Tribute to mothers

The second Sunday in May is a special day dedicated to honour mothers everywhere. It is said that a mother's work is never done and this day celebrates the valuable life work of mothers living in different conditions and countries.

There are conflicting versions regarding the origins of Mother's Day but it was not the brilliant idea of some innovative entrepreneur, although one may be forgiven for coming to this conclusion, given the way this day has been commercialised.

It is important, however, not to lose focus of the real sentiment associated with Mother's Day - that of expressing appreciation of mothers and recognising their important role in the family and in society.

The modern Maltese mother has a role that has expanded considerably, reflecting changes that are taking place in this country, as well as globally. Often today's mothers fulfil a number of other roles concurrently. Some carry out balancing acts to do voluntary work, study, care for their elders, hold down a job or build a career, alongside bringing up children and caring for their families.

It is important, however, not to idealise mothers and make them out to be superhuman, since this would add to the already heavy load many mothers carry.

Mothers are human beings with their share of strengths, flaws, struggles, particular needs, heartaches and joys. There are mothers who are a positive driving force in the lives of their dear ones and mothers who are not so wonderful and leave long lasting emotional scars in their children.

Mother's Day is an opportunity to celebrate and encourage the positive aspects of motherhood and also to reflect on the difficulties mothers face.

Mother's Day is also an occasion to acknowledge the sterling work of the guardians of children in care, adoptive and foster parents, the work of dedicated teachers and of all those who selflessly protect and help children in their developmental journey of life.

It is also a day for remembering those women who would have made wonderful parents but who for various reasons were unable to fulfil this role.

This is a day for honouring those women who reach out to others and who love persons in their care even when such love is not appreciated.

It is a day for remembering mothers who have passed away but whose loving ways live on in those whose lives they have influenced.

As Minister for the Family, I would like to say a special thank you to all these people on Mother's Day.

Ms Cristina is Minister for the Family and Social Solidarity.