or no divorce those whose marriage is going strong will continue going strong. Divorce is a just legal framework opening the door for those whose marriage has fallen apart for reasons many a times not under anyone's control. You might be jolly and happy Mr.De Martino, you might be lazying around in retirement bliss but unfortunately not everyone is like you and the state has to see to that.

Enzo Caruana

Nov 13th 2010, 13:21

....and dancing half naked around poles at the Mosta PN club?

Philip Hili

Nov 13th 2010, 13:21

Mr.De Giovanni,

I think the best thing is to ignor this subject. Do not give it importance by commenting on it because you will be promoting it.

Alla fine, kullhadd jaf x'hinu t-tajjeb u l-hazin. Hemm bzonn li l-poplu ikun jaf min huma dawk id-deputati li jaqblu fuq dan is-suggett, halli meta jasal zmien il-kontijiet, il-poplu Malti jkun jista' jaghmel il-PAGAMENTI!!!!!!!

Muscat Pat

Nov 13th 2010, 13:53

Comments of a very refined mind!

victor pulis

Nov 13th 2010, 14:08

If divorce is resorted to that means that the first marriage has failed. Are you against marriage outright?
And Mr. Demartino young beauties are not the only cause for marriage breakups.

m grech

Nov 13th 2010, 15:39

Young beauties get old too just as those before them did, and anyway the true beauty of a human being comes from the inside, when this turns ugly maybe divorce could be considered. Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder!!!!! Happy weekend all !!! Beautiful as you all are!!!!

Matthew Azzopardi

Nov 13th 2010, 12:33

I think, before the Maltese government should introduce divorce in Malta he should ask to the Finnish government about the recent studies that were done in order to study the consequences of divorce here in Finland. I think he will surely think about it twice to introduce it, because it has resulted to be a great failure when it comes to society's health and economic failure that is draining out all the social resources. Just to say this year Finland had a record of divorce cases. Just to put on some non religious issues for those who are allergic to the Church.

Mark A. Sammut

Nov 13th 2010, 12:58

Mr Azzopardi

Thank you for this comment.

Please tell us more about the Finnish experience. This is highly interesting.

Edric Micallef Figallo

Nov 13th 2010, 13:22

@Matthew Azzopardi.

Exactly Mr. Azzopardi, but one starts to lose faith in the intellectual honesty of many "open-minded" people. One could heed the words of recently expressed by British Minister Iain Duncan Smith (http://www.il-gensillum.com/news.asp?newscat=11&news=2494) or by senior British judge Sir Paul Coleridge (http://www.di-ve.com/Default.aspx?ID=47&Action=1&NewsId=72587). One can also refer studies by the Italian Caritas on the socio-economic effects of family breakdown and/or divorce (http://www.tempi.it/il-caso/0010050-divorziati-e-separati-sono-poveri-da-anni-ma-i-giornali-lo-tengono-nascosto). And yes, divorce affects us all in many ways.

Sadly, some are blind to the social disasters divorce and the mentality that sustains it and leads to it will provide. Issa ningidmu, imbagħad ngħidu ajma. Grazzi Jeffrey. Obviously some fellows who don't have the decency to stick to the "identità, valuri u prinċipji" they should represent will hear no reason. "Responsible divorce" and "strengthening of the family", sure. Obviously, not all divorcing couples will be rich and successful professionals who can sustain themselves. Some, if not many, will end up in dire straits, and in that case the social assistance provided by all taxpayers will have to make good, and our public finances further strained. Some will be taxed to fund others indulging in something they consider immoral and also contrary to the common good. Ethical.

Matt Bonanno

Nov 13th 2010, 14:13

Do you have any other solutions to the problems of marital breakdown Edric? Aside from the "marriage is forever" routine.

victor pulis

Nov 13th 2010, 14:13

@Matthew Azzopardi(1 hour, 26 minutes ago)
Can you tell us how many healthy marriages were affected by divorce in Finland? Who is crazy enough to seek divorce if one's marriage is sound and strong?
If anything, divorce reveals the state of marriages in the country concerned and does nothing to destroy marriages.

Andrew Farrugia

Nov 13th 2010, 13:00

" The same force of purpose needs to be shown within the whole Maltese Media" ......
..... as in gagging, or otherwise censoring the views of those who are against?

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