Room for dithering
The media last week were full of criticism of ‘dithering’ politicians such as the Prime Minister, and churchmen, such as the Archbishop, on the subject of divorce. In particular, Lou Bondi wrote: “The Archbishop and his Gozitan counterpart, having initially endorsed these clerics’ position, distanced themselves from it only a few days later.” As one of the clerics referred to, what is your reaction?
The bishops, in their pastoral note, if I read it correctly, focused on a rather different although related question to that dealt with by us, the priestly seven.
The quandary at the centre of the bishops’ attention seems to me to have been the following: Suppose I am a believer and hold that the Gospel and the Church take a definite position on a moral issue, in the current case that divorce is always wrong (where divorce means a second marriage while a first is still valid).
At the same time using reason and reflecting upon experience I come to the conclusion that divorce is right in certain circumstances. What does my conscience tell me to do in this situation?
My personal conclusion would be, since I know how fallible human reasoning is, that if my rational reflection led me into contradiction with my faith, then I must have committed some mistake in the course of my reasoning. My conscience would undoubtedly tell me to follow the teaching of the Gospel and of the Church, as long as there was no problem about the correctness of the interpretation of the Gospel-Church teaching.
Of course, it could happen that my conscience erroneously told me to prefer my own reasoning to the clear teaching of Gospel-Church, and then my subjectively right path of duty would still be to follow my mistaken conscience, but it would be patently an objectively wrong path.
Since Christ’s mission was not just to enable souls to be saved individually but also to bring about a collective conversion from self-seeking to global solidarity and social justice, it is vital that paths of conduct chosen be justifiable not only subjectively but also objectively.
What was the other question discussed by you?
We, the not-so-magnificent seven, discussed a question that only arises because of the very reasonable Church teaching that not every sin (moral wrongdoing) should be made a crime (punishable by law). Otherwise, there would be the loss of God’s very precious gift to man of freedom. Even more, the teachers of the Church have stressed that the laws by which sins were made crimes should be as few as possible.
Because the stability of marriage was deemed to be crucial for society, (such grounds as Home Affairs Minister Carm Mifsud Bonnici set out in this newspaper last Sunday), divorce as defined above was for centuries among the sins that were selected for treatment also as criminal offences.
However, this need not always and everywhere be the case.
It is true that, as a letter-writer in last Sunday’s paper pointed out, Jesus Christ said: “What God had joined, let no man put asunder”.
However, when a court grants divorce, it is not effectively undoing a marriage if it had been validly concluded in God’s eyes, but merely decriminalising an act that would otherwise have been bigamy. (Presumably Catholics who take part in divorce proceedings justify themselves in some such terms).
A legislator who votes in favour of a divorce law (or a voter in a referendum) is in no way declaring that divorce is not a sin, but only that in the existing particular circumstances it is on the whole better for society to suffer the ills of divorce than other ills judged to be rampant without it.
Do you mean that the choice has to be made with reference to the common good and how is this common good to be understood and measured?
I did not use the language of ‘common good’ because I have learnt from experience how difficult it is for people today to understand the concept.
As Stanley Hauerwas puts it, post-modern liberalism has changed the general understanding of what politics is, at least in the Western world. Politics used to be understood to be “the ongoing conversation necessary for the discovery of goods to be enjoyed in common”.
But today it has come to be understood “as the means necessary to secure co-operation between people who share nothing in common other than their desire to survive”.
People have ceased to believe that there exists “the common good” because they have come to think that a “good” can only
be said to be so in subjective terms, or in other words, in relation to individual needs or desires.
A general loss seems to have occurred of the realisation that a being is human on two counts.
A human being is defined as such not only because of his ability to reason and decide on his own on the basis of his individual reflexive consciousness.
He is also a human being because he belongs to a family, to a state as a citizen, to various other groups of which he is a member through sharing a language or other means of symbolic communication, and ultimately to the human species.
In this context, the family is thought of increasingly as a voluntary organisation, discounting the fact that no-one has parents or children of his own choice, and tending towards the idea that I can choose whether to stay married just as I chose whom to marry and when.
This goes radically against the traditional recognition that our lives are the gift of others to us and that the family only makes sense as the cell of a larger organic community, the fulfilment of which is symbolised by the Church, or the Umma or some other eschatological figure of a unified humanity.
It is only in such a perspective that it is really meaningful to talk of the ‘common good’.
Fr Peter Serracino Inglott was talking to Miriam Vincenti.
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Joe Zammit
Nov 15th 2010, 02:22
Divorce cannot be accepted nor voted for even if it is proved that it is beneficial to the whole society. Divorce is evil, condemned by Christ.
The end never justifies the means. What God has joined together let no man put asunder. This applies even if divorce were beneficial to the whole society.
What God has joined together let no man put asunder. This must be the primary reason for refusing the legislation of divorce.
Join in the battle between God and the devil! Fight the good fight! The victory is ours, it's already guaranteed!
Sabrina Borda
Nov 2nd 2010, 16:46
I cannot believe that one can honestly vote in a referendum for the 'common good'.
This 'common good' starts off with what seems to be a false notion because there is no common base. We are poles apart in our beliefs, in our reasoning and our thinking.
Each vote will indeed be charged subjectively because this issue of divorce in Malta has become personal to each individual, by way of one who is in 'need of a divorce so votes subjectively not to remain chained. Then there are those who let the bible dictate their reason so may also vote subjectively according this dogmatic conscience to keep the others firmly chained.
We are all conditioned one way or another by our own divergence. This undermines the possibility of a 'common good' vote.
It is impossible to communicate through a referendum if it leaves others trapped by those who do not need a divorce yet act to participate against it.
The injustice of this particular referendum will undermine the value of the common good and therefore the freedom to live it.
H Galea
Oct 31st 2010, 13:40
Fr Peter, when we get married means we are sure of our choies. If we had a differant idea we would have chosen otherwise.But what alternative is every one offering as a solution for not divorse. If a couple as every one has problems, on who door are they going to knock and how often. A waiting list of three years is unbeliavable, we are not asking for anullment, all we want to blow our steam and find some comfort before our life gets uncontroled problems. Banks control our lives, we have to go on a budget, so we are unable to seak private help.
Joe Zammit
Oct 31st 2010, 11:04
Bigamy is a crime but bigamy does in no way call for divorce. If one is validly married, one is obliged before God to stick to that marriage. There is no place for bigamy. No divorce law is in accordance to God’s loving law on us.
Divorce is the dissolution of a validly contracted marriage by a human person. In every valid marriage it is God who is joining two together, so no human person has the right or the power to dissolve any valid marriage. Voting for divorce means that such a voter wants divorce when God does not want it. God never and nowhere wants divorce.
A priest who promotes divorce is not an alter Christus but an alter diabolus.
Joseh Calleja
Oct 31st 2010, 15:56
"The bishops, in their pastoral note, if I read it correctly, focused on a rather different although related question to that dealt with by us, the priestly seven." And with all due respect father. How many of the priestly seven and including the bishop are or were ever married? You know the saying, Min igarrab ikun jaf? It is very easy to tell somebody else what to do and not what to do but unless you have experienced it yourself you can never know what goes on behind closed doors. Guessing is one thing and knowing is another. Like they say, seeing is believing and even then it's questionable.
Joseh Calleja
Oct 31st 2010, 16:00
Joseph Calleja@ Joe Zammit
Divorce is:
A solution for all those who fall under domestic violence.
A solution for those who are mentally and physically abused.
A solution for those spouses who are cheated on day after day.(Adultery)
A solution for those who cannot bare to see their children physically and mentally abused by the other spouse
A solution for those who see their spouse come home drunk and reek the smell of another woman/man.
A solution for those whose marriage has already failed.
Divorce is not a disease like you would like everybody to think it is, but a cure for a failed. marriage which has no other recourse. Divorce is only there for those who need it. Divorce is a human right which should be afforded to all.
By the way Joe this cut and paste is a good idea