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An indecent attitude

The other day I witnessed a modern form of "lynching". A young foreign student was wearing a bikini in Balluta Square. At first nobody said or did anything but as she decided to leave and was walking down the few steps to the pavement, a mature woman loudly screamed and ran towards her.

This attitude sparked off a crowd of around 10 persons all howling names at the bewildered girl: "dirty", "go home", "shame", "get dressed". One even threatened to throw her in the sea! At this point the foreign girl was joined by her friends and plucked up some courage. She crossed the road and took photos of the hostile crowd. Naturally this provoked more insults.

In no way am I condoning the girl's attire but surely there are decent ways to approach situations like these!

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Claire Busuttil

Jul 31st 2010, 18:20

who said that it is ok, for men to go around with a bare tummy??

Jeremy N Grech

Jul 29th 2010, 00:29

Well we said bikini not pornographic clothes Mr Farrugia. It's summer DOH! if you are comfortable the way you dress.. let all the rest be comfortable.

Claire Busuttil

Jul 28th 2010, 18:10

@SAzzopardi-
you see you had to turn your head the other side, because the people you mentioned lacked of respect.

J. Falzon

Jul 28th 2010, 17:51

Agreed mate
I can't wait to get out of this forsaken country

We were created naked, clothes are a man-made discomfort.
And yet nakedness is "unholy"

I would like to see what the Maltese do if a nudist beach is opened here. Protest with banners and Burkas in front of it?

Jeremy N Grech

Jul 28th 2010, 11:29

Oh come on you are all talking as if there's something wrong with wearing bikini in summer... like seriously now?! aren't we a supposedly free country? everyone should be free to dress up the way they feel comfortable.

Dr Joe Brincat

Jul 28th 2010, 16:24

I am not coming on. I never said that wearing a bikini in summer is offensive. Australia and Sweden are also free countries where they have nudist camps. But I have never seen anyone walking nude in the streets, whether in Sydney or Stockholm. Bikini is proper for the seaside. I have not been to Balluta Square for quite some time, as it would be difficult to park. If there is a swimming pool in Balluta Square, then you are right. If not, then.......
Wikipedia defines Bikini as swimsuit for women, and so does the Cambridge Advanced Learners Dictionary - the prudes !!!!

Miguel Micallef

Jul 27th 2010, 20:05

"15m away it's OK, but here, NO!"

Is this a serious argument? What's the technical criteria for it to be OK? Sand under the feet? Proximity to the sea? If so, by how much? Isn't Balluta sqaure exactly near Balluta beach?

Jeremy N Grech

Jul 27th 2010, 23:45

what adapting of way of living? this is just SHAMEFUL. What's wrong in wearing bikini along the streets in summer? are we still living in the middle ages or what?

Jeremy N Grech

Jul 27th 2010, 23:47

and why is that Mr Borg?

Jeremy N Grech

Jul 28th 2010, 11:40

and maltese should be told to MIND their OWN business for god's sake. Leave them live.

Jeremy N Grech

Jul 27th 2010, 23:48

Indeed dude .. INDEED.

Joseph MELI

Aug 2nd 2010, 14:45

Dear Chris Mifsud: May I suggest that you should either go to China or Russia, where religion is performed in the hiding. Sorry NO Place for such a Government in Malta or Gozo. If you are not a believer, then let us practice our religion and what it's laws permit us to do and what it forbit us to perform.

S. Azzopardi

Jul 28th 2010, 10:24

Totally agree. What makes people think that it is not an eyesore seeing men going around with enormous bellies (full of bread and beer) and with those tiny triangle pants they wear on the beach? Would this woman do somethng please for us? Otherwise can she do something for those mobydicks roaming around beaches with indecent bikinis? We have to put up with these all the time yet we do not rage on them. Get a life.

Jeremy N Grech

Jul 27th 2010, 23:51

Lol what a job? is it illegal now to walk in bikini !? grow up you all old minded freaks. and you call malta a liberal country? and you call the maltese christians? what a shame.

Claire Busuttil

Jul 28th 2010, 18:08

@Jeremy Grech, pls pls, do not try to seem modern, and cool, by asking what`s wrong with wearing a bikini in a square?.....
If you do not know the answer, I think that you do not know the basics of living in a society and respect all. The respect is shown, also, in the way you present yourself to others.
Is it so hard to understand such a simple concept??? it seem so!

Tony Bonello

Jul 30th 2010, 09:15

Dear Ms Busuttil, you are speaking about respect , do you respect this girl as you are judging her as she's doing something immoral, also does the church from who surely you form part does respect me and others during the summer season with those hypocrite feasts with funny statues closing main roads so they can pass, also firing those nosey petards with no respect to elderlies and infants. Open your mind and your heart. Love n Light

Claire Busuttil

Jul 31st 2010, 18:06

Dear Mr.Bonello, first of all never assume, you do not know me, hence you no nothing about my beliefs!! Religion is not included in here, it is just respect I repeat.
Secondly, I never said that I do not respect this girl, as a person I respect her, It is her attitude that we are discussing here, and yes, as a woman she and any similar girl , is not respecting me, and other people around.

Jeremy N Grech

Jul 27th 2010, 23:55

Please speak for yourself not for the rest of the maltese, it's because of people with mentalities like yours that i'm ashamed to be maltese.

Manuel Mangani

Jul 26th 2010, 22:02

That would be tantamount to abusing morality for one's own nefarious ends :)

Noel Zarb

Jul 26th 2010, 12:25

Ms. Brandenburg...are you even Maltese????

We need tourists of every kind here in Malta, because Malta is a destination for all ages and if we greet tourists with your attitude of 'leave us the money and go home' then we will get none. To all foreign readers reading this, let me please assure you that Ms. Brandenburg's attitude towards tourists is not the general attitude that the Maltese people have, but then again I doubt how Maltese Ms. Brandenburg is...and by Maltese I don't mean living and being married to a Maltese man, but actually born and bred here.

Shame on you Ms Brandenburg for your attitude....you should be the one leaving.

Reuben Spiteri

Jul 26th 2010, 12:51

why do you say this? Are people who wear a bikini poor?

Raphael Vassallo

Jul 26th 2010, 14:01

probably the best comment ever posted on this site...

GVella

Jul 26th 2010, 14:07

Actually, Vasilsa, an even better idea. Just send us your money by bank transfer and save yourselves the bother and trouble of coming over!

A. Zahra

Jul 26th 2010, 16:38

these young people have families: brothers, sisters and parents. When they return home they are bound to speak about their experiences here. if these are positive, it is likely that some of their relatives and friends will come and holiday here. These young people grow up. Latvia had a president who had first come to Malta as a young student to study English. Verhogen, the EU Commissioner knew malta even before we applied to join the EU. He had holidayed here with his family in the 70s. I have had dealings with presidents on large trans-national companies who knew malta because they came here on 'cheap' holidays as students. Each time we treat these students badly we are causing long term damage our tourist industry.

Melissa Bagley

Jul 26th 2010, 20:50

No mention was made of the girl having money or not - for all I know she could be, and now has a tale or two to take back home.

Are all the Maltese that go abroad rich?

Jean Azzopardi

Jul 26th 2010, 12:25

Why should we admire the fanatic elements of Muslim society? And as for "approaching" the young lady, what difference does it do to anyone if she was wearing a bikini or not? And perhaps I have to remind you all that Christ himself defended a prostitute from a lynch mob just like this one. Why do we insist that we are a Catholic island, when we go out of our way to demonstrate that we are not Catholics at all? What this harridan did was certainly not Christian.

Robert Louis Fenech

Jul 26th 2010, 16:52

They are petrified of doing it in a Muslim country because, (this is a generalisation, I'm sure not all Muslim countries are like this) she would get arrested, beaten, killed, any number of things. If you'd like to live in a country where that happens, go ahead, a flight to an Arab country isn't so expensive. As for me, I dislike the over sexualisation of today's society, but hey, it's their right. Hell, you wanna walk around naked, go ahead.
PS. Nice one Mr. Consiglio, you hit the nail on the head.

W Spencer

Jul 26th 2010, 19:05

So no Maltese / Gozitan girls / women ever wear bikinis on the beach ????

Do beach goers in other RC Countries show the same intolerance as the irate mature woman ??

Have not witnessed any problems with girls / women wearing bikinis on Italian, Spanish, Brazilian, etc, etc, beaches. Are they not RC Countries also ???

Would suggest that many of the mature women on the beach, with FULL bathing costumes would be better off wearing the same attire as Muslim women !!

Rachel Azzopardi Carbonese

Jul 27th 2010, 11:18

Truer words were never spoken

Dan Cohen

Jul 26th 2010, 12:07

@Victor - Malta is already the laughing stock of Europe. Ask any foreign nationals what they think of the Maltese ways and how things are done in Malta and I am pretty sure you will get the same response from all of them, which would be a laugh.

D.Galea

Jul 26th 2010, 20:56

From experience I can fully agree Mr.Cohen

Miguel Micallef

Jul 27th 2010, 17:30

Unfortunately it's true. I am now living in Amsterdam and I am very ashamed to mention Malta. Whenever they ask and I have to answer, it's always lots of rolling of eyes and laughter. The worst thing about it - I have to tell them they are right, of course.

A.Attard

Jul 28th 2010, 09:48

Yes very right Miguel at Amsterdam people are way better then here.....(sarcasm ofcourse)
They have greater values then here,and I am sure you are in a possition to call us a laughing stock when people from Holland call Amsterdam a shame... Grow up Miguel before trying to discuss!

Claire Busuttil

Jul 31st 2010, 18:18

@Miguel Micallef, wow what a patriot you are!! To be ashamed of your country is really, so sick!! Stay in Holland, if you are so happy there!!...

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