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Can a Catholic politician vote for divorce?

Divorce should be permitted if it is scientifically proved that society is better off with it than without it.

On this basis, Fr Peter Serracino Inglott tells Kurt Sansone, even a Catholic politician can vote in favour.

Watch excerpts of the interview above. Read the whole interview in The Sunday Times.

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Sabrina Borda

Jul 31st 2010, 06:21

You are certainly not an authority on the Church. So please do not even attempt to belittle others.

George Bartolo Grech

Jul 13th 2010, 17:19

hi there how is the PM a puppet of the church.? The church clearly says no for divorce and always said that. whether the state allows it or not its not the problem of the church. when u got married you knew from the start of the conditions so if u aint got the stamina to make it work just dont get married and remain a puppet yourself. The PM is actually considering a referendum as he already hinted it out. If i was him i would actually say No Way Jose it's your mess you clean it up.

Matthew Attard

Jul 13th 2010, 17:40

Well Said Paul!

George Bartolo Grech

Jul 13th 2010, 17:13

On what grounds? When I was on the altar i had to make a decision either say yes and accept my wife as is and work to make the marriage to work or say no and remain single. No I will only agree with the divorce if only there is violence in it. Marriage is a thing that takes 2 people to make it work. not even if both parties are cheating do i agree. nowadays we are so used to taking back everything we do not like that if possible if some people have it there own way will change husbands/wifes after the fun is over. Anyone who is agreeing to Divorce cant admit failure to there marriage and aint got the palline to make it work. And im afraid that certain young couples are going into it without understanding the meaning of marriage, so i think that part of the blame lies with the church for inadequate preachings on divorce and secondly it is the parents fault for not explaining the 'terms and conditions' of marriage as all what they wanna do is to see one person less in the household. ciao

Timmy Farrugia

Jul 13th 2010, 14:06

well Satan does exist. he exists as in people who try to make people's lives hell, not the satan with horns and a tail

D.Galea

Jul 13th 2010, 10:35

Actually you are little bit mistaken and off the mark on one count, a Catholic politician voting for divorce would not be contradicting himself at all. It's a very spread misconception that what Jesus said on divorce is much of an categorically absolute no-no to divorce, fine. But in deeper study what Jesus was really criticising was the abusive divorce law as applied in the Mosaich law. As a catholic one can simply argue that when one is being abusive, infidel to his marriage and such reasons, news THAT is part which is dissolving the marriage, the real culprit which by action beyond any legal definition is divorcing oneself from the marriage. The following filing legal divorce is only bringing consequence to the actions taken place in the marriage which in essence is already "divorced".

As a Christian I am for divorce by based on good reasons, what I am not for is divorce of convenience.

Joseph Micallef

Jul 13th 2010, 10:51

A simple comment to your simple answer - "YOU ARE TOTALLY WRONG". IF YOUR GOD tells you that its wrong and you want to believe that - then just don't divorce even if you need to. Please be a bit Christian yourself and stop saying this "NEVER" because it will NEVER help in being taken seriously.

Chris Farrugia

Jul 13th 2010, 10:52

there's no argument with you. You are too brainwashed. People like you are happy to impose their values on others. Religion and faith are a choice but according to your reasoning they have to be imposed.
What are you so scared of? If as you say most maltese are devoted catholics, than no one will be divorcing.

S. Lungaro

Jul 13th 2010, 11:24

The question is as simple as you suggest. I do not agree with your answer however.

You are clearly referring to the catholic marriage. Where do you stand with regard to the civil marriage? I do not expect the Church to allow divorce for catholic marriages. But civil marriages are clearly not united by God. The State has the duty to provide a legal remedy in areas in which it has competence. The bill was presented to Parliament, not to the Vatican.

A.Magri

Jul 13th 2010, 11:32

Oh the horror....

mario muscat

Jul 13th 2010, 11:47

And he who have no sins can throw the first stone!!! We all live in a glass house!!!!!

You know who is in hell , all those who killed in the name of the church . And the church who took money from people on their death bed with a promise to going to haven !!

The church is made of stone run by politicians dressed as priest.

C. Hollier

Jul 13th 2010, 12:34

Apart from indoctrinations... I am no expert of neither Canon law nor the Bible. Am just curious. There are episodes in the Bible when sacraments were established such as confession, the eucharist etc. When was marriage (a civil act established prior Christ) elivated to a sacrament? As far as I know at the Cana wedding, Christ did his first miracle.

Joseph Micallef

Jul 13th 2010, 12:37

I totally agree with you. But go say that to MR. Joe Zammit!

victor pulis

Jul 12th 2010, 17:48

Would you classify the pope as poor in spirit?

dvella

Jul 13th 2010, 16:46

Matthew 5:3-12:


Blessed are the Poor in Spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of Heaven!! - 1st of beatitudes.
It's up to him to be, Victor, cause he's been given the biggest responsibility of all jobs!! But remember we have to question this to ourselves and not others!

M. Vella

Jul 12th 2010, 20:01

I agree with S. Lungaro 100%. This is my way of thinking and have always stated this. S. Lungaro couldn't have written a better comment.

Jonathan Pace

Jul 12th 2010, 20:35

While I am not catholic myself I must say that we need more catholics like you S. Lungaro, open minded and not living in in a fantasy land were everyone shares the same ideologies and can do no wrong.

Rita Smith

Jul 12th 2010, 23:02

I think everybody should leave the Pope and Bishops of Malta alone because they are doing what God has entrusted them to do, that is teach His flock. One should go and open the book most sold in the world called "The Bible". There anyone will find the answers to all their questions and doubts. But it seems most of the commentators hardly go through the Bible's pages so they are unaware what Christ has taught us and is still teaching us through the Pope and the Bishops
Lest anyone forgot the Protestant marriage rites also say the words "for better or for worse until death do us part". It seems that man is making his own bible to accommodate himself. Our point of reference should be God in our difficulties and we should invoke the Holy Ghost to inspire us. Everyone knows the good from the bad but then it's up to us and after this short passage on earth we will come face to face with God, our Creator and we will be judged accordingly

Jesmond Mifsud

Jul 12th 2010, 16:47

@J. Galea Axiak
Sorry to burst your bubble, but the world is not as simple as black and white. Your opinion just proves that catholic indoctrination prepares people, like you, to life in Disney World rather than to real life. Either that or you just don't care about the hardships some people face in a failing marriage.

victor pulis

Jul 12th 2010, 17:51

Well said...Worthy of an ayatollah!

Joseph Micallef

Jul 12th 2010, 18:30

Many maltese are not practicing catholics (even though they go to church) so would what you are saying actually make any sense? The church's rules count only for those who believe in it and its teachings. The rest don't need to be bothered to abide by them.

Jesmond Mifsud

Jul 12th 2010, 11:42

You may be right, but what you just said does not apply to non-catholics; and since not all Maltese citizens are catholic, your ramblings are automatically rendered obsolete.

B. Cachia

Jul 12th 2010, 13:35

In practice, all European Catholic countries except Malta have divorce and Catholic politicians there do not spend a minute of their time trying to repeal it for the simple reason that they have some common sense and are now capable of distinguishing between Catholic marriage and civil marriage. Likewise they no longer try to ban homosexuality, contraception, cohabitation and all sorts of activities that are forbidden by Catholic teaching, because they know that the Christian way of life is something you choose freely and not something that you can impose by law on others.

It would in fact be an absurdity for a Catholic politician, supposedly motivated by Christian love, to use the sheer weight of Catholic numbers, where these are available, in order to force non-Catholics to outwardly follow Catholic teachings, just as it would be an absurdity to force people to be baptised, something that was in fact done in the distant past.

Karl Farrugia

Jul 12th 2010, 13:45

Paul Galea, remove your blinkers and look today's society in the eyes. Its time to grab the bull by the horns. Not legalising divorce is not a solution. People are still doing what they want to do wiht or without divorce. They seperate and life goes on. At least divorce will give a second chance to genuine cases which have not worked out. The initial huge amount of cases will be all those people who have been desperately been trying to annul or separate over the past few years. Past the first year or two, i belive numbers will drop drastically.

We better focus on those people getting married, rather than those trying to get un-married! People need to be sure BEFORE they get married, not take it lightly and solve it later.

P. Borg

Jul 12th 2010, 12:20

I would challenge anyone to live in a situation where blood is coming out of you all day, where you have to hear someone constantly attacking you, where you can't say a word otherwise get beaten. Catholicism professes love and sorry love has nothing to do with any of the above. I am catholic but I refuse to stay with someone who does not love me or harms me for the sake of "until death do us apart". Whenever I fall I get back on my feet and that's what divorce means - I can love again with my religion's blessing. WHY NOT? I know someone who stayed 20 years with a man, beaten everyday because she couldn't leave due to her believing. She got only injuries, sure nothing from our church professing no to divorce. Go on Government do a referendum on divorce. Many will say YES finally Malta will grow up from old brain washing.

Jesmond Mifsud

Jul 12th 2010, 15:56

@P.Borg.

I agree with you.

P. Borg

Jul 12th 2010, 12:27

This is not about catholics or not. There are many catholics in Malta wanting divorce. I must say that those who are saying that divorce should not be introduced because of catholicism it is just because they have never experienced real bad relationships otherwise they would just reconsider their opinion.

Catholicism in Malta has remained into many years ago attitude and doesn't want to understand that a couple today faces far more hard difficulties than the past ones who had their only objective in life to have a family and that's it.

God bless good relationships and marriages but for god's sake let me love again and get a better life if I want to. Separation in Malta offers just years of hell in court.

James Formosa

Jul 12th 2010, 10:28

There are 2 sides to this coin. Civil and Religion. If you are talking from a Civil perspective then the answer should simply be: YES. Why should we drag religion into it? If Jesus said that what has been bound by God cannot be dissolved by man then so be it!! If you marry in the Church then you should know what you're in for. However from the civil side it's not the case, as what is bound by man can be dissolved by man. Obviously if there where a vote for or against divorce the politicans and the church will do their utmost to confuse ppl in this regard. So don't be fooled. You can be a Catholic and vote for civil divorce.

victor pulis

Jul 12th 2010, 09:09

The church gives you these options; Keep on living in hell on Earth beaten black and blue every day and hoping that when you die you'll go to heaven to recieve your reward, File for separation and when you get it spend the rest of your life alone denied the right to fall in love again because if you do you'll go and burn in hell for eternity. Now that's fair isn't it?

Sabrina Borda

Jul 12th 2010, 08:03

Sir,
I assure you that God has never spoken to the Pope in his Providence or not.

If you still maintain thay he did therfore you can also expect that God Himself gives those who seek divorce all the wisdom to do so too.

victor pulis

Jul 12th 2010, 09:18

We are still quoting Augustine and Thomas Aquinas in this day and age! come on, the world has changed somewhat since these two gentlemen were living. Values change and so do morals. it's not a question of for better or worse they just change to accomodate the age and it is an inevitable natural process no matter what. Jesus himself changed the laws that were written supposedly by God in the old testament where adulterers were to be stoned, witches were to be burnt, where a woman was to be cast out during her menstrual cycle because she was considered unclean as were lepers. Where pork was considered unclean food and not 'kosher'

Keith Azzopardi

Jul 12th 2010, 21:09

We still quote Plato and other Greek thinkers; why not Augustine and Aquinas in religious matter? Besides, the clause above allows for the introduction of divorce...so I doubt whether you have read it or not before commenting.

Emma Xerri

Jul 13th 2010, 06:01

So after all this hullaballoo against Divorce, you are saying that the Catholic Church is not only in favour of divorce but also secretly claim that they have exclusive rights to dispense it?

This point was mentioned in Peter de Rosa’s book, “The Vicars of Christ” where the Pope is the sole arbiter and judge for all marriages, even of non-Christians. A far cry indeed from the usual anti-divorce rhetoric that we are spoon-fed on a daily basis. And to top it all off, they claim this right is given by God and Christ himself. So apparently, Divorce is only bad when it is given by a Civil Court.

What a load of hogwash.

Joseph Micallef

Jul 11th 2010, 20:16

But is that reason enough not to make divorce available to who opts for it? That is the question. Fr.Peter Serracino Inglott's pontification on divorce has nothing to do with it actually. According to me he just aired his opinion anyway. What's a fact is that catholic faith - or any other faith after all - should not be the guide. This is a civil right. Nobody is telling practicing catholics to divorce. Neither is Fr. Inglott. With the same arguments many are bringing here, then contraceptives should be banned from pharmacies as the church does not agree with them! They are not though because it is a civil right to use them should one want to. On the other hand nobody is forcing anyone to use contraceptives. Many in fact use them and still practice catholic religion as if nothing. Think!

B. Cachia

Jul 11th 2010, 19:28

Yes, he can, because his faith does not require him to impose his way of life on others (whether they are Catholics or not) through laws, it requires him only to personally follow Christ's teachings and to evangelise through word and example so that others may do so too.

martin saliba

Jul 11th 2010, 20:12

Can a catholic politician vote for divorce? Yes. i agree
Can a catholic politician vote for abortion? Yes. I dont agree
Can a catholic politician vote for euthanasia? Yes. I agree
Can a catholic politician vote for the liberalisation of drugs and pornography? Noone can.
Can a catholic politician vote for homosexual legal marriages? Yes, I agree
Can a catholic politician vote in favour of laws that go against God's commandments, ethical values and against the common good and THEN FACE HIS GOD? Yes. Especially if yours and his god are not the samo one. Then he will answer to his god and not you and your god.
One last thing , our polititians represent the people and not your church or god.

C Galea

Jul 12th 2010, 03:23

Glad to see that you are not my neighbour and I pity those living next to you. WHY? Do you believe in simple freedom of choicve and expression, let alone anything else? Malta must get on with modernising its sad old fashioned and unworkable mental stagnation.

Ramon Casha

Jul 12th 2010, 05:55

Can a Catholic politician vote to allow non-Catholics not to be bound by Catholic dogma? YES.

Can a Catholic politician vote to allow Catholics to act by their own conscience in personal matters rather than impose his own? YES.

If that were not the case, you wouldn't be able to buy condoms in your local pharmacy.

Joseph A Borg

Jul 12th 2010, 11:23

what are you talking about? Portugal is catholic and they have introduced divorce and have decriminalised personal drug use to a very positive outcome.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Drug_liberalization#Portugal

I see you're still in the doom and gloom times perpetrated by the church till before VCII… are you still flagellating yourself for the sins of the flesh like Pope JPII did?

Joseph Micallef

Jul 11th 2010, 17:53

That proves nothing actually! What's your point? That if divorce is introduced then people will start separating more? Does it mean that all it takes for real practicing catholics is for a law to be passed - and they throw their belief out of the window?! Who says that without divorce there will not be more separations in coming years?!

Joseph Micallef

Jul 11th 2010, 17:35

Do you really believe that by introducing divorce legislation the government would be interfering with those marrying through the catholic church?!! Don't you realise that those who are try catholics and really believe in the church, then these will never divorce? - at least if not then throwing their believe out of the window to do so?!! So why all this fuss. Those who are staunch believers will stay married even if they are living in hell - others who don't really believe in the church (even if married through it) will have an option to divorce! So may I ask what the problem is? Divorce does not mean that anybody who is married will be come automatically divorced or that marriages will start breaking up. Marriages are already breaking up - it is not the fault of divorce isn't it?!! It is a choice as you say - either stay married - and nobody would get a divorce for nothing believe me - or divorce (obviously only if your marriage has broken down and) should you want to re-marry! Remember - People are already separating and co-habiting.

D. A . Agius

Jul 11th 2010, 17:46

WAKE UUUUUPPPPPPPPPPPPP!!!!!!!
***NOT ALL MALTESE ARE CHRISTIANS***

The issues with Catholics and Divorce is simple. If you do believe in your religion, don't go for it.

The discussion at this point should be in the details, not in the concept.

Details are needed to prevent abuse and greedy law practice while protecting those who cannot protect themselves (children, less able partners in the unity).

As a christian you should be proposing ideas and participating the details of divorce, even if you're not intending to use it due to your beliefs.

As a christian you should tolerate non believers and in the same way we should not try to meddle with what happens in your religion or style of life, don't meddle in other's with the excuse of your religion.

That's why a referendum is a wrong choice for the country, because we still many Christians cannot understand the division between the state and the religion, and thus, in my books, they classify as still living in the dark ages when religious crusades were an excuse for personal gain and glory by Popes and Kings whose religious beliefs were the last thing on their mind!

Ramon Casha

Jul 12th 2010, 05:56

"Christ made it all clear"

Really? Tell that to all the Christian denominations who accept divorce because Jesus allowed it in the gospel of Matthew.

J Farrugia

Jul 12th 2010, 08:17

D A Agius WAKE UP. Even if not all of Malta is christian or catholic, it doesn't mean that the minority will dictate its egosims to the majority. Wake up to reality. We dont want broken families. We want strong families. Divorce will destroy our moral fibre and our society like it did in all countries around the world.

R. Brincat

Jul 13th 2010, 14:22

Ma nafx ghalfejn il knisja ghanda tindahal fl affarijiet tal istat. Jiena ilni mizzewga ghal 27 sena u jithol u ma jidholx idivorzju ghalija mhux se jamel differenza ghax kuntenta ma zewgi u meta jkollna xi problema nipruvaw insolvuha pero jiena naqbel li jithol xorta d divorzju f Malta ghal dawk il kopji li m hemmx tama li z zwieg tahhom jista qatt jirranga. Jekk ahna kuntenti fiz zwieg ma jfissirx li ghanna nimponu fuq haddiehor. Jekk issir referendum id divorzju jaddi zgur u ghalhekk ma nahsibx li dan il gvern qatt jasal biex jamlu ghax jibza li jitlef il voti tal qassisin, sorijiet etc, etc

C Galea

Jul 11th 2010, 14:51

re- E. Azzopardi comment:
Oh Please Please do wake up,whoever you are!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Fabian Borg

Jul 11th 2010, 19:18

A Catholic should observe all commandments.
One of which is to say the truth i.e. NOT LIE.
Just look at what happened to all the promises we had after joining the EU and this will make you realise that there are no Catholic Politicians.

Ramon Casha

Jul 12th 2010, 05:58

Not only that, but reaching an amicable settlement is psychologically better for the parties involved. If there are children involved it's better for them to see their parents shake hands on it and part on a positive note than for years of legal battles and verbal vitriol.

Joseph Micallef

Jul 11th 2010, 14:43

You say "no human being" - now just clear this to me - who made you such an authority as to decide what any other human being should believe or do?!! Do you realise that you are putting yourself even above the God you believe in! Its actually so simple - if you don't want to devorce then don't devorce. If others want to - let them have it. Can it be easier than that?

victor pulis

Jul 11th 2010, 17:19

J Farrugia you can come down from the pulpit now and enter the real world where not everyone is Catholic or Christian.

joe gatt

Jul 12th 2010, 10:10

When divorce gets introduced in Malta, you still have the option (hopefully) of going to the Phillipines, so that you may not, (God forbid), be forced to divorce, or worse still, become a martyr.

Joseph Micallef

Jul 11th 2010, 15:01

J Debono - the great difference is that here nobody is forcing anybody to divorce or not. The question is if we should live and let live ie. let anyone who is a non-believer to divorce should he/she wish to. John the Baptist was not representing the civil side of his country - he was preaching the moral/religious teachings of what he believed in. He had no authority to stop what herod was doing...and in fact he did not stop him! So your comparison is truely a faulty one.

C Gatt

Jul 11th 2010, 15:15

So pray tell us, Mr Debono what is the 'truth? And please don't quote the bible.

Keith Azzopardi

Jul 11th 2010, 13:45

il-provi mill-qasam tal-antropoloġija u s-soċjoloġija għandhom jiġu; il-filosofija tipprovdi t-teorija għall-istudji antropoloġiċi u soċjoloġiċi, u mhux il-provi sie'eb

Frans Attard

Jul 11th 2010, 14:13

Grazzi Sur Azzopardi ta' l-informazzjoni, ghallimtni xi haga ohra llum, izda xorta kont nistenna minghand Profs.Serracino Inglott spjegazzjoni ta' x'inhu l'ahjar ghas-socjeta. Dak zgur li m'huwiex injorant bhali.

J.Debono

Jul 11th 2010, 15:27

Minn meta sirna ghandna bzonn il-provi xjentifici?! Ghall-min jemmen il-Kelma t'Alla hi bizzejjed. Cara daqs il-kristall - LE ghad-divorzju u LE ghall-adulterju! Hija prova bizzejjed li dawn it-tnejn jaghmlu hsara lil-individwu u lis-socjeta ghax il-Mulej ma jridhomx! U jekk tridu thennu ghall-haddiehor ifthulhom ghajnejhom u uruhom li qeghdin jizbaljaw - minn ihobb ta'vera lill-ghiru jixtieqlu l-Genna u mhux jghidlu prosit ta, ghandek dritt taghmel li qed taghmel u kompli miexi fit-triq tan-nizla siehbi!

Keith Azzopardi

Jul 11th 2010, 17:54

Ta' xejn Sur Attard

Lis-Sur Debono: qed tinsa żewġ affarijiet importanti ħafna: 1) ir-reliġjon u x-xjenza jikkumplimentaw lil xulxin; ir-reliġjon tfiehem dak li x-xjenza ma tkoprix, filwaqt li x-xjenza tikkonferma ħafna mit-tagħlim Nisrani, tant li qabel ma l-Knisja toħroġ dokument uffiċjali, is-suġġett ikun riċerkat sew. U 2) mhux kulħadd hu Nisrani. Jekk il-punt tat-tluq tagħna sew jkun li "aħna sew u huma le", mela aktar hemm ċans li ssir ħsara. Qabelxejn irridu niftħu djalogu bejn iż-żewġ naħiet (favur u kontra), b'konvinzjoni fi kliem Kristu iżda bi spazju għal fehmiet oħra. Ma mmorrux 'il bogħod: biżżejjed inħarsu lejn l-istorja kolonjali biex nagħrfu dan...

Rari bidla li saret f'daqqa għamlet wisq ġid. Lanqas tagħlim impost. Ġesu' stess impona l-aktar fuq min suppost kien jemmen, filwaqt li għader lil ħaddieħor. Għalhekk: tasal int li tikkundanna?

Charles Sammut

Jul 11th 2010, 12:42

The word "scientifically" here refers to social science which is not strictly speaking a science at all. You cannot scientifically prove whether society is better off or worse off because the parameters are subjective not objective. What is better for some might be worse for others.

One could use statistics, but then again, what statistics?

Science per se cannot be proven wrong because it is based on hard facts and definite proof. In fact it is science that keeps proving religion wrong.

Joseph Micallef

Jul 11th 2010, 13:44

One has to keep in mind that Divorce is not another word for "remarry" and that one can be divorced and remain single - as much as one can seperate and remain single or co-habitate! People here keep equating divorce with marriage break-ups - when in fact marriage break-ups are still happening, divorce or not!

Edric Micallef Figallo

Jul 11th 2010, 12:03

This man is not "perseguitated" (that should be persecuted).

Saints who were persecuted were often persecuted when they followed their Christian Faith according and/or not contrary to Catholic Tradition, not when they worked directly against it. They were persecuted by other Church members who based their persecution on other agendas, not the defence of Christian Doctrine and Catholic Tradition. Rest assured, prof. Serracino Inglott is not Saint Joan of Arc or Saint Athanasius of Alexandria.

Speaking of persecution from the Church, there could be other Catholic priests and laity having divergent views to those of prof. Serracino Inglott and the established hierarchy that are truly persecuted. They just don't happen to adopt this left-leaning, liberal and modernist perspective. Obviously, they have no liberal media to promote them.

victor rodenas

Jul 11th 2010, 12:54

My mistake,`persecuted`.was misspelt and I repeated the mistake over again.To err is human after all...How do you know that Fr.P. S .Inglott is not a saint.......God makes Saints ,not people.........if you lived in Dun Gorg Preca time perhaps you would have said that he is not a Saint too. One does not have to die to be a Saint..........Madre Theresa of Culcutta was a living Saint.

Joseph Micallef

Jul 11th 2010, 13:49

Sorry to correct you again Victor. NO God does not make saints. Sainthood is just a confirmation that the person had lived a saintly life. Anyone who lives a saintly life is a saint! It is not a title we or God gives.

Sabrina Borda

Jul 12th 2010, 07:51

Mr Rodenas, you made another mistake, even worse than your previous one.
You said; " only God makes saints". Huge mistake there.

victor rodenas

Jul 12th 2010, 11:49

Everybody who is in heaven is a saint.

Sabrina Borda

Jul 11th 2010, 12:53

You can quote till your last breath and still it will be senseless in the case of divorce in today's world...more than two thousand years on . For people with this kind of thinking if only God would send another son or daughter to bring you up to date with the evolution of rational thinking....only then you may again start to follow if indeed follow is what you must do to feel virtuous because you may never move on with openess, kindness and fairness as Jesus really taught for his time..... Oh but wait !! I'm sure he or she would be crucified again by thinkers such as yourself and you may be only too happy to leave us all in the harsh, cold dark because you really believe you know what is best for people who beseech for the dignity of divorce for themselves and their much loved children. Sir, do be happy in your own space and guard your scriptures but please do not interfere where you are not concerned because you do so much more harm than any good at all, you cannot even start to imagine.

Joseph Micallef

Jul 12th 2010, 09:35

Sabrina I think you are confusing Joe Zammit with Joseph Zammit - they are two different persons who seem to have very opposing opinions in fact!

C. Hollier

Jul 13th 2010, 12:44

Agreed. Moreover, if Parliament is to discuss divorce, it is not whether it should be 'introduced' in Malta, but whether it should be 'available from' Malta. 2 Maltese citizens, married in Malta, ever since becoming EU citizens may file for divorce at another EU member state if they are 'domicide' abroad. Eg. If 2 Maltese citizens married in Malta and are working in Brussels, after some time, they can file for a divorce there, obtain it and come back as 2 different parties.

victor pulis

Jul 11th 2010, 17:28

Yes sure so let's get rid of all our airplanes because if God had meant for us to fly he would have given us wings!!

Ramon Casha

Jul 12th 2010, 06:01

According to your Bible, he did - and so did Jesus in the gospel of Matthew. Why do you think that Protestants and other Christian denominations accept divorce?

David Farrugia

Jul 11th 2010, 11:34

You just close your eyes to reality and just follow the church teachings (or what they choose to tell you). Probably you're the kind of person who feels like committing a mortal sin if you don't fast during Lent or Good Friday.
Join Mr. Zammit for the Philippines, Mr. Critien.

Christian Sciberras

Jul 11th 2010, 11:39

No, it just seems he's more open-minded than you are...

Josef Laspina

Jul 11th 2010, 11:45

Fr Peter seems to have just lost his 'Socrates' seat status.

Josef Laspina

Jul 11th 2010, 12:14

Fr Peter seems to have just lost his 'Socrates' seat status. Actually, Fr Peter is plaing a condition ' if a scientific basis is found ' - why ? because he knows that their is no scientific study which proves that divorce can help society - PN is now about to cross the border into moral incognito - to see...

Christian Sciberras

Jul 13th 2010, 21:26

"....is no scientific study..."

Says who? You?

Michael Attard

Jul 11th 2010, 10:42

Sure, however state marriage is a union from the state. What the state unties, the state can break.

Cedric Mamo

Jul 11th 2010, 11:38

what do drugs have to do with this? (and if you check statistics... in places where certain things are legal, tolerated or even just decriminalized, they are actually used less)

victor pulis

Jul 11th 2010, 17:34

U min ipoggi idejh fuq il mohriet ma jistax ihares lura. Din Gesu qalha ghal dawk li jaghzlu li jsiru qassisin Il vokazzjoni tigi min Alla nnifsu jghidu (?) mela ghala qassis jista jitlaq l-ordni sagri u jizzewweg? ghala ghallinqas ma jitlaqx biss u ma jizzewwigx bhal ma qal Gesu?

nicholas coppini

Jul 11th 2010, 11:01

Mr Zammit; every night before you sleep always say an EXTRA 3 Ave Marias and pray to your god that you or your kids or your grand children will never ever live in a situation where they will be deprived of having a second chance to lead a life close to God. God is merciful and only God will judge each and every one of us based on our good and bad actions. Father Peter is not going away from the teachings of God. He is only a tiny bit wiser then you are and can see a little bit further then you. Never mind; people like you intend well I am sure.

Christian Sciberras

Jul 11th 2010, 11:40

And....you still believe that the sun is the center of the universe...right?

Joseph Micallef

Jul 12th 2010, 09:40

YOU SAID IT - you said "CATHOLICS" - and I agree, practicing CATHOLICS should not resort to divorce if they are really practicing, devout catholics who would suffer an unhappy marriage even if it's hell on earth. What about the rest of us?

Christian Sciberras

Jul 13th 2010, 21:27

Micallef's point is something I honestly didn't consider, since I see divorce as a moral issue more than a catholic one (compare with abortion).
Either case, even more to prove that divorce should stay, within correct regulations.

S. Vella

Jul 11th 2010, 10:28

I don't know what god told you but I can assure you, he never spoke to me about divorce.

Joseph Vassallo

Jul 11th 2010, 10:32

Mr Zammit, the problem with your argument is that the decision to unite in wedlock was not imposed by God. The fallible couple themselves decided, supposedly intelligently, to get married and it was their decision that put the marriage together. God only blessed their decision. From this point of view, divorce does not take asunder God's work.

My own opinion is that the survival of a relationship should be the first objective in all cases. But although I am, in principle, in favour of perseverance in matters of conciliation for the survival of a marriage, I don't feel competent to decide for others on such a serious matter as the viability of a couple's happiness if they remain together.

Christian Sciberras

Jul 11th 2010, 11:49

Joe, I'll see to your argument with a philosophical one. Why does God allow a mad man to commit a mass genocide, killing innocent people? God is above everyone and everything, so it must be His doing, no?

Before calling me "heretic" or "blasphemous" I wan to remind you I'm not accusing God, at all.
I'm simply stating that you see God from the wrong point of view. A very absolute one, in fact.
Truth be told, not all marriages end well. *Many* diverge to the wrong side, and they simply need some help getting back on track. Then there are those little few which never even started right. And if certain conditions are true, I firmly believe divorce should be allowed.

Don't forget, divorce is not a commodity (as our TV stars seem to relate), it is an option, the very last one.

The Church should severely discourage divorce, providing the (existing and excellent) options of helping those on the brink to get a better life.

victor pulis

Jul 11th 2010, 18:27

This also applies to holy orders. We are told that God himself chooses his priests (remember vocations?) so why is a priest allowed to leave the priesthood and marry?
Don't give me the old cliche once a priest always a priest since a defrocked priest can't hear confession, can't consegrate the host and can't say mass. A sort of part time priest?! The church has created a loophole so that priests can have the cake and eat it too but for couples who are going through hell there is no remedy.

Christian Sciberras

Jul 13th 2010, 21:29

victor pulis - You just threw lemon on an open wound.
What you're talking about is what I'd like to see in divorce; a well regulated option.

Christian Sciberras

Jul 13th 2010, 21:32

Alison Bezzina - Perhaps you just can't admit that not all men are alike?
As I always say, one doesn't need to have cancer to know [all] about it.

v mercieca

Jul 11th 2010, 10:45

Your bases of argument are wrong.
We go to the church on marriage and divorce because the church is competent on such teachings.
Please do not bring the argument that because priests and nuns are not married they cannot advise on marriage, as I would say that you should not go to a gynaecologist because be never bore children.

Frederick Attard

Jul 11th 2010, 10:52

I am 100% in full agreement with you. If only more people start reasoning with this mentality, Malta will definitely be a better place to live in, yet sadly, most have their heads buried in sand.

Alison Bezzina

Jul 11th 2010, 11:04

@Vmercieca
I didn't say that they cannot have an opinion or advise...hell I can advise on space exploration, but I think you'd prefer it coming from an experienced astrounaut. If we prefer to go to people with experience in other matters, then lets go to people with experience for this one as well.... and as for your gynae argument.... I AM of that opinion.... going to a male gynae is like going to a mechanic who never drove a car!!! http://www.alisonbezzina.com/dr-jones-at-your-cervix/

Raymond Bezzina

Jul 11th 2010, 11:07

@ Alison Bezzina

Please permit me to ask you a simple question:

Where do you go to find the whole truth ?

M Vella

Jul 11th 2010, 11:21

@ v mercieca - umm.... there are lady Gynaecologists and lady Midwives too you know... so you have a choice.. I beg to differ... YOUR argument is flawed - have a nice day....

john borg

Jul 11th 2010, 11:39

so if i have a severe headache, i have to find a doctor with a severe headache, he will sure understand me but he might not be available....
we go to church because we are catholics, and chose a catholic marriage, all the rest can do what they like , but we all cannot be imposed divorce because of few that have problems. moreover when these few are acting like they were not catholics any longer. i dont mean that i am not sorrowed with their problems....but the"simple" divorce button is a big danger to our society.

Kevin Cassar

Jul 11th 2010, 12:02

@ V Mercieca & M Vella

Actually it is your understanding of Ms Bezzina's argument that is flawed.

First of all marriage is an abstract thing while gynaecology deals with physical matter. Still a gynaecologist has to look at the individual and does not guess what is wrong based on his/her knowledge on the subject. NOBODY can have a look at the mind of the individuals joined in marriage so ANY judgement or advice on the matter is PURE SPECULATION. This is true even when it comes from a person married for 50 years, let alone someone who has never experienced living in a union with another individual.

David Farrugia

Jul 11th 2010, 18:01

Alison, your Gynae argument is flawed BIG TIME. But then again, its your choice.

Charles Grixti

Jul 13th 2010, 06:50

@V. Mercieca

"We go to the church on marriage and divorce because the church is competent on such teachings" - this belief is held only in Malta and nowhere else.

For an organization with a wholly cellibate male hierarchy, it is streching it to the limit to state that they Church are experts in marriage.

Please understand one thing. Marriage is first a Civil Contract. Proof of this is the fact that a Judge can award and enforce a maintenance order for a spouse and children, whereas the Church has no power to enforce such decrees. Many Catholic couples have opted for a Divorce and not a Church annulment, becaue a Catholic Marriage is also a Civil Marriage on which the State has jurisdiction.

Marriages celebrated in the Catholic rite (as well as the Hindu, Buddist, Protestant etc. rites are likewise Civil Marriages whether you are aware of this or not). The reason is simple. Imagine the confusion in a country with many different religions and sects, each deciding to pursue their own laws. The Civil authorities therefore recognise ony Civil Law and this same law regulates all marriages and divorces, whether celebrated in a religous rite or not.

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