
Monday, 5th May 2008
Homophobia and hate crime
In his letter of April 29, Richard A. Micallef gave a very good definition of the word "homophobia", specifically "the fear of, aversion to, or discrimination against homosexuality or homosexuals." He also supplemented this definition with several "homophobic" arguments in the rest of his letter, whether intentionally or unintentionally. Hence, "the accusing word homophobic is slapped in your face" (again?), not "because you express(ed) a differing opinion" but because disputing facts on the basis of subjective opinion to the detriment of gay people at large is tantamount to "homophobia".
Fact is:
Homosexuality is not a condition or disorder. On May 17, 1990, the General Assembly of the World Health Organisation (WHO) removed homosexuality from their list of mental disorders.
Homosexuality is not a choice. This is a well-established fact and there is ample research to back it up.
The "fundamental difference" between "homosexual" and "gay" is that the former focuses solely on the sexuality of the gay person, whereas the latter does away with the unwarranted over-emphasis on sex and is, therefore, more politically correct.
"Being gay" does not mean "coming out". Some gay people are "out" about their sexual orientation while others feel the need to conceal it, generally living with the awkwardness of being presumed straight when in fact they are not.
Denying people (including gay people) from being considered as potential adoptive parents on purely subjective grounds constitutes discrimination. On January 22, 2008, the European Court of Human Rights delivered a landmark judgement in the case of a lesbian woman versus France whereby it ruled that exclusion of individuals from the application process for adoption of children simply because of their sexual orientation is discriminatory and is in breach of the European Convention of Human Rights.
These are all facts that Mr Micallef took the liberty to dispute in his letter.
One can have an opinion about a particular individual - whether gay, straight or otherwise - but it is not acceptable to have an "opinion" about gay people at large, and when that "opinion" disputes established facts, it becomes all the more unacceptable. To add insult to injury, Mr Micallef's letter is yet again another contribution to the conservative side of the debate on gay rights that arbitrarily bundles up the civil rights of gay people with very different issues such as abortion and euthanasia.
Mr Micallef made reference to the petition that the Malta Gay Rights Movement presented to the political parties prior to the general election. MGRM is requesting the inclusion of an article in the Criminal Code regarding homophobic and transphobic violence. This would criminalise hate crime - which can take the form of physical assault, damage to property, bullying, harassment, verbal abuse or insults, offensive graffiti or letters - motivated by the victim's sexual orientation or gender identity, and not homophobia or transphobia as such. MGRM is also advocating for anti-discrimination legislation in the provision of goods and services that would protect gay people when taking out a life insurance policy, renting an apartment, or eating out at a restaurant, for example. MGRM is also asking for a strategy to tackle homophobic bullying in schools. No laws are necessary here - only the commitment to make schools a safe place for all children.
May 17 is the International Day Against Homophobia. Clearly, there is good reason to mark this day.







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Comments
Why is this considered wrong? We are bringing her up with all the love we've got to live, with the descipline needed & everything else that a hetero couple would provide for their child & even more in certain cases.
We are not giving anyone any trouble, we're just living our lives in peace.
Why doesn't everyone just mind their own business. Doesn't everyone have a 'secret' that they're trying to keep away from others? We're just being out there rather than hide. We doesn't have anything to be ashamed for. I just think that the ones who discriminate us have to be ashamed of themselves. Open your mind & grow up.
Of course, I was not suggesting that two gay men or two lesbians can themselves produce children. And while I do not suggest that all men and women should be homosexual, I do not agree that the world would end if there were no heterosexuals. Have you heard of the rainbow families and the rainbow children?
Homosexuals cannot conceive not because of the same problems encountered by infertile couples but because they weren't intended to in the first place by nature. Can a house drive from point A to B ? I think not. Can a car be prevented from driving from point A to B ? I think yes, by having a problem with its wheels for example. But a house is a house and a car is a car.
If then one of the women is going off with some man ...then that is being bi-sexual not homosexual in my books.
Nature is after survival and thus produces normality for continuity. Abnormality does not guarantee continuity.
Painful as much as it can be reality is not for JC to change, homosexuality is not the normality extended by nature but a result of abnormality. Facts speak for themselves if only we were to open our eyes rather than resort to being defensive.
And what does not bearing children have to do with normality? Are normality and fertility the one and the same thing?
Joseph Chetcuti
I have no comments to your arguments which deviate from the focal point of my argument. Missed the point, I guess.
To be more precise, the human race relies on fertile heterosexuals to ensure that there are new children. Does Mr. Aquilina have any objection to adoption by couples who happen to be infertile?
If you want to make an argument against homosexuality, their fertility (or lack of fertility) is not relevant.
Regarding your last point - yes, the interests of the child should come before that of the parents. Gay parents can provide a loving home and a good upbringing - there is a lot to discuss about that, but I wouldn't exclude it from being a good option for the child.
If the above stands for something, then one can deduce that homosexuality is abnormal by nature's law. It is something the person is born with in the brain or chemicals that makes the person look for a relationship with a person of the same sex.
I therefore cannot agree with the uropean Court of Justice decision.
As a parent one needs to consider first and foremost what is right for the child - not what is right (or convenient) for the parent. I am saying this from experience. From what I read, the European Court of Justice is more concerned with what the parents want rather than what is right for the adopted children.