Editorial
The repercussions of hitting children
Going on the "start them young" principle, the Commissioner for Children, Carmen Zammit has toured schools with a simple message for pupils about a few of their basic human rights, such as to a family life, to a proper education, to healthcare. These are set forth in the UN Convention on the Rights of the Child, promulgated 20 years ago and whose anniversary the tour celebrated.
In a league of countries where such rights are respected, Malta would rank fairly high. One it does not recognise however - along with most other countries - is for a child not to be subjected to corporal punishment in the home. Article 19 requires states to protect children from "all forms of physical and mental violence" in the care of parents and others. The UN committee which upholds and interprets the convention maintains that physical punishment within the family is incompatible with the convention and has recommended that all countries legally prohibit it. Two dozen mostly European countries have done so. Ms Zammit would like to follow suit but Malta's law still allows parents to hit their children on the basis of "reasonable chastisement", a principle that has come in for particular criticism by the committee.
The issue was recently raised by a British legal expert invited here to address a seminar on the subject. Among her main arguments was that the "reasonable chastisement" clause allows the fine line between a smack and physical abuse to be easily crossed and that if women are protected from such maltreatment, so too should children. Scorn and opprobrium were poured on her in ensuing reactions to the report that appeared on The Times.
Her arguments are perfectly reasonable. And there are plenty of other compelling ones too: hitting a child only teaches him/her to hit, increasing the chances of resorting to violence in later life. If the object is discipline, it doesn't work or, at least, not as well as other forms of punishment that do not entail physical hurt. It actually erodes respect for parents and it can impair a child's healthy development.
Proponents of a "ban on smacking" are not advocating that parents should be prosecuted for minor infractions, indeed quite the opposite. Neither are they saying: Do not discipline your children, as the British expert has been misinterpreted as saying. But they see such a legislative measure as fundamental to provoking a cultural shift away from corporal punishment, unacceptable from a rights perspective, to other methods of discipline.
Some of today's adults may recall being "chastised" with the palm of a hand, belt or wooden spoon and reason that it never did them any harm.
But the truth is that there are arguably more effective ways of disciplining children and forming their character, of teaching them through the negative consequences of their actions, which are more humane, compassionate and respectful of their dignity... and their established rights.
Malta has only one course of action to take and that is eventually to follow in the footsteps of the growing number of countries that have already implemented a ban on corporal punishment in the family, just as it has banned it in schools and outlawed domestic violence in the past. That would have to be preceded by a public education campaign on how to discipline children in a "positive" manner. That alone would do both children and the country a world of good. And, perhaps, next time Malta celebrates the convention, it will have introduced it in full.
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Brigid Garroni
Dec 6th 2009, 09:43
Children and young adults today are very aware of their rights, and vociferous on the subject. However they are very reticent when it comes to discussing their duties. I think that any talks to children on rights ought to be accompanied by a discussion of their duties too - that is how we will raise a generation of civic-minded citizens of the future. Unfortunately parents may be partly to blame for this lacuna in today's children's consciousness. While it is true that violence breeds violence, I agree with other commentators that a balance needs to be found. A single and very occasional smack on the leg cannot be classified as violence, but is sometimes the only way to bring a child to his/her senses. Violent abusers will continue to abuse despite any laws, because they do so behind closed doors anyway, knowing full well that what they do is wrong. And their victims, children or adults, often do not denounce them out of fear. Laws against abuse are already in place; what will a law that prevents any sort of physical punishment achieve apart from giving children a tool with which to blackmail their parents into submission?
Graham Crocker
Dec 5th 2009, 20:25
I think this British legal expert's intentions are good, but they are sadly misguided and cut off from the reality parents face.
I think discipline is often necessary and natural. Discipline never did any harm, violent abuse on the other hand does and to confuse the two is just stupid.
victor zammit
Dec 5th 2009, 19:33
“To chastise” could be either to punish, especially by beating or to scold or reprimand severely or both. Article 154 of our Civil Code says that “…a parent may be deprived…of the rights of parental authority…if the parent, exceeding the bounds of reasonable chastisement, ill-treats the child….(in Maltese: il-ġenitur jista’ jiġi mneħħi…mill-jeddijiet kollha ta’ setgħa tal-ġenituri…jekk il-ġenitur, billi jagħti kastig barra mill-qies, jaħqar lit-tifel….) “To chastise” here, as juxtoposed against “to ill-treat” (“jaħqar”) seems to be excluding corporal punishment, hitting, smacking or what have you. In the U.N. Convention on the Rights of the Child, the punishment referred to in Article 2 protects children and their parents, and the punishment mentioned in Article 37 is common to all persons, including children. Article 19 mentions, amonst others, physical violence and maltreatment. But that again may well apply to all persons, but especially to children in this context.
Gerry Cowie
Dec 5th 2009, 09:51
I am one of those millions who was never harmed by the occasional smack.
What an insult to suggest that it leads to me hitting others or having become violent in later life. I have never resorted to hitting others or becoming violent!
The writer suggests a world of bitter and twisted adults who go around creating havoc just because they were hit as children. That is just not so! This is another example of political correctness gone crazy!
If it applies to anybody then it is those who overdo the punishment and become abusers insead of correctors.
Discipline is perfectly in order if it is carried out in a measured way.
I hope that parental powers are not eroded and that parents do not one day find themselves in court because a child decides to exercise his or her rights, sending his parents to prison for slapping their behind.
A reasonable balance needs to be found, I think.