Gozo Bishop insists sex education must be seen in proper context
Gozo Bishop Mario Grech said his comments regarding sex education at school had been misinterpreted.
The Bishop sparked controversy last week when he said that “our educational system could be abusing students if, instead of helping them to control their sexual energy, it offers them information and methods, such as contraceptives, inducing them to give in to the culture of pleasure”.
In a statement on Saturday, Mgr Grech said his comments should not be taken to mean he was against sexual education but only that sexual education should be put in its proper context, or a holistic approach, which includes the ethical dimension.
Mgr Grech expressed concern regarding the possible abuse of students if, under the excuse of a sex education devoid of ethical principles and values, contraceptive methods were promoted to the detriment of the true nature and finality of human sexuality.
His arguments, he said, were in line with the teaching of the Church. He pointed out that, in May 2008, Pope Benedict XVI had said: “The urgent need for education... primarily concerns the theme of life... To circulate false illusions in the context of love or to deceive people concerning the genuine responsibilities they are called to assume with the exercise of their own sexuality does not do honour to a society based on the principles of freedom and democracy.”
Pope Benedict had said an action that “aims to prevent procreation means denying the intimate truth of spousal love, with which the divine gift is communicated”. The bishop said sex education cut off from sound moral principles militated against the promotion of authentic love-relationship and fostered a hedonist culture. The human person was thus reduced to an object of pleasure, to be manipulated at will.
Church teaching regarding the dignity of the human person and personal love could be demanding and challenging, especially in the prevailing technological era.
The seemingly easy “solution”, he said, was deceptive as it vitiated the true nature and significance of human sexuality and overlooked the fundamental need of humans to educate themselves responsibly to authentic love.
Mgr Grech again quoted the Pope who had said: “If the practice of sexuality becomes a drug that seeks to enslave one’s partner to one’s own desires and interests, without respecting the cycle of the beloved, then what must be defended is no longer solely the true concept of love but, in the first place, the dignity of the person”.
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George Vella of Victoria
Nov 9th 2010, 04:04
H.L., the Bishop of Gozo, Mgr. Maio Grech was never wrong regarding the subject of contraceptives as to our young generation, and was very daring to speak up. Keep it up Your Lordship
For many years I was involved in the Education Department with girls attending secondary schools and I can only say this “ the more we educate these students in sex education, being girls and boys, the more they want to experiment”. This crops up from the fact that now they know ‘all’ and want to experiment, then when they have not the tools at hand, they get pregnant or give rise to pregnancy, being boys. Even if these contraceptives are distributed free of charge these would not be used in very often circumstances for the feel of real sexual pleasure. Another dilemma in accepting and distributing free off charge these contraceptive is that it would give rise to multiple partnership, and then what a stable family partnership we will have in the future?! Sex education is no joke! I am sorry to say that now in Malta we have a lot of self-styled experts.
Joseph Carmel Chetcuti
Nov 9th 2010, 13:00
"I am sorry to say that now in Malta we have a lot of self-styled experts." I am also sorry to say that in Victoria we too have many self-styled experts who appear to live in a cultural freeze. Leaving anyone ignorant of sex and sexuality is what is bad but then the Church only thrives among ignorant people and no wonder people like you want everyone else to remain stupid. Perhaps you like the girls to be like one of my aunts who ran back to her mother on her wedding day. She complained that her husband tried to undress her. Incredibly it was a priest who intervened to tell her that all that was normal. And that was in Malta of the 1940s. The same aunt also prepared a broth for her huband - without washing or plucking the chuck. Thank God Malta and the Maltese are a long way from where they used to be.
Charlene Giordimaina
Nov 8th 2010, 15:29
Propjament Joseph Calleja, dawk li kien jaqblilhom jimmisinterpretjawha biss fehmuha hazin. Jien sewwa fhimtha mal-ewwel u kuntenta li issa l-Isqof Grech xandarha fil-pubbliku x'ried ifihem.
T. Gatt
Nov 8th 2010, 21:10
X'ried ifihem mela Ms. Giordimaina? Spjegali wahda jekk jghogbok?
Joseph Calleja
Nov 8th 2010, 12:50
Why can't the Mgr come out and bluntly admit he was wrong.? Nobody took anything out of context, it was right there in full print about what he said. Sex education is the best way to teach our children how to avoid sex and how to try avoid contacting sexual transmitted diseases, not to mention learn how to try and avoid having unwanted pregnancies. We have all these tools available to us, why not let us use them? Teach our kids how to use these tools.
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