Girl shaves her head, men grow moustaches
Janet Barthet, 21, stiffened her lips and shut her eyes tightly to keep tears at bay as she put herself in the shoes of all those who experience extensive hair loss due to cancer treatment.
Her message was simple: do not throw away hair that young cancer victims could need for wigs. And if you are going through chemotherapy, be brave, because there's nothing shameful about a bald head.
"It's different. But it's not the end of the world. There's nothing abnormal about it, it's just living without hair," she said, after her aunt plaited and then shaved off all her long brown hair yesterday in front of the cameras.
Her 12-inch ponytail will now be shipped to the well-known US charity, Locks of Love, which specialises in creating wigs for underprivileged American children. But Ms Barthet's dream is to set up a similar organisation in Malta.
"It's difficult because the wigs are very expensive to make. I tried to set up something similar here, but it didn't work out. Hopefully, one day, I'll manage," she said.
This is the third time Ms Barthet has cut her hair for Locks of Love, but it was the first time she went all the way.
Even though she believed fully in the cause, she admitted she was dreading the experience and worried that she would not have the guts to go through with it.
She was inspired by friends who lost their own hair due to chemotherapy, but Ms Barthet had other friends who thought she was mad and even tried to talk her out of her noble initiative.
When the deed was done, she looked in the mirror afraid of what to expect, while family members egged her on and persuaded her that the new look actually brought out her facial features.
"It's worth it when you know it could help put a smile on a child's face, even if it's their last few months of life," she said, still getting used to her freshly-shaven head. She hopes she will inspire other young people to make sacrifices for charity and, more importantly, to save their hair for people who need it.
"You don't have to shave off all your hair. And you don't need to have very long hair either."
In fact, Locks of Love takes all the hair it can get, and what it doesn't use, it sells to wig-making companies to raise the funds needed to get its wigs produced.
For more information visit www.locksoflove.org.
Meanwhile, about 50 local men have this month been growing moustaches in aid of charity, inspired by a world-wide fundraising movement called Movember, which is said to have begun in Australia a decade ago.
"I heard about it from an Australian friend and thought it'd be a fun thing to do in Malta, but I never expected the event to get so big," said organiser Daniel McKean, 25, who has struggled to grow a prominent moustache but says that stroking his facial hair is therapeutic.
The men, who call themselves the Moalition of the Willing, are raising money for the Equal Partners Foundation (EPF) - a non-profit organisation which provides support programmes to people with disabilities or learning difficulties. Movember participants worldwide usually raise money and awareness for men's health charities, but organisers could not find any in Malta.
To raise funds, the group not only have to experience the joys of life with a moustache, they are also holding weekly fundraising events and raffles to raise money.
Asked about life with a moustache, Moalition member Alex Carachi, 37, said: "People say that I now resemble an American porn star, but it's for a good cause so I don't mind."
The final fundraising event will be an 'End of Tache Bash' on Friday at Mojito bar in Sliema, after which participants are free to shave off their moustaches. The money raised will go towards the Stepping Out Programme, which helps teenagers and young adults with intellectual disabilities to live autonomously.
To donate to EPF's Movember, visit www.simplygiving.org.mt/charity-organisation, or SMS 5061 8063 to give €4.66 or 5061 9207 to give €11.65.
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Matthew Agius
Nov 30th 2009, 12:11
Grande Janet!
A real friend with a great hearty!
R. Gauci
Nov 30th 2009, 01:07
Great gesture - Ms. Barthet surely is a great woman, well done.
Amy Joan Zahra
Nov 29th 2009, 22:05
Very brave Ms Barthet...good luck :)
Ps. You look gr8
carmel Debono
Nov 29th 2009, 21:45
Dear Janet
As much as I appreciate your good intentions and bravery to shave your head, please be aware that your bald head disturb me beyond measure. Having lost my dear wife 4 years ago through cancer, a female bald head opens my wound of the sufferings my wife and I went through, so kindly take this into consideration as I am sure that there are others that may share the same views, nevertheless proset for the good deed
Paul Vella
Nov 29th 2009, 15:02
Hi Janet,
I believe that you look really good and attractive ... yes even without hair. Your beautiful eyes stands out much more in this way. For you see, charm comes from the inside and cannot be purchased from the outside. And what's more charming than a heart full of love for others less fortunate? Good luck in your targets.
Paul
Joe Grima
Nov 29th 2009, 14:10
Jan is a role model for young people of her age, often denigrated as just pleasure and fun seekers Jan is a caring person, as I am sure may others of her age also are. She sets an example for all unselfish beings who care about others. Well done Jan and God bless you in realsing your dreams
Wayne Cauchi
Nov 29th 2009, 10:51
Well Done Jan. You're an example for the others. I admire your courage cos I'm a man and I don't have the courage to do it !! KEEP IT UP.
Alison Montanaro
Nov 29th 2009, 10:21
Truly admirable, well done, a simply lovely thing to do!
Joe Morana
Nov 29th 2009, 10:19
Ms Barthet, thank you for your inpsiring, daring and generous act for a good cause. Shaving off your hair did not make you less attractive, but rather a more 'beatifull' women, especially to the eyes of sensible men.
C.Sammut
Nov 29th 2009, 10:07
Ms Barthet you can rest assured you are just as pretty without hair!! :)
Allan Footitt
Nov 29th 2009, 10:04
Well done Janet. I applaud you.
Ronald Gauci
Nov 29th 2009, 09:56
Proset Janice
nerissa pace
Nov 29th 2009, 09:37
well done jan!! so proud of you!!!! xxxxx
Joe E Galea
Nov 29th 2009, 09:33
This girl besides being noble in her gestures, she looks extremely pretty anyway with or without hair. Her facial features are next to perfect.
Well done and good luck in your intents!!