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Unmarried elderly couple worried about rent reform

A woman in a 40-year relationship is worried she'll be out on the streets because of the discriminatory rent laws being passed in Parliament.

Every morning Cettina*, 68, wakes up with knots in her stomach and a gripping fear that any day soon her partner will die and she will be thrown out on the streets by the landlord.

The couple, who have been cohabiting for 40 years, were never able to formalise their relationship because Cettina was previously married. She escaped her marital home in Canada with her daughter because her husband used to beat her. She never managed to track him down to start the process of annulment.

Having found a second chance at love in Leli*, today aged 72 and suffering from the debilitating Parkinson's disease, Cettina was eager that they found a place to call home. After four years, they rented a two-bedroom flat in Rue D'Argens, Sliema, which they have been living in since... but the rental clock is now ticking with the proposed rent reform legislation.

The crux of the problem is the reform does not recognise cohabiting couples in the same way it acknowledges those who are married, so on Leli's demise Cettina has no right to remain in the house because the rental papers are in her partner's name.

"The landlord has already told me: 'Once Leli dies you'd better find an alternative home because I'm taking over the place.' I'm sad and desperate," she admitted.

While the government is working to pre-empt abuse that would hinder the owner from ever getting his property back, it is letting cases such as Cettina's fall through the safety net, through its failure to recognise cohabiting couples. On the other hand, the proposed reform upholds the right of continuity for a surviving spouse and children to secure their position against ending up on the streets.

This distinction was highlighted in Parliament by Opposition Leader Joseph Muscat and Labour MP Evarist Bartolo, who stressed Malta needed legislation on civil partnerships of cohabiting or gay couples.

Deputy Prime Minister Tonio Borg had retorted during the debate that the government was being accused of not championing the rights of the owner and questioned whether Labour was looking to help those who decided to cohabit after they were widowed.

As the debate continues in Parliament, in the apartment where Cettina and Leli live the conversation is dominated by the fear of insecurity.

The couple have been trying to move out in order to stamp out the daily uncertainties but they live on one pension and they can ill-afford to buy or rent another place.

At present they pay the landlord an annual rental fee of €210, which was recently doubled from the €105 they used to pay a year after he fixed the structurally unsafe stairwell. They are not complaining; all they want is a two-roomed place where they can live their "last days" in peace.

However, the future does not look promising. They have been on the Housing Authority's waiting list for 13 years, "but we're obviously not a priority".

As they get older, the couple are feeling increasingly imprisoned in their Sliema flat, which has 60 uneven steps. Cettina is on the waiting list for a cartilage operation and suffers severe back problems and Leli also suffers from chronic obstructive lung disease, hypertension and glaucoma.

Bringing out their files of medical ailments, they look forlorn that the authority has failed to consider their problems and secure them a small, ground floor place.

"I have given up. I pray to God to end my life," she said, her eyes welling with tears.

"We're desperate. I am not protected by law and I'm just so, so scared."

*Names have been changed to protect the persons' identity.

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lgalea (on 24/1/09)
Joe Grima
Change is not always for the good Joe.
Sander Depaquale (on 24/1/09)
Thats why the need for divorce!
Alfred Camilleri (on 24/1/09)
Wonder of wonders! A miracle? I. Galea, for once, agrees with the government. Unfortunately, s/he is in harmony with the government on those issues, such as divorce, co-habitation etc., on which the government shies away from and keeps dragging its feet.

Would Mr/Ms Galea tell us what his/her standards are, so that we all could make an effort and try to live up to them.
Joe Grima (on 24/1/09)
lGalea: Changing standards for this adaminstration is a selective process. We are being made to change our standards and will change them even further because of the Government's imisguided immigration policy for instance - now extended to nationally- unwanted , full integration of immigrants into our society. It seems we are ready to change our standards, and soon our very way of life, for people we have little to nothing to share with, but will not do the right thing as Europeans for our own. Double standards with a capital D if you ask me. Again, what are you trying to prerserve for posterity ? What has not changed in the past 20 years? Do you recognise anything from your younger days that is the same in the way the Maltese live today? The difference with our Malta is that unfortunately, conservative, fundamentalist thinkers continue to put their brakes to progress and change takes place at one tenth the pace of the rest of Europe. There is no doubt in my mind that , in an enlightened tomorrow, change will come and that our fragile democracy will be fiurther strengthened by it .
Peppi Micallef (on 24/1/09)
Again, '' Int qed tittfa kulhadd f'keffa wahda'' See? It is natural to say (in your mind you have the idea that I had a successful marriage,...do not know why !. Sry man but I am still too young to get married). When you give people the freedom to divorce or to cohabitate, people will just waste their time. Example: I think I love that girl, I'll ask her to marry me. She replies as I expected, we marry. After some time, she or me just got bored. It was not love from the beginning but we knew that if our marriage would not be exactly as we thought, we could get the divorceto fetch another ''prey''. Don't you see those Hollywood stars. Do you think that they divorce because 'Brad Pitt used to beat his women'? I know that there are some who will argue about the same think about problems during marriage. The perfect system would be to allow the divorce to those who really have problems, but how are you going to REALLY conclude who really thought conciously before getting married. JEW HADD JEW KULHADD !
lgalea (on 24/1/09)
George Swindells
That's why european countries are in such a bad situation.
Laissez-fair destroys society not improves it.

Re the lady's letter, but didn't she know that a person can be intimated by a notice in newspapers?

And didn't they think of buying their house and save money for when it's needed?

It seems that everyone wants to live as they used to say "tomorrow never comes" and when they find out that tomorrow came and is today they try to raise pity for themselves.

Joe Grima
I agree with the government. Recognizing other relations except legally married persons where the parties are a man and a woman will undermine society as has happened in other societies in other countries.

We should not change our standards to accomodate those who choose not to live up to our standards whether they like it or not.
Vanessa Mifsud (on 24/1/09)
Oh Peppi Peppi. Alot (and i emphasise, not everyone!) of people actually get married as they have rights and benefits. Yes i can say it is a beautiful feeling, something I'd love to do but can't as the Maltese law does not allow me to marry. But after all, its a certificate which allows you to benefit from allowances etc.. Marriage as we know it is a religious ceremony, & the state unfortunately goes hand in hand with the religion they believe in, hence not giving any benefits to people who don't want to choose or cannot choose to walk that path. Franco is right, just because there are marriages who stay strong and last for a lifetime, it does not mean that everyone's marriage can be the same. Its not marriage that expresses happiness and love, but its Love itself! Marriage is a piece of paper & a ring (if there is one). The state must realize that not everyone chooses to believe in Christianity so it must cater for all..
Paul micallef (on 24/1/09)
I must agree with some of the comments,,for me and my wife to buy the appartment that we live in we had to take a loan, we pay 300 euro a month, that is the sacrifice that we have to burden for the joyment of better living,,, example, i know a familiy that pay 60euro a year, they have four kids, one has 1000euro, one earns 1589 euro,the other earns 1286 euro and the other 600, the mother has a pension the father has a pension from malta and the uk, so total kids earning is 4475 euro and maybe another 1000 by the parents,,5475 a month,, should there be a rent reform yes. This Goverment has been draging its legs for a very long time,,now it seems that the are moving in the right direction good.
Robert Callus (on 24/1/09)
@Peppi Micallef
Why did you add the word abortion (in capital letters!) It has nothing to do with this.
I am pro- divorce because people, adults can do it with consent without harm for third parties.
However, abortion is very different because there is a third party - the foetus - and it's being killed.
Franco Farrugia (on 24/1/09)
Minister Tonio Borg, hear hear! And apologies are due for that disgusting speech made in Parliament two weeks ago.

@ peppi micallef - Stop vomitting rubbish, please. If for you, marriage proved successful, do not expect it is so for all and sundry. Quite the contrary. Do not force people to live the way you do.
peppi micallef (on 24/1/09)
It is always like that. People show the worst of a situtation to have an excuse for a situation they want changed. I am deeply sorry for this couple and I understand that similar situations must be on the government's priorities. However, I find it rather silly the situation which we are experiencing here in Malta. IN ORDER TO HAVE DIVORCE, ABORTION, LAWS ENHANCING COHABITATION,..people who think they know everything and hey...'''I know more than people in the parliament, than everything,....because I am here commenting on what I do not like,...'' Try to understand what similar laws can create. I am not referring to this case, but rather, to those people who abuse of a similar system,...like the Divorce idea after all ! I am not one of those persons who just grumble how are we changing and how Marriage is always good, divorce is always bad, cohabitiation IS bad, etc... Things have to be studied in their own parameters. Marriage can be one of the most beautiful experiences.I know this may make some of you smile because you find yourself detached from that religion of 2000 years ago in which I believe, but isn't this against Jesus teachings? :-)
Andrew Azzopardi (on 24/1/09)
The government is going to create of whole host of unfair situations if it rushes ahead with the rent '"reform": As the biggest landlord on the island, its motives are not all pure and unsullied, as was amply demonstrated by its statement over the tenant s right to buy issue.
The opposition, to be credible, has to go futher than just mumblling about injustices. It has to vote against, and comit itself to undoing the "reforms" if elected.
Roger cauchi Inglott (on 24/1/09)
May I ask what they have been doing with their money for the last 40 years? If they were paying only 105 Euros a year as rent, didn't they bother to try and save some money for any ineventualities?

This woman wakes up with knots in her stomach since the government proposed to change the rent laws, may I take the opportunity to tell this woman that I have years of knots in my stomach since I was forced to take a mortgage to buy a house in order to house a family of my own, whilst at the same time earning 35 liri a year as rent from a house that I owned.

Let me just say that my yearly mortgage is something like 84 times the yearly rent for my house. I have to bring up a family whilst paying a mortgage for many more years to come.

At the same time an elderly person gets to live in a large house at the expense of a family, what social justice is that?
Joe Grima (on 24/1/09)
Prime Minister Fenech Adami set the scene for the PN in refusing to recognise the existence of couples other than those he considered to be " living in a true relationship", i.e.a Catholic marraige in church between a man and a woman. Since EFA, this Government has been responsible for denying thousands of couples who live in diverse circumstances , what in the rest of Europe, are simple everyday human rights. The case in question is one more crying shame on this Government's unyielding attitude , this time with aMiinister's purist attitude defending this futile, unending PN crusade. Iin this dank, fundamentalist atmosphere, the LP leader's demand for legistation to regulate the position of cohabitating couples, bringing Malta into the 21st Century at least on this score, is a breath of fresh air . We also know that this vital development in democratising this country further will remain in suspended animation for as long as the PN rules the roost. Repent and do what is right by this democracy, and while you're at it, give Nationalist MPs a free and secret vote on such legislation. That would let in EFA"s political heirs for the shock of their lives.
George Swindells (on 24/1/09)
It is about time we Malteser woke up to the reality of life in this world. In other European Countries co-habiting people have exactly the same rights as married couples. It seems that because of some moral attitude entrenched in the mind set of our society that we Maltese don't think so. This is causing the individuals in this case to be subjected to discrimentary legislation when we have established laws preventing discrimenation!

The moralist are causing an imoral act by causing these individuals to lose a basic human right of a roof over their heads and bringing them immeasurable fear of losing their home.

We need a Barack Obama here for a new start, mind you in another 50 years time we may have a Black Priminister being the son (or daughter) of a current day immigrant from the African continent! Then thinks will change.

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