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Eucharist is being abused - Gozo Bishop

Catholics living in mortal sin through an extramarital relationship cannot receive Holy Communion, even though there may be special circumstances excusing them, Gozo Bishop Mario Grech has insisted.

"If one is behaving in a way which in itself is a form of moral disorder, even if the person in question, subjectively, has reasons that excuse him or her or reduce guilt, this person still cannot receive Holy Communion because this would create scandal for others," he said.

Mgr Grech's words, in a homily he gave on Sunday, are the latest statement on a controversy that erupted after Fr George Dalli last month said he would administer Holy Communion to a woman whom he knew was involved in an extramarital relationship.

In his homily, Mgr Grech did not make specific references but said: "Lately, there are teachings being spread in our midst which go against the Catholic Church's doctrine about the Eucharist. We are living in times where, though we appear to be religious, we're losing the sacred sense of things and in this way we end up abusing of the Eucharist."

He said the Church had consistently taught that whoever committed mortal sin, which also encompassed cohabiting, had to confess before receiving the Eucharist. "Because to receive communion we have to be in God's grace and mortal sin denies us this state of grace."

The bishops had already issued an official statement in the wake of Fr Dalli's comments, highlighting that couples who live together without being married "should not present themselves" for the Eucharist.

Fr Dalli did not actually encourage such couples to present themselves for communion but said: "I would be abusing my power were I not to administer Holy Communion." In fact, canon lawyer Fr Brendan Gatt told The Sunday Times that priests could only refuse to administer Holy Communion in "extreme" circumstances, which did not include cases involving cohabiting couples or divorcees.

Mgr Grech's homily follows on this principle of placing the onus on the individual, citing the warning that St Paul gave in his letter to the Corinthians, that people should examine themselves well before presenting themselves to "eat the bread..."

However, the Gozo bishop also raised a question mark over a grey area that some priests have been highlighting in the debate.

During the weekly TV programme Xarabank in which he made his comments, Fr Dalli made another point which prompted debate, when he distinguished between the different reasons leading people to cohabit. He insisted he could not condemn a married woman who had been abandoned with three children and who had found meaning and love in a new relationship.

Other priests supported this differentiation publicly, arguing that often such matters were best addressed by believers and their spiritual directors or confessors since all cases were unique.

Fr Gatt even pointed out that there was a 1981 synod document, Familiaris Consortium, which dealt with these scenarios. The document speaks of divorcees but the situation is analogous to the ones typically seen in Malta: where a separated person has started a new family founded on genuine love.

It contemplates the possibility of couples in this situation receiving Holy Communion with the blessing of the Church. But the situations contemplated are very particular. One of the conditions, for instance, is that the couple in question restrains its relationship to a platonic one as far as possible. It also asks that the couple receive Holy Communion in a place where the congregation is not aware of their situation, so as not to create "scandal".

Mgr Grech dwelled on this point in his homily and asked whether the teachings on the Eucharist had been degraded over time.

"We also have to reflect on whether we have lost the sense of sin, because if for us anything goes, then it would explain certain abuses on the Eucharist."

According to theologian Fr Paul Galea, the bishops were prompted to make the statement to uphold the Church's moral teaching and eliminate scandal and the possibility of people starting to think that the Church was condoning cohabitation.

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Dr Francis Saliba

Jun 10th 2010, 16:30

"No wonder that Christ came on earth to abolish religions, so as to be the only High Priest, for all time. This so that the priest would not perverse what God intended for us all, and to preserve all the goodness that God has given us in the Bible." (abstracted from Christopher Grech's manifesto "People wake up!)

"Do not hink that I have come to destroy the Law or the Prophets. I have come not to destroy but to fulfill" (Christ according to Matt 5:17)

"Go therefore and make disciples of all nations baptizing them in the name of the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you and lo I am with you always to the close of the age" (Christ according to Matthew Ch 28)

Take your pick whom to believe.

Dr Francis Saliba

Jun 10th 2010, 16:46

@StevePace.

Any conscientious and intelligent person who reads your abstract from my comment in the context in which I wrote it would appreciate the fact that my criticism was NOT levelled at genuine Catholics struggling to find a compromise solution between their predicament and the teaching of the Church. It is directed at people (whom I will not name out of charity) with no pretence of any respect for the Church who promptly grasp every opportunity, no matter what, to denigrate the Church.

Steve Pace

Jun 12th 2010, 09:20

Saliba , "my criticism was NOT levelled at genuine Catholics struggling to find a compromise solution between their predicament and the teaching of the Church."

Which ecclesiastical authority do you excersise to decide who is a genuine catholic or not ?

Dr Francis Saliba

Jun 12th 2010, 19:08

@StevePace
I do not have, and I have never claimed that I have any ecclesiastical authority at all. I only express my own personal opinion but I do stop and think before hitting the keyboard. I do not decide who is a genuine Catholic or who is not but many commentators do not leave much doubt where they stand. Many of them brashly boast about their status.

Dr Francis Saliba

Jun 10th 2010, 08:53

@GFalzon

Changing your beliefs and values is not the solution to the genuine distress of many innocent people suffering from your cruel predicament. It is much more constructive to pray that the Holy Spirit guide the Church how to exercise its Christ given power to bind and unbind. I have learnt that it is presumptious and useless to expect that God should adopt my proposal in preference to his own. That is what the Christian means when he prays that His will be done.

Joseph Calleja

Jun 8th 2010, 18:44

Mr Zammit please don't refer your comments as to we. Kindly do not speak for me. The way you feel is purely your business but nobody made you the peoples's rep. Speaking for yourself is your business but let me speak for myself. Mgr Mario Grech is preaching what he believes in but at least he is not condemning anybody like you seem to be doing.

William P Flynn

Jun 8th 2010, 23:24

Joe Zammit if you say 15% of Maltese who go to church constitutes a "great majority", something's wrong with your math.

Joe Zammit

Jun 10th 2010, 11:44


96% of children made their First Holy Communion on Trinity Sunday. They were prepared by their parents, among others. 96%!

72% go to Mass on a regular basis. Some just don't go every week, but 52% go every week and some of them also every day.

95% of Maltese are Catholic: they are baptized in the Catholic Church and in their whole lives they appear in our churches for many occasions. They receive Catholic priests in their homes as well.

S. Calleja

Jun 10th 2010, 19:11

Don't get too excited Joe.

"96% of children made their First Holy Communion"
As if they had a choice.

"72% go to Mass on a regular basis."
And 50% of them are half asleep.

"95% of Maltese are Catholic:"
Most of them through baptism which they didn't even have a say, not to mention that they have abandoned Catholic practices altogether. Nghidulhom ahna, tal-isem.

Joe Zammit

Jun 8th 2010, 17:41


You don't care and have referred to our dear Mgr Mario Grech! You care indeed!

Michael Vella

Jun 8th 2010, 19:30

I can't understand your comment - it makes no sense to me at all. Who else should I refer to if not ''YOUR dear Mgr Mario Grech'' seeing that this is a report of his homily???
As for caring - trust me indeed that I have certainly not cared for a long time now.

Dr Francis Saliba

Jun 10th 2010, 09:11

Rest assured that there are many, many people who care what our bishops say. That is what irritates you so much. They include those people who ask me why do I bother to reply to comments that they compare to the braying of asses that would never reach heaven!

Neil Sant

Jun 10th 2010, 10:21

Dude that's really gross!!

Joe Zammit

Jun 8th 2010, 16:53


The Catholic Church tells you what to do. Lead a life according to God's Ten (not fewer) Commandments. If you fail, there is the Sacrament of Confession. But to love God all of us must deny ourselves CONTINUOUSLY. We must pray, deny ourselves do God's will on us. Only if we are in the state of grace can we receive the Body and Blood of Jesus. it is possible to live in grace.

Dr Francis Saliba

Jun 9th 2010, 07:08

One answer to your one question. A priest would give you an absolution "sub conditionem" and leave it in the hands of God to forgive you if you are truly repentant and if you merit God's forgiveness.

Joseph Calleja

Jun 8th 2010, 16:22

There, its completely personal, "me and him" !! No Jesmond it's not as easy as that, even though it should be. There are those who think they know more than you and insist that you follow their input otherwise you are not a good catholic or a good person. Holier than thou people that want to tell you how to live your life or else, even though they don't even know you. A direct line to God is your best communication.

Jesmond Micallef

Jun 8th 2010, 17:29

Joseph, it is very personal indeed as I decide whether I should go to a priest for redemption of my sins or not, a priest does not tell me to do so. !! I am no saintly figure, mind you, but its my own conscience.

Joe Zammit

Jun 8th 2010, 16:49


Christopher, no they don't because psychiatrists have only one nature: human. And they still need God for their existence.

Joe Zammit

Jun 9th 2010, 08:40


From what you said and the way you said it convince me that I have reached my goal.

Steve Pace

Jun 8th 2010, 13:42

With all due respect . It is very apparant that you know your bible well. To be honest as a catholic i envy you . But seriously ,, Do you actually think most people will care to read through the garble of quotes you place on blogs ?

Why not give us your true honest opintion instead of parrot quotes !

One other question . Are you a catholic or do you pertain to some other christian denomination ?

William P Flynn

Jun 8th 2010, 13:43

@ Renald Williams

Jien id-dielja
Jien it- triq
Int marid;
Meta se tfieq?

Jien il-bieb
Jien id-dawl
Tiktibx bil-Malti
Inkella "Foul!"

Jien id-dielja
Inthom żraġen.
Ħaqq! Ħraqt idi
Ma' dat-taġen.

If you think this is gobbledegook, you're right. Give us a break Mr Williams. You're making this paper, yourself and the scriptures look more ridiculous than necessary.

Wilfred L Camilleri

Jun 8th 2010, 18:36

Another bunch of scripture quotes but you still don't come out and say exactly where yous stand on the issue Mr. Williams. Are you afraid of something? What's your point really? If you're a Catholic you have to abide by Church dogma. If you're not Catholic butt out!

Wilfred L Camilleri

Jun 8th 2010, 18:38

Yada, yada, yada! Yawn!

Joe Zammit

Jun 8th 2010, 20:06


96% of Maltese and Gozitan children a week ago made their First Holy Communion and received the Body and Blood of Jesus Christ. 96%!

Josef Laspina

Jun 8th 2010, 12:56

Mr Flynn it has got nothing to do with the Church - its the age we are living in - we all are waiting for the pseudo-messiah to hail from Israel

William P Flynn

Jun 8th 2010, 13:26

MrLaspina, have you and Avigdor Lieberman, Foreign Minister of Israel got your biblical red heifer yet?

If so get the matches so someone can burn it and spread the ashes so the messiah will come.

S. Calleja

Jun 8th 2010, 16:26

"Għalhekk ħafna fostkom huma bla saħħa u morda u oħrajn mejta."

And foolish me I always blamed malnutrition, pollution, abuse of substances, poor food quality, accidents, genetics and old age. Darn must have got that one wrong.

William P Flynn

Jun 8th 2010, 12:33

Yes but which god Mr Zammit? The bishop's god, the priest's god who says he won't deny the eucharist to people cohabiting or the Canon lawyer's god, who sits on the fence? Or wider afield to Anglican Christians'god and others who receive communion whether they are divorced, married, living together, gay or whatever.

If there is a god, he/she/it would get a headache reading this paper.

William P Flynn

Jun 8th 2010, 12:39

Oh, and Mr Zammit, I forgot to say, if we are on the same page about "passing pleasures" and you don't just mean an ice-cream on a hot day when you're out with tal-Mużew, I have to say,

Viva the "passing pleaures"; one can't have too much/many of them ;-)

Steve Pace

Jun 8th 2010, 13:45

Joe --- Jekk xi hadd tefgha il gebel, hu int .... Bil kummenti kollha li tfajt fuq kwazi il blogs kollha... Anzi mhux gebla tfajt int , imma knatten u munzelli ta gebel !

S. Calleja

Jun 8th 2010, 16:30

Joe, no offense, imma bil-paroli kollha 'l ghandek, ma tantx tibqa' xempju ta' "eternal joy" hekk kif issemmelik divorzju jew xi haga ohra li ma taqbilx maghha. Min ghandu l-paci f'qalbu jghix u jhalli 'l min jghix minghajr hafna elogji u priedki.

Joe Zammit

Jun 8th 2010, 17:19


William, Steve u Calleja, nirringrazzjakom tal-kummenti taghkom imma jien naf x'effett qed ikollhom il-kummenti tieghi bil-grazzja t'Alla u se nkompli. Komplu intom ukoll ghax cert li t-tajjeb jirbah dejjem. Christus vincit!

S. Calleja

Jun 8th 2010, 18:24

Prosit Joe. Ibqa' sejjer hekk.

Giancarlo Refalo

Jun 8th 2010, 13:40

Good point Raymond.
So if we hide it (and are therefore dishonest) it does not cause scandal ergo its ok.
IF we're open and honest about it (didn't Christ preach honesty?) then big problem big nono we cause scandal and ruin people's lives through the knowledge of our peccaminous state.

Joe Zammit

Jun 8th 2010, 11:12


In the Body of Christ there is also his blood, soul and divinity. Christ is ONE PERSON with two natures TOGETHER forming one person. Whatever Christ did, he did it as God and Man. He did nothing only as God or only as Man. He is One person.

William P Flynn

Jun 8th 2010, 12:27

Yes, Mr Zammit and what you say has been proven by DNA tests and atomic microscopes...or not!

renald williams

Jun 8th 2010, 13:13

peace-health
Il-Mulej Gesu' qalilna, "Hudu, kulu … ixorbu lkoll." (Matthew 26:26-27, Mark 14:22-23.).
Incidentalment, skond l-ordni ta' Kristu, il-Kristjani ghandhom jiehdu sehem sew mill-hobz kif ukoll mill-inbid. Hekk kien isir fil-bidu u ghal hafna sekli wara.
Infatti l-isqfijiet ta' Ruma (illum isejhulhom papiet), Ljun I (440-461), Gelasju I (459) u Urbanu II (1105); mis-seklu hamsa sas-seklu tnax, wissew li huwa sagrilegg jekk wiehed jastjeni milli jixrob l-inbid.
Imbaghad dahhlet id-drawwa tat-tqarbin bil-hobz biss. Fis-seklu hmistax (1372-1415), il-qassis Gwanni Huss tkellem kontra din il-prattika gdida. Il-mexxejja tal-Knisja Kattolika, minflok ammettew l-izball, ikkundannaw lil Huss bhala eretiku fl-1411 u harquh is-sena ta' wara.
Ghal dik il-habta laqqghu l-Koncilju ta' Kostanza (15 ta’ Gunju 1415) u hargu ligi li l-lajci ghandhom jinghataw biss il-hobz. Il-Koncilju ta' Trentu (1545 u wara) zied jishet lil min jghid li din il-ligi tmur kontra r-rieda ta' Kristu!

Joe Zammit

Jun 8th 2010, 17:37


96% of Maltese and Gozitan children a week ago made their First Holy Communion and received the Body and Blood of Jesus Christ. 96%!

Joe Zammit

Jun 8th 2010, 11:17

Karl, on Trinity Sunday, just a week ago, 96% of Maltese and Gozitan children of their peer group made their First Holy Communion. They were prepared and led forward to this special occasion by their parents, among others. These children augur well for the future of the Catholic Church in our Catholic islands. Karl, you can join as well. Remember you have the date of death written on your head!

John Vassallo

Jun 9th 2010, 15:04

Joe Zammit, when you're seven years old, people get you to do everything and anything!

I also had my First Holy Communion, in a time when most probably it was 100% (100%!!!!!!!!!!) of children who had their First Holy Communion - yet I don't go to Church anymore. People like you have turned me into an atheist.

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