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Divorce: Beyond the soundbites

Observing the divorce debate, I sometimes see a re-run of the one about the EU, except that then one side with a specific membership package argued against another promising a nebulous fantasy island. In the divorce debate, both yeas and nays are equally evasive on institutional detail.

Blocking or introducing divorce is not just about abstract values and the law. It involves the action of other state institutions. A debate that does not discuss what these should and should not do, while promising liberty or warning of dire social consequences, is just vacuous.

Take Spain. In 2005, the Zapatero government drastically liberalised divorce. But it made no change to the state's rudimentary family policy, with its limited social spending and services. It is too early to be sure, but two scholars, Lluis Flaquer and Anna Garriga, have provisionally concluded that the new law will raise the rate of marital disruption while the risk-of-poverty rate will also rise significantly - as will the number of households unable to address unexpected expenses, such as unemployment and illness. (Mr Flaquer and Ms Garriga speak of "marital disruption" to include separated Spaniards, who are affected in the same way as divorcees.)

Should anyone care? Not if we agree that liberty is the privilege of being left to swim or sink alone. However, Spanish Prime Minister José Luis Rodríguez Zapatero is a self-styled champion of equality as well as liberty. He comes out looking hollow and callous.

Mr Flaquer and Ms Garriga are part of a larger project, which consists of a set of studies of European welfare set-ups in Nordic, middle and southern Europe: the book, When Marriage Ends: Economic And Social Consequences Of Partnership Dissolution (Edward Elgar) is edited by Hans-Juergen Andress and Dina Hummelsheim.

Before we return to the Maltese debate, it is useful to look at the book's three general conclusions.

First, partnership dissolution (including cohabitation) is, for most adults, an economic and social calamity. In the UK, whose institutional approach to dissolution is individualistic and largely leaves solutions to the market, the risk-of-poverty rate is very high. But even in the generous Scandinavian states, the hit is significant, although markedly smaller.

Second, men and women are not affected in the same way. The latter take a harder economic hit everywhere. But single, divorced fathers without child custody suffer longer-term social consequences, including isolation and long-term unemployment in Denmark. In southern European countries, where the state does less and the natal family does more, the social consequences are blunted but at some cost to everyone's personal liberty and lower financial independence for women.

Third, because the four kinds of European welfare systems are each a package deal of pluses and minuses, the editors find no objective basis for preferring one over another (although the Anglo-Saxon system, with its high divorce rate, high risk-of-poverty rate and high-but-hidden welfare bills, strikes me as the worst by any standard). We are swayed by our political instincts about liberty and equality, individual responsibility and social solidarity.

Back to the local debate. The nays, first. Their statistics are almost invariably from the US and UK, including their divorce price-tags: Could not this money, they ask, be better spent on preventing marriage breakdown?

Fair enough. But why choose the US and the UK, which have some of the worst results? Scandinavian welfare is generous with married couples but the divorce rate remains high.

Admittedly, this is partly because the system is also generous with other kinds of households; divorce carries no risk of loss of benefits.

The nays urge positive discrimination in favour of married households. Elsewhere, such steps would also reward divorcees who remarry. Without divorce and remarriage as a legal option, however, is there a substantial way to privilege marriage without punishing the children of adults willing-but-unable to remarry? If this does not bother the nays, I think we should be told.

Let us move to the yeas. They link divorce to liberty, which involves negative liberty, or freedom from institutional interference, and positive liberty, or empowered freedom to pursue happiness and another mother-in-law.

But the evidence is clear: In any national context where divorce comes with a high risk-of-poverty rate, positive liberty is just theoretical for many at risk. Even negative liberty can be conditional: the Church is not the only powerful institution around with a consuming interest in your personal well-being; so is the state. Welfare handouts can come with a snooping case-officer attached.

All this would be irrelevant if a divorce law simply addressed existing demand. But again, the tested evidence is clear: divorce laws contribute to higher rates of marital breakdown; in Europe, by roughly 20 per cent between 1960-2002, according to one study. A Maltese divorce law would clean up some of the current mess but also add to it. So arguments about liberty need to be more forthcoming about what (if any) collective social and financial responsibility is to be taken.

If we do not fill out the debate with some institutional proposals, it will remain empty - except, of course, when we fill it with cant.

ranierfsadni@europe.com

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Henry S Pace (on 26/6/09)
Infortunately marriages do break up for various reasons. However, those who speak in favour of divorce they just talk from an egoistic point of view. The children are never mentioned .

The Yes Divorce group just say that men and women of broken marriages should have another chance. What about those who would call for divorce after their second/third marriage. Children are born from various parents they grow up without knowing whether they are brothers and sisters from various marriages. Yes these young people would one day find themselves at 'sixes and sevens' In a few years time there would be brothers and sister getting married to each other. Following the introduction (enactment ) of Divorce, our legislators would have to introduce a Law that new couples shoud have a DNA test to confirm that they have no relationship of a first degree.

What God has joined together let no man put asunder (Mathew 19:6)
Joseph Meli (on 25/6/09)
The problem with separated persons is not by the introduction of divorce so as to be able to marry again, and maybe again and again. We must remember that we are Catholics? Am I correct, if so what was the statement that two give on marriage day before God on the Alter?

If one have a problem with his marriage, it would be the same as that when a building develops some unexpected fault. In this case we don't go to demolish it, but get an architect to see why and give us further advice how we can support, or repair or maybe try to eliminate any dangers to be a safe place to live in. In marriage one has to do the same when his marriage had broken down.

It is our duty to to see how one can save his marriage, therefore, one does not put a broken marriage towards further destruction, but we should study what has caused it to arrive at the separation stage, and then together plan how together they can repair the differences and re-support their marriage.

Finally, being..a..catholic..island..written on..our constitution, such a..law is difficult to be approved..as..it..goes..again..our..constitution..too.
Joseph Meli (on 25/6/09)
We need more profound teaching courses and..seminars..for...those...about..to.get married... to be taken up by all those who intend to take up God's covenant of marriage.

The covenant of marriage made by God is in fact a covenant which husband and wife make with each other and with God on the Alter if they get married in Church. In marriage they pledge their love, loyalty, and devotion to each other as long as they both are alive as husband and wife. They have to accept each other unconditionally, to share in each other's pain and failures, to rejoice in each other's victories and accomplishments. Yet in Malta many are those that are not taking note of these marriage pledges that they had taken on the alter and in the presence of God Himself, but for every single argument they try to find all sort of excuses to separate, while..not..knowing..what...forgiveness..is!!

This kind of love is important and necessary for the modern marriage covenant so as to succeed, and which many young couples these days have forgotten or being totally ignored from their marriage success, maybe they are not learning this during their engagement months or years...Let's..look...into....this...problem...first.....



Joseph Meli (on 25/6/09)
As Catholics we know through the Bible the original plan of marriage is instituted by God Himself when He performed the first marriage on the sixth day of creation when He brought together Adam and Eve as husband and wife. God's creative work was not complete until He made woman. God could have made Eve from dust of the ground, but made Eve from man's flesh and bone. This illustrated that in marriage man and woman symbolically are united into one, a mystical union of the couple's hearts and lives.

So God intended marriage to be the pattern for all future marriages and was confirmed again by His son Jesus Christ. If one is going to be married, one must be willing to keep the commitment that makes the two of them as one. Marriage should be more than friendship; it should be oneness. Jesus Christ endorsed the original concept of marriage [see...Matthew Chapter...19: verse 3 to 6] and thus marriage was blessed by God as the only chosen human relationship. Then the problem of modern society is simply because they either have neglected their religion or are no longer of the Christian Faith, which are quite few!!![Only...one...in...ten...see...marital...breakdown..and...in..eight...years...time..]


Joseph Meli (on 25/6/09)
In the Maltese Islands, mostly on newspapers some where in favor, while the majority are against divorce, but have we considered what is the main factor of this problem, cause even if re-married some problems would arise again and again, and as many always said this would always remain in problematic situation, unless we first need as to understand what was the cause to these brake-up? If you have a slight problem in the building foundation, you'll first get a archtect to solve it first and we won't go to demolish the whole property to build a new one. What...can...one...do to minimize this factor in the near future?

If the country intends to legislate on divorce, first one should make further studies to see if this would implicate citizens of the Maltese Islands into a larger pitfall and other expenses to the state of Malta. Therefore, if this is introduced it may results in bad further situations. So those involved in this matter has to understand it's implications too. It is good to understand that many countries after having introduced divorce, they had other consequences, so what are ours if we..legislate? Are.we.still.Catholics ?? or.are.we.a.natiion.of..unbeliever's?
Ranier Fsadni (on 25/6/09)
@Lynn Zahra
I did not say that people who would like the introduction of a divorce law are motivated 'only' by liberty (that is just the only, frequently mentioned issue I had space to discuss). Of course there are other motivations, which include legal closure and dignity. The economic security of people who cannot remarry is a concern I raise in the fifth paragraph from the bottom. Of course there is more that can and should be said, which is why I argued the discussion needs to be more substantial. I myself hope to return to the subject in the future.
Lynn Zahrta (on 25/6/09)
Divorcees ultimately end up poor ? How much worse then is the plight of separated people who, with no chance of remarrying have to make ends meet ,on their own. They face grave financial difficulties.

With no chance of remarrying these people can accept a helping hand from a new partner who may be ready to support them only if they throw caution to the winds and consent to the stigma of co-habitation or to '' living in sin '' as we still regard it here in Malta.

Citizens who want the introduction of divorce want security ,they want to tidy up things legally, and hold their heads up up. Saying they just want Liberty , as you do, is most insensitive - in my experience, an attitude almost always exhibited by those who have no idea what the pain of separation entails.
Joe Tabone-Adami (on 25/6/09)
A positive contribution - referring to realistic situations brought about by laws which were, one should reasonably presume, meant to put order into chaos. It turned out, however, such was nowhere the case. As the author suggests, there is far more to delve into than what appears on the surface as an easy way out of the social malaise brought about by marital breakdowns.
Ranier Fsadni (on 25/6/09)
Footnote:
The studies in the cited book are intricate. Summarising them faithfully within an 800-word limit is difficult and sometimes requires wording that might appear to contradict those of the authors themselves. One example only: Discussing the Spanish case, I wrote that separated people are affected in the same way as divorcees; whereas the writers actually state that separated people have less disposable income than divorcees. In context, however, my point is about a general, significant exposure to risk (and not about degree), while the explanation for the higher degree of exposure to risk by separated people (and indeed, why there is a lingering distinct category of 'separated' in a country that legalised divorce almost 30 years ago) is rooted in the particular character of the 1981 Spanish Divorce Act, and not in some transcendent feature of being separated rather than divorced. Obviously I believe my summaries, taken in context, are fair and defensible, but like all telegraphic summaries they could be misleading, taken out of context. I recommend that readers with a strong interest in this subject consult the book for themselves.

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